How To Love Like a Hot Chick: The Girlfriend to Girlfriend Guide to Getting the Love You Deserve

251 Pages·2008·4.02 MB·English

by  Jodi Lipper

How to Love Like
a Hot Chick
The Girlfriend to Girlfriend Guide to
Getting the Love You Deserve
Jodi Lipper & Cerina Vincent
For Dan & Ben
With (what else?) love
Contents
Introduction . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . ix
Chapter1:LoveYYYourself. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .1
Being Single Doesn’t Suck
Single Experiences
Single Pros
Don’t Get Lonely
And Don’t Feel Sorry fffor YYYourself
Five Things a Hot Chick Never Does Just Because She Feels
Sorry fffor Herself
Six Sticky Single Situations
Single and Sassy
Chapter2:GetReadyforLove. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .33
YYYou Deserve Love
TTTen Fucked Up Vibes and How to Fix Them
Good Vibrations
Gold Digger Guidance
Build a Boyfffriend WWWorkshop
Chapter3:LookforLove. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .69
Boys Are Everywhere (A.K.A. TTTwenty AAAwesome Places to
Meet a Guy)
How to Ask a Guy Out Like a Hot Chick
Dating in Cyberspace
Chapter4:FindYYYourLove . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .87
What Do YYYou Want?
First Date Freak -outs
The Battle of the Bill
Dating Dialogue
Second Date Decision
The Second Date
Mixed Emotions
Dating Disasters
Third Date Thoughts
Chapter 5:Get Some Loving . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 131
Virgin Validation
Vexing Virgins
Bedroom Bylaws
Sex and Dating: The Game
How to Tell If a Man Is Good in Bed in Three Easy Steps
One Night Only
How to Tell If You Have Chemistry (Without Having Sex)
Chapter 6:About the Boys . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 155
Bad, Bad, Bad, Bad Boys Won’t Make You Feel So Good
Male Vibrations
Where Are His Balls?
Boys Need Love, Too
Don’t Treat Him Like Your Bitch
Boys Will Be Boys
Chapter 7:Fall in Love . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 179
Love Laws
New Love Bliss
Don’t Freak Out
Battlefield Boundaries
Chapter 8:After the Fall . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 201
Breakups Suck
Dumping Dilemma: The Quiz
A Word on Forgiveness
Sex in Relationships
Exercise Your Love
Bring Back That Loving Feeling
Afterword: We Love You! . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 225
Hot Lingo . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 227
Acknowledgments . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 233
About the Authors
Credits
Cover
Copyright
About the Publisher

Hot Chick (definition): A confident woman. She knows
what she wants and gets it. She is aware of her flaws, but she
doesn’t obsess over them and instead thinks that maybe (just
maybe) they actually add to her unique beauty. She is passion-
ate. She loves life. She is comfortable in her own skin and
owns her sexuality, but uses it purely for good. She does not
see other women as her enemy and competes only with herself
to do her best at all times and to be her best at all times. She
is forthright, honest, and disarmingly herself. She has fun and
she is sexy, and you just want to be around her to soak up some
of those good vibes. She isn’t perfect, but she doesn’t care be-
cause she is hot. And so are you.

Introduction
What Does It Mean to Love Like a Hot Chick?
THE FIRST THI NG WE WANT TO SAY TO YOU IS THAT YOU
ARE A HOT CHICK. Somewhere between the bastard who nev-
er called after your fantastic first date and that old boyfriend
whose head would do a complete one-eighty to check out any
passing blond, you just forgot. Or maybe you never knew that
you were hot. That’s okay. We forgot for a while there our-
selves. We spent way too much time being LSE 1 around guys,
dating the wrong ones, and thinking that we didn’t deserve
what we really wanted. To be honest, we weren’t actually so
sure what it was we even wanted! We were so busy trying to be
perfect all the time that we lost sight of who we really were. On
a quest to live up to somebody else’s idea of beauty, we spent
too much time at the gym and skipped social events to ensure
1. Any time you see one of these , flip to the “Hot Lingo” section for the definition.