RMLE Online—Volume 33, No. 4 Micki M. Caskey, Ph.D., Editor Portland State University Portland, Oregon 2009 • Volume 33 • Number 4 ISSN 1940-4476 Adolescents’ Psychological Well-Being and Perceived Parental Involvement: Implications for Parental Involvement in Middle Schools Kayla Cripps Southern Illinois University Carbondale Carbondale, IL Brett Zyromski Southern Illinois University Carbondale Carbondale, IL Abstract Adolescence is a critical period of development. perceptions of parental involvement, (b) the parenting Previous research suggests parent involvement in style related to higher levels of psychological well- school directly impacts student success. However, being, and (c) the impact of assorted parenting styles different types of parental involvement and the on adolescent psychological well-being. It concludes efforts of middle school personnel to educate parents with implications for middle school systems, middle about these effective practices have received scant school counselors, families, parents, and community attention in the literature. The level and type of members. parental involvement, as perceived by adolescents, Introduction is correlated with adolescent psychological well- being. Perceived parental involvement positively Adolescence is a critical period of development. or negatively affects adolescents' sense of Adolescents are continuously changing mentally, psychological well-being, especially self-esteem, physically, and psychologically (Santrock, 2004). self-evaluation, and peer relationships. Parenting They are learning more about the ‘real world’ and style greatly influences children’s development as trying to strive for both independence from parents well. The authoritative/democratic parenting style and inclusion in social groups (Santrock & Yussen, influences middle school children, leading to positive 1984). Adolescents want to be perceived as adults developmental outcomes, positive adolescent self- with capable decision-making skills, but also want to evaluations, higher levels of adolescent self-esteem remain members of a large peer group. Additionally, and adjustment, while also positively influencing these young people desire support and structure levels of intrinsic motivation for learning. This article from their parents, though they project an indifferent reviews research related to (a) adolescents’ demeanor and challenge the supportive measures of © 2009 National Middle School Association 1 RMLE Online—Volume 33, No. 4 their parents. Whether parents are involved in and of their lives, such as relationships, support, and work support their adolescents’ school life can directly affect (Amato, 1994; Flouri & Buchanan, 2003; Knoester, their personal and social development as well as their 2003; Roberts & Bengtson, 1993; Wilkinson, 2004). academic success (Gecas & Schwalbe, 1986; Harris & For adolescents, psychological distress can result in Goodall, 2008; Jeynes, 2007). the possession of many negative personal thoughts and emotions. Diong and associates (2005) suggested Previous research has shown parent involvement in that psychological distress is associated with anger school directly impacts student success (Harris & and stress. Furthermore, psychological distress was Goodall, 2008; Jeynes, 2007; Sirvani, 2007; Whitmore also positively correlated with physical illnesses (such & Norton-Meier, 2008). However, types of involvement as the cold and flu) and other problematic symptoms. and efforts to educate parents about the most effective People experiencing distress ignored or avoided types of involvement during the middle school years stressful situations and also avoided possible sources have received scant attention in the literature. This of support when these stressful situations occurred article focuses on adolescents and their psychological (Diong et al.; Diong & Bishop, 1999; Houston & well-being. Specifically, two research questions were Vavak, 1991). Therefore, psychological distress not used as guides for the study. First, do adolescents who only affects an individual’s psychological health, but have a higher level of perceived parental involvement also his or her physical health and behavior patterns. have a higher level of psychological well-being? Second, which parenting style is related to higher Young adults with low psychological well-being may levels of psychological well-being? The purpose of the encounter lower levels of happiness, satisfaction, article is to discuss possible applications of the answers and self-esteem, while experiencing high levels of to these questions to increase parental involvement distress (Amato, 1994). Similarly, adolescents who in middle schools by developing home and school possess low psychological well-being or psychological relationships. Answers to these questions are also used distress may also exhibit characteristics of low levels to frame productive middle school parent programming of happiness and self-efficacy, along with high levels of and education efforts. depression (Flouri & Buchanan, 2003). Furthermore, these adolescents may view social problems as being The Adolescent-Parent Relationship and more serious than other youth (Wilkinson, 2004). In Psychological Well-Being summary, adolescents with low psychological well- being tend to form less than desirable self-evaluations, The relationship between perceived parental which significantly affect their happiness and involvement and adolescent psychological well- satisfaction. being is based on two realities. The first reality, the home environment, is the initial social arena in Although extensive research has been conducted which adolescents have remained more consistently related to the effects of parental involvement and under the influence and supervision of their parents. adolescents’ well-being, further exploration is Later, these individuals begin to seek an alternate necessary to discover the correlation