Mathematically Talented Children: How Can Parents Help? Jennifer V. Rotigel and Michael J. Bossé “My son used to love math. Now, I see him struggling and bored.” “My daughter is so turned off from math in school that needs, including additional resources, experiences, and I need to do something with her at home. But, I don’t opportunities, to continue his pursuit of advanced mathe- know what.” matics. Every child should get what she needs to reach her “I have always been very involved in my child’s educa- potential. We cannot measure one child by the rule of the tion. But, his math is now going far beyond what I know. majority or by an equal distribution of resources. Rather, It is now out of my league. I don’t know what to do.” we believe that the educational system should provide all “I don’t know how to get the school system to challenge children with everything that they need to progress as far my daughter in mathematics. I don’t want her to lose the as they can. Nothing less will do, even for children who are edge she has.” truly gifted and advanced beyond their peers. We are not encouraging parents, whether through school or home, to These and many other comments come from parents provide their child more than all other children get, but throughout our nation. In this article, we will provide rather that they provide experiences that are consistent some recommendations for parents who want to facilitate with, and appropriate for, the needs of their child. the continuing mathematical development of their math- Second, it is very important for parents to honestly and ematically talented child. The objective of assisting parents objectively assess the mathematical level of their child. is central to the text, not mathematics per se. As authors Despite best wishes, not every child is an Einstein, nor is and professional educators, we are also parents who want every child average. Parents must work with educational to support other parents who are looking for ways to posi- and psychological experts using numerous assessment tively enhance their child’s mathematical learning and strategies and examinations to clearly understand both the experiences. This article considers various aspects that ability and the learning style preferences of their child in affect mathematically talented students and may have a order to best ascertain how to help the child progress even positive or negative impact on their continuing pursuits to further. For the purposes of this article, we will not quibble learn more mathematics. over vocabulary. All too often, the terms gifted, advanced, and talented are politically heated and carry agendas that Five Foundational Issues do not necessarily relate to a child’s ability. This article will use the singular term mathematically talented to denote a Before we provide recommendations regarding how student whose abilities are above the norm. We will refrain parents can help their mathematically talented child, it is from differentiating how much or little above the norm important for parents to understand a few philosophical is a mathematically talented student. It is up to parents, beliefs we hold. First, your child deserves all the help he together with the child, the teacher, and the school sys- gifted child today 17 Mathematically Talented Children: How Can Parents Help? tem, to first determine if the child is own home and make the best choices port these students, some schools talented before making educational accordingly. have implemented excellent instruc- decisions for the child. Fifth, many cultural dynamics tional programs and competitions for Notably, however, many means affect mathematically advanced chil- mathematically talents students. It beyond scholastic assessments are dren. Parents must be aware of pres- is incumbent upon parents to inves- available to lead to an intuitive belief sure that will be placed on the child tigate their local schools to ascertain that a child is mathematically talented. to conform to lower standards by what is offered. Some schools will Many parents recognize in their child peers, culture, and even the school have in place resources, teachers, and unusual mathematical talent, preco- system. Additional factors inhibit experiences that fit well for the math- ciousness, or an unusual level of inter- girls from pursuing advanced math- ematically talented child. These may est in mathematics at a young age. ematics. Thus, parents must become include honors courses, gifted and Some notice that mathematical skills advocates for, and allies with, their talented clubs and course work, and and understandings usually associ- child in pursuing mathematical expe- association with mathematical com- ated with significantly older children riences that will allow her to reaching petitions. We encourage parents to are evidenced in their child. Parents her fullest potential in mathematics. speak with school personnel and find should understand the mathemati- Additionally, parents must recognize the best placement for their child. cal development of their child before the burden that meeting the needs When systems already exist, parents attempting to significantly alter his or of a mathematically talented child will typically find that schools are her world. may impose on the family. As with a willing to accept students into these Third, ability is not synonymous