Get Inside Her: The Female Perspective

176 Pages·2013·1.97 MB·English

Dirty Secrets from a Woman on
How to Attract,
Seduce, and
Get Any Female You Want

Marni Kinrys
THE ULTIMATE WING GIRL

Edited by Rebecca McLeod
Velocity House Publishing
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ISBN: 978-1-62409-005-9
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Dedication

I thank every person I have ever encountered who made me feel anxious. Each of those
people pushed my buttons and frustrated me at the time, but ultimately these encounters
pushed me to become the woman I am today.
I dedicate this book to:
Justine Mazin for her incredible, funny chapter introductions.
All the men who have supported the Wing Girl Method and me for the past decade.
The ex-boyfriends that hurt or loved me.
My amazing male friends.
My kick-ass girlfriends who have allowed me to interrogate them for intimate details
and strap microphones to their bodies so I could complete my research.
My family, for supporting me and my ideas no matter how crazy they seemed
The best man among all men, my husband. Without him I would not have an example of
what it truly means to be a man that women want! He is a man who I hope to spend the rest of
my life with.

Special thanks to my industry peeps: everyone in The Seduction Syndicate, Sean Stephenson,
Eben Pagen, Carlos Xuma, David Wygant, Josh Pellicer, Mark Ling, Nina Rubin, Neil Strauss, Ross
Jefferies, Nicole Powers, Brian Gross, Kelly Perkins, and Rabbi Shwartzie.

