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DOCUMENT RESUME ED 359 007 RC 019 208 AUTHOR Howley, Craig B.; Cahape, Pat TITLE Briefs for Parents in Ready-To-Copy Form: English and Spanish. 1993 Compilation. INSTITUTION ERIC Clearinghouse on Rural Education and Small Schools, Charleston, WV. SPONS AGENCY Office of Educational Research and Improvement (ED), Washington, DC. PUB DATE [93] CONTRACT RI88062016 NOTE 14p.; For earlier compilations in this series, see ED 329 382 and ED 332 861. AVAILABLE FROM ERIC/CRESS, P.O. Box 1348, Charleston, WV 25325 (free). PUB TYPE Information Analyses ERIC Clearinghouse Products (071) Multilingual/Bilingual Materials (171) Viewpoints (Opinion/Position Papers, Essays, etc.) (120) LANGUAGE English; Spanish EDRS PRICE MF01/PC01 Plus Postage. DESCRIPTORS Child Advocacy; *Child Development; *Child Rearing; Early Childhood Education; Elementary Secondary Education; 'High Risk Students; Homework; *Parent Materials; Parent School Relationship; *Parent Student Relationship; Social Bias; Sociz.1 Support Groups; Special Needs Students ABSTRACT This document contains English and Spanish versions of six one-page reports for parents. Each brief provides background, suggestions, and sources of further information on educational and child-rearing topics of common interest to parents. Titles are: "The Best and Worst of Times: Support Groups Help" ("Los tiempos mejores y peorzs: Los grupos apoyadores pueden ayudar"); "Moral Development in Children" ("Ser carinoso es un proyecto familiar"); "Homework: How Parents Can Help" ("Las tareas escolares: Como Jos padres pueden ayudar"); "Every Child Needs a Champion" ("Cada nino necesita un campeon"); "Accounting for Prejudice: It Doesn't Add Up" ("Justificar el prejuicio: Es que no es justo"); and "The Wizards of Odds: Kids Who Overcome Risks" ("Los ninos superheroes: Triunfando de obstaculos"). (SV) *********************************************************************** Reproductions supplied by EDRS are the best that can be made from the original document. *********************************************************************** IERid Clearinghouse on Rural Education and Small Schools Briefs for Parents in Ready-to-Copy Form U.S. DEPARTMENT OF EDUCATION Office of Educational Res/retch (English/Spanish Versions) and improvement EDUCATIONAL RESOURCES INFORMATION CENTER (ERIC/ O This document has been reproduced as received from the person or organization originating it 1993 Compilation. O 1 qmor changes have been made to improve reproduction Quality Paints of new or opinions stated in this docu- ment do not necessarily represent official OERI position or policy Craig Howley Pat Cahape In plain language these six briefs state what researchers and practitioners have learned. Originally prepared as articles for rural newsweeklies as "filler," the briefs have been given high marks by both editors and readers. You'll probably come up with a variety of uses for the briefs, once you review them. Other educators and community organizations, however, have used the briefs... in class, school, or district newsletters; in report cards; for handouts at PTA or PTO meetings; for distribution in public waiting rooms (for example, doctors' offices, post offices, health departments); as readings in parent information or training courses; in school handbooks or in orientation materials for parents of incoming students; in teacher inservice packets; or in school calendars. This publication was prepared with funding from the U.S. Department of Education, Office of Educational Research and Improvement, under contract no. RI-88-062016. The opinions expressed herein do not necessarily reflect the positions or policies of the Office of Educational Research and Improvement or the Department of Education. 1993 ER1C/CRESS Appalachia Educational Laboratory An equal oi.portunity/affinnaim action orrployer P.O. Box 1348. Chartosbn, WV 25325-1348 Shipping: 1031 Ouanier Street, Clvieston, 4W 25301014 hoc 800424-9120 FAX 304/3474487 Telephone: 304447-0400 z A The Best and Worst of Times: Support Groups Help Can you remember the feeling These include other parents of becoming a parent for the first who face the same challenge. time? It's powerful, and fear is as That's why "support groups" ex- much a part of it as love. How can ist. Let's face it: The issues facing any parent ever do what seems parents of special needs children necessary? Somehow, most par- scare other parents. That fear often ents rise to the occasion. And as prevents those whose children are the new life unfolds, parents learn not so different from helping. But to take the bad with the good. parents