DOCUMENT RESUME PS 028 992 ED 446 858 Schottman, Elly AUTHOR Arthur: The Ups & Downs of Friendship. An Activity Booklet TITLE for Parents and Kids. WGBH-TV, Boston, MA. INSTITUTION Department of Education, Washington, DC.; Corporation for SPONS AGENCY Public Broadcasting, Washington, DC. 2000-00-00 PUB DATE 17p.; For related documents, see PS 028 991-998. Illustrated NOTE by Marc Brown. Non-Classroom (055) Guides PUB TYPE MF01/PC01 Plus Postage. EDRS PRICE Childrens Television; Early Childhood Education; DESCRIPTORS *Friendship; *Parent Child Relationship; Parent Materials; Parents as Teachers; *Peer Relationship; *Young Children *Arthur (Television Series); Public Broadcasting IDENTIFIERS ABSTRACT Noting that helping children deal with the ups and downs of friendship is one of the challenges parents face, this activity booklet provides a read-aloud story for parents to share with their children to help them deal with friendship and peer relationships. The story features the Public Broadcasting System characters Arthur and his sister D.W., and includes suggested questions for parents to ask their children. The booklet also contains a game for parents and children to play together, and suggests books and Arthur videotapes with stories about friendship. Tips for parents (2) take time to (1) discuss "getting along" rules; include the following: listen; and (3) be supportive. The booklet concludes with specific suggestions for parents of children ages 3 to 5 years, 5 to 7 years, and 7 to 9 years. (KB) Reproductions supplied by EDRS are the best that can be made from the original document. The Ups & Downs of Friendship AN ACTIVITY BOOKLET FOR PARENTS AND KIDS 0 U.S. DEPARTMENT OF EDUCATION 0 Office of Educational Research and Improvement EDUCATIONAL RESOURCES INFORMATION O CENTER (ERIC) Ng Ever feel caught This document has been reproduced as 00 received from the person or organization in the middle? 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How do I join?" 0 "You must draw a funny picture of Mr. Ratburn," says Francine. c o 4 c g ) 0 0 0-113-.671 .0 n 0 (> n 0 _0 n n O _ r, r\ C) 0 C) 0 0 C 0 a 1 0 00 0 a Co i 00 0 All the kids draw. Arthur and his friends 0 look at one another's pictures and D laugh. Then D.W. holds up her picture. 0 "So, am I in the club?" asks D.W. 0 "No," says Arthur. "Your picture isn't O funny enough." "Oh, brother!" says D.W. and she leaves in disgust. 0 0 "Good," says Francine. "We could use more rules in this club." "We should charge dues!" says Muffy. "Wait!" protests Arthur. "The tree house has always been free." 0 "If you don't like our ideas, we'll make our own club," snaps Muffy. "Let's go, Francine! Our clubhouse will have computer games." O O "Computer games?" says Buster. "Wait, Muffy! I'm coming, too!" Do`-' 0 olc) u n O U (-2 o`'O `) 0 0 (J 0 UL--) c--) 0 0 o o 0 0 O 0 o O At the new clubhouse, Muffy says, "Dues are 50e O for Francine and me, and $1.00 for you, Buster." O "That's not fair!" says Buster. 0 Buster heads back to the tree house. O "Hi," he says. "Can I come in?" OC 0' "No," says Arthur. "Read our new club rules, Sue Ellen." "Anyone can join except Buster Baxter who's a rotten traitor for joining Muffy's stinky club," Sue Ellen reads. "Big deal," says Buster. "I'll make my own club." C Soon everyone has his or her own club. 0 Buster has his own Reading Comic O Books Under a Blanket Club. Sue Ellen has her own Reading and Walking Club. O O And Brain has The Fun Club. But with just one member, the club O meetings aren't very much fun. What do you think is going to happen? 00 0° 0 0'1 C 0 0 0 .0 00.0 a oo 0 0 C a 0 rthur hears someone singing 0 in the tree house. He climbs up to see who is there. "Oh, it's you, D.W.," he says "I thought it was Francine." 0 "Where is everybody?" asks D.W. Just then, Buster and Muffy walk by. "Can we come up?" they call. "Sure!" says Arthur. Francine, Binky, Sue Ellen, and Brain turn up, too. Soon the tree house is full of kids. 0 "This is a great club!" D.W. says. "And I have a great idea for the parade." Together the kids build an Egyptian float. 0 7 9 o 0 ° n o 0 n 00 0 0 o 0 ou 0 o O CJ coo `-) 00 c O o O Arthur and his friends C O take turns carrying 0( the float in the parade. 0 D.W. rides on top! o C "D.W. has good ideas," Muffy says to Francine. "Yes," says Francine. "I don't know why C Arthur wouldn't let her into the club in the first place!" 0 o, O O 0 C Kids: 0 Mk Your C friends were and his think Arthur O When do y ou fun? O most \ having the 'ur friends? do with thing to favorite your What s \ rules up to make C friends like and your Do you have? rules do you sort of C play? What OC when you O ° 0 0 0 no 00 _0 0 _O ,Th rr4 Ten one and Kids for Parents A Game reason why you are a good friend. Name something nice that a friend once did for you. 0 C? CD rA MI in 111, 0 0 L 0 0 ' (-) 0 OL--1 Y 0 0 0 0 0 0 0 0 O 0 Each player will need a game 0 marker, such as a button or paper clip. O Players take turns tossing 0 a coin. Heads means move 1 space. Tails means move 2 spaces. 0 0 If you land on a yellow space, answer the question or follow 0 ( O If you land on a dark blue space, take the shortcut. O O If you land on an Arthur space, C o do one of these things: C Make up a club handshake. C Teach it to the other players. C Sing part of the theme song from ARTHUR. Y. Pretend to be one of the kids on ARTHUR. Let the other players guess who you are. 0 0 The game ends when all players are in the tree house. 0 0 0 0 0 0 0 0 0 a n n 0 0_C 0 r\ (Th