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DOCUMENT RESUME ED 449 910 PS 029 207 Hawley, Theresa AUTHOR TITLE Ready To Succeed: The Lasting Effects of Early Relationships. An Ounce of Prevention Fund and ZERO TO THREE Paper. INSTITUTION Ounce of Prevention Fund.; Zero to Three: National Center for Infants, Toddlers and Families, Washington, DC. PUB DATE 1998-00-00 NOTE 7p.; "Provided through an educational grant from Johnson & Johnson Consumer Companies, Inc." AVAILABLE FROM Ounce of Prevention Fund, 122 South Michigan Avenue, Suite 2050, Chicago, IL 60603-6198; Tel: 312-922-3863; Fax: 312-922-3337. Opinion Papers (120) PUB TYPE Reports Descriptive (141) EDRS PRICE MFO1 /PCO1 Plus Postage. DESCRIPTORS At Risk Persons; Attachment Behavior; Brain; *Caregiver Child Relationship; *Early Experience; Early Intervention; *Emotional Development; *Infants; *Parent Child Relationship; Young Children IDENTIFIERS *Adult Child Relationship; Brain Development; Security of Attachment ABSTRACT Based on the view that emotional competence is an important contributor to an individual's success, this report focuses on the critical importance of early relationships with important adults, especially parents, on an individual's level of emotional competence. The report maintains that early interactions between parent and infant affect the child's psychological and neurological development, influencing the young child's learning readiness and also the adolescent's ability to succeed in other areas of life. The origins of trust are illustrated in descriptions of two infants and the different caregiving style of their parents. Evidence is presented from the Mother-Child Study that children not receiving sensitive, responsive care in the first few years of life were at significantly higher risk for a variety of poor developmental outcomes. Other topics discussed in the report are the impact of early relationships on brain development, factors placing parents at risk for providing care that does not facilitate their child's healthy emotional development, other influences on children's emotional development, characteristics of child care necessary for promoting healthy emotional development, and the relation between emotion and learning readiness. The report concludes with a description of promising approaches to meeting the emotional needs of young children, including pediatric health care providers sharing with parents information about children's emotional needs, community-based parent support programs, ensuring that child care is of high quality, counseling and infant mental health services, and educating child welfare workers and others who make child custody decisions about the importance of long-lasting, warm relationships. (Contains 17 reference notes.) (KB) Reproductions supplied by EDRS are the best that can be made from the original document. H oLveaCiS AloA LilleveeeU I The Lasting Effects of Early Relationships U.S. DEPARTMENT OF EDUCATION Office of Educational Research and Improvement EDUCATIONAL RESOURCES INFORMATION CENTER (ERIC) XThis document has been reproduced as received from the person or organization originating it. D Minor changes have been made to improve reproduction quality. Points of view or opinions stated in this document do It necessarily represent official OERI position or policy. PERMISSION TO REPRODUCE AND DISSEMINATE THIS MATERIAL HAS BEEN GRANTED BY TO THE EDUCATIONAL RESOURCES INFORMATION CENTER (ERIC) 1 BEST COPY AVAILABLE Provided through an educational grant from Johnson & Johnson Consumer Companies, Inc. enry is a 16-year-old In this time of distressingly high rates have discov- ment. But researchers of school dropout, teen pregnancy, ered that a youth's history of relation- high school junior. He and violence among youth, and equal- ships with important adults, ly alarmingly low levels of prepared- especially parents, has the greatest works hard in school, ness for the workplace among young influence on his or her emotional gets good grades, and is adults, much attention has been paid competence and ability to succeed. to the question of what determines Furthermore, although parent-child on the student council. the success or failure of teenagers like relationships continue to be impor- Henry and Joe. Certainly many com- tant across all stages of development, Teachers report that Henry is a munity-level factors play a role, research shows that parent-child "good kid," one who rarely including the quality of the school interactions in the first years have an system and the economic health of amazingly strong and life-long influ- gets into trouble and who gets the community. However, these fac- ence on children's emotional develop- along well with his peers. He tors cannot explain the differential ment. These early interactions success of teens within a given com- between parent and baby profoundly has a part-time job working in munity. What makes the difference affect the child's psychological and between Henry and Joe? neurological development, impacting an auto parts store, and hopes not only the young child's readiness to attend a junior college in a to