Emotional Hook Formula™ PDF, eBook by Elaine Chase & Aaron Fox

97 Pages·2015·2.78 MB·English

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Disclaimer:
This book is written for informational purposes only. The author has
made every effort to make sure the information is complete and
accurate. All attempts have been made to verify information at the
time of this publication and the authors do not assume any
responsibility for errors, omissions, or other interpretations of the
subject matter. The publisher and author shall have neither liability
nor responsibility to any person or entity with respect to any loss or
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book.
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Table Of Contents
Section 1 - Seldom-Known Secrets of the
Male Psyche: This is How Men Really
Think!............................................................................18
Section 2 - Powerful Emotional Triggers to
Entrance Any Man............................................................32
Section 3 - The Invisible Trap: How to Avoid
it Before it’s Too Late........................................................44
Section 4 - The Most Vital Key To Getting What
You Want Out Of A Relationship.........................................56
Section 5 - The Biggest Fear That Men Hide
From Women..................................................................72
Section 6 - Making a Reluctant Man
Commit..........................................................................83
Section 7 - How Women Accidentally Kill their
Relationships...................................................................97
Section 8 - How to Read A Man’s Mind and
Discover His True Intentions............................................110
Section 9 - How to Stop Ending up with
Losers..........................................................................122
Section 10 - Mastering the Art of
Suggestion....................................................................134
Section 11 - The Most Powerful Thing a
Woman Can Do to Create Conflict.....................................146
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Section 12 - Deciphering His Hidden Messages
and Discovering The Truth...............................................155
Section 13 - Psychologically Training Your Man: Out
with the Bad, In with the Good........................................162
Section 14 - Discussing “Next Level” without
Freaking Him Out...........................................................173
Section 15- Finding “The One” – The Real
Secrets.........................................................................184
Section 16 - Empirically Understanding
Emotional Unavailability..................................................196
Section 17 - The “X-Factors” – The Most
Extremely Important Qualities Men Seek in
Women.........................................................................205
Section 18 - Breaking Down the Call Back........................218
Section 19 – Understanding His Main Role.......................227
Section 20 - The Most Dangerous Mistakes to
Make Around Men..........................................................235
Section 21 - “Break In Case of Breakup”..........................248
Section 22 - The Most Important Things to
Keep In Mind.................................................................259
Final Words – Applying What
You’ve Learned..............................................................283
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Introduction

I’m just going to start things off with a little anecdote that you
may find relatable.

Once upon a time, like so many other times, a girl liked a guy.
She hadn’t just immediately fallen for him at first sight, but
eventually, there was no denying her very real feelings for him.

This is the kind of story that’s been reenacted in well over a
billion different settings, but ultimately, we observe the same
pattern of plot development in each one.

After a bit of time had passed, the girl’s attraction evolved into
something much more advanced than what it began as. It
began as puppy love, but with time, the attraction developed
into a powerful emotional impulse. Rather than just registering
as simple attraction, the feeling made the girl feel an impulse to
be with the young man.

Instead of just wanting to admire him, she slowly came to the
realization that she wants to be with him. She more frequently
visualized scenarios with the two of them together in ways
beyond physical engagement. She imagined scenarios that
indicate two people who have committed to a legitimate life
together.

As beautiful as her fantasies may have been, they were
accompanied by anxiety. She wondered, above all things,
whether or not he actually felt the same way.

She wondered if there was any chance that he may actually be
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envisioning the same scenarios that keep her up at night. The
thought of him at once enlivened her spirits and swathed her in
the deepest type of dread.

The constant, dualistic sensations of giddiness and doubt shook
her constitution to the core and made her far less secure than
usual. Her everyday thoughts would be momentarily permeated
and colored by her feelings, temporarily sweeping her up and
taking her miles away without her needing to physically move
one muscle.

When she developed real frustration at not being able to know
how he felt about her, the words he actually spoke became
augmented with brand new type of pressure. The possible
windows into his consciousness tantalized her with the incentive
of solving that puzzle of his affections haunting her sleepless
nights.

Of course, the impact of her feelings didn’t render her
completely helpless to self-control. While she wanted nothing
more than to be one with him in a romantic sense, she still had
reservations about true physical consummation. Hearing, “You
are so beautiful” excited her, but his sexual boldness quickly
made her defensive.

When she showed resistance, he was stricken with a feeling of
conflict similar to what she was feeling before. With his sexual
advance repelled, he will wondered about her level of interest
while she questioned the depth of her willingness to continue
engaging him.

Every time she refused him, he would ignore her for several
days to follow. The mounting uncertainty from his lack of
contact with her would set the anxiousness off again, and she
would be driven to start rethinking her defense against his
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advances.

Eventually, she let him have his way in the hopes that they
would grow closer.

