3GBABOUT 10/04/2013 8:47:57 Page218 3GFFIRS 10/04/2013 9:10:27 Pagei Donor Cultivation and the Donor Lifecycle Map A New Framework for Fundraising Deborah Kaplan Polivy 3GFFIRS 10/04/2013 9:10:27 Page ii Cover Design: Wiley Cover Image: © iStockphoto.com/Artush Copyright © 2014 by Deborah Kaplan Polivy. All rights reserved. Published by John Wiley & Sons, Inc., Hoboken, New Jersey. Published simultaneously in Canada. No part of this publication may be reproduced, stored in a retrieval system, or transmitted in any form or by any means, electronic, mechanical, photocopying, recording, scanning, or otherwise, except as permitted under Section 107 or 108 of the 1976 United States Copyright Act, without either the prior written permission of the Publisher, or authorization through payment of the appropriate per-copy fee to the Copyright Clearance Center, Inc., 222 Rosewood Drive, Danvers, MA 01923, (978) 750-8400, fax (978) 646-8600, or on the Web at www.copyright.com. 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LibraryofCongressCataloging-in-PublicationData: Polivy,DeborahKaplan,1947- Donorcultivationandthedonorlifecyclemap:anewframeworkforfundraising/ DeborahKaplanPolivy. pagescm Includesbibliographicalreferencesandindex. ISBN978-1-118-60377-2(cloth:alk.paper);ISBN978-1-118-60376-5(ebk); ISBN978-1-118-60378-9(ebk) 1. Fundraising. 2. Nonprofitorganizations--Management. I. Title. HV41.2.P652014 0 658.15224--dc23 2013024696 PrintedintheUnitedStatesofAmerica 10 9 8 7 6 5 4 3 2 1 3GFTOC 10/04/2013 9:20:8 Pageiii Contents Foreword v Preface vii Acknowledgments xi Introduction 1 AndSoThisBook 3 1 DefiningDonorCultivation 5 TheDonorLifecycleMap 7 WhyFocusonAllThreeGoalsofCultivation? 10 TheLifecycleMapasaFrameworkforThinkingaboutDonorCultivation 13 Summary 16 2 IncreasingDonorDiversity 17 IncreasingDiversityDecreasesRisk 17 IllustratingtheNumbers 20 Summary 25 3 BuildingaFoundation 27 HighlighttheMissionandHowtoAchieveIt 28 TakeAdvantageofaStrategicPlan 33 BuildaTop-NotchBackRoom 35 Summary 40 4 UtilizingPersonalDonorCultivationTools 43 PersonalDonorCultivationTools 48 Summary 78 5 ApplyingNonpersonalDonorCultivationTools 81 NonpersonalDonorCultivationTools 81 Summary 113 6 TheIntersectionofDonorCultivationToolsandtheDonor LifecycleMap 115 CultivationToolsforObtainingtheFirstGift 116 CultivationToolsforObtainingtheSecondGift 120 ■ iii ■ 3GFTOC 10/04/2013 9:20:9 Pageiv CONTENTS MovingSecondGifttoSecond-YearActive 127 MultiyearActive 129 MajororStretchGiving 133 UltimateGiving 135 Summary 140 7 DeterminingPrioritiesamongDonors 143 TheDonorPyramid 145 Age 148 Gender 155 Summary 160 8 ImpedimentstoChange 163 TheCultureofPhilanthropyandtheRoleoftheExecutiveDirector 163 TheBoardasanObstacletoChange 170 Summary 172 9 ACaseStudyinEffectingChange 175 ALittleBackgroundInformation 176 TheInterview 178 Summary 186 10 (Re)engagingLapsedDonors 189 DriversofDonorLoyalty 191 TheReasonsDonorsStopGiving 194 HowtoIdentifytheReasonforStoppingSupport 196 ClassifyingLapsedDonors 197 DevelopinganEffectiveReactivationProgram 200 ApplyingtheProperTools 201 WhoShouldReactivatetheDonorandHow? 204 IdentifyingandReactivatingUltimate-GivingProspects 205 Summary 206 11 TheDonorLifecycleMapandCultivationTools 207 FeasibilityofEffectingChange 210 Summary 215 AbouttheAuthor 217 AbouttheCompanionWebsite 219 Index 221 ■ iv ■ 3GFBETW 10/04/2013 9:4:0 Pagev Foreword I was both pleased and surprised to be asked to write a foreword for this very helpful and thoughtful book on donor cultivation. I fi personallybeganraisingmoneyfornonpro torganizationsin1984. With almost 30 years of experience and having been involved in fi ’ raisinghundredsofmillionsofdollars,I nditoddthatIdontthink of myself as a fundraiser or a development professional. Virtually everyseniorpositionIhavehadforoveraquarterofacenturyhada ’ fundraising component. So why dont I see myself as a fundraiser and how can this book help you identify more intimately with the work that you do? The relationship we have with donors is complicated. It is both fi strangeandwonderful.ThatiswhyI ndthetermrelationship-based fundraisingproblematic.Relationshipsarerelationship-based.IfItry to develop a relationship with you only for the purpose of getting ’ moneyfromyou,wedonthavemuchofarelationship,particularlyif Idosounderthefalsepretenseoffriendship.Fundraisingisnotagoal in and of itself; it is a manifestation and expression of the support peoplegiveyoubecauseofyourcredibilityandtrustandbecausethey care about the mission of the organization you represent. “ ” “fi In this respect fundraising, or even nancial resource devel- ” fi opment, is a necessary but insuf cient description of the work of ’ any fundraiser of worth. I dont see myself as a fundraiser because that is only a piece of what I do, even if it is an important and fi fi signi cant aspect of my work. Money facilitates the ful llment of a vision; it is not its own goal. That is why it is critical to understand fi theroleofmoneyintheworkthatwedoasnonpro tchangeagents. Thatiswhyitiscriticaltoinvestinpeopleforthetotalityofwhothey are. That is why it is critical to read this book. Peoplemayderidetheroleofself-helpbooksinformingrelation- ships. Why does anyone need a manual on how to have a good marriage, for example, when the ingredients of good marriage ■ v ■ 3GFBETW 10/04/2013 9:4:0 Pagevi FOREWORD ’ shouldcomenaturallybetweengoodpeople?Itsafairquestion,but it also has an uncomfortable answer. We read guides because ’ ’ althoughthedosanddonts