star athlete who may need coaching, activities to maintain adequate enroll- with interest. Not every child wishes special training, and numerous expe- ments so they may continue to offer such experiences. to continue to pursue his study of riences far beyond the needs of aver- If, on the other hand, parents find mathematics beyond that offered age students in order to meet their that their local public schools do not in the regular classroom. You must advanced potential, the needs of a provide adequate programs for math- know your child and determine with mathematically talented student also ematically talented students, parents may impact the time and resources her input whether she wishes to con- must be simultaneously firm and of a family. Parents, and indeed the tinue in her studies of mathematics. sensitive toward schools, administra- entire family, must be willing to sacri- Although your child may be mathe- tions, and teachers in order to procure fice to meet the needs of such a child. matically gifted, if he is disinterested, additional assistance and resources for With these preliminary consid- too much parental encouragement the mathematically talented student. erations in place, we now provide may be interpreted as additional and Parents must strenuously advocate parents with recommendations for unwanted pressure. Thus, some stu- for their child’s mathematical devel- furthering their child’s mathemati- dents who lack interest in mathemat- opment while being sensitive to the cal pursuits. These recommendations ics may still be very advanced in the constraints under which schools, will be differentiated by whether or subject. Just because mathematics administrators, and teachers exist. not they primarily occur in respect to may be easy does not mean a child is Whereas parents must sympathize the school system or extracurricular interested in the topic. when the entire school system is over- experiences. We begin by considering Fourth, one size does not fit all. extended, they must also passionately parental involvement with the child’s Not every parent is competent to per- seek the resources and experiences that school system. sonally assist a child with the study their child both needs and deserves of advanced mathematics. Parents in order to reach her mathematical Navigating should not place undo pressure and potential. Parents may be forced to guilt on themselves. Rather, they the School System walk an emotional tightrope with the should consider these recommenda- school system. tions and find those that best meet the Parents are not always fully aware Some schools simply do not pro- needs of their child and the family as of the numerous activities avail- vide adequate instructional resources a whole. Every child and every home able to their mathematically gifted for mathematically talented students. is different. Parents must be cognizant child through some public schools. Occasionally, inadequate program- of the many dynamics within their In an effort to both attract and sup- ming is due to a school or admin- 18 winter 2007 • vol 30, no 1 Mathematically Talented Children: How Can Parents Help? istrator taking the position that parents and schools and participate in ents must guard. First, many teachers advanced children are already blessed the decision-making regarding their simply pile extra work on talented and all additional resources should academic future. Parents should ask students. Although no malice may be expended on the masses of stu- their child if she believes that there is be intended, the workload can easily dents who need greater assistance. too much repetition and practice of be overwhelming. So, in an attempt More often, failure to provide addi- basic skills. Does the teacher provide to make positive accommodations for tional resources to advanced students too much time to complete a task? talented students, some schools bury is simply a result of severely limited Are students allowed to read or work the desire to excel under a mountain resources that require school person- on other tasks while waiting for other of meaningless and time-consuming nel to make difficult choices regarding students to finish an assignment? homework. Second, well-meaning school programs and program deliv- Understanding the child’s perspective teachers often use mathematically ery. Teachers are already stretched to on the events of the school day may talented students as free teacher their limit with multiple classes, large provide parents and school admin- aides and tutors for other students. class sizes, inclusion of special needs istrators with better insight into the Although some may argue that learn- students, documentation require- needs of the child. ing is accentuated when one has the ments, and endless meetings. Parents • Create positive accommodations. opportunity to teach, this practice must simultaneously be intolerant of Through their attempts to provide removes from the mathematically schools that refuse to provide services mathematically talented students talented child the opportunity to for advanced students for misguided with more challenging and enriching encounter and learn additional math- philosophical reasons and sensitive learning experiences, some schools ematics commensurate with his or her to schools that are attempting to do may implement one or more objec- abilities. They