Download The Red Pill Handbook 2nd Ed

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The Red Pill
Handbook
A collection of posts, articles, and links from
https://www.reddit.com/r/theredpill
2nd Edition
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Table of Contents
Introduction 5
- Introduction 6
- The Basics Explained 10
- Red Pill Antibiotic Nuke, Come and Feed 16
- What Is The Red Pill And Why Does It Exist? 23
- An Evolutionary Perspective on The Red Pill 25
A Comprehensive Guide to The Red Pill 26
- All-in-One Red Pill 101 27
- 1. Introduction 28
- 2. Keep It Stupid Simple (KISS) 29
- 3. Desires 30
- 4. The Red Pill 31
- 5. The Sexual Marketplace 38
- 6. Improving Sexual Market Value (SMV) 41
- The Five Stages of Red Pill 55
The Red Pill and Society 57
- What Is With All The Hate On TRP? 58
- Why Do You Think This Subreddit Is So Hated On Reddit? 61
- Excuse Me. Why Does Everyone Assume You Guys Are Abusive Assholes? 66
- Deconstructing: EMSK Why "The Red Pill" Will Kill You Inside 71
- Feminists are Losing The Debate Online 83
The Red Pill, Self-Improvement, and Masculinity 87
- How You Know You're Alpha 88
- Abundance Mentality (Alpha) vs. Scarcity Mentality (Beta) 92
- The Easiest Way To Raise Your Value As A Man 94
- So You Want To Be A Man? Welcome To Life On Hard Mode 96
- You Are Disposable. The World Does Not Care About You. 99
- Respect is Earned 101
- My Stance On Women 109
- Male Bonding, Arousal Addiction, and Isolation 113
- Feminism and the Death of the Male Mentor 119
- An Overview of Powertalk 122
- Do Not Let Negativity Consume You 128
- Being a Man is a Lonely Business (Endure) 132
- 5 Misconceptions of MGTOW 136
Guides to Success in Self-Improvement 141
- A 7 Step Guide To Swallowing The Pill 142
- Focus On You First. And Second. And Third. And...Blah Blah...Worry About Women
Seventh147
- Goals: A Quick Guide On How To Attain Them 151
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- Let's Do Money 155
- Dealing With Loneliness As You Work Toward Becoming A Top 10% Man 160
The Red Pill, Dating, and Relationships 165
General Sexual Marketplace Theory 166
- Briffault's Law 167
- Men Are Not Happy 168
- The Unbalanced Sexual Marketplace 171
- The Red Pill is Pro-Woman 175
- Being Controlling is for Losers! 179
- Is Your Girlfriend Cheating On You With Her Guy-Friends? 182
- Society Likes To Ignore A Woman's Past Sexual Behavior When Judging Her Character.
Don't Fall Into This Trap 185
- Love is Irrational 189
- The Redefinition of Marriage 193
Observations on Gender Behaviour 197
- The Red Pill Is Even Tougher To Swallow For Girls 198
- "Why Would That Matter? I'm The Girl" 202
- New Members, This Is Fundamental 203
- She Doesn't Love You 205
- Women Don't Give a Fuck About Your "Feelings" 207
- "I've Been Hurt in the Past" 209
- A Red Pill Take On "Why Is Men Feeling Entitled To Sex Is Being Discussed While
Women Feeling Entitled To Friendship is Not?" 212
- The Female Imperative 218
- Why Girls Get Over Guys Quicker 220
- Why Women Like Unemotional Men 225
- Why Women Love Assholes (An Alternate View) 231
- 12 Irresistible Bad Boy Traits Women Crave 233
- She's Going To Get Away With Whatever She Wants. Accept It. Stop Caring. 235
- Lying About Sexual Partners 237
- How To Know You Are Dating A Slut. Source: I Married One 240
- A Woman Cannot Tell You How You Must Proceed. She Can Only Tell You What She
Wants To Experience 244
- Women are Incapable of Change 247
- I've Become Too Critical Of Girls 252
- I Don't Hate Women, I Just Don't Respect Them... 255
- Women Want A Wedding, Not A Marriage 260
- The Modern Woman's Sexual Strategy 261
- Another Take On Why TRP Is Loathed By Women: AF/BB Has To Be A Secret. 265
Dating and Relationships 268
- The Two Most Powerful Weapons In A Man's Relationship Arsenal: Stepping Out, And
Walking Away. 269
- The Most Unattractive Trait Of All: Trying To Attract A Woman 270
- Red Pill vs. Blue Pill Dating Behaviour 273
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- You Only Want Me for Sex! 276
- Refusing The Gift 280
- You're The Island, And She's The Seagull 284
- Don't Just Make Her Do What You Want. Make Her Want To 286
- Every Man Must Always Follow The Rule 289
- Be a Closed Book 292
- Never Date A Woman Who Won't Do Sexual Things With You That She Did With Her
Other Partners 295
- Treat Women Like Children 296
- Be A Good Person If You Want But It Won't Attract Women 301
- Men Opting Out of The Sexual Marketplace 304
Guides to Success in Dating and Relationships 310
- Guide to Social Game 311
- A List of Relationship Green Flags 316
- "Take My Breath Away" 318
- The Definitive Guide To Shit Tests 320
- Be Selfish, Dismissive, Amused, And Communicate Less - The Keys To
Success323
- The Eight Rules of Fatherhood 327
Red Pill Stories and Experiences 330
- I Think I Broke Her... 331
- Shit Tests Cause Me to Lose Interest in Women 332
- Why I'm Afraid of Marriage 334
- Learn From Me: 40 Years Old, 3 Kids, Divorced 337
- I Was Divorce Raped. Don't Be Me 343
- Don't Be Like Bruce 349
Quotes and Highlighted Comments 352
- A Collection of TRP Gold from the Comments 353
- Another Collection of TRP Gold from the Comments 389
- Legendary Quotes from TRP 403
Resources 405
- Glossary 406
Further Reading 414
- Required Reading 415
- List of Websites 416
- Articles 417
- Books420
- Thank You 423
- Publication History 424
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Introduction
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Introduction
By pk_athiest.
