Divine Passions The Social Construction of Emotion in India EDITED BY Owen M. Lynch UNIVERSITY OF CALIFORNIA PRESS Berkeley Los Angeles Oxford University of California Press Berkeley and Los Angeles, California University of California Press, Ltd. Oxford, England C 1990 by The Regents of the University of California Library of Congress Cataloging-in-Publication Data Divine passions : the social construction of emotion in India / edited by Owen M. Lynch : contributors, Peter Bennett. . .[et al.]. p. cm. Papers presented at a conference held 12/1-14/85 at the University of Houston. Includes index. ISBN 0-520-06647-2 (alk. paper) 1. Ethnology—India—Congresses. 2. Emotions—Congresses. 3. India—Social life and customs—Congresses. 4. Love—Religious aspects— Hinduism—Congresses. I. Lynch, Owen M., 1931- II. Bennett, Peter. GN635.I4D58 1990 152.4—dc2o 89-4975 CIP Printed in the United States of America 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 89 The paper used in this publication meets the minimum requirements of American National Standard for Information Sciences—Permanence of Paper for Printed Library Materials, ANSI Z39.48-1984. © - For M. N. Srinivas, anthropologist and guru, and David B. Kriser, philanthropist andfriend CONTENTS PREFACE ix I • INTRODUCTION: EMOTIONS IN THEORETICAL CONTEXTS 1. The Social Construction of Emotion in India Owen M. Lynch 3 II-LOVE AND ANXIETY IN INTIMA TE FAMILIAL CONTEXTS 2. The Ideology of Love in a Tamil Family Margaret Trawick 37 3. "To Be a Burden on Others": Dependency Anxiety Among the Elderly in India Sylvia Vatuk 64 III • JOY AND HUMOR IN PUBLIC CASTE CONTEXTS 4. The Mastram: Emotion and Person Among Mathura's Chaubes Owen M. Lynch 91 5. Untouchable Chuhras Through Their Humor: "Equalizing" Marital Kin Through Teasing, Pretence, and Farce Pauline Kolenda 116 IV-EROTIC AND MATERNAL LOVE IN RELIGIOUS CONTEXTS 6. Krishna's Consuming Passions: Food as Metaphor and Metonym for Emotion at Mount Govardhan Paul M. Toomey 157 vii piti Contents 7. In Nanda Baba's House: The Devotional Experience in Pushti Marg Temples Peter Bennett 182 8. Refining the Body: Transformative Emotion in Ritual Dance Frtdhique Apffel Marglin 212 V • CONFLICTING EMOTIONS IN CROSS-CULTURAL CONTEXTS 9. On the Moral Sensitivities of Sikhs in North America Venu A. Dusenbery 239 10. Hare Krishna, Radhe Shyam: The Cross-Cultural Dynamics of Mystical Emotions in Brindaban Charles R. Brooks 262 CONTRIBUTORS 287 GLOSSARY 289 INDEX 295 PREFACE The papers in this volume were originally written for a conference on "The Anthropology of Feeling, Experience, and Emotion in India" held at the University of Houston on i —14 December 1985. The conference was part of the Festival of India held in the United States during 1985-86. Nineteen highly provocative papers were presented; the nine in this volume were selected because they most directly addressed the conference's theme. Gener- ous support for the conference came from the American Institute of Indian Studies, the Ford Foundation, and the Government of India. The University of Houston was a gracious host. Pauline Kolenda deserves special thanks for creating a social and intellectual milieu crucial to the success of the confer- ence in Houston and for working hard to see this volume in print. M. N. Srinivas was our honored senior participant and guru providing much perti- nent, sage, and witty comment. The use of words in Indian languages always presents problems of transli- teration. Hindi words appearing in English language dictionaries and stan- dard English spellings for proper nouns have been used as much as possible. Otherwise with one exception the system of diacritical marks presented by R. S. McGregor in his Outline of Hindi Grammar (Oxford University Press, 1977) has been used. The exception is that for Tamil alveolar stops and nasals a subscript dash (e.g., n, _t, r) has been used. At the request of some authors, final silent a has been noted rather than dropped although in a few places local dialectical and spoken variants have been retained when appropriate. For easier reading, the terminal s indicating the English plural has been added to some Hindi words, although it does not so appear in Hindi. On first mention words in Indian languages have been written with diacritics and thereafter without. A glossary of the most important terms with diacritics is provided. ix X Preface Two anonymous reviewers provided excellent suggestions for strengthen- ing the book. Elvin Hatch offered an invaluable critique for improving its argument, and Barbara Metcalf first recommended it to the University of California Press. Thanks to them all and to our editors: Lynne Withey, whose interest, encouragement, and sponsorship made the book possible; Amy Klatzkin, who shepherded it through a complicated production proc- ess; and Lisa Nowak Jerry, who rescued the manuscript from mispellings, inconsistencies, and grammatical errors. ONE The Social Construction of Emotion in India Owen M. Lynch Yogis lying on a bed of nails in search of detachment from all feeling, white- bearded gurus preaching meditation on the transcendental, close-knit fami- lies in which the aged and infirm live out their days happy and secure in the loving devotion of their children, and ritualists worshiping more by rote than by heartfelt devotion—these are some images through which the West per- ceives India and the emotional lives of its people. These, too, are the images that the essays in this book seek to replace with pictures of worship based upon deeply felt and deeply motivating ecstatic love, of elderly people anx- ious and afraid of impending physical deterioration and loss of indepen- dence, and of priests pursuing a carefree, lusty, and happy-go-lucky way of life. These new and different images are drawn from ordinary, everyday lives of next-door-neighbor Indians. They are painted by anthropologists who took the time to live with them, listen to them, and learn from them over many months of sharing and dialogue. Each essay in this book also portrays Indian emotional lives different in structure, meaning, and coloring from those of the West, yet all are so framed that they reveal, through dialogue, a common humanity. Because in India the conception of emotions and of the capacity to lead emotional lives differs from that in the West, these essays raise problems for the West's understanding of emotion, particularly when it is universalized into a theory and projected onto the Other. Cross-cultural encounters and problems of beliefs, theories, and presuppositions about the real, the