between reality, separating from parents and seeking inclusion adolescents’ psychological well-being and perceived with peers during adolescence (Bossard & Boll, parental involvement and parenting styles. This article 1966; Santrock & Yussen, 1984). Adolescents begin will determine how perceived parental involvement building their own self-concept through observing the and parenting styles affect adolescent psychological reactions directed toward them by vital individuals well-being. Furthermore, the article will emphasize in their lives (Gibson & Jefferson, 2006). Personal how schools can use this knowledge to benefit experiences that evolve from the parent-adolescent adolescent students by using the American School relationship are the initial source that sets in motion Counseling Association’s (ASCA) National Model for the cycle of how adolescents will self-evaluate School Counseling Programs (2005). and interact with others. In other words, the type of relationship they experience with their parents Attachment and the Adolescent-Parent is thought to foreshadow their attitudes toward Relationship themselves and the quality of relationships they will Adolescence is viewed as the most traumatic or have with their peers (Gecas, 1971; Wilkinson, 2004). challenging period of time within the parent-child Psychological well-being refers to how individuals relationship (Santrock & Yussen, 1984). Adolescence self-evaluate and their ability to fulfill certain aspects is the stage of life when people experience continuous © 2009 National Middle School Association 2 RMLE Online—Volume 33, No. 4 change—mentally, physically, and psychologically evaluation reference points such as self-satisfaction (Santrock, 2004). Parent involvement remains critical and happiness. Further, Amato and Ochiltree’s to the adolescent-parent relationship, because the level study investigated structural family resources (i.e., of involvement signals to youth their importance to family income, parent's occupational status, parent's the parents (Gecas & Schwalbe, 1986). Furthermore, education, and other resources embedded in the when parents give forth effort to increase their family environment) and family process resources knowledge of adolescents’ behaviors, interests, and (i.e., parent's aspirations and expectations; the activities, it emphasizes parental caring and supports amount of help, interest, and attention given; and the adolescent-parent relationship (Stattin & Kerr, other ongoing and dynamic resources) to determine 2000). Actions, however, are not the only aspect of their assistance with reading ability, self-esteem, the adolescent-parent relationship that demonstrate everyday skills, and social competence of participants parental affection. The emotional context in which ranging from children to adolescents. This study parents act also greatly influences parents' impact on of 195 primary school-aged participants and 207 their adolescents (Steinberg, 2001). Adolescents’ level secondary school-aged participants noted that reading of confidence in relationships and level of security ability, everyday skills, and social competence were are greatly affected by any instability present in all related to both structural and process resources parent-child relationships. This insecurity can be due in staggering degrees, while self-esteem was more to parent emotional unavailability or other behaviors closely related to process resources. In addition, expressed through parenting styles or negative life family structure resources were found to be more events. significant to the secondary school-aged participants. Specific to adolescents, self-esteem was found to have On the other hand, parents are not the only important positive correlation with adolescents talking with influence during adolescence. Adolescents expand their their fathers, perceiving their fathers to be interested social realm by intensifying the significance of the in their lives, and frequency of family activities. relationships they possess with their peers (Santrock & On the other hand, negative correlation in regard to Yussen, 1984). Sullivan (1953), who was noted as being occurrences of yelling and screaming among family the “most influential theorist to discuss the importance members was also noted. of adolescent friendships,” argued that emotional well-being is built upon stable attachments, contented In addition, Gecas and Schwalbe’s (1986) study friendships, acceptance among peers, affection, and explored the correlation between parents’ perceptions intimate closeness (as cited in Santrock, 2004, p. 414). of their parental involvement and adolescents’ Indeed, as individuals develop, there is an increase in perceptions of their parents’ involvement. Effects the significance of peer approval in relation to self-worth of these viewpoints in regard to adolescents’ (Harter, 1999). However, throughout adolescence the identification of self-worth, self-efficacy, and self- relationship between parental approval and self-worth esteem were also investigated. This follow-up study remains constant. noted no similarities between how the parents viewed their involvement and how the adolescents viewed Research Conducted on Effects of Parental their parents’ involvement. Likewise, the adolescents’ Involvement identifications of self-worth, self-efficacy, and Throughout the last 40 years, many studies have self-esteem were more closely associated with their been conducted to explore parental involvement and thoughts pertaining to their parents’ involvement the effect it has on psychological well-being (Amato, rather than to their parents’ assumptions of the degree 1994; Amato & Ochiltree, 1986; Buri, Kirchner, & of their parental involvement. Gecas and Schwalbe Walsh, 1987; Dekovic & Meeus, 1997; Dmitrieva, recognized that the data obtained during this study Chen, Greenberger, & Gil-Rivas, 2004; Doyle & allowed for speculation and not causality