Happiness and the Good Life in Japan Contemporary Japan is in a state of transition, caused by the forces of glo- balization that are derailing its ailing economy, stalemating the political establishment and generating alternative lifestyles and possibilities of the self. Amongst this nascent change, Japanese society is confronted with new chal- lenges to answer the fundamental question of how to live a good life of meaning, purpose and value. This book, based on extensive fieldwork and original research, considers how specific groups of Japanese people view and strive for the pursuit of happiness. It examines the importance of relation- ships, family, identity, community and self-fulfilment, amongst other factors. The book demonstrates how the act of balancing social norms and agency is at the root of the growing diversityof experiencing happiness in Japan today. Wolfram Manzenreiter is Professor of Japanese Studies, Department of East Asian Studies at the University of Vienna, Austria. Barbara Holthus is Assistant Professor in the Department of East Asian Studies, Japanese Studies section, at the University of Vienna, Austria. Japan Anthropology Workshop Series Series editor: Joy Hendry, Oxford Brookes University Editorial Board: Pamela Asquith, University of Alberta Eyal Ben Ari, Kinneret Academic College, Sea of Galilee ChristophBrumann,MaxPlanckInstituteforSocialAnthropology, Munich Henry Johnson, Otago University Hirochika Nakamaki, the Suita City Museum Kirsten Refsing, University of Copenhagen Founder Member of the Editorial Board: Jan van Bremen, University of Leiden Ascetic Practices in Japanese Religion Tullio Federico Lobetti Japanese Tree Burial Ecology, Kinship and the Culture of Death Sébastien Penmellen Boret Japan’s Ainu Minority in Tokyo Diasporic Indigeneity and Urban Politics Mark K. Watson The First European Description of Japan, 1585 ACritical English-Language Edition of Striking Contrasts in the Customs of Europe and Japan by Luis Frois, S.J. Translated, edited and annotated by Richard K. Danford, Robin D. Gill, and Daniel T. Reff. The Japanese Family Touch, Intimacy and Feeling Diana Tahhan Happiness and the Good Life in Japan Edited by Wolfram Manzenreiter and Barbara Holthus Happiness and the Good Life in Japan Edited by Wolfram Manzenreiter and Barbara Holthus c mi Economic o Economic n o EcEconomic Firstpublished2017 byRoutledge 2ParkSquare,MiltonPark,Abingdon,OxonOX144RN andbyRoutledge 711ThirdAvenue,NewYork,NY10017 RoutledgeisanimprintoftheTaylor&FrancisGroup,aninformabusiness ©2017selectionandeditorialmatter,WolframManzenreiterandBarbara Holthus;individualchapters,thecontributors TherightofWolframManzenreiterandBarbaraHolthustobeidentifiedas theauthorsoftheeditorialmaterial,andoftheauthorsfortheirindividual chapters,hasbeenassertedinaccordancewithsections77and78ofthe Copyright,DesignsandPatentsAct1988. 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BritishLibraryCataloguinginPublicationData AcataloguerecordforthisbookisavailablefromtheBritishLibrary LibraryofCongressCataloginginPublicationData Acatalogrecordforthisbookhasbeenrequested ISBN:978-1-138-95661-2(hbk) ISBN:978-1-315-66564-1(ebk) TypesetinTimesNewRoman byTaylor&FrancisBooks Contents List of figures vii Preface viii Series Editor’s preface x List of contributors xii 1 Introduction: Happiness in Japan through the anthropological lens 1 WOLFRAMMANZENREITERANDBARBARAHOLTHUS PARTI Family, intimacy and friendship 23 2 More than just nakayoshi: Marital intimacy as a key to personal happiness 25 DALITBLOCH 3 Physical intimacy and happiness in Japan: Sexless marriages and parent-child co-sleeping 41 YOSHIEMORIKI 4 Happiness and unconventional life choices: Views of single women in Japan 53 LYNNENAKANO 5 Friendships, marriage and happiness in contemporary Japan 67 LAURADALES 6 Grandfathering in contemporary Japan: Altruistic and self-serving means to happiness 86 HIROKOUMEGAKI-COSTANTINI