who are actually facing the Part of taking the bad with the fear usually do want to help each good may include dealing with other. These parents form support what people now call "special groups, often with the help of pro- needs." The term refers to children fessionals. who are very different from most Support groups exist for all The difference might children. kinds of special needs these involve a handicap or dis- daysvictims of abuse and ability, but it can also mean neglect, people with AIDS, any out-of-the-ordi- people who have lost a loved nary condition (includ- one, parents of disabled chil- special ing talents). dren. Groups that meet face- The challenge, in fact, to-face on a regular basis is to provide what the are ideal. But even if you. child needs as a result live in an isolated rural of being so different. area, you can get help -; This is an impor- and information by tant point. Meeting contacting state or special need a national organiza- means making tions. Andchances areyou can make things right for the child. The only ques- contact with someone in tions are the usual ones: How? similar circumstances with whom Who? Where? and When? The you can talk by phone when idea is to overcome barriers, not to needed. accept them. Not to give up. Not To learn more about support to accept "if's" and "but's" and groups for children with special "no's" when you know you're needsor virtually any topic re- right. Knowing when you are right lated to education and raising chil- is a matter of courage, knowledge, dren, call the ERIC Clearinghouse and the support of people you trust. on Rural Education and Small Parents of children with special Schools (ERIC/CRESS) toll-free needs can feel alone, stressed-out, at 1-800/624-9120. We can send and inadequate. They often feel you a free packet of six brief re- guilty as a result. These emotions ports about special needs students are natural. They come with the and put you in touch with organi- Treating the child's need, turf. zations that can help. To find out however, requires that parents more about the ERIC system and make solid connections with its services, call ACCESS ERIC at people they can trust. 1-800/LET-ERIC. 3 Accounting for Prejudice: It Doesn't Add Up Equality before the law is the children. Parents should talk and foundation of our system of jus- act in ways that show their children tice. It was not always so. they respect and appreciate human Our word "prejudice," in fact, differences. These include racial, comes from an ancient Roman gender, ethnic, religious, lan- guage, and mental differences practice, the "praejudicium." This was a hearing to determine an ac- (including abilities and beliefs). cused person's social The example that par- status in advance of a ents set is the best pro- In the real real trial. tection children have the Romans trial, against becoming applied the law in prejudiced people. A different ways, National Council for depending on the the Social Studies re- social status of the ac- port points out a num- cused. Needless to say, ber of facts about preju- those of lower status dice that should be use- less well than fared ful to parents: those of higher status. children who feel good Many people would claim that about themselves are less likely things are not really so different than others to exhibit prejudice; today. The legacy of prejudice is caring for othersin the home alive and well in most societies. or at schoolis a key part of an Equality before the law offers environment that defuses important, but limited, protection prejudice; from the effects of prejudice. social influencesincluding In modem times, prejudice the mediadetermineattitudes works like the old Roman praeju- toward minorities more than dicium, but on a personal level. education; and Prejudiced people make judg- formal learning alone does not ments about others based on un- typically undo deep-seated Such fears often founded fears. prejudices. stem from limited information and suspicion, which just don't add up To find out more about preju- to good judgment. dice or any other topic related to Any human differencein ap- education and raising children, pearance, behavior, or language call the ERIC Clearinghouse on can trigger unfounded fears in the Rural Education and Small prejudiced mind. Unfounded fears Schools (ERIC/CRESS) toll-free keep prejudiced people from act- at 1-800/624-9120. We can help ing responsibly as they interact you get materials and put you in with others. touch with organizations that are According to the National concerned. We can provide a free Council for the Social Studies, copy of the National Council re- prejudice