due to the Markiewicz, 2005; Farrell & Barnes, 1993; Gecas, survey format used. 1971; Gecas & Schwalbe, 1986; Gibson & Jefferson, 2006; Roberts & Bengtson, 1993; Steinberg, 2001; A later study conducted by Buri and colleagues (1987) Wilkinson, 2004). Gecas’ study of 620 16- to 17- explored how parental nurturance may affect young year-olds suggested that parental support was, in adults’ levels of self-esteem far greater than parental fact, affiliated with adolescent self-evaluation, with self-esteem, marital satisfaction between parents, an increase of perceived parental support improving and family size. This study included 81 participants the adolescents’ self-evaluations; the study also noted attending a northern Midwest college, specifically the possible need for exploration into other self- described as being white, Catholic, middle class, © 2009 National Middle School Association 3 RMLE Online—Volume 33, No. 4 ethnically diverse, and children of married parents, self-esteem and lower levels of offspring distress. with an average age of 19.2 years. Findings suggested Interestingly, in cases of divorce, the correlation the relationship between parental nurturance and the between closeness to father and life satisfaction adolescents’ self-esteem was significantly related. was significantly weaker. Amato ended his study The results from this study may not be externalized to noting that a lack of studies related to the father-child other populations due to the specific characteristics of relationship reveals a need for more research in the the group studied. area of lifelong paternal contributions to the well- being of children. In 1993, Farrell and Barnes’ study explored the effects of cohesion and adaptability in relation to the optimal Dekovic and Meeus’s (1997) study explored functioning of both whole families and independent adolescent-parent and adolescent-peer relationships. family members. A sample of 699 families located This study of 508 families, composed of adolescents in a large northeastern city was analyzed, with aged 12 to 18, found the level of self-concept the most powerful results from this study being a possessed by adolescents, along with the degree consistent linear relationship among the variables of of parental support they received, was related to cohesion and functionality of the family members. the ability of the adolescent to obtain healthy peer More specifically, a cohesive family possesses greater relationships. Further, adolescents who were found individual member functionality, appropriate parent- to have a more fulfilling relationship with parents child communication, significant marital agreement, had healthier relationships with peers. Parents who and applicable adolescent children behavioral built fulfilling relationships with their adolescents outcomes. However, the study represented only the were more knowledgeable about their adolescents’ population of a large northeastern metropolitan area, activities and veered away from the use of love leaving out all other populations. withdrawal as a method of discipline. Yet, Dekovic and Meeus’ use of the cross-sectional methodology That year, Roberts and Bengtson (1993) also resulted in an inability to determine causality. conducted a longitudinal study to determine how quality of the parent-child relationship affects the Steinberg (2001) conducted a literature review to young adults psychologically. Completing the study answer two questions: Is adolescence a time of were 293 parent-child pairs, with the child being parent-child conflict, and How do variations in a 14-year-old adolescent. The results noted that the parent-child relationship affect the developing parent-child affection did affect the levels of filial adolescent? The findings noted that day-to-day self-esteem during periods of late adolescence and conflicts over what psychologists considered normal early adulthood. On the other hand, the researchers issues were not relevant to adolescents but did cause also reported that individuals in possession of adult worry for parents. Furthermore, parents’ actions were roles such as jobs, marriage partners and children, found to be important even when children reached were less affected by their personal parent-child adolescence, with the authoritative parenting style relationship in regard to their levels of self-esteem being related to the developmental outcomes of self- and psychological well-being. The study supported reliance, achievement motivation, pro-social behavior, that affection established early in the parent-child self-control, cheerfulness, and social confidence. relationship remained a psychological benefit even Steinberg noted that this information is not beneficial after the children reached adulthood. Roberts and unless parents are educated about the findings. Bengtson, however, were unable to incorporate Flouri and Buchanan (2003) determined that parental “direct measures of identity salience” in their study; involvement notably affected adolescents’ levels of thus, only indefinite inferences can be made (p. 274). psychological well-being based on their study of In his longitudinal study, Amato (1994) argued that 2,722 British adolescents whose ages ranged from 14 the degree of attachment possessed independently to 18. More specifically, they noted the psychological in both father-child and mother-child relationships well-being concept of happiness was positively related were positively related to the grown children’s to self-efficacy and age while being negatively related psychological well-being. This national study of 471 to feelings of depression. However, limitations were young adult participants discovered that closeness noted in the areas of single-item proxies, clustering, to mothers and fathers correlated positively with and the cross-sectional nature of the study (Flouri offspring happiness and life satisfaction while also & Buchanan). Dmitrieva