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Table of Contents
Preface .......................................................................................................................................................... 9
Introduction ................................................................................................................................................ 10
How to Use This Book ................................................................................................................................. 15
I. What the F do Women Want? ............................................................................................................ 16
1. What They Definitely Don’t Want ................................................................................................... 17
Do Women Really Prefer Bad Boys to Nice Guys? .............................................................................. 17
Women Do Not Want to Be With the Bad Boy! .................................................................................. 17
Why Men Give Bad Advice .................................................................................................................. 18
Too Much Game Can Ruin Your Chances with Women ...................................................................... 19
Angry, Bitter Men Do Not Get Laid ..................................................................................................... 23
No Woman Likes a Pouncer ................................................................................................................ 25
Do Money, Social Status, and Possessions Matter To Women? ......................................................... 26
Why Do Women Respond to Me When I Act Like an Asshole? .......................................................... 26
Do I Need To Be Funny To Get The Girl? ............................................................................................. 27
Is It Wrong To Date Women You Know You Do Not Want? ............................................................... 28
How Long Should I Keep Up The Game? ............................................................................................. 28
2. Surprise! The Things They Do Want. ............................................................................................... 30
The Short, Bald Man That Turned Me On ........................................................................................... 30
Do You Have The Presence Women Want? ........................................................................................ 32
You Must Turn Yourself on Before You Can Turn a Woman On ......................................................... 33
Why Confidence Is More Attractive Than a Six-Pack and Cash .......................................................... 34
Four Things You Need To Do To Get Women ..................................................................................... 36
Three Things Women Find Sexy That Have Nothing to Do With Sex .................................................. 37
Real Men Take Risks ............................................................................................................................ 38
Rules for Attracting Beautiful Women ................................................................................................ 39
Women Want a Strong Man ............................................................................................................... 41
Why Women Like 50 Shades of Grey .................................................................................................. 45
II. How to Approach and Meet Women .................................................................................................. 48
1. The Where and How: ...................................................................................................................... 49
Where to Meet Women ...................................................................................................................... 49
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How to Meet Women While Travelling .............................................................................................. 50
When Should A Guy Approach A Woman? ......................................................................................... 52
Get Off Your Ass and Start Practicing! ................................................................................................ 53
Does Practice Really Get Results? ....................................................................................................... 53
Is She Testing Me? .............................................................................................................................. 54
How Do I Handle Female Cock Blocks? ............................................................................................... 55
How Do I Build Attraction and Take It to the Next Level? .................................................................. 56
2. Body Language and Headspace ...................................................................................................... 58
How to Show Confident Body Language When Approaching Women ............................................... 58
Nine Tips for Confident Body Language .............................................................................................. 58
A Smile Is an Inexpensive Way to Change Your Looks ........................................................................ 60
Is the Initial Smile Essential? ............................................................................................................... 62
25 Famous Thinkers and Their Inspiring Daily Rituals ........................................................................ 63
Reject Me Please! ............................................................................................................................... 67
How Do I Motivate Myself to Go for It When I Know I’ll Get Rejected? ............................................. 68
Five Steps to Eliminate Approach Anxiety .......................................................................................... 69
How Can I Tell What a Woman’s Eye Contact is Signaling? ................................................................ 70
Are You Into This Girl? ........................................................................................................................ 71
How to Avoid Being Creepy ................................................................................................................ 71
3. Dating Online .................................................................................................................................. 73
How to Write a Female-Friendly Profile ............................................................................................. 73
Rules for Selecting Pictures ................................................................................................................. 77
Things to Include In Your Profile ......................................................................................................... 77
How Do I Ask Her Out On Facebook? ................................................................................................. 78
III. How to Talk to Women and Create Attraction ............................................................................... 80
Have You Heard About the Magic Line to Say to Women That Instantly Makes Them Drop Their
Panties? ............................................................................................................................................... 80
What Do I Talk to Women About? ...................................................................................................... 81
Talking About Video Games ................................................................................................................ 81
How to Compliment a Woman Correctly ............................................................................................ 82
Get Out Of Interview Mode and Start Connecting ............................................................................. 83
Why Women Need to Feel You ........................................................................................................... 85
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How Do You Make Women Feel You? ................................................................................................ 87
How to Make Decisions in 60 Seconds Or Less ................................................................................... 88
How to Get a Girl’s Number in Less Than 30 Seconds ........................................................................ 89
How to Juggle Multiple Women ......................................................................................................... 93
IV. The Dating Playbook ....................................................................................................................... 95
Why Isn’t Dating Fun Anymore? ......................................................................................................... 95
1. How to Get a Date ........................................................................................................................... 97
A Case Study: How to Correctly Ask a Woman Out ............................................................................ 97
How to Be Direct and Ask Her Out ...................................................................................................... 99
Are You Coming On Too Strong? How to Avoid Being Overeager .................................................... 101
Do I Need to Have a Full Conversation With a Woman Before Asking Her Out? ............................. 103
How Do I Ask a Woman On a Second Date? ..................................................................................... 104
Is Okay to Date on a Casual Level?.................................................................................................... 105
Do I Tell a Woman I’m Dating Other Women? ................................................................................. 105
2. How to Rock the Date ................................................................................................................... 107
Eleven Mistakes Men Make on Dates ............................................................................................... 107
Where to Take a Girl on a Date ......................................................................................................... 109
How to Bring Up Sticky Topics: Kids, Divorce, Health, etc. ............................................................... 109
Should Men Pay for the First Date? .................................................................................................. 111
How Can I Tell if She Likes Me? ......................................................................................................... 114
Signs That She Wants to Be Kissed & Signs That She Doesn’t .......................................................... 115
What Should I Do When A Woman Flakes On Me? .......................................................................... 118
Did I Ruin My Chances by Getting Too Cute Too Soon? ................................................................... 119
Should I Call or Text after a Date? .................................................................................................... 120
Ten Reasons Why Being Unhealthy Can Affect Your Dating Life ...................................................... 121
V. How to Avoid the Friend Zone ...................................................................................................... 124
Urban Legend: The Man Who Went From Friend to Lover Just by Waiting ..................................... 124
The Difference Between a Friend and a Lover .................................................................................. 124
Do I Stay in the Friend Zone and Wait? ............................................................................................ 126
Have I Become "The Friend"? If So, How Do I Escape the Friend Zone? .......................................... 127
How to Be a Bad Friend but a Freaking Good Lover ......................................................................... 129
She’s Just Not That Into You: Don’t Mistake Emotional Banter for Flirtatious Banter ..................... 143
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What Do I Do If She Starts Talking About Her Guy Problems on a Date? ......................................... 144
She Brought Her Ex on Our Date ....................................................................................................... 145
VI. How Women Want It! The How, What, Where, When and Why Behind Every Female Action. . 147
Eleven Things about Beautiful Women Every Man Must Know ....................................................... 147
What Do Women Find Sexy? ............................................................................................................ 149
Do Women Want Sex As Much As Men Do? .................................................................................... 151
Ten Ways to Get Her in the Mood .................................................................................................... 153
Eight Signs That She Is Flirting with You ........................................................................................... 154
The Three Magic Words Every Woman Wants To Hear ................................................................... 156
How to Be Her Hero .......................................................................................................................... 157
How to Win Over a Bitch ................................................................................................................... 159
Why Do Women Flake on Plans? ...................................................................................................... 160
Why Do Women "Test" Men: The Shit Test Explained ..................................................................... 162
How to Pass Shit Tests ...................................................................................................................... 164
Is She A Gold Digger? ........................................................................................................................ 165
How Do I Breakup with A Girl and Still Be Friends? .......................................................................... 166
How Do Women Evaluate the Men Who Approach Them? ............................................................. 167
Why Do Women Give Out Their Number & Not Answer the Phone? .............................................. 168
What Does It Mean When a Women Says "You Don’t Listen Unless I Yell?" ................................... 170
VII. Conclusion ..................................................................................................................................... 171
The Checklist ......................................................................................................................................... 171
The Formula for Success ....................................................................................................................... 172
The Happily Ever After .......................................................................................................................... 173
VIII. References .................................................................................................................................... 175

