How to Blow Her Mind in Bed: The essential guide for any man who wants to satisfy his woman PDF
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Copyright © 2008 by Siski Green Cover and internal design © 2008 by Sourcebooks, Inc. Cover design by Kelly Letros Cover photo © iStockPhoto.com, JBryson Sourcebooks and the colophon are registered trademarks of Sourcebooks, Inc. All rights reserved. No part of this book may be reproduced in any form or by any electronic or mechanical means including information storage and retrieval systems—except in the case of brief quotations embodied in critical articles or reviews—without permission in writing from its publisher, Sourcebooks, Inc. Published by Sourcebooks Casablanca, an imprint of Sourcebooks, Inc. P.O. Box 4410, Naperville, Illinois 60567–4410 (630) 961–3900 Fax: (630) 961–2168 www.sourcebooks.com First published in 2007 by Piatkus Books Ltd, London. Library of Congress Cataloging-in-Publication Data Green, Siski. How to blow her mind in bed : the essential guide for any man who wants to satisfy his woman / Siski Green. p. cm. Includes bibliographical references and index. ISBN-13: 978-1-4022-1358-8 (alk. paper) ISBN-10: 1-4022-1358-1 (alk. paper) 1. Sex instruction. I. Title. HQ56.G68 2008 613.9'6082—dc22 2008032076 Printed and bound in the United States of America DR 10 9 8 7 6 5 4 3 2 1 To Josecito, te amo más! Contents Acknowledgments Introduction 1:Flirting Your Silent Signals Her Silent Come-Ons The Approach Real Girls Tell All 2:Kissing Why You Must Kiss Kissing Technique Timing and Locations Real Girls Tell All 3:Breasts Admiring Her Breasts Knowing Her Breasts Touching Her Breasts Real Girls Tell All 4:Sex Positions Her On Top You On Top On All Fours Side By Side Standing Real Girls Tell All 5:Giving Oral Finding Your Way Technique Best Positions Real Girls Tell All 6:Getting Oral First Times Helping Her to Get It Right Encouraging More Oral Real Girls Tell All 7:Using Your Hands On Her Body Her Body Your Touch Her Touch Hands-Solo Style Real Girls Tell All 8:Sex Toys Introducing Toys Using Toys Household Objects Real Girls Tell All 9:Sex Fantasies Her Fantasies Your Fantasies Real Girls Tell All References Index Acknowledgments Thank you to my wonderful family for being supportive without being nosy; Graeme Gourlay, an inspirational editor and publisher, for giving me my first career break and giving me the confidence to keep moving forward; to Morgan Rees for encouraging me to write about sex and relationships and to always strive for perfection; to Jake at Conville and Walsh for his perseverance and support. I learned a lot by reading some other fantastic sex books: Lou Paget's The Big O: How to Have Them, Give Them, and Keep Them Coming, Dr Sadie Allison's Tickle Your Fancy: A Woman's Guide to Sexual Self-Pleasure, Tracey Cox's Superhotsex, and Nancy Friday's My Secret Garden. I've also had some great advice from sex counselor Dr Pam Spurr, psychosexual therapist Vicki Ford, and Relate counselor Paula Hall. I'd also like to say thank you to Joe Mackie, Rob Kemp, Hecks, Nicky, Pip, Ray, Jo and Justin, Elain, Kirsten, Blommers, and anyone else I may have momentarily forgotten—for talking, listening, and just being there. Please see www.siskigreen.com for more about me and to email any tips and techniques you'd like to share. Introduction I view sex as I do eating: it's an essential part of my life, but I try hard not to take it for granted. And, like eating, I like to think about sex even when I'm not doing it. Just as I would consider the ingredients I'm going to cook with, which spices to add, and how I'll heat it up and serve it, I've spent a lot of time thinking about the different ways people can explore sex. What makes my thoughts about sex different, though, is that I get paid to put them on paper—something I can't claim for my enthusiastic home cooking. Since I started writing about sex five years ago, I've had everyone from the plumber to family members telling me their sexual secrets and concerns. Sex, it seems, is something we've all got lots to say about, only we tend not to say it out loud. That's a shame because, like great recipes handed down from generation to generation, I think there are probably a lot of fantastic sexual tricks and techniques that we could all learn from (and if you'd like to share them, please feel free to email them anonymously to the address given on page xii). So, based on what I've learned through my own experiences as well as hundreds of ideas and techniques I've learned from others, I've tried to provide an insight into what sex is like for a woman to give you an idea of what feels great, what she hates, and the things she wishes you'd do more of. I want you to finish this book feeling that you've got a better understanding of women, that you've learned exactly how to make her feel fantastic in bed, and, most importantly, that you're so charged up with new ideas that you just can't wait to try them out. Remember, though, that in sex, just like in cooking, each chef has his or her own favorite ingredients, preferred techniques, and signature dish. This book, like a recipe book, is here to guide and advise you—but if you'd like to add a little more salt or a little less pepper, keep things boiling a little longer, or skip a particular recipe completely, please do so. There is only one absolute rule when it comes to phenomenal sex: there are no rules, just good advice. And that's what I hope to provide in this book.
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