and associates' (2004) significantly contributing to increased offspring study of 201 United States adolescents, 502 Chinese © 2009 National Middle School Association 4 RMLE Online—Volume 33, No. 4 adolescents, 497 Korean adolescents, and 495 Czech aged participants and their parents involved in a Republic adolescents showed that perceived parental GEAR UP program (Gaining Early Awareness of involvement and parent-adolescent conflict influenced Readiness for Undergraduate programs) supported negative life events. Further, poorer quality of parent- the hypothesis that as perceived parental involvement adolescent relationships was found to influence increases so does the adolescents’ self-concept. levels of adolescent depressed mood. Consequently, In addition, the increased use of growth-fostering the family-related life events and adolescent relationships also improved adolescents’ self-concept. problem behaviors were influenced by lower levels Gibson and Jefferson noted that sample size, self- of perceived parental involvement, higher levels of reporting, number of measured items, and the parent-adolescent conflict, and perceived parental specificity of the population were possible limitations. restrictions of adolescent misconduct. In conclusion, To review, previous research supports the hypothesis the coherent theme that parents’ behaviors do affect that high levels of perceived parental involvement do how adolescents evaluate themselves and how they positively affect adolescents’ sense of psychological deal with life events was clearly illustrated. The well-being, especially in the areas of self-esteem and cross-sectional nature of the study, dependence on self-evaluation (Amato, 1994; Amato & Ochiltree, adolescent self-reports, and use of restricted samples, 1986; Buri et al., 1987; Flouri & Buchanan, 2003; were weaknesses of the study (Dmitrieva et al.). Gecas, 1971; Gibson & Jefferson, 2006; Roberts & Wilkinson (2004) analyzed and conducted three Bengtson, 1993). Furthermore, studies by Dekovic studies consisting of high school-aged participants and Meeus (1997) and Wilkinson (2004) support the to identify the correlation between adolescents’ argument a relationship exists between perceived psychological health and parental attachment, peer parental involvement, levels of self-esteem at attachment, and self-esteem. The first study included adolescence, and peer relationships. Dmitrieva and 1,998 Norwegian participants, with the second study associates (2004) proposed that even the frequency including 358 Australian participants, and the third of negative familial life events affected perceived study including 345 Australian participants. The parental involvement and parent-adolescent conflict. result indicated self-esteem was a determinate of Finally, Gecas and Schwalbe (1986) found that how influential peer and parental attachment were although parents and adolescents do not agree in their in regards to adolescent psychological health. The views of parental involvement, adolescents use their adolescents’ level of self-esteem determined how perceptions of parental involvement to judge personal impactful peer and parental relationships were in levels of self-worth, self-efficacy, and self-esteem. determining their psychological health. Furthermore, the results showed that parent-adolescent relationships Parenting Styles influenced the peer relationships that formed later. Parenting styles are defined as the behaviors, However, these studies were also cross-sectional in attitudes, and values parents use to determine how nature, and Wilkinson noted that longitudinal data they interact with their children (Mussen, 1983). would be a useful addition to the research. The three parenting styles presented here are the Doyle and Markiewicz’s (2005) study of 175 authoritarian/autocratic, the authoritative/democratic, adolescents suggested that parenting does affect and the permissive/laissez-faire. These parenting adolescents’ ability to adjust. Greater levels of styles were first introduced during a study conducted psychological control were found to increase by Baumrind (1966). Each style demonstrates a adolescents’ ability to internalize problems. Further, particular relationship that occurs between the parents parental warmth was found to foretell an increase in and children at a specific point in time. Relationships adolescents’ self-esteem while also foreshadowing initiated during childhood affect how adolescents a decrease in adolescents’ ability to externalize view their parents’ availability and form relationships problems. Doyle and Markiewicz noted that the sample with others. (Baumrind 2005; Chan & Chan, 2005; size and number of measured items used were limited, Santrock, 1990). The diversity of parenting styles and the use of self-reporting also weakened the study. is further explained by the characteristics of each style. Therefore, this section of the article includes Gibson and Jefferson (2006) investigated whether extensive definitions of each parenting style and the the self-concept of adolescents was affected by research related to each to analyze which parenting their relationships with family, peers, mentors, and style may be the most effective for positively community groups. This study of 78 middle school- impacting adolescent psychological well-being. © 2009 National Middle School Association 5 RMLE Online—Volume 33, No. 4 Authoritarian/Autocratic Parenting Style who exercise the authoritative/democratic parenting Chan and Chan (2005), Mussen (1983), Santrock style are notably “often cheerful, self-controlled, (1990, 2004) described the authoritarian parenting self-reliant, achievement-oriented, maintain friendly style as confining and punishing. Parents demand relations with peers, cooperate with adults, and cope adolescents comply with their rules while also well with stress” (Santrock, 2004, p. 277). demanding adolescents meet their standards