may be learning the old their very best with paltry resources at tionable practices against which par- mathematics more fully, but they are hand. To this latter scenario, we offer the following recommendations. • Form a team. Parents should get to know their child’s school well. They College of William & Mary should investigate what resources exist Center for Gifted Education and which teachers support the more mathematically talented students. Williamsburg, Virginia Parents should ensure that the rela- tionship between them and the school announces the 12th is polite, respectful, and never adver- sarial. If parents and school person- nel can form a team in support of the National Curriculum Network Conference child, success will be more assured. Reflecting on Effective Practice • Communicate with your child. In March 14-16, 2007 seeking additional resources for their child, parents should understand the sometimes cryptic complaints of their Featuring child. “I’m bored,” hardly adequately explicates the needs of the student. Is Joyce VanTassel-Baska, College of William and Mary, VA he bored because he doesn’t like the Michael Thompson,San Juan, PR subject matter, the delivery methods, Catherine Little, University of Connecticut, CT the pacing, or the low level of the content? Parents must communicate Registration materials available at www.cfge.wm.edu/ncnc.php or contact the effectively with their child in order to Center at 757-221-2166 or [email protected] best ascertain what she needs from the school. Advanced students are usually continued on page ?? more able to communicate with their gifted child today 19 Mathematically Talented Children: How Can Parents Help? not having the opportunity to see new understanding of mathematics rather the mathematics that is taught materials and gain new knowledge. than mechanistic procedural knowl- and enhances students’ learn- Various methods of accommoda- edge. To this end, teachers can lead ing. (p. 16) tions and advancement are available students to continually ask why certain for students who are academically mathematical concepts or procedures NCTM’s text also distinguishes two advanced. Through careful consider- hold, investigate mathematical theo- types of standards and characterizes ation and negotiation with the school, rems and definitions, develop alter- them as: the parent may negotiate some strate- nate mathematical systems, and raise gies to provide their child with what their own mathematical questions. It The Content Standards—Num- he needs. Some of the strategies to is important for teachers to lead these ber and Operations, Algebra, provide the student with involve- students to look more deeply into Geometry, Measurement, and ment with more advanced math- common mathematics seen in regular Data Analysis and Probabil- ematics include: early admission to classrooms. This can be accomplished ity—explicitly describe the con- Kindergarten, middle school, high by connecting instruction and investi- tent that students should learn. school, or college; placement into gations to the recommendations pro- The Process Standards—Prob- more advanced classes or grades, by vided in the Principles and Standards lem Solving, Reasoning and individual subject or in toto; grade for School Mathematics (NCTM, Proof, Communication, Connec- skipping; compacting material within 2000). This volume of mathematics tions, and Representation—high- a grade level; continuous progress or education reform recommendations light ways of acquiring and using self-paced instruction; and mentoring defines its principles as: content knowledge. (p. 30) and extracurricular programs. Each of these strategies carries its inherent Equity. Excellence in math- Although parents may need to have strengths and weaknesses. Parents, ematics education requires this list with them as they discuss vari- together with the child, the teachers, equity—high expectations and ous curricular options with teachers, and the administrators must deter- strong support for all students. mathematics teachers should already mine what is best for the student. Curriculum. A curriculum is be well aware of NCTM’s recom- Teachers have much control over more than a collection of activi- mendations and how to apply them what is taught in their class and what ties: it must be coherent, focused in their instruction. instructional practices they use in on important mathematics, • Become aware of alternative experi- their classes. Teachers can significantly and well articulated across the ences. When parents find it impossible affect the mathematics that students grades. to procure the requisite resources and encounter by making alterations in Teaching. Effective mathe- experiences that their mathematically the pace, breadth, and depth of the matics teaching requires under- mathematics instruction. Each of standing what students know talented child needs from their local these factors can revolutionize a stu- and need to learn and then chal- public schools, other alternatives exist. dent’s experience and reinvigorate her lenging and supporting them to Charter schools for students more pursuit of mathematics. Other tech- learn it well. interested and talented in the sciences niques that are less dramatic include Learning. Students must and mathematics are continually teachers selecting more appropri- learn mathematics with