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How to Be Kinky A Beginner’s Guide to BDSM Morpheous Green Candy Press How to Be Kinky ISBN 978-1-9378-6624-2 Published by Green Candy Press www.greencandypress.com Copyright © 2013 Morpheous All rights reserved. No part of this book may be reproduced in any form without express written permission from the Publisher, except by a reviewer, who may quote brief passages or reproduce illustrations in a review where appropriate credit is given. Nor may any part of this book be reproduced, stored in a retrieval system, or transmitted in any form or by any means without written permission from the Publisher. Massively Distributed by P.G.W. Dedication To Matty Contents Foreword Kharma Chapter 1 A Look at Play Chapter 2 Social Parameters Chapter 3 Scenarios: Role-Playing, Singles, Couples and Fetish Events Chapter 4 What’s on the Menu: All About Negotiation Chapter 5 From Online to Real Life Chapter 6 Pain and Pleasure Chapter 7 Kink in Toyland Chapter 8 Safety Chapter 9 Calling in the Professionals Chapter 10 Staying Safe and Having Fun Online Resources Models Special Thanks About the Author Dressing up and then undressing is half the fun with kinky sex! Foreword I can think of no one better than Morpheous to write a BDSM book for beginners. My first contact with him was during one of his sporadic appearances in an online BDSM chatroom. He spent the better part of a year telling me to get offline and try BDSM in the real world. He wasn’t looking for fresh meat or newbies to exploit. He sincerely wanted me to know the joys of experiencing BDSM in the real world. For a long time I was too scared of what I might find out there to move away from the safety of my computer, but with his encouragement and support I finally did. When I first attended a local event and introduced myself to Morpheous in person I think he almost fell over, he was so surprised that I had actually showed up! What wasn’t surprising was that he was right and getting off the computer was the best thing I ever did. We have been friends for almost a decade and he has always been encouraging and supportive. He was so supportive that he attended a beginner’s workshop put on by a local gateway group with me even though he was far from a beginner. He brought along some other people he had been encouraging to get off the computer and try BDSM for real and he was very patient and kind to us newbies. He is as excited to share in a new Top’s experience as a new bottom’s. My first BDSM experience was at a fire-play workshop. I was drawn to it but afraid too, so I asked Morpheous to hold my hand while he prepped my skin, and then gently did some fire-play (grazing passes with small torches). I’m glad I got to share that first experience with him. Over the years I have seen Morpheous encourage many other newcomers to explore their fantasies in the real world. He preaches safety and common sense and models those behaviors in his own actions as well. He is both a teacher and a student of BDSM. His love of the dungeon is both obvious and contagious. His sense of humor is a real asset in a world where things can and do go awry. Being able to laugh at ourselves is essential when venturing into the unknown, and Morpheous isn’t afraid to show his enthusiasm or to laugh at himself. Don’t forget to take your slave for a daily walk. Now readers of this book will get to share this learning experience with Morpheous. He is an exceptional guide and your journey will be better for having him along. —kharma Every girl needs a sexy hobby! Chapter One A Look at Play So—you’ve picked up this book thinking it might give you some ideas for spicing up your sex life. Maybe whips or chains or rubber outfits have at some point figured in your secret fantasies. What are you, nuts? Do you really want to become involved with deviants who are going to keep you out till four a.m., their beautiful bodies sheathed in tight rubber and leather; spiked heels on their feet and succulent asses proudly jutting in leather pants; chiseled chests, or breasts with pouting nipples, tightly bound with leather straps? Maybe you have had fantasies that don’t fit in with what “normal” society deems acceptable. Perhaps you have a long-standing desire to be ordered to suck and kiss the stiletto-clad feet of a beautiful Mistress while she uses you as a footstool. Maybe you long to be tied up and blindfolded while numerous hands explore every inch of your body, not knowing whose they are or where they are going next but feeling delicious in your surrender. Or maybe you just want your hair pulled? That wild abandonment when someone is mounting you from behind, one strong hand firmly gripping your hip, the other fist wound tightly in your hair, sharply arching your head back while you both do the dance of a thousand ages across new linen with the headboard banging against the wall? If you really want to, you can have wild sex, abandoning yourself in the arms of another person or a group of people who will set your nerves aflame, teasing and tormenting you for hours. Picture sweaty bodies pulsing with the beat in a club while some poor girl is put on display, her legs spread by chains that shackle her to a large cross and her lithe wrists pulling on thick leather restraints as other people kiss and suck her. You can find out about a whole community of individuals who share your desires, and explore your urges with groups of people like yourself. You can discover the underground kinky toy fetish markets where you can shop for exquisite floggers, whips, restraints, dildos, strap-ons and everything in between from local artists who are kinky just like yourself.