for Permissive/Laissez-Faire Parenting Style work and effort in whatever they do. Parents using Parents who use the permissive parenting style this parenting style enforce strict boundaries and establish miniscule amounts of control and are restraints on the adolescent and submit to only a unavailable to aid their children throughout minute amount of compromise. Parents who use decision-making processes (Chan & Chan, 2005). this technique are the “bosses” and intend to have Santrock (1990) divided the permissive/laissez- complete control over their adolescents’ behaviors faire parenting style into two separate techniques; and activities (Mussen; Santrock 1990, 2004). This the permissive indifferent parenting style and the parent-adolescent relationship is described as one permissive indulgent parenting style. Parents who of giving and taking of commands with little other use the permissive indifferent parenting style do communication present. Adolescent behaviors not participate in their adolescents’ lives (Santrock, associated with this parenting style are “anxiety and 2004). They are thought to be heedless and impassive. social comparison, failure to initiate activity, and Adolescent behaviors associated with this parenting ineffective social interaction” (Santrock, 1990, p. 214). style are non-existence of self-control, social Further, these children are notably “unhappy, fearful, incompetence, inability to handle independence, anxious about comparing themselves with others, fail possession of low self-esteem, immaturity, and to initiate activity, and have weak communication possible alienation from the family (Mussen, 1983; skills” (Santrock, 2004, p. 277). Santrock, 2004). The behavioral patterns of truancy Authoritative/Democratic Parenting Style and delinquency are also evident (Santrock, 2004). Steinberg (2001) described the authoritative/ On the other hand, parents who use the permissive democratic parenting style in this way: “Parents indulgent parenting style require nothing; they are warm and involved, but firm and consistent completely accept and submit to their adolescents in establishing and enforcing guidelines, limits, (Santrock, 1990, 2004). Santrock explained that and developmentally appropriate expectations” parents who use this parenting style are very involved (p. 7). Santrock (1990, 2004) further described in their adolescents’ lives but also encourage freedom authoritative/democratic parenting as a style that in behaviors and actions. Consequently, adolescents advocates independence while still maintaining develop behaviors such as a disregard for rules and boundaries and structure over actions. This support the expectation that anything and everything is of independence or autonomy allows for “a sense of allowed (Santrock, 1990). Further, this parenting style self-efficacy, agency, and individuation that enable leads to a lack of respect and an inability to control persons to be self-determining” (Baumrind, 2005, p. personal behaviors; these children or adolescents may 67). Parents using this technique allow compromise be “domineering, egocentric, non-compliant, and and are noted as being the most flexible in their have difficulties in peer relation” (Santrock, 2004, regulation of behaviors. Regulation of behaviors is p. 277). completed through explanation rather than enforcing stern punishment (Baumrind; Chan & Chan, Research Conducted on Parenting Styles 2005). The authoritative/democratic parent also Research related to the different parenting styles often uses communication styles that create a nurturing focuses on the authoritative pattern, with Baumrind environment for their adolescents, while parents being noted as one of the leading researchers on exhibit pleasure and support to them (Mussen, the topic (Baumrind, 1996, 2005; Mussen, 1983; 1983; Santrock). These parents openly show deep Santrock, 1990; Santrock, 2004). Steinberg’s (2001) caring for their children and determination to know description of the authoritative/democratic parenting their whereabouts and the events occurring in their style was also mentioned often throughout the lives. This parenting style also supports parental research. In addition, Steinberg noted the actions participation and emphasizes setting behavioral of parents were considered significant both during boundaries while allowing psychological exploration adolescence and after adolescence. More specifically, (Baumrind; Mussen; Santrock). Children of parents he indicated the authoritative parenting style was © 2009 National Middle School Association 6 RMLE Online—Volume 33, No. 4 related to the positive developmental outcomes of levels of adolescent self-esteem, and adjustment, along “self-reliance, achievement motivation, pro-social with higher levels of intrinsic motivation for learning behavior, self-control, cheerfulness, and social (Baumrind, 1966, 2005; Buri et al., 1987; Doyle & confidence” (p. 13). However, Steinberg did note that Markiewicz, 2005; Gecas, 1971; Ginsburg & Bronstein, obtaining this information is not enough. Parents 1993; Steinberg, 2001). It is important to note that the need to be educated about findings related to normal manner in which these parenting styles are expressed in adolescent development and competent parenting various cultures has not been reviewed here and should during adolescence along with familial changes that be a focus of future research. are occurring during this time period. Limitations Further, Gecas (1971) found that parental behaviors of support were positively related to adolescents' self- The majority of the studies reviewed and presented evaluations. Buri and colleagues (1987) discovered that used self-reported data procedures (Dmitrieva et al., parental nurturance associated with the authoritative 2004; Doyle & Markiewicz, 2005). Self-reporting is parenting style is related significantly to adolescents' an issue due to the unavoidable connection