begins early in life, port cited in this article (ED 258 grows in ignorance, and will per- 881), as well as a list of resources sist if not challenged. Children, it developed by the Los Angeles seems, are the people most vulner- County Commission on Human able to the unfounded fears of Relations (ED 337 520). To find prejudice. out more about the ERIC system No one is more important than and its services, call ACCESS parents in defusing prejudice in ERIC at 1-800/LET-ERIC. 4 Moral Development in Children We all want our children to Necessary ingredients in- lems. become responsible, caring clude commitment, time, and a lot people. Anyone who has raised of talk. Learning to care also re- children knows how difficult a quires thought. Parents can read about tech- challenge this really is. One thing is clear, though: The family is niques to help them take this lead, where it happens. Parents have the and public libraries have a variety most influence with children, and of books on the topic. Sometimes, no one but parents can demon- too, the short-term help of a profes- strate greater care or consistency. sional counselor is useful. In many The opinions of people outside cases, the example set by parents the family count, however. The who deal openly with their own commentslike "What a good day-to-day difficulties is good for baby you have! " begin (But witness- children. ing parents' repeated, right away. (Usually, this statement means only unsuccessful or hurtful that the baby is quiet attempts can harm chil- and easy to please.) dren's ability to care ei- After the baby gets ther for themselves or a lot it's older, for others.) more difficult for Children also people to say ex- need the chance to act actly what they in caring ways. A think goodness in good place start to children is. within the family is to Many people, have children help with however, agree that caring yard chores, kitchen for others is an important chores, or caring for part of being goodboth in us Such tasks give pets. and in our children. Parents' love children a structure in which to is critical, because without it, chil- express their care. At first, chil- dren will not care for themselves. dren may resent new tasks. But And they must care for themselves when children become genuinely before they can care for anyone involved in such routines, they else. make a valuable contribution to The support that family mem- the family. This fact will become bers give each other, in fact, helps obvious to them in time, especially make a family strong. Parents and as parents express genuine appre- children learn to sense that they ciation. The children's contribu- can count on one another. The tion, in fact, can free up more of the sense of caring, however, must be parents' time for family activities. built, day by day, as the children To find out more about chil- grow up and as the parents' lives dren's moral development or any Goodness is a moving change. other topic related to education target. and raising children, call the ERIC As children grow up, they can Clearinghouse on Rural Education and Small Schools (ERIC/ help deal productively with the daily strife and long-term chal- CRESS) toll-free at l -800/624- We can provide a free lenges that are part of life. Dealing 9120. head -on with problems, both one- packet of five short reports about on -one and as a family, is challeng- parenting and family life. To find ing, but essential. Obviously, par- out more about the ERIC system ents need to take the lead in show- and its services, call ACCESS ing children how to deal with prob- ERIC at I- 800/LET -ERIC. Homework: How Parents Can Help How important is homework having the television on, however. for helping children do well in Children don't necessarily need to study in a private space. school? And how can busy parents The help? kitchen may be a fine place to Completing homework on time study, for instance, so long as dis- clearly contributes to school suc- tractions are kept to a minimum. Provide basic materials. cess. It helps reinforce classroom learning and shows teachers that Pens, pencils, lined paper, pencil the student wants to succeed. In sharpener, and so forth are usually students who have done fact, all your child will need. In higher poorly in the past do better when grades, your child may need graph parents get involved in helping paper, a dictionary, and other ma- them get their homework done. terials. Expect an occasional nip But what is the best way for to the library (for information) or parents to help? to the store (for supplies). Helping should begin with Help your child get organized an understanding that to