Fertility Counseling: Case Studies Published online by Cambridge University Press Published online by Cambridge University Press Fertility Counseling: Case Studies Second Edition Edited by Sharon N. Covington ShadyGroveFertility,Rockville,MD Published online by Cambridge University Press UniversityPrintingHouse,CambridgeCB28BS,UnitedKingdom OneLibertyPlaza,20thFloor,NewYork,NY10006,USA 477WilliamstownRoad,PortMelbourne,VIC3207,Australia 314–321,3rdFloor,Plot3,SplendorForum,JasolaDistrictCentre, NewDelhi–110025,India 103PenangRoad,#05–06/07,VisioncrestCommercial,Singapore238467 CambridgeUniversityPressispartoftheUniversityofCambridge. ItfurtherstheUniversity’smissionbydisseminatingknowledgeinthepursuitof education,learning,andresearchatthehighestinternationallevelsofexcellence. www.cambridge.org Informationonthistitle:www.cambridge.org/9781009014304 DOI:10.1017/9781009030175 ©SharonN.Covington2023 Thispublicationisincopyright.Subjecttostatutoryexception andtotheprovisionsofrelevantcollectivelicensingagreements, noreproductionofanypartmaytakeplacewithoutthewritten permissionofCambridgeUniversityPress. Firstpublished2015 Thissecondeditionpublished2023 AcataloguerecordforthispublicationisavailablefromtheBritishLibrary. LibraryofCongressCataloging-in-PublicationData Names:Covington,SharonN.,editor. Title:Fertilitycounseling.Casestudies/editedbySharonN.Covington.Other titles:Casestudies|Fertilitycounseling. Description:Secondedition.|Cambridge;NewYork,NY:CambridgeUniversity Press,2022.|ReplacementinpartofFertilitycounseling/editedbySharonN. Covington.2015.|Includesbibliographicalreferencesandindex. Identifiers:LCCN2022024069(print)|LCCN2022024070(ebook)|ISBN 9781009014304(paperback)|ISBN9781009030175(ebook) Subjects:MESH:Infertility–psychology|ReproductiveTechniques,Assisted– psychology|Counseling|CaseReports|BISAC:MEDICAL/MentalHealth Classification:LCCRC889(print)|LCCRC889(ebook)|NLMWP570|DDC 616.6/92–dc23/eng/20220615 LCrecordavailableathttps://lccn.loc.gov/2022024069 LCebookrecordavailableathttps://lccn.loc.gov/2022024070 ISBN978-1-009-01430-4Paperback CambridgeUniversityPresshasnoresponsibilityforthepersistenceoraccuracyof URLsforexternalorthird-partyinternetwebsitesreferredtointhispublication anddoesnotguaranteethatanycontentonsuchwebsitesis,orwillremain, accurateorappropriate. ...................................................................................................................... Everyefforthasbeenmadeinpreparingthisbooktoprovideaccurateandup-to- dateinformationthatisinaccordwithacceptedstandardsandpracticeatthetime ofpublication.Althoughcasehistoriesaredrawnfromactualcases,everyeffort hasbeenmadetodisguisetheidentitiesoftheindividualsinvolved.Nevertheless, theauthors,editors,andpublisherscanmakenowarrantiesthattheinformation containedhereinistotallyfreefromerror,notleastbecauseclinicalstandardsare constantlychangingthroughresearchandregulation.Theauthors,editors,and publishersthereforedisclaimallliabilityfordirectorconsequentialdamages resultingfromtheuseofmaterialcontainedinthisbook.Readersarestrongly advisedtopaycarefulattentiontoinformationprovidedbythemanufacturerof anydrugsorequipmentthattheyplantouse. Published online by Cambridge University Press Casestudiesarebaseduponrelationshipsandteamworkthatexistswithbothour clients and our colleagues. I am eternally grateful for the many patients I have worked with over the years who have entrusted me with their care, some for a single meeting and others for 30+ years. I am also profoundly indebted to the trustedcolleagueswhohavesupported,educatedandguidedmealongthe way. Toonumeroustomentionbyname,thesementalhealthprofessionalsaswellas the physicians and staff at Shady Grove Fertility have provided me the “wind beneathmywings”.Withdeepappreciation,Idedicatethisbooktoallofyou:It hasbeenanhonorandaprivilegetobeonthisjourneywithyou. Thesecretofchangeistofocusallofyourenergy,notonfightingtheold,buton buildingthenew.Socrates Published online by Cambridge University Press Published online by Cambridge University Press Contents Preface ix ListofContributors x I Introduction 10 CounselingNonidentifiedGameteDonors 54 LauraJosephsandUschiVandenBroeck 1 CollaborativeReproductiveHealthcareModel:A 11 CounselingEmbryoDonorsandRecipients 59 Patient-CenteredApproachtoMedicaland PsychosocialCare 1 MayaGrobelandElaineGordon NancyKaufmanandLoreeJohnson 12 SpecialConsiderationsinGestationalSurrogacy AssessmentsandArrangements 65 2 ReproductivePsychologyandFertility Counseling 10 MaryRiddleandTaraSimpson SusanKlock 13 