Unfortunately for her, the move turned out to be anything but
what she had hoped for. Instead of growing closer together, she
found that giving into his sexual desires had really done nothing
to take their relationship out of limbo. She had hoped that
physical consummation had been a step forward, but it wasn’t a
step to anywhere.

It began to seem like time was slowing down, like each second
was squeezed at the head and stretched out like a piece of
taffy. Days transformed into weeks, and weeks matured into
months. She eventually had to take a step back and have the
melancholy realization that letting down here defenses had
been a useless move.

While it hadn’t been a forward move, it hadn’t been a lateral
move either; as a matter of fact, she was distressed to see that
it may have actually been more of a move backwards. She was
starting to feel as though he was actually acting even more like
a platonic friend than he ever had before.

Some people say that the opposite of love isn’t actually hatred
or anger, but total apathy. It would have been one thing if he
had cared enough to be offended at something she had said or
done, but it seemed as though he wouldn’t be affected much by
anything that he said at all.

The lack of emotional attachment honestly hurt her in a much
different way than an emotionally tumultuous falling-out. She
was overcome with a need for at least some kind of affirmation,
and so one day she decided to finally ask the serious question.
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She called him up on the phone with bated breath and asked a
serious question.

She asked him, “So, what do you think about us? What are we
exactly?”

He was at a loss for an appropriate response. In all honesty, he
didn’t actually know what she was talking about.

She went on to express just how distraught she was at their
lack of communication. She said, “You never tell me how you
really feel towards me. You never talk about our relationship.” It
was as simple and raw as anything that she could say.

She thought that her question could serve as a kindle to more
intimate dialogue, but in response, he was as cold as ice. It was
as if she hadn’t asked him anything at all, and in all honesty,
part of her wondered if she even should have asked anything at
all.

With no more options left, she had no other measures than her
last resort. She steeled up her resolve and she finally confessed
her true, bottled-up feelings. She had been like a boiling kettle
with the lid on, and within seconds, she became a completely
open book.

She didn’t simply stop by telling him the true nature of her
feelings. She punctuated everything that she had revealed by
admitting that she wants nothing less than spending the rest of
her entire life with him. She could have stayed in the moment
between telling him and hearing his response forever, but
eventually, his response did come.

His response was that he was too busy with his career. He said,
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“I don’t think this is the right time.”

She had finally gotten the closure that she had been seeking,
though it hadn’t been exactly what she was looking after. As a
matter of fact, the conclusive answer that he had given her
couldn’t have possibly been any further from what she had
been waiting for. Her boiling emotional frustration was replaced
with confusion.

Even though he had said that he was too busy, the way that he
had said it only served to raise even further questions. He had
given her a solid answer, but she didn’t have a complete idea of
exactly what had just happened. Once again, the days and
nights became colored by a nonstop flow of mental questions.

She wondered whether or not his true feelings for her were
actually being stifled by a repressed fear that kept him from
fully expressing them.

She wondered if the reason he had denied her was actually
because she asked him about it too early on, even though she’d
already been waiting for it at the same time.

She wondered if the true reason could actually be because he
simply wasn’t the kind of man who was really built for
commitment in the first place, and if she would have truly been
better off leaving well-enough alone.

Though she had gotten the answers to the questions that had
been tormenting her for so long, they were still driving her mad
without any relief. She found herself in the unenviable position
of needing more answers to clarify the answers that she already
had.

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Even though she was still hurting for some legitimate answers
to her questions, there was still something that she was
absolutely sure of beyond any reasonable doubt in the world;
she wanted to be with this guy, and she wanted to be with him
badly.

It was the kind of affection so full of life that it actively affirms
its own existence when denied. Her feelings alone were
legitimate, but she couldn’t legitimately find it within her to
concede defeat. Instead of moving on, she came to the
conclusion that she simply hadn’t been trying hard enough.

Faced with the feeling that she just hadn’t put in enough effort,
she came to the conclusion that the next logical move could
only be to fully show him just how much he truly loved her. She
figured that the amount of affection he showed had to have a
positive relationship with her level of persistence.

Her uncertainty and anxiety was replaced with dogged
determination. Above all things, she was convinced that she
would have to express the full degree of her love until he finally
committed to her. She didn’t expect it to happen overnight, but
no one could tell her that he wouldn’t eventually reciprocate her
passions.

Unfortunately, she would not have her way.

Her new level of motivation was matched equally by the shock
of what happened next. Unthinkably, he became even colder
and less responsive than ever. He wasn’t even putting in the
effort to be a platonic friend to her anymore. She called and
filled up his answering machine relentlessly, but he was as
unreachable as the Milky Way.

It wasn’t as though he’d never he’d never ignored her before,
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