bring home needed mate- children are re- rials. Provide either a note- sponsible for book with dividers and homework. pockets in it or a back Parents are pack so your child can there to help reduce the chances of them get organ- losing papers, notes, or as- ized and to en- courage them If signments. when they get stuck. getting organ- Parents can do other things to ized is a problem, involve help with homework. the teacher. In the earlier grades Set a regular study time. especially, most teachers are will- ing to prompt children to take Keep your child's attention span in mindyou may need two short home the required materials. periods with a break in between. Have your child write down Check with your child's teacher if daily homework assignments. If you are uncertain about how much your school does not have a home- time to set aside for study. Make it work hotline, ask the teacher to a regular period, though, with a check that your child has written a beginning and an ending time. list of assignments at the end of Pick a time that won't be inter- each day. rupted by lessons or other activi- To find out more about how to ties. If your child finishes before become involved in your child's learningor virtually any topic the end of the study time, have him or her spend the rest of the time related to education and raising reading. This will help your child children, call the ERIC Clearing- become a better reader and it will house on Rural Education and reduce the temptation to hurry Small Schools (ERIC/CRESS) through assignments. toll-free at 1-800/624-9120. We Provide a quiet place for can send you a free ERIC report study. Try to eliminate as many To find out about homework. distractions as possible. Some more about the ERIC system and kids work better with a little, low- its services, call ACCESS ERIC at level background sound. Avoid 1-800/LET-ERIC. The Wizards of Odds: Kids Who Overcome Risk Poverty, racial or ethnic preju- seems to be the sense that they dice, abusive environments, and have a lot to do with what happens other problems stack the odds of in their lives. They reject the role life against many children. At the of victim. same time, new research has Finally, these kids have goals reached an interesting conclusion. and believe they can succeed. The Though such problems increase future exists for them. In short, the odds that children will experi- hope helps them push forward in ence serious difficulties, most life. children actually beat the odds. Just being poor, then, turns out For example, only not to be a terrible risk in itself. nine percent of chil- Impoverished parents dren of schizophrenic canand most often _ dohelp parents grow up to be their schizophrenics them- children learn the selves. Only one in four skills and attitudes that children of alcoholics protect against risk. But grow up to be alcoholics. stresses on additional Of course, the more nu- top of povertyalco- merous the problems, the holism, abuse, criminal worse the odds. But the environmentmake basic insight is important: the picture bleaker. Many kids are stronger Sometimes parents are than people think. Something themselves overwhelmed by mul- makes the "wizards of odds" tiple stresses. Developing traits kids who overcome risksstrong. that protect children is a greater What might that be? challenge for parents in these cir- Four things actually come into cumstances. play, according to a new report by The lesson of recent research, Bonnie Benard. The report is however, seems to be that other available free to readers of this peopleneighbors, teachers, pas- tors, and counselorscan article. still First, kids who overcome risk take steps to help children become know how to make friends and "wizards of odds." care for others. They create their To find out more about over- own "support networks"people coming risk or any other topic re- who care for them and can help in lated to education and raising chil- time of need. Humor is one of their dren, call the ERIC Clearinghouse tools. They give themselves comic on Rural Education and Small relief from difficult situations. Schools (ERIC/CRESS) toll-free Second, these kids can think at 1-800/624-9120. We can help about and act on problems. They you get materials and put you in know how to negotiate on their touch with organizations that are own behalf. concerned. We can provide a free Third, kids who overcome risk copy of Bonnie Bernard's report are independent. They know who (ED 335 781). To find out more they arc. They know what they about the ERIC system and its value, what they want, and they go services, call ACCESS ERIC at for it. Part of their independence 