ofanyrelationship shouldbeobvious ’ tous,theyarent.Weareofteninneedofoutsidecounselandadvice, particularlyfromthosewhohavebeensuccessfulinthetrenches.If ’ raising money required obvious skills, wed all be a lot better at it than we are. I found the following pages both comprehensive and an excel- lent framework for beginning a deeper conversation about the art fi andscienceofraisingmoney.Thisvolumeisthe rstattemptthatI fi have seen to describe the use of speci c tools that should help in building genuine and meaningful relationships with donors as donors, regardless of the level or potential for giving you begin with.IhavealwaysbeeninspiredbytheJewishtraditionthattellsus that someone who solicits charity has a greater share of divine rewardthantheonewhomerelygivescharity.Thesolicitordoubles the contribution through his or her sacred work. Effective fund- raisers understand that raising money to match our passions and fi even out the playing eld of social justice is holy work and is a privilege. ’ Fewpeopleregardfundraisingasaprivilege.Itstimetochange that. DR.MISHAGALPERIN PresidentandCEO JewishAgencyforIsrael ■ vi ■ 3GFPREF 10/04/2013 9:17:12 Pagevii Preface fi There are many different types of fundraising of ces in many different types of organizations all over the world. There are those, “ as Dr. Polivy describes in her introduction, with names of donors fi ” onRolodexcardssomewhereinabackof ce. Andontheotherend of the spectrum are organizations with large and sophisticated philanthropy departments with full-time staff responsible for the proper and continued engagement of each different type of donor. This book is written for the leaders of both. Inthesepages,thedevelopmentdirectorofasmallteamoreven fi a one-person of ce will read a number of anecdotes presented in ’ sidebars from Dr. Polivys professional experience that will help answer some of the fundamental questions not only about how to get started in fundraising, but also about the building blocks essential to a long-term, sustainable donor base. And the answers fi you,thereaderwithasmalldevelopmentprogram,will ndinthis fi ’ bookarenotdif culttoimplement.Youwontneedmassivestartup fundsortoolsorevenastafftoputintopracticetheframeworkthat ispresented.Youwill needapassionforthemissionthatyou serve and a genuine desire to engage your fellow citizens in helping to realize the future that your organization envisions. Forfundraisingleadershipatlargerprograms,thisbookissuesa challenge to remember what donor engagement really means. Like manyotherfundraisingthinkers,Dr.Polivybeginswiththepremise that a charitable relationship between donor, service provider, and fi — bene ciaryisacomplicatedandveryhumanone everchangingand — evolving between people. While our daily professional lives may seemtobefocusedaroundgettingenoughmoneyinthedoor,thinking more about how we can increase opportunitiesto involve donors in ourmissionandworkwillultimatelyleadtoamoreeffectiveresult. While this book poses a logical framework for managing a fi development of ce, it ultimately calls on each reader, whether ■ vii ■ 3GFPREF 10/04/2013 9:17:12 Pageviii PREFACE fundraiser,executivedirector,boardmember,orvolunteer,tothink differently about the role and value of every single donor. Chapter 1 In , Dr. Polivy begins with the concept of donor — cultivation an often-used and perhaps poorly understood term in — philanthropy and proposes three elements that need to be includedinacultivation plan:thegrowthinthenumberofdonors, the growth in the size of contributions, and the growth in the ’ number of opportunities for giving over a donors lifetime. This third element is an important one, as it forces the reader to think more broadly than just the current campaign or mailing. A case is ’ made that the Donor Lifecycle Map helps to shift the fundraisers thinkingfromactivityorientedtorelationshiporiented.Theimpor- tance of not just bringing in new donors into an organization but better planning the engagement of existing ones will become self- evidentwhenmappingoutthestepsthateachdonortakesinhisor her hopefully increasing commitment to the recipient organization. Chapter2 fi looksattheessentialneedforfundingdiversi cationin anyorganization.Itexaminesthroughactualexamplestheveryreal risktoaninstitution withtoo few donorsaswellastypes ofdonors. Chapter 3 examines basic elements that are precursors to any successful fundraising program. These include a strong case for giving, a strategic plan that sets a clear roadmap for the organiza- ’ “ fi ” tions development, and a well-run back of ce. As Dr. Polivy again illustrates with poignant examples, no fundraising program fi willsucceedin thelongrunwithout theseelements rmlyin place. An outline of the methodology proposed in this book begins in Chapter 4 “ ” , wherein personal cultivation tools are introduced. These are tools or channels that involve one-to-one communication withdonorsandareappliedtoeachsegmentoftheDonorLifecycle Map based on what is most appropriate and effective for building – the donor organization relationship. The suggestions proposed in “ ” this chapter are truly donor centered, encouraging the reader to learnabouteachdonorthroughpersonalcontactindiscussionsnot ’ about money, but about the donors beliefs, passions, and connec- tion to the work that he or she makes possible; and ensuring that — each donor is given the opportunity to participate not merely fi — nanciallybutalsowithtime,input,orleadership inthesuccessful ■ viii ■