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DOCUMENT RESUME CG 026 039 ED 379 562 DeJong, William AUTHOR Building the Peace: The Resolving Conflict Creatively TITLE Program (RCCP). Department of Justice, Washington, D.C. National INSTITUTION Inst. of Justice. NCJ-149549 REPORT NO PUB DATE (93] NOTE 17p. Descriptive (141) Reports PUB TYPE MFO1 /PCO1 Plus Postage. EDRS PRICE Adolescents: Children; *Conflict Resolution; DESCRIPTORS *Educational Objectives; Elementary Secondary Education; *Interpersonal Communication; Intervention; Peace; *Prevention; Social Cognition; *Violence Resolutions IDENTIFIERS ABSTRACT The Resolving Conflict Creatively Program (RCCP) is prevention programs one of a growing number of grade K-12 violence that teaches young people how to resolve conflict peacefully. It is a school-based program taught by regular classroom teachers. This report was designed to introduce criminal justice professionals to the basic concepts and strategies of violence prevention and to inspire their involvement in finding new says to prevent Yiolent crime among youth. RCCP includes elementary, secondary, and special education curriculums, a student'led mediation program, a parents' program, and an administrators' component. RCCP focuses on all students, not just high-risk youth. Teachers are given professional training and ongoing technical assistance and support throughout the school year. This paper describes the program's philosophy and details the 12 units in the elementary curriculum as well as the 3 unitss in the secondary program. Other areas discussed include professional training, the student mediation program, mediator selection and training, parent training, program costs, and evaluation results. The report closes with a special note for criminal justice professionals and the violence prevention movement. Community programs in four different locales are discussed. Addresses for further information are provided. (RJM) *********************************************************************** Reproductions supplied by EDRS are the best that can be made from the original document. **********************************************u************************ U.S. Department of Justice Office of Justice Programs National Institute of Justice Ill 4 Building the Peace: The Resolving Conflict Creatively Program (RCCP) U S DEPARTMENT OF EDUCATION Office of Educational Research and Improvement EDUCATIONAL RESOURCES INFORMATION 14 CENTER (ERICI O This document has been reproduced as 14r received hom the person or organization onginaltng 0 Minor changes have been made to improve reproduction duality Points of view or opinions stated in this docu- ment do not necessarily represent official OERI Position or policy .0 Ada` 0. ameamoms BEST COPY AVAILABLE 2 PROGRAM FOCUS Building the Peace: The Resolving Conflict Creatively Program (RCCP) For Linda Lantieri, coordinator for New York City's Resolving Conflict De Jong by 1f Creatively Program (RCCP),' the spring of 1992 brought devastating news. Henry Rivera, a long-time RCCP teacher from Harlem's School for Career Development, was killed while trying to prevent a ANew York City Program Teaches Children holdup of a Bronx laundromat. Ac- cording to the news reports, the 71- year -old laundromat owner claimed the Basics of Nonviolent Conflict Resolution that Rivera had saved his life. Those who knew this inspirational teacher were not surprised, for Rivera's entire career, indeed, his entire life, The ultimate goal of our criminal flourish, law enforcement agencies took the Inspired by RCCP and other programs, justice system is to prevent crime initiative to form partnerships with sc.lools criminal justice professionals recently have to establish drug prevention education pro- and violence. Traditionally, criminal jus- started to explore how they might contrib- grams such as Project DARE (Drug Abuse tice professionals have pursued this goal ute to preventing violence among youth. Project DARE in Los Angeles, for ex- Resistance Education). through the arrest, conviction, and punish- ment of criminal offenders, both to inca- ample, expanded its high school curricu- The 1990's present us with a new tribulation: pacitate those individuals and to deter lum to include lessons on violence preven- the rise of violent crime among our children. others from crime. In Houston, the police department tion. To meet this challenge, criminal justice pro- assigned full-time officers to run a year- fessionals must join with teachers, youth The enforcement of our criminal codes is round recreational program for high-risk workers, clergy, and other community lead- the cornerstone of a just and orderly soci- teens. which gives the officers a chance to ety. It is apparent, however, that substan- ers to convince young people that nonviolence talk to these youths about their lives, the is the wisest course and to teach them the tial reductions in crime and violence will interpersonal conflicts they encounter, and conflict resolution skills they need to sur- come about only if police and other crimi- how they can channel their anger. nal justice professionals broaden their vive. These efforts are a good beginning, but charge to include nontraditional crime pre- This Program Focus introduces the basic they are just thata beginning. The Na- vention strategies and work in partnership concepts and strategies of violence preven- with the communities they