Article link.
Greetings, everybody. Welcome to The Red Pill. We've got almost a hundred
subscribers, in exactly two weeks! This is incredible.
Why have we grown so quickly?
Because there's truth in The Red Pill. Because men are realizing that the sexual
marketplace has shifted away from what we've been taught. Men who grew up
over thirty years ago are discovering the world has changed. Men who are still
growing up- from the 80s, 90s, and even the last decade, they're starting to realize
that what their parents taught them, what television and chick flicks taught them,
what church and Sunday school taught them... it's all wrong.
Our culture has become a feminist culture. A president cannot be elected today
without succumbing to the feminist narrative and paying them tribute. How many
times has Obama given credit for his manhood to his wife? How many times has
the debate hinged on women's pay gap - which is a myth that gets lip service
because if you don't you're a misogynist!
I'm not here to parade the concepts of Men's Rights- nor am I here to discuss
self-improvement tips that /r/seduction now purports are to make you a better man,
not get laid more often.
I am here to say, for better or for worse, the frame around public discourse is a
feminist frame, and we've lost our identity because of it.
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But this isn't the end of the world. The world is changing, but men are still part
of it. We just need to make sure we're changing with it.
It's too easy to blame feminism for our troubles.
Men, our happiness is our responsibility. Culture has always shifted, it's
dynamic and fluid. It has never and will never stay still.
Feminism was inevitable. Equal rights are something I strongly am in support
of. For men and women.
Women have the right to pursue happiness. Nobody should tell them otherwise.
Maximizing happiness is the goal of every living creature on this planet.
Men, we need to recognize that since women are rightfully seeking out
happiness, evolutionary psychology is more relevant today than ever in the past
century (and possibly longer). We no longer run the show. And I, for one, don't
disagree that marriage had to change if we were to see equal rights.
But now it's time to get serious and realize that our strategy needs to change.
Feminism is a sexual strategy. It puts women into the best position they can find, to
select mates, to determine when they want to switch mates, to locate the best DNA
possible, and to garner the most resources they can individually achieve.
The Red Pill is men's sexual strategy. Reality is happening, and we need to
make sure that we adjust our strategy accordingly.
Welcome to The Red Pill. It's a difficult pill to swallow, understanding that
everything you were taught, everything you were lead to believe is a lie. But once
you learn it, internalize it, and start living your new life, it gets better.
As an introduction to the topic, I want to outline what our focus is here at /r/
theredpill.
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Mastering Game
Game is an important portion of a sexual strategy. A lot of you probably came
here from /r/seduction and are probably wondering why we'd need a new subreddit
if one dedicated to game already exists. The reason is simple: Game is a facet of
The Red Pill's sexual strategy. Determining good game is impossible to do so
without first understanding the context given by The Red Pill's framework.
Something I keep seeing over on the seduction subreddit is a problem taking over
most relationship and sex forums: the desire to feminize the discussion (basically
making it sound politically correct if read by a female).
Yes, game got a bad reputation from girls who demonize manipulation. This is
because game is an effective strategy against their own sexual strategy. I believe
women's opposition to game can be attributed to the unconscious factors in
women's sexual strategy (Please do read Schedules of Mating).
When women started becoming vocal about their opposition to game, that's
when men decided it would be necessary to make game more politically correct.
"Oh, we're not here to manipulate women to have sex with us- we're here to
become better men!"
And thus, the female imperative took over game. When men think they must
define their own sexual strategy in a way that best delivers results to the female
sexual strategy, you know your own strategy will suffer! In a game of chess, do I
politely not take out the oppositions' queen in hopes not to offend or win the game?
Defining the Strategy
Because of the necessity to have good game, we must define what good game
is. A large portion of Red Pill discussion revolves around evolutionary psychology.
Understanding the facets of this psychology are key to developing a good sexual
strategy. Because this strategy is useful not only in gaining the attention of the
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opposite sex, but continuing relationships, having children, and maximizing your
own happiness throughout life, I'm going to argue that defining the strategy outside
of just "good game" is an important facet of Red Pill discussion.
Acknowledging Reality
Finally, I think our focus should always remain on ensuring that we challenge
the reality we perceive and discuss precisely and objectively whether or not our
beliefs line up with the testable results we can replicate. I am a firm believer that
potential success can only be maximized by maximizing your knowledge of the
factors surrounding your success. Keeping your eyes closed and ignoring evidence
and facts will not benefit you. Opening your eyes and acknowledging everything
no matter how good, bad, or painful it may seem, is instrumental in making
decisions that will lead to the happiest, most successful outcomes.
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