natural, and the human are the questions upon which anthropologists thrive and through which they contribute to a critical knowledge of our Western selves. Recently some anthropologists have begun to pose those questions to the understanding of emotions.1 All the essays in this book, then, have been written by anthropologists with an eye on not only India but also the de- velopment of a critical theory and understanding of emotion in the West. 3 4 Owen M. Lynch If "the passions are precisely those structures which connect and bind us to other people" (Solomon 1976:19), then why until recently have anthropo-' logists, who claim to study the structures that connect and bind us into social and cultural systems, either considered them irrelevant or failed to question their assumed nature and operation? Reasons for the neglect or failure are many, and they lie buried in the intellectual history of Western culture and its influence on anthropology's founders and later theoreticians. To under- stand how the essays in this book till with the blade of a different plow the virgin soil of emotion in India, a brief answer to this question is necessary. We must also be clear about what we mean by and understand to be emotion, if we are to understand an Other, such as India. In addition to many academic theories of emotion, there is a Western commonsense under- standing of it (see Lutz 1986b). The social constructionist view underlying the essays presented in this volume runs contrary both to some Western commonsense notions and to some academic theories about emotion. Thus,1 it is advisable to give a somewhat extended, although by no means compre- hensive and adequate, survey of some of these ideas and theories. Theories of emotion in the West as they have been developed into para- digms for research are of two types: physicalist and cognitive. Until recently the physicalist theory has dominated academic circles.2 Physicalist Theory Despite the cognitive overtones of his theory, Descartes was the most influen- tial originator of physicalist theories; he ultimately reduced emotion to a subjective awareness in the soul of activities in the body, of passively experi- enced feeling. Descartes left unclear the relationship between the soul and the radically different and separate body. Hume elaborated on Descartes and considered emotions to be the registrations in the soul of particular feelings caused by primary sensations associated with some idea or perception. Emo- tion remained, then, a passive awareness, but in Hume it became a sensation mediated by perception into a particular feeling. This Cartesian view of emotion took its most influential modern twist in the work of William James. For James, "bodily changes follow directly the perception of the exciting fact and. . . our feeling of the same changes as they occur is the emotion" (James 1890:449-450). He reverses the everyday no- tion that people cry because they feel hurt. Rather, they cry, and this physi- cal change is the emotion they experience; emotion is a feeling of physiological changes. James tried to make psychology a science by turning from a method of introspective accounts of feelings in the soul to objective measurements of physiological changes in the body. And so, physiological psychology was born and with it a major modern paradigm of what emotions are. Behaviorism added little to this paradigm except to shift observation and The Social Construction of Emotion 5 measurement to patterned responses or operant behavior created by phy- siological conditions elicited through specific stimuli. Yet emotion itself re- mained a physiological event. Freud's early theory, too, is Cartesian because he considers emotions to be cognitively felt responses to physiological in- stincts or drives blocked by some early traumatic but unconscious event in the individual's life. The source of anxiety and fear is in blocked drives, and the emotion itself is merely a safety valve to let off their energy or steam. Once again, emotions are passive experiences of ultimately physiological states. I shall deal with some of the many objections to physicalist theories later in this essay, but it is important to note here that all of them take emotions such as fear, anger, and anxiety as paradigmatic and deal less well with the more subtle emotions such as hope, ennui, indignation, envy, and the like. Almost all physicalist theories consequently separate primary or basic from secondary or derived emotions.3 Moreover, physicalist theories, based as they are in physiology or drives, assume that at least basic emotions are universal. From an anthropological point of view physicalist theories are interesting because they so well match the basic elements of Western common sense about emotion. For that reason they raise suspicions of Western bias and ethnocentrism. First, in Western common sense, emotions are passive: they are "things" that happen to us, we are "overwhelmed" by them, they "ex- plode" in us, they "paralyze" us, we are "hurt" by them, and they "threaten to get out of control." Emotional action follows a hydraulic metaphor of forces welling up inside of us or of psychic energy about to explode (Solomon 1984; see also Lakoff and Kovecses 1987). Second, emotions are irrational rather than rational, natural rather than cultural, and located in the lower faculties of the body where they are completely separate from the higher faculty of the mind, their master controller. As such, emotions can perform an important excusatory function, among others, in Western society. Just as someone may be excused for a minor peccadillo because "she was upset," so, too, she may be treated more leniently for a major offense if it was a crime of passion or insanity. In the same way crimes committed under the influence of alcohol or drugs are treated as less culpable, particularly in American society (see Gusfield 1981). Third, in the commonsense theory of emotions the ex- tension of the verb to feel from sensations to emotions essentializes them as things, as physiological states; just as one feels the heat of fire, so too one feels the heat of rage. Such a view fits in well with today's drug culture; emotions can be bought in a pill on a back alley or at the local drugstore. Paradoxical- ly, many medical professionals and addicts agree with the view that emotions are the chemical effects of the pill in the body, just as for some social scientists of the physicalist persuasion primary emotions are the action of neurochemic- als on the autonomic processes of the body (Kemper 1987). Fourth, com-