serve. tional Institute ofJustice looks forward to tion through an examination of the Resolv- continuing its work in facilitating this ex- A move toward community-oriented po- ing Conflict Creatively Program (RCCP) in citing new era in community-oriented po- New York City. RCCP, a school-based licing began in the 1970's with community licing. crime preven 3n, with law enforcement program taught by regular classroom teach- ers, was selected for presentation after an officers helping citizens form neighbor- Jeremy Travis hood watches and citizen patrols. In the exhaustive review ofschool-based programs Director 1980's, as the drug trade continued to across the country. National Institute of Justice National Institute of Justice 2 J BEST COPY AVAILABLE PROGRAM FOCUS rt -; had been committed to the cause of prevention programs that teach young people year. The program is now reaching 70,000 peace. how to resolve conflict peacefully, what some students in 180 schools citywide. educators now call the fourth R. RCCP, a Lantieri worried that Rivera's death school-based program taught by regular Program Philosophy might lead his students to question classroom teachers, is jointly sponsored by the value of RCCP, if they concluded the New. ork City Public Schools and Edu- that the program's message of The Nature of Conflict cators for Social ResponsibilityMetro nonviolence, empowerment, and RCCP and other violence prevention pro- (ESR ), a nonprofit organization dedicated hope was no match for the ugly but to conflict resolution and multicultural grams are based on the premise that human routine violence that surrounded aggression is a learned behavior, taught education. them. However, giving in to despair through example and reinforced by a culture is not Lantieri's style. Although Through an examination of RCCP, this Pro- that glamorizes violent responses to conflict. Rivera's death was a heart-rending gram Focus is designed to introduce crimi- Conflict itself, with its roots in competition, reminder of how far RCCP must nal justice professionals to the basic con- poor communication, and miscalculation, is still go in changing the climate of cepts and strategies of violence prevention a normal part of life and cannot be elimi- violence that pervades New York and to inspire their involvement in finding nated. What must change, therefore, is how City, Lantieri also remembers how new ways to prevent violent crime among we respond to it. Accordingly, we must far she and her colleagues have come youth. Although RCCP has not yet involved teach our children that violence is not an in just a few years. police or other criminal justice profession- acceptable means of resolving conflict. We als, there exists no better program from which must also teach them the skills they need to * * * to learn or find inspiration. handle conflict nonviolently, including per- Traditionally, our criminal justice system spective taking, cost-benefit analysis, deci- Started in 1985, RCCP is widely regarded by has focused on reducing crime through inca- sion making, and negotiation. public health experts as one of the most pacitation and deterrence. A tripling of the promising violence prevention programs now A frequent misconception is that RCCP average prison time served per violent crime in operation. What most distinguishes RCCP teaches kids to deal with conflict passively, between 1975 and 1989 caused a dramatic from other prevention programs is its focus to walk away from it. Clearly, there are times increase in our Nation's prison population. on creating school change. This means that when walking away is necessary to escape Even so. this did not lead to a decrease in management of both individual classrooms physical danger. In general, however, avoid- serious violent crime, especially among and the school as a whole is consistent with ance is not the answer. In most cases, con- youth. a value system of nonviolence. And it means flict should be dealt with head-on, with a that students have a safe environment in The need for additional approaches to pre- focus on constructive problem solving. At which to explore peaceful ways of resolving venting violent crime is clear. We need a the same time, RCCP recosnizes that not all conflict. broader focus, one that seeks to alter the conflict can be resolved. In some cases, climate of violence that pervades our Nation's force, even physical force, must be used, but This grade K-12 program is also remarkable cities. To accomplish this. we need to change only after all other means of dealing with the for the comprehensiveness of its approach, the attitudes, beliefs, and expectations that underlying problem have been exhausted. which includes elementary, secondary, and feed that climate, and we need to teach young RCCP students are taught that conflict can special education curriculums, a student-led people how to resolve conflict without vio- lead to violence but that it does not have to mediation program, a parents' program, and lence. All elements of ourcommunities must do so inevitably. an administrators' component. RCCP' s fo- he involved in this effort, including criminal cus is not only on high-risk students but on all justice professionals. A Focus on School Change youth. Moreover, teachers are given profes- RCCP is unique in its focus on creating sional training and ongoing technical assis- The Resolving Conti ict Creatively Program school change, a