succeed in school but also the ado- lescent's ability to succeed in other few years so that he can train Emotional Competence: areas of life. to be an auto mechanic. The Foundation of Success Many characteristics of an individual The Origins of Trust Joe, Henry's neighbor, is also contribute to his or her success or It's 5 a.m., and 3-month-old Anne is failure, including intelligence and 16 years old. After years of crying loudly to let her parents know physical abilities. But scientists are struggling with academic that she is ready for breakfast. Her discovering that one of the most father, exhausted from months of important determinants of success work, and after being interrupted sleep, grudgingly pulls in adolescence and adulthood is an himself out of bed and goes to Anne's suspended twice last year for individual's level of emotional compe- crib. He tenderly picks her up, say- tence: his or her level of persistence fighting with other students, he ing "Hello, my mixed-up little angel. and self-motivation, ability to cope Don't you know it's still the middle of with stress and manage strong feel- has dropped out of school. He the night?" He cuddles and sings to ings, and ability to empathize with has had a string of low-paying Anne while he warms a bottle, and and relate to others. "Emotionally then father and baby both start to smart" teens are able to focus on the jobs, but never keeps one for doze while he holds and feeds her task at hand in school or at work, can in the rocking chair. get along with peers and adults, are more than a few weeks. Joe able to delay gratification, and can has been arrested for shoplift- Down the street, 3-month-old Carrie "bounce back" quickly after stressful is crying, too. Her exhausted parents experiences. In short, they are well- ing and vandalism, and has try to ignore the crying, but soon prepared to weather the social and Carrie is frantically wailing. Her been on probation for the last emotional storms of adolescence, mother pulls herself out of bed and and to succeed in school, work, and year. Like Henry, he is interest- gets a bottle from the refrigerator. personal relationships. She stands by the side of the crib The question then becomes: ed in becoming an auto and tries to push the cold bottle What determines an individual's level mechanic, but he has no plans into Carrie's mouth, but the baby of emotional competence? Again, it is is thrashing about and can't calm the result of many forces, both genet- to get the college or trade down enough to start eating. "Fine, ic and environmental. For example, don't eat then," her mother says in neurological impairments and trau- school training he would need frustration, throwing the bottle into matic experiences can dramatically to begin his career. the crib. She returns to bed, leaving affect children's emotional develop- Carrie crying, hungry and alone. The Ounce of Prevention Fund was established in 1982 as a public/private partnership to promote the well-being of children and adolescents by working with families, communities, and policy-makers. ZERO TO THREE: National Center for Infants, Toddlers and Families was established in 1977 to advance the healthy development of America's infants, toddlers and families. This paper has benefited from the work of several scientific researchers and other experts, including Byron Egeland and the following members of the ZERO TO THREE Board: Robert N. Emde, Stanley I. Greenspan, Irving B. Harris, Alicia F. Lieberman and Bernice Weissbourd. The design, printing and dissemination of this publication has been made possible through an educational grant from Johnson and Johnson Consumer Companies, Inc. needs to otheis. In a Anne and Carrie are learning a great very tangible way, she deal about themselves and the world feels that she is val- as a result of these interactions with ued and worthy of their parents. When Anne's parents others' loving care. regularly and sensitively respond to She learns that the her distress by providing comfort and adults in her life are meeting her needs. she learns that trustworthy, and can she can effectively communicate her be counted on to help her if she is frustrated or Early Relationships and Later distressed. Because she is forming a Development Among At-Risk Children positive image of herself and of oth- Byron Ege land and Alan Sroufe of the ers right from the University of Minnesota have start. Anne is likely amassed a tremendous amount of to display the con- evidence regarding the importance of fidence, self-con- early relationships for the development trol, and ability to of children in poverty. Their Mother-Child relate to others that Study, launched in 1975, has followed or ignore any evidence that does are necessary to succeed when she 176 children for 19 years from the pre- not fit with her established view. enters school. Assuming her emotion- natal period to adulthood. The majority Furthermore, the child is likely to al needs continue to be met and she of the children's mothers were single, elicit behavior from adults and others continues to develop a warm, trusting almost half had less than a high school