Housewives of Japan Previous Publications Books Ofra Goldstein-Gidoni. 1997. Packaged Japaneseness: Weddings, Business And Brides . Housewives of Japan An Ethnography of Real Lives and Consumerized Domesticity Ofra Goldstein-Gidoni HOUSEWIVES OF JAPAN Copyright © Ofra Goldstein-Gidoni, 2012. Softcover reprint of the hardcover 1st edition 2012 978-0-230-34031-2 All rights reserved. First published in 2012 by PALGRAVE MACMILLAN® in the United States— a division of St. Martin’s Press LLC, 175 Fifth Avenue, New York, NY 10010. Where this book is distributed in the UK, Europe and the rest of the world, this is by Palgrave Macmillan, a division of Macmillan Publishers Limited, registered in England, company number 785998, of Houndmills, Basingstoke, Hampshire RG21 6XS. Palgrave Macmillan is the global academic imprint of the above companies and has companies and representatives throughout the world. Palgrave® and Macmillan® are registered trademarks in the United States, the United Kingdom, Europe and other countries. ISBN 978-1-349-34288-4 ISBN 978-1-137-07962-6 (eBook) DOI 10.1057/9781137079626 Library of Congress Cataloging-in-Publication Data is available from the Library of Congress. A catalogue record of the book is available from the British Library. Design by Newgen Imaging Systems (P) Ltd., Chennai, India. First edition: June 2012 10 9 8 7 6 5 4 3 2 1 For Boaz, Tomer, and Noam and To Mariko for our joint journey Contents List of Illustrations ix Note on Japanese Names and Terms xi Acknowledgments xiii Preface xvii Part I A Collaborative Quest for Understanding “Sengyō Shufu” Intertext I 3 Chapter 1 Entering the Field: Joining Mariko’s Introspective Journey 5 Intertext II 33 Chapter 2 The Postwar “Professional Housewife” and the Japanese State 37 Part II The Women of Royal Heights Intertext III 55 Chapter 3 On “Naturally” Becoming Housewives 57 Intertext IV 81 Chapter 4 “Guarding the House”: Men as Breadwinners, Women as Housewives 83 Intertext V 113 Chapter 5 A New Housewife Is Born? Discourses of Class and Change in Royal Heights 117 viii ● Contents Part III Housewives as Women in Postbubble Japan Intertext VI 145 Chapter 6 The New Happy Housewife of Postbubble Japan 147 Intertext VII 187 C hapter 7 W rapping Up: Housewives as the “Winners?” 1 89 Intertext VIII 213 Afterword 217 Notes 225 Bibliography 247 Index 263 Illustrations 1.1 “Royal Heights,” a neighborhood in Osaka 19 1.2 Mariko and Ofra in Kyoto, 2011 3 1 5.1 A lively tea party: women gazing through and discussing women’s magazines 133 6 .1 Kurihara Harumi, the great charisma housewife 148 6 .2 “Everyday Life Is Enjoyable” 155 6 .3 “A Sudden Rain Shower.” Fashionable mom and daughter picking up papa at the train station 166 6 .4 Stepping up from the cool OL style to a graceful and refined “madam style” 1 67 6.5 “ We Need Romantic!” “Romance Is Necessary, Especially When You’re in Your 40s” 1 69 6.6 “ Means to Thoroughly Enjoy Being a Woman”: A Ginza date with the husband 1 71 6.7 “Don’t I look nice? As I’m an adult now, won’t you buy me something with diamonds this time?” 1 72 6.8 Story ’s new idol, Kiyohara Aki, who expresses her love for “expensive, cheap, cute, and sexy things” 1 73 6.9 “We Announce a Plan for ‘In Five Years I Will Still Love Myself’” 1 74 7.1 “We Are Hot Mama” 1 91 7.2 The konkatsu (marriage hunting) bra set 2 01 7.3 The konkatsu (marriage hunting) proposal cake 2 02