mission consistent with the tance and support throughout the school is one of a growing number of violence 4 Li4 Program Focus 3 PROG-RAM FOCUS ings, perspective taking, cooperation, nego- that they be seen as a cause for celebration philosophy of Educators for Social Respon- tiation, and how to interrupt expressions of rather than as an excuse for prejudice. sibilityMetro. which states that conflict reso- bias. Learning these skills requires weekly lution "is best taught in the context of a Most important, RCCP seeks to foster a practice. so teachers are encouraged to do at caring community characterized by coop- classroom climate in which students are af- least one "peace lesson" a week, to use eration, effective communication, emotional firmed and respected for who they are. RCCP "teachable moments" that arise because of strength, appreciation of differences, recog- staff work with teachers to create what they events in the classroom or the world at large. nition of common purposes, and shared de- call a multicultural classroom, where teach- and to "infuse" conflict resolution lessons cision making." For this reason, RCCP's ers make a special point of identifying and into the regular academic program. leadership argues that their program requires celebrating the different racial and ethnic a buy-in at the highest levels within the RCCP lessons involve role-playing, inter- heritages of their students. In such a class- school system. viewing, group dialogue, brainstorming, and room. expressions of racial or ethnic bias are other experiential 1:aming strategies, all of not tolerated. Teachers stay alert to sponta- By creating a "peaceable school," a safe which require a high degree of student par- neous comments or actions that seem moti- environment where students are encouraged ticipation and interaction. Use of the cur- vated by bias, witch provides opportunities to experiment with peaceful ways of resolv- riculum requires teachers to relinquish some for teaching about the workings of prejudice. ing conflict, RCCP teachers strive to give control over what happens in their class- their students a new image of what their room. Because many teachers are uncom- Conflict Resolution world can be. For this to happen, however, fortable with this, at least at first, RCCP the teachers themselves must change. They Curriculum provides continuing consultation and sup- must learn and then apply a new set of skills port during the school year. for heading off and resolving conflict. Even Mark, a fifth-grader, talked to his more difficult, they must adopt a new style of RCCP classmates about how angry These curricula require strong verbal skills, classroom management, one that fundamen- he was with his brother a few weeks so several adjustments are necessary to ac- tally involves a sharing of power with stu- ago, so angry that he hit him. "You commodate the variety of cognitive and com- dents so that they can learn how to deal with hit your brother?" a shocked class- munications abilities of special needs stu- their own disputes. mate asked. "Yes," Mark replied, With that in mind, a new RCCP dents. "but that was before we got to the curriculum for special needs students breaks A Focus on chapter called 'Dealing Appropri- the lessons into smaller steps and makes Appreciating Diversity ately With Feelings."' "Oh, that's greater use of visual and kinesthetic learning different," the classmate agreed.' Sometimes the conflict that results in vio- ( for example, art, mime, and modalities lence has its roots in racism and prejudice. nonverbal communication). Educators must take this problem seriously, for they must prepare young people not only Elementary The RCCP cuniculum stresses the modeling for the world of work but also for getting School Curriculum of nonviolent alternatives for dealing with along in a pluralistic society. conflict, teaching negotiation and other con- RCCP's newly revised elementary school flict resolution skills, and demonstrating to curriculum is built around 51 lessons called RCCP also seeks to abate racism and other students that they can "play a powerful role workshops, a term that calls attention to the causes of violence through lessons on in creating a more peaceful world." fact that the teacher acts as a facilitator, "multicultural appreciation" and "bias aware- leading students through a series of experi- ness." Teachers help their students become Accordingly, RCCP concentrates on teach- ential learning activities. Each lesson has the aware of their prejudices and recognize that ing several key component skills: active same structure: ( 1 ) warm-up exercise ("gath- stereotypes are based on inaccurate or in- listening, assertiveness (as opposed to ag- ering"), (2) review of the class agenda, (3) complete information. Differences among gressiveness or passivity), expressing feel- workshop activities, (4) student evaluation people are acknowledged, but RCCP urges ap National Institute of Justice 4 of the workshop, and (5) closing activity. the key to both preventing and resolving Unit 2: Peace and Conflict. In the second The curriculum, which is divided into 12 unit, the curriculum helps children see that conflict. Workshops focus on the basic steps units, presents separate lessons for grades they, like all of us, "have the power and of the communication process, the role of K-3 and 4-6. responsibility to be peacemakers." The unit misunderstandings in