under- coming into existence. More univer- ate sets of homework problems for standing, actively building new sities and high schools are providing mathematically talented students knowledge from experience and students with opportunities to take and teachers focusing on providing prior knowledge. classes via computers while off cam- students with various experiences in Assessment. Assessment should pus. These distance education models reading, analyzing, synthesizing, and support the learning of important take many forms; some are via video evaluating mathematical books and mathematics and furnish useful conferencing, and others are provided passages. information to both teachers and over the Internet and through numer- Classroom teachers should focus students. ous types of interactive Web sites. on developing within all students, Technology. Technology is Often, students are allowed to enter and certainly within mathematically essential in teaching and learn- online courses that they would not be talented students, deep conceptual ing mathematics; it influences able to attend in a traditional face-to- 20 winter 2007 • vol 30, no 1 Mathematically Talented Children: How Can Parents Help? face style. Finally, and as a transition students the mathematics that the mathematics on their own can be to providing mathematical experi- mentor encounters daily in his work. fulfilling for both the child and the ences to advanced students through Thus, the materials covered may be parents. Both parents and the child the home, many families have opted very different. In fact, processes of are often surprised to see all of the for either single family homeschool- tutoring and mentoring may differ possibilities that surround them ing or joining homeschool associa- significantly and proceed toward dif- daily. Unfortunately, many parents tions. ferent ends. Although this brief article all too quickly dismiss opportunities cannot fully explicate all of the dis- in which they find difficulty discov- Providing Resources tinctions with respect to tutors and ering the mathematical connections. mentors, it is nevertheless incumbent For instance, video games are unde- Through the Home upon the parent to carefully weigh niably programmed with sophisti- the merits of both and to participate cated “logical engines” in which users Many parents, for a number of fully in the selection of one or both unconsciously use mathematics and reasons, are seeking assistance to help for their child. logic to conquer the playing environ- their mathematically talented child to Selecting either a tutor or a men- ment. Many other opportunities also continue her mathematical pursuits tor can prove to be daunting. Either abound and provide opportunities through arenas outside of the class- must be chosen to complement both to encounter mathematics in stimu- room. Today, countless opportunities the child’s temperament and the fam- lating ways. Every hobby or interest are available to them, and generally, ily’s concerns. College students often can be reinvestigated mathematically. these will fall into three groups: com- make some of the most convenient From the arts (e.g., music, singing, munity resources and mentors, encour- and cost effective tutors. However, dance, photography, painting, color, aging children to discover mathematics college student tutors may lack suf- perspective, texture), to hobbies (e.g., on their own, and technological tools ficient mathematical understanding, model making, kite flying, cooking, that are available to all. knowledge of the interconnectedness collecting, crafts, puzzles, reading), of mathematical topics, and skills with to sports (e.g., individual and team, Community Resources best instructional practices. Teachers statistics, strategies), to socializing and Mentors and professors also work well, but are (e.g., communicating, cell phones, often quite busy and cannot devote the instant messaging), to technology, Community resources include the time needed by the child. Mentors are and so forth, all hobbies and interests countless number of people in any generally found from more academic, can be mathematized. In so doing, community who are particularly skill- scientific, and business fields by net- the mathematically talented child ful in mathematics. These may include working within community groups can further his investigation of math- mathematicians, scientists, engineers, and acquaintances. It is important ematics through a medium in which accountants, professors, teachers, and for the student to understand that the he is already interested. While this others who use mathematics regu- mentor has expertise in certain mathe- certainly enhances the interest level of larly. Parents are encouraged to find matical fields and not in others. Thus, the mathematical investigation, it also tutors and mentors who can help the mentor seeks to impart his or her solidifies the notion that mathematics their mathematically talented child to knowledge to the student and does surrounds all that we do and is con- continue his studies. Whereas tutors not seek to align that knowledge with nected to interests outside of those usually charge regular fees, mentors any particular curriculum or course. seen in the traditional classroom. generally assist young people free of Either the tutor or the mentor may Projects at Home. Projects