Happy Me, Happy You: The Huna Way to Healthy Relationships

290 Pages·2014·0.72 MB·English

by  Serge Kahili King

Happy Me,
Happy You

Happy Me,
Happy You
The Huna Way to Healthy Relationships
SERGE KAHILI KING
Theosophical Publishing House
Wheaton, Illinois * Chennai, India
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Library of Congress Cataloging-in-Publication Data
King, Serge.
Happy me, happy you: the Huna way to healthy relationships / Serge
Kahili King.
pages cm
Originally published: Volcano, Hawaii: Hunaworks, 2006.
Includes index.
ISBN 978-0-8356-0920-3
1. Self-actualization (Psychology). 2. Interpersonal relations.
3. Huna. 4. Shamanism—Hawaii. I. Title.
BF637.S4K54846 2014
299’.9242—dc23 2013039924
ISBN for electronic edition, pdf format: 978-0-8356-4144-9
5 4 3 2 1 * 14 15 16 17 18 19 20
Contents
Acknowledgments vii
Part 1: The Fundamentals 1
1. Relationship Basics 3
2. Criticism and Praise 23
3. The Art of Forgiveness 47
Part 2: Your Most Intimate Relationships 73
4. Your Relationship with Your Body 75
5. Your Relationship with Your Mind 99
6. Your Relationship with Your Spirit 151
Part 3: Why Can’t We All Just Get Along? 171
7. Healing Family Relationships 173
8. Friends and Friendship 193
9. Lovers and Spouses 207
10. The Rest of the World 243
Index 263
About the Author 279
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Acknowledgments
I would like to acknowledge and give thanks to all
those who helped me to write this book, including my
parents, Harry and Joyce; my great-grandparents and
grandparents; my brothers, Harry, Loring, and Darrel;
my sisters, Dee and Marilyn; my awesome wife, Gloria;
our children, Chris, Pierre, and Dion; my extended fam-
ily of relatives that includes aunts and uncles and cous-
ins, nieces and nephews, in-laws and grandchildren; my
Hawaiian family and my Aloha International ohana; my
students and friends all over the world; and even those
few who have decided that they don’t like me at all. Thank
you all for being my teachers.
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