1-800/LET-ERIC. Every Child Needs a Champion together to consider common Once upon a time, not so long problems and solutions. The Na- ago, children spent their entire day tional Committee for Citizens in surrounded by family, neighbors, is one organization and friends. Things are different Education now. When they are very young among many that can help. Their toll-free number (Washington, we send our children to school. And most of usmen and women DC) is 1-800/638-9675. alikego off to a job. We seldom Some form of advocacy is an even see our children during the essential part of children's educa- tion. And childrenparticularly work day. This is a big change from the those facing unusual difficulties past, but no one is certain whether are not usually good advocates on their own behalf. They need the change is good or bad. We de know that our relations champions to help the system with others are now pay attention. Successful more complicated, advocacy can help children and youth more numerous, and imper- more learn to assert their sonal. own needs in ways Laws, regu- that are effective. lations, and "offi- It's ideal if par- cial" actions gov- ents can play this ern behavior more They have the biggest role. than they did stake. But this is not always pos- a hundred years ago. For this rea- sible. There are no easy ways to son, parents sometimes take a make sure every child has a cham- "hands-off" view of relations with pion. Being a champion, after all, teachers, principals, social work- requires courageous personal ac- ers, and health workers. These tion in an impersonal world. people are authorities. After all, The best strategy for finding or becomingan advocate is to don't they know what's best? In an impersonal sense, they talk to other concerned parents and often do. But children are not teachers. Professional advocates, impersonal beings. Laws, regula- moreover, are often available to tions, and official actions some- work with parents of handicapped times get in the way of children's children. To find out more about best interests. advocacyor virtually any topic This observation applies to most children at some related to education and raising time, particularly when a child gets children, call the ERIC Clearing- into difficulty. At such times, house on Rural Education and Small Schools (ERIC/CRESS) especially, children need an advo- cate. toll-free at 1-800/624-9120. We An advocate gives voice to the can help you get materials and put child's best interests. Advocates you in touch with organizations that are concerned. To find out can help raise issues that have been ignored by the school; they can go more about the ERIC system and with parents to school meetings; its services, call ACCESS ERIC at they can bring like-minded people 1-800/LET-ERIC. Los tiempos mej ores y peores: Los grupos apoyadores pueden ayudar Las alianzas, en parte, deben I,Puede usted rccordar sus sen- incluir otros padres con los mis- timientos cuando por primera vez fue padre o madre? Los sentimien- mos retos con que enfrentarse. Por tos fueron fuertes, y el miedo, tanto eso existen los "grupos de apoyo" como el amor, fue parte de ellos. o "support groups". Enfrente- LCOmo puede un padre saber y monos la realidad: los temas con hacer todo lo necesario? No se que los padres de nitios especiales sabe, pero de alguna manera, la tienen que enfrentarse dan miedo a mayoria de los padres sf logran los otros padres, y por este miedo a exit° en su responsibilidad. Y lo desconocido no quieren envol- mientras la vida de un hijo se des- verse. Pero normalmente los pa- pliegue, los padres aprenden a dres de niiios con necesidades es- aceptar lo malo y lo bueno. peciales sf quieren ayudar unos a Una parte de tomar lo malo y lo otros. Estos padres forman grupos bueno incluye tratar de lo que se de apoyo, muchas veces con el llama "necesidades especiales". ayuda de profesionales. Este termino refiere a los ninos Hoy en dfa, los grupos de apoyo que se consideran diferentes existen para todas clases de a los demas nifios. La difer- necesidades especialespara encia puede ser una in- las victimas del abuso y negli- ca pacidad o impedi- gencia, para personas con el mento, pero se refiere SIDA, para personas que han tambien a cualquier ca- perdido un ser querido, y ractcristica excepcio- para padres de nifios con nal, incluso un talento incapacidades. Los gru- ffsico o mental espe- pos que se reunen cara a El reto esta en cial. cara regularmente proveer lo que la son ideales. Pero aun diferencia del nifio cuando uno vivo en indica que se neces- un lugar rural aislado, ita. se puede conseguir ayu- Esto es importante. da e informaci6n por medio Cumplir con una necesidad de las organizaciones estatales y especial quiere decir asegurar que nacionales. Y hay mucha posibi- todo este bien para el nifio. Las lidad de que haya alguicn de cir- preguntas de siempre son LC6mo? cunstancias semejantes a las suyas tQuien? 