around charge. However, far more than costs work effectively for any student; how- the home also provide rich opportu- should factor into the parents’ deci- ever, all involved must understand the nities for students to be involved in sions regarding which option is best goals of the others. mathematics in real-world scenarios. for their child. Tutors tend to look As parents entertain the thoughts of specifically at the mathematics that Encouraging Children to Discover creating a sun room, installing a swim- the student is investigating in their Mathematics on Their Own ming pool, creating new curtains for a educational setting. So, a tutor will room, painting the house, installing a help a student with his mathematics Using Hobbies and Interests. lawn or garden irrigation system, buy- continued on page ?? work. A mentor, however, will show Encouraging children to discover ing a new car, or planning a family gifted child today 21 Mathematically Talented Children: How Can Parents Help? reunion, the mathematically talented Books. Many children love to read. which students can investigate math- child can participate in the planning, Today, an ever increasing body of liter- ematical concepts. Parents should designing, organizing, and purchas- ature is available to those who wish to ensure that their mathematically tal- ing of necessary components. These meld mathematics with reading. For ented child has a graphing calculator skills all employ mathematics. Bold every level, books are being published as early as the middle grades. Although parents may wish to have their child that incorporate mathematics into the some educators argue that calcula- participate in the annual tax prepara- story line in intriguing ways. Whether tor use has become a crutch to many tion and see how various expenditures mystery novels, crime drama, or car- students and has hampered the math- and charitable giving affect various tax toon stories for even younger chil- ematical development of many, this is scenarios. Add to this a component dren, bookstores and Web sites are rarely so for the advanced child who is of strategizing to minimize the next filled with books and magazines that more apt to use many of the features year’s taxes, and the child can experi- promote mathematics in a friendly, of the calculator as investigatory tools useful, and entertaining manner. This probing more deeply into mathemati- ence a robust mathematical investiga- mathematically enhanced literature cal concepts than as a replacement for tion. Investigations Outside the Home. provides students with opportuni- reasoning and learning. ties to experience mathematics and Independent Research. Often, the Many investigatory opportunities also encourages them to continue in their mathematically talented child seeks reside outside of the home. Parents endeavors. to continue her mathematical inves- and their children regularly see profes- Field Trips. Field trips to facto- tigations independently. In these sionals who use mathematics in their ries and businesses can prove valu- cases, parents should ensure that a occupations. Many of these profes- able in allowing students to see the rich variety of technology is avail- sionals would be elated to speak with applications of mathematics around able to the child. The Internet is a promising child regarding various them. However, children are often replete with mathematical discus- aspects of their careers. Architects, especially interested in trips to sions and investigations. Parents engineers, insurance agents, financial mathematics and science museums. should allow (albeit monitored) a planners, optometrists, dentists, law- Although these museums do not child to dig deeply through vari- yers, accountants, farmers, business exist in all cities, parents should ous mathematical Web sites for people, and countless others daily use plan to visit as they pass through materials. Numerous inexpensive mathematics and would be willing to metropolitan areas in which these computer software packages allow share their knowledge with an inter- museums do exist. students to interactively investi- ested child. Introducing a child to Other Learning Materials. Parents gate mathematical concepts (e.g., these opportunities again validates the of the mathematically advanced child Geometer’s Sketchpad, Fathom, idea that mathematics is used widely should search through used book- Derive, TI Interactive). Parents and applied in almost every field. stores and yard sales for used math- should speak with school districts Puzzles and Games. It would be dif- ematics textbooks and bring them to and teachers to see what software ficult for a person to have missed the the home. These are usually very inex- is being used in the schools. Those new craze in this nation. The Sudoku pensive and provide the child with packages and others should also rage can be witnessed in countless countless mathematical examples and be available to the child at home. newspapers, on the Internet, and in explanations. The child can then read For families who cannot afford bookstores. Adults and children alike and learn at his leisure. Most impor- mathematical software, many Web enjoy the recreation of puzzles, chal- tantly, valuable resources will always sites provide learning activities for lenges, and competitions. 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