creating conflict, and the importance of understanding another begins by introducing key concepts. Peace is Unit 1: Setting the Stage. The first unit not the mere absence of excitement but a person's point of view. The last workshop in helps build a classroom environment of dynamic time of action, accomplishment, this unit introduces the skill of active listen- mutual caring and respect, where all mem- and close human relationships. Conflict is a ing, which entails several techniques: asking bers are included and valued. Individual natural part of everyone's life and can be questions, reflecting the speaker's feelings, workshops focus on ground rules for speak- either constructive or destructive, depend- paraphrasing what the speaker says, and ing and listening, the components of good ing on how it is handled. showing understanding for another's per- listening skills, the impact of put-downs and spective. "put-ups" on self-esteem, and accepting Unit 3: Communication. The third unit differences of opinion. teaches students that good communication is aiati_tt."._ 0 CUy. _ Cast Country t.4.5-(1 _ Ear Planet . /. This is my pledge for peace: This is my pledge far peace Prom ; s & Step 4;91i+ he/A and. People 5" Wfrii,t117.011 with every.9e2. ltraurrussr, Figure 1 Unit 4: Affirmation. The fourth unit fea- Hints for De-Escalating a Conflict tures classroom activities that remind stu- dents of their own good qualities and help them appreciate and acknowledge those Take a deep breath to stay relaxed. Watch your language. 9. Words that 1. qualities in others. For example, students in escalate a conflict are never, always, Look the other person in the eye, 2. grades K-3 create a book about themselves, unless, can't, won't, don't, should, with both of you sitting or standing. with an illustrated cover and various shouldn '1. and Words that de-escalate "affirmation pages" that depict a game they maybe, perhaps, some- a conflict are Speak softly and slowly. 3. are good at, something they do to help an- times, what if, it seems like, I feel, I other person, and so on. 4. think, I wonder. Keep your legs and arms uncrossed. and Do not clench your fists or purse Unit 5: Cooperation. The fifth unit intro- 10. Really listen to what the other person your lips. duces the concepts and skills of cooperation is saying, with the goal of truly under- through a set of experiential activities. can In Keep reminding yourself:, "We 5. standing that person's point of view. one workshop, for example. K-3 students find a win-win resolution to this," 11. Affirm and acknowledge the other work in small groups to create an imaginary and remind the other person of this person's position. monster, and those in grades 4-6 work in too. groups to create a pantomime of some type of 12. Ask questions that encourage the other If necessary, ask for a break to col- 6. machine, such as a clothes dryer. Students person to look for a solution. Ask lect your thoughts or release pent- learn that working cooperatively toward a open-ended questions rather than ones up tension. common purpose can reduce the opportuni- that will evoke a yes or no response. ties for conflict and that if a conflict does Give "I messages." 7. arise, a history of cooperation can facilitate 13. Keep looking for alternative ideas to the search for a "win-win" resolution. Paraphrase what the other person 8. resolve your dispute so that both of has said, asking for clarification as you have your needs met. Unit 6: Acknowledging Feelings. The sixth necessary. unit introduces two important skills in con- flict resolution: ( i) recognizing one's own feelings and telling others about them and (2) acknowledging, accepting, and empa- Unit 7: Resolving Conflict Creatively. thizing with the feelings of 'others. Feelings In lessons that focuses on issues of diversity of anger are a special focus. Typical re- the seventh unit students learn specific skills and prejudice. It begins with students ex- sponses to our feelings of anger--aggres- needed for a problem-solving approach to ploring the attributes they have in common sion and avoidancedo nothing to resolve conflict (see figure I). Workshops for grades with others in the class and those that are 4-6 focus on the techniques of win-win the underlying conflict. different. Students in grades 3 6 discover negotiation and mediation, both of which that even superficially similar objects, like Being assertive- -that is, standing up for involve active listening, "I messaaes." and pieces of fruit or peanuts, are not uniform. oneself without hurting the other person- -is creative questioning. Workshops for grades Difference is a constant in nature. presented as a constructive alternative. Stu- K-3 lay the groundwork for teaching nego- dents in grades 4-6 learn how to use "I From this generalization, the unit moves on tiation and mediation skills when the stu- messages," a method ofcommunicatina feel- to explore differences among people in more dents are older. In all grades. the workshops ings and thoughts that avoids criticizing or depth. Students in grades K-2 look at the are structured to let students practice these blaming others (for example, "I feel angry different kinds of games people play and new skills and get constructive feedback. when you don't listen, because it makes me differences in family composition. Students Unit 8: Appreciating Diversity. think that what I am saying is not important The