4D6nde? y i,Cuando? La con quien hablar por telefono cuan- idea es superar los obstaculos, no do se siente la necesidad. aceptarlos, no darnos por venci- Para m as inform acion sobre gru- dos, no aceptar el "sr, el "pero" o pos de apoyo para nifios con el "no" cuando sabemos que tene- necesidades especiales, o sobre mos la raz6n. Para reconocer que cualquier otro tema acerca de la ticne uno la raz6n, se necesita val- educacion de los nifios, llame sin or, conocimiento y el apoyo de costo alguno al 1-800-624-9120, personas en quienes se pueden con- "Centro de educacien rural y de fiar. pequefias" (ERIC/ escuelas Los padres de nifios con CRESS). Podemos mandarle un necesidades especiales suelan sen- paquete gratuito de seis reportes tirse solos, opresionados, inade- (solo en ingles) acerca de los estu- cuados, y frccuentemente se sient- diantes con necesidades cspecia- en culpables. Estas emociones son naturales. Sin embargo, para les, y ponerle en contacto con orga- los padres puedan ayudar a sus nizaciones apoyadoras. Para in- hijos, se tienen que formar alianzas formaciOn general sobre el sistema con otras personas en quienes "ERIC" y sus servicios, llame al 1- pueden confiar. 800 -538 -3742. 4- 9 Justificar el prejuicio: Es que no es justo La igualdad ante la ley es la respetan y aprccian la varicdad hu- base de nucstro sistema judicial. mana, la cual incluye diferencias de Oiler°, de lenguajc, y diferen- No fue siempre asi. cias raciales, etnicas, religiosas, y La palabra "prejuicio", en real- idad, proviene de una practica ro- mentales (incluso las habilidades y mana antigua, el "pracjudicium". crcencias). La mejor manera de no ensefiarle prejuicios a un nitio es Esto era una audiencia para deter- ponerle un buen ejem- minar el estado social de un acusa- do antes del juicio. En el plo. Sega un reporte (TA juicio, los romanos apli- f la ley en formal del "Concilio national caban desiguales, segiln de los estudios socia- r les," los siguientcs da- el estado social del acusado. Sobra tos acerca del prcj uicio decir que los del estado les pueden ser titiles a mas bajo salieron poor los padres: ,, en el proceso juridic° los nifios quc tienen que los privilegiados. un auto-concepto bueno Mucha gente diria estan menos dispuestos quc no es tan diferente hoy. a tenor prejuicios; El el carifio para los demasen el legato del prejuicio todavia existe hogar o en la escuelaes una en la mayoria de las sociedades. parte claw del amhicntc quc La ley protege, aunquc limitada- mente, contra los efectos del disminue cl prejuicio; las influencias socialesin- prejuicio. cluyendo los mcdios de comu- Hoy en dia, el prejuicio funcio- na como el antiguo "praejudici- nicaciOntienen mas impacto que Ia escuela en determinar urn" romano, pero a un nivel mils personal. Personas con prejuicios actitudes hacia grupos diversos; juzgan a los demas por razon de y temores sin base. Estos temores gcneralmente, la escuela sola provienen de informaciOn incom- no puede eliminar los prejuicios pleta y de la sospecha, resultando profundos. en juicios err6neos. Para mas information sobre los Cualquierdiferencia humana efectos del prejuicio o sobre cual- quier otra tema acerca de la edu- del aspecto, del comportamiento o del idiomapuede fomentar te- cacion de los nifios, flame sin costo mores en un individuo con alguno al 1-800-624-9120, "Cen- tro de education rural y de es- prejuicios. Estos temores infunda- cuelas pequefias" (ERIC/CRESS). dos son Ia causa de conducta irres- Podemos conseguirle materiales y ponsible con otras personas. Sega el "Concilio nacional de ponerle en contacto con organiza- los estudios sociales", el prejuicio ciones apoyadoras. Podemos man- nace a una temprana edad, se fo- darle una copia grataita del reporte menta en la ignorancia, y perdura- (solo en ingles) citado en este articu- ra si no esta refutado. Parece ser lo (ED 258 881) y tambien una lista de recursos com pi lada por Ia que los nifios son los mas vulnera- "Com ision sobre relaciones hu- bles a las garras del prejuicio. manas del condado de Los Ange- Los padres son las personas Trigs les" (ED 337 520). Para infer- claves en disminuir el prejuicio en Los padres deben de macion general sobre el sistema los nifios. hablar y actuar en una manera que "ERIC" y sus scrvicios, flame al 1- demuestra a sus hijos que ellos 800 -538 -3742. 1 0

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