that confirm her expectations. For relationship with her parents, she is education, and many were teens when example, a preschool-aged child who likely to become a successful adoles- their children were born. has come to expect that adults will cent, one who achieves in school and They foiind that children who had rarely respond to her is likely to at work and who is able to avoid risky not received sensitive, responsive care in make excessive demands for the behaviors. the first few years of life were at signifi- teacher's attention. The teacher will Carrie, on the other hand, is cantly higher risk for a wide range of be forced to ignore at least some of forming a very different image of her- poor developmental outcomes. For the child's overtures, thus confirming self and of others. When her bids for example, children who had received less the child's expectation that the attention are ignored or are met with sensitive care: teacher would not consistently harsh reproaches and rough handling, had more difficulty forming relation- respond to her.' In this way, the pic- she is learning to be wary and ships with peers in preschool and tures of self and others that children distrustful of others. Without more early adolescence; form during their earliest years positive experiences, she is likely to become self-perpetuating. Although see herself as an ineffective communi- had lower levels of school achieve- change is possible throughout child- cator or. even more unfortunate, as ment, especially in adolescence; hood and even in adulthood, negative someone who is unworthy of warm, were more likely to require special images become increasingly difficult responsive attention from adults. As a education (72% in special education to change the longer the child has result, Carrie is likely to lack confi- by 3rd grade); received insensitive, unresponsive dence and to have difficulty getting care. along with others when she enters exhibited more behavioral Fortunately, the positive views school. Research shows that her very problems; and of self and others that children form early experiences place her at high were more likely to use drugs and in infancy are also resistant to risk for academic failure and social alcohol during adolescence. change. Sensitive, responsive care and behavioral problems as she in infancy and early childhood can reaches adolescence.' The researchers note that both act as a buffer against negative expe- These images and expectations improvements and declines in healthy riences later in life. For example, of self and caregiver that form during functioning occurred for children at all children who are physically abused in infancy have such a dramatic influ- ages in their study. However, children who later childhood are less likely to suffer ence on later development because, had an early history of secure relationships severe negative consequences if they once formed, they are increasingly not only were less vulnerable to environ- have received consistent, responsive resistant to change. The child's views mental threats than those who had poorer care during infancy.' Thus, the first of herself and of others become the early relationships, but were also more years of life provide a unique lens through which she sees and likely to benefit when socio-economic con- opportunity to influence a child's interprets all new social interactions, ditions impacting their lives improved. life course. and like an over-zealous scientist defending her theory, she will distort 1 I I MN El I I I I I I II IV 1111 111 I MI meaningful relationships with adults Biological Evidence* as infants, have chronically overacti- Fostering Healthy Emotional vated stress response systems.' Their of the importance brains keep their bodies in a constant Development in Child Care state of "high alert," leaving the chil- Aapproximately 6 million babies and dren at risk for a host of medical and of Early Relationships toddlers are in child care in the U.S," learning problems as they grow. Early parent-child relationships affect nd that number is likely to increase Similarly, research with home-reared more than just the child's emerging as a result of welfare reform. Research American children has shown that sense of self. There is growing biologi- shows that, especially for vulnerable chil- children who receive less responsive cal evidence that infants need sensi- dren and families, the quality of care that care from their parents are likely to tive, responsive care in order for the an infant receives is critically important remain highly physiologically reactive parts of their brains that control emo- for the child's development.th But there is to even mild stress.' This hyper-reac- tions to develop properly. At birth, a a wide range of quality in infant child tivity suggests that the children are baby has only limited abilities to reg- care in the U.S., and more than 80% is not developing the ability to effective- ulate her own emotions; she depends thought to not be of high quality.'6 An ly cope with stress. upon her caregivers to help her calm alarmingly high proportion of babies are Some of the most dramatic