between self-esteem. Furthermore, Doyle and Markiewicz parents and adolescents; the possibility exists that (2005) noted that parenting does affect adolescents’ this relationship causes alteration of answers, making ability to adjust, with parental warmth being an aspect them unreliable. Second, the number of measurement of the authoritative parenting style and an indicator of sources used to determine relationships in the studies adolescent self-esteem. Each study found statistically conducted by Doyle and Markiewicz and Gibson significant results, but also had limitations; Gecas and Jefferson (2006), were noted as insufficient; the noted a need for exploration of additional self- more measurements used to determine a relationship, evaluation reference points such as self-satisfaction and the more accurate the results will be (Gibson & happiness. Buri and colleagues noted results were not Jefferson). The third weakness was the inability of representative of a mass population due to the specific previous research to determine causality of an event characteristics of the group studied. Additionally, or relationship due to the cross-sectional nature of Doyle and Markiewicz noted their sample size and the some studies (Dekovic & Meeus, 1997; Dmitrieva number of measured items used were limitations, with et al., 2004; Flouri & Buchanan, 2003; Gecas & adolescent self-reporting also a weakness of the study. Schwalbe, 1986; Wilkinson, 2004). This limitation refers to the inability to determine whether a concept Additional authoritative parenting research or relationship caused another concept or relationship (Baumrind, 1966) noted that higher levels of parental to occur. For instance, does a negative adolescent- warmth and behavioral control were directly correlated parent relationship cause an adolescent to possess with levels of adjustment for children of varied psychological distress or does the adolescent’s ages. Moreover, a study conducted by Baumrind psychological distress cause a negative adolescent- in 1991 found that youth raised in an authoritative parent relationship to occur? parenting style environment were more competent and capable of adjusting (Baumrind, 2005). Finally, Fourth, sample sizes of studies such as those conducted a study conducted by Ginsburg and Bronstein (1993) by Buri and colleagues (1987), Doyle and Markiewicz discovered the authoritative parenting style was (2005), and Farrell and Barnes (1993) were noted as correlated to children’s levels of intrinsic motivation being minute and, therefore, not sizeable enough to for learning. However, no causal inferences can be create statistically significant results. Finally, studies made with Ginsburg and Bronstein’s study due to the such as those conducted by Dmitrieva and associates correlational nature of the study. (2004), Gecas (1971), Gibson and Jefferson (2006), and Roberts and Bengtson (1993) noted limited To review, the authoritarian/autocratic, the authoritative/ samples that were not representative of all adolescents, democratic, and the permissive/laissez-faire parenting resulting in overrepresentation of white, middle-class styles were discussed in great detail with the positive families (Steinberg, 2001). Especially within studies of impact of the authoritative/democratic parenting style parenting styles, a focus on replicating studies across being evident. The authoritative/democratic parenting various diverse cultures would be beneficial. However, style was noted for being influential during and after one of the strengths of the research addressing parental adolescence. Furthermore, this parenting style was involvement is that studies were implemented in also found to be related to positive developmental various environments in the United States, Norway, outcomes, positive adolescent self-evaluations, higher Korea, the Czech Republic, and Britain. © 2009 National Middle School Association 7 RMLE Online—Volume 33, No. 4 Finally, a dearth of studies exists connecting parenting communication styles, parenting styles, and student styles directly with increases in academic achievement. perceptions of parental involvement to improving It is important to continue research into parent impacts family involvement at school and promote the creation on social, emotional, and educational development of strong home and school bonds? Recent research of students. Connecting these areas with academic has shown that parental involvement in schools can achievement would enable education stakeholders positively impact achievement in mathematics (Sirvani, to create targeted and informed interventions with 2007), and literacy (Whitmore & Norton-Meier, families to impact achievement. 2008) and that parental involvement in middle school can positively impact future high school graduation Implications for Middle Schools (Englund, Egeland, & Collins, 2008). Combining the academic consequences with the personal and social Obviously, adolescents’ relationship with their influences detailed above illustrates the importance parents impacts multiple areas of their development. of perceived parental involvement in adolescent How can middle schools apply insights into positive development (see Table 1). Table 1 Role and Impact of Selected Education Stakeholders Education Stakeholder Role Possible Impact Administrators a) Create school-based parent nights, a) Highlight healthy parent-adolescent such as educational service nights and relationships. community events. b) Educate parents about the relationship b) Model appropriate communication skills between perceived parental involvement, in student assistance teams; Individual levels of self-esteem at adolescence, Education Programs; and other school- and peer relationships. based interactions with teachers, parents, c) P arental involvement in schools can and students. positively impact achievement in c) Create other various opportunities at mathematics and literacy. Parental