eigh'h in grades 3 6 list similarities and differences to you"). unit is the first of a three-part sequence of 4., 6 National Institute of Justice BEST COPY AVAILABLE PROGRAM FOCUS and other strategies for countering acts of make lists of their dreams for the future and among people and discuss both what is good create images of themselves making a better discrimination by others. and what is difficult about such differences. world. Unit 9: Bias Awareness. The ninth unit Unit 11: Peacemakers. The peacemakers provides students with a conceptual frame- celebrates people currently working for peace Secondary School Curriculum work for understanding the difference be- as well as those who have made important The secondary school curriculum covers ma- contributions in the past. For example. stu- tween preference and prejudice. Students in terial similar to that of the elementary school grades K-2 begin a book called It Isn't Fair.' dents in grades 3-6 identify characters they curriculum but with an additional focus on in which they describe injustices related to admire in books, television, and movies and ways of de-escalating volatile situations that prejudice. Students in grades 3-6 start out discuss to what extent these characters ex- might lead to violent confrontations. The hibit the attributes of peacemakers. In an- with a simulation game in which treats are lessons are divided into three major units. arbitrarily distributed, with some students other lesson, they identify several organiza- tions that work for peace and describe their getting more than others. They then use their Unit I: Engaging the Students. The les- problem-solving skills to search for a more activities. sons in the first unit introduce norms for equitable distribution system. classroom conduct that will promote an at- Unit 12: The FutureA Positive Vision. mosphere of mutual respect. The lessons Unit 10: Countering Bias. In the tenth unit. The last unit focuses on discussing students' also review the concept of negotiation and students investigate ways in which they can concerns about the future, investigating con- help students see the relevance of conflict intervene to stop discriminatory behavior. troversial issues, and envisioning a promis- resolution in their daily lives. ing future in which the students will play an Through role-plays, the students explore how In one activity, students read prejudice and discrimination present them- active role. Concepts and Skills of Conflict Unit 2: aloud and discuss the "I Have a Dream" selves in their lives. They practice develop- Resolution. The second unit, using simula- ing and using active listening, "I messages." speech by Martin Luther King, Jr. They then tions and role-plays, covers a wide range of topics: the vocabulary of conflict resolution; messages received from parents, friends, and the media about conflict; the rules of "fair fighting"; and basic skills essential to suc- cessful negotiation, including active listen- 0 ing, perspective taking, the use of "I mes- sages," and brainstorming. This unit also helps students understand how differences in point of view affect people's interpretations of a conflict situ. tion, the importance of cooling off period:, and the need to move r beyond stated positions to the disputants' N underlying needs. Unit 3: Concepts and Skills of Intergroup 0 Relations and Bias Awareness. Students ft-ii, ItAL explore commonalities and differences be- 4 tween their family's values and those of their classmates' families. Several basic concepts 0 are introduced, including stereotypes, preju- V dice, and discrimination. Students reflect on 0 their own experiences, especially how they RCCP Director Linda Lantieri gives feedback to student mediators at New York City's P.S. 75. Program Focus 7 PROGRAM FOCUS mow. ..-"': The student mediation program, a key com- ing, group dialogue. brainstorming, and other have been hurt and how they have hurt oth- ponent of RCCP's plan for school change, experiential approaches. The teachers are ers. They then consider what they can do as provides strong peer models for nonviolent also encouraged to utilize cooperative learn- individuals to resist prejudice and discrimi- conflict resolution and reinforces students' ing groups. assigning teams of students to nation, such as interrupting racially biased emerging skills in working out their prob- study, work on projects, and learn together. statements by others. lems. Ultimately, by reducing the number of Such teams can be used to provide diverse rights between students, it can contribute to groups of students with a common purpose, Professional Training Student a more peaceful school climate. which can lead to new friendships and a mediation is not a substitute for an effective reduction of prejudice. During a faculty meeting, the prin- school discipline policy, for if strictly en- cipal turned to Mrs. Baker, who had A key to RCCP's success is the follow-up forced sanctions against fighting are not in participated the previous year in Each new support that teachers receive. place, students are unlikely to turn to the RCCP. "Could you give us an idea teacher is assigned to an RCCP staff devel- mediators for help. of how you benefited from being oper, who visits between b and 10 times a part of RCCP last year?" he asked. RCCP embraces the concept of "principled year, giving demonstration lessons, helping "Oh, it's very simple," she