vi Contents 7 Japanese gays, the closet and the culture-dependent concept of happiness 106 ERICKLAURENT PARTII Self and community 123 8 Makers and doers: Using actor-network theory to explore happiness in Japan’s invisible civil society 125 PATRICIAG.STEINHOFF 9 Dimensions of happiness for young political activists: A case study of “Greens Japan” members 144 PHOEBES.HOLDGRÜN 10 Livingandworkingforthemoment:Motivations,aspirationsand - experiences of disaster volunteers in Tohoku 162 SUSANNEKLIEN 11 “A really warm place”: Well-being, place, and the experiences of buraku youth 181 CHRISTOPHERBONDY 12 “My life is Taiyo- Ko-muten”: On the relationship between organized football fandom and happiness in Japan 195 MARTINLIESER 13 The midnight community, or under-the-counter happiness 211 ˇ ˇ ˇ CARMENSAPUNARUTAMAS¸ ANDADRIANO.TAMAS¸ PARTIII Conclusions 225 14 Happiness in neoliberal Japan 227 GORDONMATHEWS 15 Conclusion: Happiness as abalancing act between agency and social structure 243 BARBARAHOLTHUSANDWOLFRAMMANZENREITER Index 256 fi List of gures 10.1 Volunteers taking abreak from lining up shells on ropes 163 10.2 Ishinomaki: Restaurant for volunteers 171 10.3 Ishinomaki: Restaurant for volunteers 172 13.1 One night at Bardis 217 Preface Editing a book, as well as writing for it, is only one of the many tasks that belongtoourjobdescriptionasacademics.Itisbyfarnottheeasiestone–great ideassometimesnolongerlookthatgreatwhencladinwords and forced into structure;wordsdonot come easily,andbehindeverywell-craftedexpressionis lurkingthesuspicionthatthephrasecouldhavebeen better placed; publishers are hesitant to publish edited volumes these days, are reluctant to accept unusual projects but gladly leave the tedious labor of copy editing, indexing and marketing to authors; and daily work routines are always overruling the demand for time and attention that a long-term project such as this book actuallyneeds.Forallthesereasons,havingfinishedabookprojectisasource ofeminentjoy,makingauthorsandeditorshappyatlast.Thatthebooktopic itself is about happiness, as in this particular case, is fitting. Just as happiness is a collaborative project, a book like this one would not have been possible without the enthusiasm and support of many others. We wanttotaketheopportunitytoexpressourgratitudetoalltheparticipantsin the sociology and anthropology sections at the 2014 European Association for Japanese Studies conference in Ljubljana. Our call for papers for a three- daysessiononhappinessandwell-beinginJapantriggeredanincrediblylarge number of submissions. We finally accepted more than 60 to be presented at the conference, and some of them have been included in this volume. Our thanks to all of our authors, for being patient and willing to respond to our requests for reworking. It was a pleasure working with you and we are thankful for what we have learnt through the collaboration. We also want to thank the editors of the Japan Anthropology Workshop Series (JAWS), and in particular its founder Joy Hendry, who not only con- tributed a paper to the Ljubljana meeting but also encouraged us to publish with the series. Thanks are due also to the editorial board for its encourage- ment and helpful suggestions, to Peter Sowden from Routledge for his enthusiasm and his collaborative spirit. We also want to thank the Facultyof Philological and Cultural Studies, University of Vienna, for supporting this project with funding for conference travel and editorial assistance. Thanks to Ada Brant for her valuable support in language clarification. Many thanks also to Sebastian Polak-Rottmann for compiling the index. Preface ix Most thanks as always go to our families, whom we selfishly deserted for too many hours, days andweekswhile working on this book. It is toyou and thehappinesswederivefrombeingwithyouthatwededicatethispublication. Wolfram Manzenreiter and Barbara Holthus Vienna, August 2016