traditional and non-traditional times for involvement in middle school can parents to become involved in school positively impact future high school activities. graduation. Teachers a) Model appropriate communication skills, a) Highlight healthy parent-adolescent illustrate important information, and relationships. support adolescents’ growth through b) P arental involvement in schools can curriculum guidance meetings with positively impact achievement in parents and students. mathematics, in literacy. Parental b) Require parents to sign paperwork at involvement in middle school can school to create interactions between positively impact future high school parents, teachers, and students. graduation. School Counselors a) Create and provide professional a) Assist students in identifying changing development that would allow family roles, and enhance adolescents’ administration, faculty and staff, use of effective communication. parents and community members to b) A ssist students in setting and achieving gain the knowledge and skills necessary academic goals; balancing school to support adolescents to fulfill their and life experiences; and receiving emotional, physical, and psychological support from faculty, staff, family and needs and reach academic goals. peers when dealing with negative life b) C reate parent discussion groups. situations. c) L ead parent education nights. c) Educate parents about the relationship 1) Send parenting information home. between perceived parental involvement, 2) Provide educational opportunities at levels of self-esteem at adolescence, and a variety of times for parents working peer relationships. non-traditional work hours to attend. Note: Table illustrates the possible impact administrators, teachers, and school counselors can have by creating participatory opportunities and educational opportunities for parents in middle schools. © 2009 National Middle School Association 8 RMLE Online—Volume 33, No. 4 It seems a logical first step would be efforts to educate model behaviors to demonstrate caring and support. parents about the impact their involvement has on Understanding the impact of parenting styles, both the academic and personal development of their perceptions of parent-child relationships, and divorce adolescents. Schools should shift their focus from gives administration, faculty, staff, parents, and asking for parental involvement to providing school- community members deeper insight into adolescents’ based educational sessions that educate parents about perceptions of life events. Therefore, implementing the personal, social, and educational benefits for parent nights and parent discussion groups enhances students that occur as a result of parental involvement parental involvement and also emphasizes the value and using the authoritative/democratic parenting style. adolescents place on their relationships with their Some parents may simply need to be educated about parents. Community members can also be included how their interest in their adolescents’ behaviors, through an “adopt an adolescent” program, increasing interests, and activities emphasizes parental caring the opportunity to bond with a caring adult for and impacts adolescents’ sense of psychological well- students at-risk due to family circumstances. After- being, especially in the areas of self-esteem and self- school programs emphasizing parent involvement evaluation (Amato, 1994; Amato & Ochiltree, 1986; should also be considered. Many of the programs and Buri et al., 1987; Flouri & Buchanan, 2003; Gecas, ideas suggested above could be implemented by the 1971; Gibson & Jefferson, 2006; Roberts & Bengtson, middle school counselor. 1993; Stattin & Kerr, 2000). School counselors can coordinate parent nights to implement such Implications for Middle School Counselors educational experiences. The school administration The American School Counseling Association can also take steps to incorporate parents and families (ASCA) National Model for school counseling in the life of the school. Teachers can work to create programs emphasizes the need for all education opportunities within their classroom for parent stakeholders to become active in student welfare; volunteers. In addition, teachers can collaborate students, parents, faculty and staff, administrators, with both school counselors and administrators and community members are all considered to support the parent education nights, the parent important education stakeholders (ASCA, 2005). groups, and other educational experiences. In their Collaboration between these individuals allows for meetings with parents, teachers can use language multifaceted resources and interventions that support that models appropriate and healthy communication every student in achieving academic success. Middle styles, especially when students are present and when school counselors coordinate and lead collaboration interacting with students. and teamwork within the school and community Administration can implement registration nights environments. Middle school counselors are valuable and ensure teachers send paperwork home with resources to school stakeholders, as they provide students after planning sessions to be returned with a developmentally appropriate services, comprehensive parent’s signature, first steps toward creating home- interventions and programs, and create links between school partnerships. Requiring parent involvement all individuals involved in students’ education in the curriculum planning process would create an (ASCA), whether these individuals are in the school, additional environment in which parents and students home, or community. can communicate, problem solve, empathize, and plan Obviously, adolescents’ relationships with their together. Parent-teacher-administration discussion parents impacts multiple areas of their development. groups and inservices can be used to provide Therefore, interventions