evi- down when upset and to keep her in fact receiving care that can jeopardize dence of how a lack of sensitive, from getting overstimulated when their emotional development. To promote responsive care can affect the devel- playing. When the caregiver effective- healthy emotional (and cognitive) devel- oping brain comes from work with ly manages the baby's emotional opment, infant child care should have the children of chronically depressed states, the baby develops the neuro- following characteristics:" mothers. It has been well documented logical and emotional foundations that mothers suffering from untreated Warm, sensitive caregivers who are that allow her to gradually learn how depression often fail to respond to trained in infant development, who to regulate her emotions on her own. their infants' cries and bids for atten- understand the importance of One example of how early emo- tion and show little positive emotion children's early relationships, and who tional experiences affect brain devel- when interacting with their babies. are able to form effective partnerships opment comes from research on the Researchers have discovered aberrant with parents; brain's ability to respond appropriate- patterns of brain activity in these ly to stressful experiences. Children Low staff turnover, to ensure continu- children: their electroencephalogram living in overcrowded Romanian ity in caregiving for children; (EEG) patterns resemble those of orphanages, where they have had depressed adults.' It appears that Small groups of 6-8 infants or 8-10 little opportunity to form these infants' experiences with toddlers; their mothers have led their Low child-to-teacher ratios: no more brains to develop in such a way than 3 (and for high-risk children, as to "expect" negative inter- preferably 2) infants per adult; and actions with others. Once the brain structure develops to Each infant assigned to only one or accommodate these anticipat- two primary caregivers who feed, ed negative interactions, it change, and play with the baby, allow- is increasingly resistant to ing the baby to form meaningful, change, placing the child secure relationships with those who at risk for later emotional care for him. Caregivers should not problems. change each year (any more than we would recommend parents changing every year) but should stay with the same infants for at least three years. When Sensitive, Responsive Care Doesn't Come Naturally It may seem that provid- ing a child with sensitive, responsive care is just a natural instinct, some- thing that all parents able to re-work his or her earlier fusing advice about how to treat the should be able to do reasonably well. experiences (often through positive baby, with some friends and relatives Indeed, the majority of parents do relationships later in life or counsel- telling them to lavish the baby with provide care that facilitates their ing), he or she can indeed have a very affection and attention, and others child's healthy development within positive relationship with his or her warning that the child will be spoiled their cultural context. However, own children. if the parent holds him too much or research has shown that across social comforts him too quickly. Parents groups, as many as 30% of children need to be given reliable information receive care that puts them at risk for based on research about the impor- later social, emotional, and cognitive tance of sensitively responding to difficulties.' Among children in pover- Other Influences on their babies' signals, and reassurance ty, the rate of emotionally inadequate that they can meet their babies' care is even higher.' Children's Emotional needs. Reading and responding to a Some parents may have particu- baby's cues is not always easy. Many Development lar difficulty providing sensitive care parents, especially young or new par- to their infants because of their own ents, need help learning how to tell The evidence presented here thus far early experiences in life. Research when their baby is hungry, bored, may make it seem that mothers are has shown that parents who remem- ready to play, or ready to rest. Even almost solely responsible for their ber their own parents as cold and the most skilled parent may have dif- children's healthy emotional develop- unresponsive are likely to act the ficulty sensitively responding to her ment. We know that this is not true. same way with their children, where- baby's signals when under severe There is growing scientific evidence as those who remember a warm, sup- emotional or financial stress. that fathers play an equally crucial portive relationship are likely to be Furthermore. some babies are easier role in supporting children's healthy affectionate and responsive to their to "read" than others, and parents development.' We also know that children.' However, history is not may have difficulty responding to a other adults in a child's life, including destiny. There is ample evidence that baby that doesn't match their grandparents, aunts and uncles, when a father or mother has been expectations. They may receive con- friends, teachers, and child care