DNAandtheEndofAnonymity:Disclosure, Donor-LinkageandFertilityCounseling 70 II Therapeutic Approaches KateBourne 14 FamilyLifeAfterDonorConception 76 3 FertilityCounselingforIndividuals 15 JaneEllis,MarilynCrawshawandAstrid LindaApplegarthandArabelleRowe Indekeu 4 FertilityCounselingforCouples 20 KristyKoser IV Addressing the Needs of Diverse 5 FertilityCounselingwithGroups 25 Populations RachelRabinorandLandonZaki 15 TheMaleExperiencewithFertilityand 6 SexualTherapyPrimerforFertility Counselors 31 Counseling 83 WilliamPetokandBrennanPeterson ErikaKelleyandSherylKingsberg 7 “It’sComplicated”:TheIntersectBetween 16 CounselingLesbian,Gay,BisexualandQueer PsychiatricIllnessandInfertility 38 FertilityPatients 88 SarahHolleyandLauriPasch KatherineWilliamsandLauriPasch 8 “BeFruitfulandMultiply”:AddressingSpirituality 17 TransgenderAssistedReproductive inFertilityCounseling 44 Technology 94 KarenWasserstein MeganFloodandEileenDombo 18 ARaciallyandCulturallySensitiveApproach toFertilityCounseling 99 III Third Party Reproduction: Assessment KimberlyGrocher and Preparation 9 CounselingRecipientsofNonidentifiedDonor V Special Topics in Fertility Counseling Gametes 49 19 ResilienceinReproductiveLoss 105 CarolTollandPatriciaSachs IrvingLeon vii Published online by Cambridge University Press Contents 20 ReproductiveTraumaandPTSD:Onthe VI Practice Issues BattlefieldofFertilityCounseling 109 JanetJaffe 25 TelementalHealthinFertilityCounseling 137 CarrieEichbergandLaurenMagalnick 21 PregnancyLossCounseling 114 Berman IrvingLeon 26 NutsandBoltsofFertilityCounseling: 22 “ALittleBitPregnant”:CounselingforRecurrent LegalIssuesandPractice PregnancyLoss 120 Management 143 MiaJoelsson WilliamPetokandMargaretSwain 23 PregnancyandPostpartumAdjustment 27 EthicalPlatformofAssistedReproduction 149 inFertilityCounseling 125 JeanneO’BrienandJulianneZweifel LauraWinters 24 WalkingtheTightrope:ThePregnantFertility Counselor 130 LauraCovingtonandJanetJaffe Index 156 Onlineresourcesareavailablefordownloadatwww .cambridge.org/covington-case-studies Password:CaseStudies2023 viii Published online by Cambridge University Press Preface A case study approach to learning is one of the most field as a result of their own personal experience with effective tools in many fields, including medicine and reproductiveloss.Everypatientweseehasareproductive mental health counseling. It provides a link between historyandstorythatinfluencesthecourseoftherapy,as theory and practice, allowing for an in-depth, multi- doesthetherapist. facetedexplorationofcomplexissuesinreal-lifesettings. I am grateful for and deeply appreciative of these Ihaveheardconsistentlyovermymanyyearsofteaching vibrant case studies and the authors’ willingness to thatcliniciansrelatebestandoftenlearnmorefromthe sharetheirfeelingsabouttheimpactofthiswork.Their storieswetellaboutourworkwithpatientsthanfromall personalexperiences enrich the casematerial, making it thedidacticmaterialtheyread.Bridgingclinicalconcepts highly relatable for the reader. An essential element in andrealpracticeisessentialininternalizingknowledge. every case is the importance of the therapeutic relation- TheCaseStudiesvolumeofFertilityCounselinginte- ship, and as psychologist Carl Rogers noted, the grates the foundational material of the Clinical Guide empathic, genuine and unconditional positive regard with common situations that arise in clinical practice. the therapist brings to it. As I went through each of Whilethecasespresentedinthesechaptersaremadeup these cases, there were so many that resonated with fromacompilationofclientsratherthanindividualstor- patientsIhadseenovertheyearsaswellasthethoughts, ies, they nonetheless represent key components and reactions, feelings I had about them and their struggles. issues that occur in fertility counseling. The authors are I felt I learned a great deal from the concepts and case all highly skilled clinicians with years of knowledge and analysis presented in both volumes, which is one of the have generously shared not only their experiences in thingsIvaluemostinmyalmost50yearsasaclinician:to working with fertility patients, but also how they felt have the honor and privilege to continue to learn and abouttheseexperiences.Transferenceandcountertrans- growfromallthoseIworkwith. ference are key counseling concepts discussed in both volumes and are critically important to address in these SharonCovington cases, because many fertility counselors come to the December2021 ix https://doi.org/10.1017/9781009030175.001 Published online by Cambridge University Press