from the four delivery education stakeholders with the information and tools systems in the ASCA model need to be included in a they need to assist adolescents with communication of school’s comprehensive school counseling program. their emotional, physical, and psychological needs as A comprehensive school counseling program attempts well as their academic goals. to reach and support all students using multiple Further, stakeholders can learn about the different resources while also focusing on the promotion of a styles that are used to discipline adolescent students healthy parent-adolescent relationship (ASCA, 2005). in their home environments, implications of these This article illustrated many areas in the school and styles, and strategies to mediate the effects of the home life in which middle school counselors could adolescent behaviors associated with each parenting intervene to positively impact parent-adolescent style. Educational stakeholders can also learn and relationships and adolescent self-perceptions. © 2009 National Middle School Association 9 RMLE Online—Volume 33, No. 4 Guidance curriculum can be used when working with psychological needs as well as their academic goals. adolescents to help coordinate important resources Further, stakeholders can learn about the different inside and outside the school and teach students styles that are used to discipline adolescent students coping strategies for dealing with stress, conflict, in their home environments, implications of these and peer pressure that may result from their parental styles, and strategies to mediate the effects of the relationships. Students can learn about the effects adolescent behaviors associated with each parenting their relationships with their parents may have on style. Education stakeholders can also learn and them, both positive and negative. Further, students model behaviors to demonstrate caring and support. can practice and learn communication skills to use in Understanding the impact of parenting styles and different situations with their parents, thus increasing perceptions of parent-child relationships gives the amount of communication and involvement administration, faculty, staff, parents, and community parents demonstrate. Students can also learn how members deeper insight into adolescents’ perceptions to better identify signs of parental involvement as of life events. Therefore, implementing parent nights well as behaviors parents exhibit that are meant and parent discussion groups enhances parental to be supportive. Guidance curriculum allows involvement and also emphasizes the value adolescents entire classrooms of students to be taught valuable place on their relationships with their parents. Other information and to practice and model new skills sensitive topics such as divorce can also be discussed (ASCA, 2005). to increase knowledge and change home and school practices. Community members can also be included Individual student planning can be used when through an “adopt an adolescent” program increasing students need assistance in setting and achieving the opportunity to bond with a caring adult for academic goals and balancing school and life students at-risk due to family circumstances. experiences. This type of one-on-one planning with counselors provides students with the educational Middle school counselors can use information support to meet academic goals (ASCA, 2005). from this article to create interventions in the Middle school counselors can also invite parents to school, community, and home that meet numerous participate in the planning process, which creates ASCA National Standards. These standards can additional opportunities for communication and be met through interventions within the guidance collaboration. Hopefully, these activities would create curriculum, individual student planning, responsive common goals and language parents and students services, and system support delivery systems. could use to strengthen their relationship. Standards related to supporting parent-student relationships include: Responsive services such as independent and group counseling interventions can be used when students • A:B1.4 – Seek information and support from need support from faculty, staff, family, and peers faculty, staff, family, and peers to deal with situations such as divorce or changing • A:C1.1 – Demonstrate the ability to balance family roles (ASCA, 2005). Individual counseling school, studies, extracurricular activities, provides students with a role model and a confidante leisure time, and family life that may not be present in their home lives. This • PS:A1.1 – Develop positive attitudes toward research report emphasizes the need for guidance and self as a unique and worthy person support by an adult figure. In this case, the school • PS:A1.2 – Identify values, attitudes and beliefs counselor may be that individual who can work with • PS:A1.11 – Identify and discuss changing the student to increase communication at home. personal and social roles Group counseling also promotes the use of effective • PS:A1.12 – Identify and recognize changing communication by allowing the adolescents to learn family roles how to identify problems and determine causes and • PS:A2.5 – Recognize and respect differences consequences of their actions in a group—much like in various family configurations a family environment (ASCA). • PS:A2.6 – Use effective communication skills • PS:A2.7 – Know that communication involves Additionally, system support forums such as speaking, listening and nonverbal behavior discussion groups and inservices can be used to • PS:C1.10 – Learn techniques for managing provide education stakeholders with the information stress and conflict and tools they need to assist adolescents with • PS:C1.11 – Learn coping skills for managing communication of their emotional, physical, and life events © 2009 National Middle School Association 10