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Hughes Jessica Kingsley Publishers London and New York Allrightsreserved.Nopartofthispublicationmaybereproducedinanymaterialform (includingphotocopyingorstoringitinanymediumbyelectronicmeansandwhetheror nottransientlyorincidentallytosomeotheruseofthispublication)withoutthewritten permissionofthecopyrightownerexceptinaccordancewiththeprovisionsofthe Copyright,DesignsandPatentsAct1988orunderthetermsofalicenceissuedbythe CopyrightLicensingAgencyLtd,90TottenhamCourtRoad,London,EnglandW1P 9HE.Applicationsforthecopyrightowner’swrittenpermissiontoreproduceanypartof thispublicationshouldbeadressedtothepublisher. Warning:Thedoingofanunauthorisedactinrelationtoacopyrightworkmayresultin bothacivilclaimfordamagesandcriminalprosecution. Therightofthecontributorstobeidentifiedasauthorsofthisworkhasbeenasserted bytheminaccordancewiththeCopyright,DesignsandPatentsAct1988. FirstpublishedintheUnitedKingdomin2003 byJessicaKingsleyPublishersLtd 116PentonvilleRoad LondonN19JB,England and 29West35thStreet,10thfl. NewYork,NY10001-2299,USA www.jkp.com Copyright©2003JessicaKingsleyPublishers Secondimpression2003 Reprintedtwicein2004 LibraryofCongressCataloginginPublicationData Trauma,attachment,andfamilypermanence:fearcanstopyouloving/editedby CarolineArcher. p.cm Includesbibliographicalreferencesandindex ISBN1-84310-021-5 1.Psychictraumainchildren.2.Attachmentbehaviorinchildren.3. Family--Psychologicalaspects.I.Archer,Caroline,1948- RJ506.P66T7342003 618.92’8521--dc21 2002038949 BritishLibraryCataloguinginPublicationData ACIPcataloguerecordforthisbookisavailablefromtheBritishLibrary ISBN1848100215 PrintedandBoundinGreatBritainby AthenaeumPress,Gateshead,TyneandWear Contents FOREWORD 7 DrDanielA.Hughes ACKNOWLEDGEMENTS 9 Introduction: A Tapestry of Colours 11 CarolineArcher,FamilyFuturesConsortium,London Part I State of Play: Current Theory and Practice 1. Adoption and Permanence Today: A Discussion 31 AdrianBriggs,FamilyFuturesConsortium,London 2. The ‘Coherent Narrative’: Realism, Resources and Responsibility in Family Permanence 46 ElsiePrice,FamilyFuturesConsortium,London 3. Setting up the Loom: Attachment Theory Revisited 62 AlanBurnell,FamilyFuturesConsortium,London,withCarolineArcher 4. Weft and Warp: Developmental Impact of Trauma and Implications for Healing 78 CarolineArcher 5. Clinical Concepts and Caregiving Contexts: A Consultant’s Perspective 97 JeanneMagagna,PrincipalChildandAdolescentPsychotherapist,Great OrmondStreetHospital 6. ‘A Hard Day’s Night’: A Parent’s Perspective 113 LucyGreenmile,FamilyFuturesadoptiveparent Part II State of the Art: Theory into Practice Jenny and Marty’s Story 125 JayVaughan,FamilyFuturesConsortium,London 7. Assessment: A Multidisciplinary Approach 129 AlanBurnell 8. Rationale for the Intensive Programme 148 JayVaughan 9. The Drama of Adoption 164 JayVaughan 10. The Drama Unfolds 188 JayVaughan 11. Contact as Therapy 200 AlanBurnell 12. Holding the Fort 219 ChristineGordon,FamilyFuturesConsortium,London 13. Hands on Help 233 ChristineGordon 14. Difficulty with Learning or Learning to be Difficult? 248 GriseldaKellie-Smith,FamilyFuturesConsortium,London Part III State, Community and Family: The Future 15. Weaving Together the Threads: Families with Futures 267 CarolineArcher APPENDIX:FAMILYFUTURESCASEPLANNINGMATRIX 285 GLOSSARY 286 REFERENCES 309 CONTRIBUTORS 325 SUBJECTINDEX 327 AUTHORINDEX 334 Foreword Dr Daniel A. Hughes Overthepast50years,attachmenttheoryhasevolvedintoaprimary,ifnot the primary, model of child development throughout the world. Over the past 20 years attachment theory has become an organising principle for development throughout adulthood. Research based on, or heavily influenced by, attachment theory has demonstrated its impact on neuropsychological, emotional, cognitive, and social development throughoutthelifespan.Thelegacyof JohnBowlbyandMaryAinsworth hasbecomebothinternationalandmultidisciplinaryinscope.Itcontinuesto generate insights and questions about our human condition that are very clear as well as being profound. It has only been more recently that practitioners in mental health and social work, education and health, have begun to make serious efforts to understand attachment theory and research and apply these findings to many of the real life problems of our time. Nowhere is the need to make theseapplicationsgreaterthanintheareasofchildmaltreatment,fostercare, andadoption.Themajorityofyoungchildrenwhohavebeenmaltreatedby their parents manifest attachment disorganisation, a classification con- sideredtobeadefiniteriskfactorforthedevelopmentofpsychopathology. A much smaller group is diagnosed with reactive attachment disorder, a disorder thought to arise from severe physical and emotional neglect and multiple caregivers. In both groups the developing child is left with significantdeficitsinhisorherabilityand/orreadinesstotrustandrelyon hisorhernewcaregivers.Asaresult,thischildisoftenneitherabletoresolve thedevastatingeffectsoftrauma,norabletoutilisetheopportunitytohave 7 8 / TRAUMA,ATTACHMENTANDFAMILYPERMANENCE the attachment security that would facilitate his or her continuing development. Caroline Archer and core members of the Family Futures Consortium havewrittenamarvellousworkthatattemptstodemonstratehowtheyhave taken insights from attachment theory and research and spread them liberally over their very comprehensive and integrated programmes. This workpresentsbothrelevantstatisticsofmaltreatmentandadoptionandalso a detailed description of one unique adoptive family’s journey. It discusses findingtherightfamilyaswellasfullysupportingthechildandhisorher newfamily.Itpresentsdetailsofpsychotherapyuniquetothispopulationas well as the need for comprehensive assessments. It presents the psychobiology of both trauma and healing. Throughout these varied and very relevant chapters regarding trauma, attachment, and family permanence,themembersoftheFamilyFuturesConsortiumhavebeenable toremaintruetotheirbasicassumptionwhichstates:‘Afamilyisthemost importantresourcethechildhas.’Asecurelyattachedindividualisknownto manifesta‘coherentautobiographicalnarrative’.Suchcoherenceisdifficult to achieve for children exposed to multiple traumas and caregivers, with little continuity from one relationship and experience to the next. The programmesatFamilyFutures,sowellpresentedinthisbook,makevaliant efforts to provide the comprehensive and integrated experiences and insightsnecessaryforthechildtodevelopcoherenceinhisorherpersonal lifestory.Iapplaudtheirwork,bothinitsday-to-dayexpression,andinthis book. DanielA.HughesPhD ClinicalTrainingConsultanttoFamilyFutures 2002

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