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Preface

I have been trying to write this book for four years. By trying I mean attempting to pawn off the
work on someone else who I thought could more creatively present the work I’ve been doing for nearly
a decade.
Every time I tried, the writer failed to convey what I wanted. The content of the book didn’t
convey the passion I have for my life’s work. I wanted perfection. I wanted everyone to love what I
wrote and I wanted every guy who picked up a book with my name on it to be magically motivated and
transformed.
Then I realized something...
I was doing exactly what I tell men, every day, to stop doing. I was stopping myself from going
after what I wanted because I was afraid of failure. Just as you cannot attract and charm the pants off
every woman, you cannot create the perfect book that will motivate and transform every man.
So I said, "Fuck it," and started putting together my book! My advice has already helped
hundreds of thousands of men around the world. A little poor grammar and shoddy spelling were not
going to hold me back. This book represents close to a decade of hard work, constant testing, as well as
years of being in the trenches with clients and friends.
This book is a compilation of the work I have been doing for almost a decade. I’ve gathered what
I think to be my best blogs, articles, newsletters, emails to clients, stories, and responses to comments
on my website and I have put them all into one place.
This book is not designed to make you feel good about the things you have done in the past.
Men come to my website, sign up for my programs and buy my books because they want a female
perspective. I make it my goal to give them that perspective, and sometimes it hurts.
It can be hard to hear that you’ve been going about getting a date in totally the wrong way, but
it can stop right now. As a woman who studies what women want, I am going to tell you exactly how to
approach women.
You are going to learn in-depth, real things about women; the things they want, the things they
expect, and why what you are doing now and have been doing until now is not working. The pieces I
have gathered for you do not tell you how women should act; they tell you how they do act.
Enjoy.
Marni Kinrys, World’s Best Female PUA of the Year (2010, 2011)
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Introduction

I waited backstage at the Renaissance Hotel ballroom, where the Pick-Up Artist Summit was in
full swing and I was the next scheduled speaker. If you are not familiar with the term Pick-Up Artist, it
means a man (generally) who is skilled at meeting, attracting, and seducing women.
Typically, Pick-Up Artists, or PUAs, are associated with the seduction community, a heterosexual
male subculture based on the goal of improved sexual and romantic abilities with women. For years this
world has been kept a secret but with the success of VH1’s show "The Pick Up Artist" and Neil Strauss’
bestselling book "The Game" (Strauss, 2005), it‘s not so secret anymore. In fact, it has become a big
business.
The PUA Summit is a gathering of the world's top PUAs and their followers who are eager to
learn. Some of the experts teach pick-up lines, while others teach routines, but all teach their method on
the art of getting the girl. If you‘re confused as to why I, a woman, was speaking at the PUA Summit, let
me give a quick description of my job: I pick up women for men.
My name is Marni and I am a professional Wing Girl.
Men pay me to help them pick-up, attract, date, and get the women they want. Not to brag, but
I'm really freaking good at it. Besides being invited to speak at the PUA Summit this year where I was
awarded, "World's Best Female PUA of the Year," I have successfully helped thousands of great men get
the women they want.
So how did a nice Jewish girl like me get into this profession? I started my business, the same
way most people do: drunk and by accident.
One Friday night, I attended a Shabbat dinner at the home of Rabbi Shwartzie. I am not religious
but I was new to Los Angeles and wanted to connect with my people. Just like any other Jewish event,
this dinner was also a singles mixer. I had recently started dating someone (who I am now married to)
but felt there was no harm in window-shopping.
The matching making soiree was off to a rocky start, and the event felt more like a junior high
dance than a singles mixer. Boys on one side of the room, girls on the other side. No one was
interacting. I started grabbing men and pushing them to talk to women. When they were finished
interacting, I would give them feedback on their technique, made tweaks and send them out again. By
the end of the night, people were mixing, exchanging numbers, and having a great time.
I went home, buzzed from the night and the open bar, and spoke to my roommate. I was in
public relations at the time and hated every second of it. I said to him, "What if I could do what I did
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