providers can have an important impact on the child's development. There is also strong evidence Emotional Breakfast: The Foundations of Learning Readiness that economic and community-level that children need a For several decades, educators and policy-makers have recognized factors influence children's emotional nourishing breakfast each morning in order to succeed in school. Common sense tells development. Poverty is a particularly children to learn if they lack energy or us and research confirms that it is difficult for strong risk factor for poor stomach. Today; scientists and educators are distracted by the rumblings of an empty developmental outcomes, as are low- that is limiting many students' ability to are calling attention to another kind of hunger quality child care, poorly functioning learn: emotional hunger. Like physical hunger, unmet emotional needs prevent children schools and a lack of community ser- from engaging in the business of learning. vices. In contrast, well-functioning The link between emotion and learning is perhaps easiest to see in a newly mobile communities can provide important infant who is just beginning to actively explore and learn from his caregivers and envi- protective factors for children and ronment. He learns that his gestures, such as touching his Dad's nose, can lead to a big families. Churches, community pro- smile and "Toot! Toot!" in return, a first lesson in causal thinking. This kind of emotional grams, and even informal neighbor- interaction with adults helps infants and children develop communication, thinking, and hood networks can provide crucial problem solving skills." support to parents who are having Furthermore, when an infant has consistently received what he needs from his par- difficulty raising their children. In entscomfort when upset, stimulation that is not overwhelming, and plenty of loving, addition, well-designed church, playful interactionshe learns to trust that the world is a safe place to explore. He will school, or park district programs occasionally "check in" with his parents for reassurance as he plays, but is free to spend which give older children the oppor- energy exploring and learning. In contrast, if a child has not received sensi- his most of tunity to form lasting, close relation- tive care from the parent, he will have difficulty trusting that the parent will keep him safe ships with warm, loving adults can and will be there when needed. Therefore, the child spends a great deal of energy either help support their healthy develop- ensuring that the parent pays attention to him, or vigilantly watching for any signs of ment. danger in the environment. As a result, his ability to explore and to learn can be compromised." Likewise, children who have experienced a long history of unmet emotional needs 1 school. Lacking a sense that all is are likely to have difficulty learning when they enter well with the world, they may be constantly distracted by worries or fears. They are likely to lack the confidence and sense of competence that they need to succeed. Therefore, before they reach school programs designed to help children become "ready to learn" children's emotional needs are age must pay particular attention to ensuring that the being met in infancy, toddlerhood and the preschool years. Gunnar, M R. et al. (1996). Stress reactivity Educating child Welfare and protec- 5 Recommendations and attachment security. Developmental tive services workers, attorneys, Psychobiology, 29, 191-204. and judges who make decisions Traditional intervention strategies for Dawson, G., Hells, D. & Frey, K. 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Notes Caring for infants and toddlers in groups: in learning how to effectively meet Egeland, B., Carlson, E., & Sroufe, L. A. Developmentally appropriate practice. 1 their baby's needs; (1993). Resilience as process. Development Washington, DC: ZERO TO THREE: and Psychopathology, 5, 517-528. National Center for Infants, Toddlers, Ensuring that child care for infants Sroufe, L. A., Fox, N. E. & Pancake, V. R. and Families. 2 and toddlers is of the high quality (1983). Attachment and dependency in needed to support healthy emotion- developmental perspective. Child al development; (See box.) Development, 54, 1615-1627. Author: Theresa Hawley, Ph.D. Egeland, B. et al., op. cit. 3 Photos: Kathy Richland, Counseling and infant mental Carlson, M. & Earls, F. (1997). 4 Paul Meredith and the Good Beginnings Psychological and neuroendocrinological health services for parents who Program in Peoria, Illinois. sequelae of early social deprivation in insti- need professional help in establish- tutionalized children in Romania. Annals ing warm, positive relationships ©1998 Ounce of Prevention Fund of the New York Academy of Sciences, 807, with their infants; and 419-428. and ZERO TO THREE ZERO Ounce of Prevention Fund TO 122 South Michigan Avenue Suite 2050 THREEsm N171 Chicago, Illinois 60603-6107 National Center for Infants, Toddlers and Families (312) 922-3863 (voice) 734 15th Street, NW, Suite 1000 CONSUMER COMPANIES, INC. 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