Femdom Training

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Femdom Training

How to train your husband?

If Your Husband Does Not Want Femdom Relationship.

Our step by step training here, will convert even the most vanilla of males to a

femdom relationship if you follow this to the letter.

This may sound hard but I will tell you right now that it is a lot easier to switch your husband into a
submissive than it is to train a woman to become a dominant.

This comprehensive guide will explore on how to start from scratch, and what targets to set at each
step. By the end of this guide, your husband will be under your complete control, and will do
everything to please you. This is the kind of relationship that most women desire.

Regardless of your man’s sex drive, whether little, large, vanilla, or kinky, the key to getting him to
conform to a femdom relationship starts with one thing.

Husband Training Step 1: Chastity.

If you man lacks sexual interest, there is a high probability that it is easier for him to masturbate
than it is for him to invest the time and energy into you having a great sexual relationship.

Practically any essentially strong marriage or relationship will benefit from male chastity. Your
partner will be more complacent and more focused on your needs. Keeping him locked up is non-
negotiable. His orgasms are yours to give, not something that he has a right to by default. You have
full right to control his orgasms, and sooner you make him understand that, the sooner you can start
his training.

It is a common place observation that men tend to be sexually wanton. Left to their own devices,
even married men will look for other available women, wanting to spread their “seed” as widely as
possible. Sex is quick, often brutal, and focused on a single goal – ejaculation. Ejaculation leaves
men depleted and often out of sorts. They lose their focus on their partner or the image that prompted
their masturbatory fantasy. The biological and emotional signals seem to be for the male to leave
after ejaculation and begin searching for his next sex partner. No wonder women are so often
dissatisfied with their male partners.

Femdom relationships
require the male to
overcome this biological
predisposition and the
cultural conditioning that
reinforces it. Femdom
relationships require the
male to find ultimate
pleasure in his partner’s
pleasure, rather than
subordinating her
pleasure to his own. In
such relationship, a man
is letting controlling his
sexual desires in
exchange for pleasuring
his woman. This
reorientation is a
profound challenge for a
male, one that no doubt

accounts for the low (but growing)
percentage of femdom relationships.

A program of chastity is the best way for
men to reorient themselves so they are
suitable for a strong female in a femdom
relationship. By chastity, it is meant that
the male in a relationship does not have
an orgasm unless it is in the presence and
with the permission of his partner.

Some women and their partners prefer
that the man maintain chastity through
self-discipline. Others prefer the idea of
using a cage to enforce their chastity.
There is no one right way to practice
chastity, but due to societal
reconditioning of men growing up in a
patriarchal society, the best method would
be to enforce it. Tell him it’s not a
debate, and that’s something he has to do.
Ultimately most agree that a man who
practices chastity is expressing profound
respect for their partner and women
generally. Many speak of their chastity as
being a gift of their sex and their sexual
energy to their female superior and the
superior sex of which she is a part.

For a man who is used to unrestricted masturbation, chastity is a profound challenge. Yet, chastity is
a challenge well worth undertaking because it can help lead to a transformation of a man’s
relationship with his partner. Almost every account of a chastity regimen notes that the man becomes
much more attentive to the needs of his partner, serving her better both sexually and in a myriad of
other ways that are pleasing to her. The many religious traditions that use chastity/abstinence as a key
element of their spiritual practice and service orientation are definitely onto something.

Resolve to restrict his orgasms to situations where he has first given you ample pleasure in some
way, be it sexual or otherwise. If his need to masturbate is simply too overwhelming, as is often the
case, encourage/command him to practice masturbating to the edge of orgasm and then stop.

In all femdom relationships the male must be asked to provide sexual service to his partner without
his penis while missing his own orgasm, a profound mental and physical challenge. Ultimately, it is
for you to decide how to best introduce chastity into your relationship. What is important to
understand, however, is that chastity is one great way to keep your submissive man feeling and
expressing his submissiveness to you.

What you need to do is to confront him, and ask him in an open and understanding way of how many
times he masturbates in a week? Tell him that it does not matter to you, but you are curious.

He is either going to be honest with you, or he will lie. At this point it does not matter. If he says 5
times a week, or he says none, your response is going to be the same.