re- negotiation" outlined by Fisher and Ury in the teacher prepare, observing classes, giv- sponded. "It saved my marriage." their best-seller Getting to Yes.' With this ing feedback, and sustaining the teacher's approach. mediation is not a contest of wills motivation. In addition, the staff developer to see whose position will prevail but an convenes bimonthly follow-up meetings af- RCCP uses both formal training sessions and opportunity for mutual problem solving. The ter school so that the teachers can receive one-on-one work to teach regular classroom ultimate goal of mediation is not to force one additional training, share their experiences, teachers how to present the conflict resolu- discuss concerns, and plan schoolwide events. tion curriculum. Equally important, the teach- During a teacher's second year, the staff ers are led to reexamine how they handle developer visits only two or three times. conflict in their own lives, particularly in With a their relationships with students. Student Mediation Program strong commitment from the principal to make the school violence-free and with When Yvette showed up at Sandra's changes in the teachers' style of classroom apartment building one Saturday management, students are provided a safe with a knife and several friends to 17 environment in which to work on their emerg- back her up, it was clear that the ing conflict resolution skills. conflict between them had spun out of control. Word of the incident RCCP instructors provide 20 hours of intro- spread quickly, and on Monday two ductory training in a series of after-school of the high school's RCCP-trained sessions. The training presents the RCCP peer mediators intervened. After a philosophy and the curriculum; teaches com- two-hour session, the girls worked munication. conflict resolution, and 'vy,,7114177'.. through their problem, which they intergroup relations skills; and demonstrates learned was due to a misunderstand- 00674 "infusion" strategies for integrating these ing that had been deliberately cre- concapts and skills into social studies, lan- ated by a mutual "friend." guage arts, and other academic subjects. * * * Training also covers teaching techniques. in Helping others as a peer mediator is a boost to particular the use of role-playing, interview- students' self-esteem. 9 Institute of justice National 8 PROGRAM FOCUS All:...:-.41%,f of the parties to give up something or to find teachers who regularly use the curriculum. but never imposed. For that rea- suggested but a way of "splitting the difference" but to As explained by ESR, "School mediation son, new programs sometimes meet resis- forge a win-win solution that meets the un- programs are best implemented as part of a tance from faculty who are concerned about derlying interests and needs of both par- larger effort to train staff and students in students' being able to handle the responsi- This is a significant bility. But according to RCCP staff, once conflict resolution." ties. Figure 2 lists the steps used by RCCP' s student mediators. strength over mediation-only projects else- these teachers see the program in action, they where in the country. are won over. RCCP initiates this program only in schools Although the mediation program is an im- that have participated it RCCP for a year or Adopting this approach means that teachers more and have at least a small group of portant part of RCCP' s approach, funding and school administrators must give up some control, for with mediation, solutions are Figure 2 RCCP Student Meditation Program: Steps for a Successful Mediation Introduction Finding a Resolution Ask the first person how he or she 7. feels. Reflect those feelings. Note: A good resolution is one that Introduce yourselves as mediators. 1. 8. Ask the second person what hap- solves the problem, perhaps for good. It 2. Ask those in the conflict whether pened. Paraphrase. is specific, answering questions of who, they would like a mediator to help where, when, and how. It is balanced, 9. Ask the second person how she or he solve the problem. with both disputants having the respon- feels. Reflect those feelings. sibility to make it work. Find a quiet area near the play- 3. Looking for Solutions ground or lunchroom where the 15. Help both disputants find a solution held away from mediation can be (As a last they feel good about. 10. Ask the first person what he or she other students. resort, the mediator can offer solu- could have done differently. Para- tions for the disputants to consider, 4. Ask for agreement to the following phrase. but this is not preferred.) rules: 11. Ask the second person what she or (a) They will try to solve the 16. Repeat the solution and all of its he could have done differently. Para- problem. parts, and ask if each disputant agrees phrase. (h) There will be no name-calling. to it. (c) They will take turns talking with 12. Ask the first person what he or she out interrupting. 17. Congratulate both students on a suc- can do right now to help solve the cessful mediation. problem. Paraphrase. Pledge to keep everything they say 5. confidential. 18. Fill out the mediation report form. 13. Ask the second person what she or he can do right now. Paraphrase. Listening 14. Use creative questioning to bring Ask the first person what happened. 6. the disputants closer to a solution. Paraphrase. Program Focus 9 BEST COPY AVAILABLE

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