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GET IN HER MIND GET IN HER BED Taylor Ryan Nick Andrews www.g etinherm in d. com Copynghted fT':ltenal Get In Her Mind, Get In Her Bed www. getinhermind.c om Copyright © 2008 by Brownfish Publishing All rights reserved. ISBN 978-0-9816100-0-9 Printed in the United States of America Copynghted fT':ltenal Acknowledgements Nick: "This is for all the girls I was too scared to ever make a move on." Taylor: "And for all the girls I did make a move on." Ill Copynghted fT':llenal Copyrighted material Contents Introduction to Body Language Eye Contact 1 The Alpha Male 9. Proximity: Moving Between the Zones .25 YES/NO: Picking Up On Her Signals 3I PUSH and PULL 4£1 The Pick Up Approach and Open 65. The Art of Conversation N ABCs of Closing 9.3. Rejection 105. NLP (Neuro Linguistic Programming) What Is It? ill Processing 11.5. Mirroring 12.3. Anchoring 1.31 10 Tips 1 - First Dates 141 2 - Creative Places to Meet Women .14l 3 - Day Game 151 4 - Date Warp 1.55 5 - Style 1..59. 6 - Cold Reading .1..69. 7 - Quick Date Dinners 1.81_ 8- Easy Magic and Bar Tricks 1..8I. 9 - Drink Recipes 19.3. 10 - Drinking Games 19Z. v Copynghted fT':ltenal Copyrighted material Eye Contact On my move across the country, I had an amazing en counter, at a rest stop no less, and it all started with a little glance. As I was coming out of the bathroom, I saw a girl sitting in a van. She was in the driver's seat, the passen ger seat was empty, and two children were in the back. When I walked by her vehicle I glanced in her direction and saw her looking at me. I looked back and continued to hold eye contact. She held eye contact as well, and gave me a little smile. As I drove off she looked at me again. Now I was thinking that was kind of interesting and what a weird place for this to happen. A while down the road she passed me and I realized it was her mother that she was waiting for. At this point I was pissed at myself for letting this opportunity go. I decided I was going to redeem my self. Being that there were two women and two little children in the car I knew it wouldn't be long until they made another stop. Sure enough about ten miles down the road they pulled off at the next rest area; I followed. When I got out, I was again met with her adoring eyes. I asked her, "Are you following me?" She laughed and we started talking. Within a few minutes I found out that she 1 Copynghted fT':ltenal Get In Her Mind, Get In Her Bed was actually staying at a campground nearby. Under normal circumstances I would have continued driving for at least another eight hours, but I wasn't going to pass this up. I was actually curious to see how far I could take things with her. I followed them to their campsite, ate hot dogs with her and her family, and we ended up spending most of the night together. As for my curiosity, I was re warded. It took most of the tools in my pick up skill set, but like many girls before, she too ended up in my bed. It all started with a little look. The single most important aspect of being good with women, picking up girls, is eye contact. The concepts you will learn in this book all center around eye contact and the signals women give. Why is eye contact so impor tant? It is how we know a woman is interested. Anything and everything you do in interacting with women is directly related to body language and eye contact. Eye contact with any woman will tell you everything you need to know. All body language is important, but eye contact and maybe a little smile will tell you what you really want to know. It tells you, "I'm interested in you and I'm available." In the game of pick up that's all you really need to know. Now of course, you will use body language to do a variety of things: get her interested in you, create and continue to build sexual chemistry, skew an interaction in your favor to get what you want, all done with body language, but her eyes are what are telling you, "I'm interested and I'm avail able." If you want to be good with women, this is foundation to build your game upon. Situation - You are terrible with women. You are standing around a bar table with a couple of friends when you noticed a hot ass girl across the room. I mean gor geous. She walks up to you and says, "There is 2 Copynghted fT':ltenal Introduction to Body Language: Eye Contact something about you, I'm not sure what it is but I'd really like to get to know you. I'm not dating anyone at the mo ment. Would you like to go someplace quiet and get to know each other?" You go off in the corner with your fu ture girlfriend or potential bed buddy while your friends wonder how the hell you just pulled this girl. She appears to be way out of your league, but somehow, you, this guy who knows nothing about women, just pulled the best looking girl in the bar. That would be great if that is how it worked with women wouldn't it? They come up to you and tell you ex actly how they feel. Well that is exactly how it works. She tells you those things with her eyes, with her legs, with her arms, and with her body movements. She is sending out signals with her body language. When you catch a glance from across the room and she holds eye contact she is saying, "I'm attracted to you, I'm available, I want you to talk to me!" You can reassure that signal by dropping a little smile on her. If she smiles back she has just told you, "I am interested in you, come over here and talk to me so we can get to know each other." In face to face conversation, the words you say only account for ten percent of the total message. Thirty per cent is vocal, describing your tone of voice and inflection. The rest of the message is nonverbal. Sixty percent of what you say is done through non verbal communication; body language. As hard as you try to hide your feelings towards a person, your body language will betray you and tell the world how you really feel. Yes, it would be nice if that beautiful blonde across the room would approach you. In our society, that just doesn't happen. It's not socially acceptable for a woman to approach a man. Ultimately it is up to the guy to make 3 Copynghted fT':ltenal
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