Here it is:

You have been reading
on the internet and that
you wish to try an
experiment with him,
and if he participates,
you will reward him
with whatever wish he
asks for. (Doesn’t
matter at this point what
that is, if you want to
convert your
relationship, you will
have to do this)

He will likely ask what
this is before he states
what it is that he
wants. When he does,
tell him you want to see
what his behavior will
be like if you put this on

for 1 week. At this point produce the CB 6000 male chastity device. The
reason we say this one, is because it comes with 3 different ring sizes, and
spacers so that no matter what size he is, he will be locked up with no ability
to cheat. You must already have this on hand before you confront him about
his masturbation. This needs to go on one way or another at the time of your
confrontation. Do not accept no for an answer. Find a way to be determined
enough for him to do it. This is vital.

Once you have it on
him, it must stay on
for a full week, with
no chance of taking
it off. If it is
uncomfortable, then
you can take it off
supervised, and wash
him, or give him
relief, but he is to be
nowhere out of your
site without the
device on. Make
him clear on
agreeing to this when

you first put it on. Tell him you are about to make all his dreams come true if he does just this one
single thing.

During the
week that it is
on, it is very
important for
you to sexually
tease him in all
sorts of
ways. Find
reasons to play
with his cock
while it is
locked up, and
reward him in
any way that
you know he
will like. The
only thing you
have to do in
week 1, is
reward him,
and tease him
and be
completely
kind and
serving to
him. Don’t
worry, this is
just a
conditional
phase that will
change in later
phases. Once
you have him
locked up and
have done this
for the first
week proceed
to step 2.

Husband Training Step 2: More Chastity, More Teasing

Ok, so your first week of chastity on your husband is up. Now it’s time to evaluate.

If your husband masturbates more than 3 times per week, this first week will become very evident in
his behavior change to you. Regardless of anything, being locked up for a week, will be an eye
opener for the both of you. You realize now, that your sex life is directly tied to his orgasms.

It is time to reward him for his agreement. Give him whatever he asked for. Even if it is something
that you have never done, like swallow, it is important to show him at this stage of the game, that his
compliance will have huge payoffs.

Once you have given him what he wants, tell him that you really enjoyed the week together, and if he
remains a good boy and stays in the chastity for another week, you have other WONDERFUL
surprises for him.

At this point, before you lock him up, give him the best sex you have ever had in your life. Drain him
completely with 1-3 orgasms in this day depending on his age and his refractory period.

Then lock him up again.

Then let him know that you love him and
you have read online on some ideas on
how to spice things up around the house,
and make his life better and more
interesting in the bedroom. It is very
likely that you will notice some
enthusiasm from him by this
point. Especially after a week of being
locked up, and the most incredible sex of
your life together.

Tell him now that this is just the
beginning of a new relationship, where
you are going to dedicate your time and
energy into pleasing him. Let him know
though that there will need to be a few
changes in the house, and that you will
need him to start following a few orders
of yours to make sure that your needs are
being met.

At this point, it is time to slowly
introduce some household chores to
him. To make it more interesting to him,
have them perform some simple tasks
like doing dishes in the nude. Ease him
into more chores over the next few
weeks, and always try and get him to do
them in the nude. Introduce joking
punishment when he hasn’t done
something to your liking. At this point
you will be introducing corporal
punishment, but at this time, be sure to
make it hurt. Make it fun.

For instance, if he didn’t wipe the
counters up properly and there are
crumbs on the counter, show him what
he missed, and have him clean it up, and
after that, grab a wooden spoon or even
your hand will suffice, and grab him by

the neck softly, but firmly, and
push his head down over the
counter. If he resists, tell him to go
with it, that he will like it.

Then lightly spank him and tell him
that if he wants rewards for being a
good boy, he must do a better job at
cleaning than that. Spank him
enough to turn him on, but not
enough to hurt him.

If he is not wearing the chastity at
this point, which he should be, put
it back on.

If he is, tell him that this is a

warning, but the next slip up you will
tack on an extra day of chastity for
his sloppy chores.

Keep all of this fun, and just act
enough the part to make it spicy. He
doesn’t need to know that the
relationship is changing from this
point on just yet.

It is likely that his ego will raise up
during your attempt to dominate him.
It is natural, because even if he likes
it, he will feel the need to protect his
manhood.

Tease him constantly, by flaunting
the key to his chastity cage,
reminding him that you control him
and his orgasms, and only way
forward to his release is to please
you.

Handling his ego is quite simple. Just
follow these three rules:

1. Compliment him for compliance.

Few examples:


” It’s great to see you let me have
control. It shows you are a real man”


“You are so sexy when you let me
have control. You are turning me on!”


“You are such a cool husband, not
like other pathetic males who need to
show their manhood like losers, you
really have confidence in yourself”


Only a real man would let me take
control, I love you so much. You are
a stud.

2. Know when his ego is rising up, ease and
let go of your domination until next time.

3. After the act, he may try to dominate you
back to prove his manhood. Let him be a bit
dominant.

The ego handling is just a temporary
situation. He will feel less and less the need to
show his manhood as time goes by, until it
will disappear…. at this point you know you
eliminated his ego when he is with you. And
he will let himself submit to you easily.

Husband Training Step 3: Make him Swallow

Do not advance to this step until you have completed
all previous steps. For the next few weeks, you have to
be delicate in transitioning your vanilla husband into
your obedient houseboy. His ego will be the biggest
enemy. Remember your training in the last step
on how to handle his ego.

Continue the chastity training each day, but in the
beginning it is particularly powerful if you tease his
cock daily as much as your own schedules
permit. Take him out of chastity as often as you can,
and suck, lick, and play with his cock a lot. Bring him
to close to cumming, but do not let him cum at all.

After continuous teasing for several days, it is perfect
time to train him to clean his own mess.

First of all, it is actually a lot harder than it sounds. It is the entire power shift in the relationship with
your husband. The whole point of forcing someone to swallow their own cum is making them do
something degrading and humiliating that they wouldn't normally do, but at the same time, it is very
beneficial as your husband will not make any mess.

The most common approach is by command. Make him come on his or your hand or a shot glass or
inside a condom. Then order him to lick it or swallow it clean. This is the first thing that comes to
mind for most women, but is also the hardest to make someone follow through with.

This approach can work, but only if you are very strict. Speak sternly, imply urgency, and raise your
voice. Since this is one of the hardest approaches, it can also take several tries. For example, tease
your husband to the point of desperation, and then unlock him and make him come into a shot glass
or a condom. Shot glass or condoms are essential, or too much of it will get stuck on the sides and be
wasted. So after he came inside a condom, carefully take off that condom without dropping any cum,
place it in his mouth, and tell him to suck it and swallow.

Swallowing his own cum is very important for his training. His training cannot move ahead if he
does not complete this part. Just remind him that he cannot cum at all, unless he agrees to eat his own
cum. Explain to him, how is that not only hot for you, as it turns you on, but also completely benign,
as he is basically swallowing something from his own body. Help him pass this mental block. Tease
him, seduce him, even blackmail him if necessary, but in the end you have to make him swallow his
own cum.

If he still refuses, you have to go on the offense. Stop talking to him, threaten to break up your
relationship, make him feel guilty, and remind him that he is responsible for all of it, because of a
silly little thing that he is making into such a big deal. He should be stronger than that.

Again if he refuses hold his nose and pour it into his mouth. Let him breath but repeat the process to
get him to swallow all of it.

This process takes a couple of tries before he will be able to swallow all of it without wasting a drop.
However, if your husband refuses to do that, and you are unable to hold his nose or keep his mouth
open, there is indeed a second approach that works for most women.

This second approach requires a little more
preparation. This is generally forcing your husband
to swallow his own load. The key to this approach is
lack of options on your husband's behalf. Put him in
a position where he can't say no. My favorite way to
do this is the legs over the head trick. Have him lay
on his back and lift his legs back over his head until
his cock lines right up with his mouth What helps is
having him lay such that when his feet go over his
head they land on a wall or yourself behind him so
he cannot unfold, then narrow the gap between his
mouth and cock. When he's lined up make him
come into his own mouth. This might actually take a
couple tries before you get a good amount in there.
Hold him in that awkward position by the balls,
make sure you have a good grip so he knows he
can't just lay back down. Tell him he has to swallow
it, if he hesitates hold his nose with a free hand.
He'll have to swallow to breath. Make sure he's
secure and can't move, then make him come into a
shot glass. Tell him to drink it, again if he refuses
hold his nose and pour it into his mouth Let him
breath but repeat the process to get him to swallow
if necessary, and there are alternatives to holding his
nose.