Daygame Mastery

457 Pages·2014·300.341 MB·English

by  Nick Krauser

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Contents
INTRODUCTION 6
OVERVIEW 10
PHASE: VIBE
Stage 1.1:Mindsets 16
Stage 1.2:Targeting 38
Stage 1.3:Approach Anxiety 69
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PHASE: STREET
Stage2.1: TheStop 78
Stage2.2: TheOpen 93
Stage2.3: Stack/ Assumption Story 111
Stage2.4: Vibing 119
Stage2.5: Investment 138
Stage2.6: Commit Her 152
INTERMISSION
i1: TextPhase 156
i2:Long Game 195
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PHASE: DATE
Stage3.1:Pre-DateCalibration Phase 280
Stage3.2:YourGamePlan 295
Stage3.3:VenueZero-Meeting 302
Stage3.4:VenueOne- Bright,Busyand Non-Alcoholic 307
Stage3.5: VenueTwo- Bright,Busyand Alcoholic 320
Stage3.6:VenueThree- Dark,Secludedand Alcoholic 333
PHASE: CLOSE
Stage4.1:Extraction - TheGreatestLeapOf Faith 364
• Stage4.2: VenueFour - Bedroom Escalation 372
Stage4.3:Bedroom Resistance 383
SPECIAL SITUATIONS
SS1:Problem Solving on the Date 396
SS2:SameDay Lays(and i-dates) 426
SS3:Careand Maintenance 435
POSTSCRIPT
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Introduction
Sincewriting Daygame Nitro in 2011I'vepondered whether to
write another book. Nitro isanend-to-end outline of mydayg
arnemodel with preciseadvice on what to say,what to do and
howtothink to excelatwhat isnow calledthe London Daygame
Model. Istill stand bythe methods inthat book.
But I'vedone alot of daygame sincethen.
Sincehitting "publish" orrthat book andwriting the first draft of
this introduction, I'vefucked another sixty girls.Thebestmetric
to determine whether your game isimproving is:younger, hot
ter,faster.I'mgetting hotter andyounger girlswith the sameef
fort, andthe samegirls asbefore with lesseffort. Theevidence
confirms that mygame is undoubtedly tighter.
This presents me with asetof new challenges, but also anew
opportunity. IfIamwriting abook exploring the cutting edgeof
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myown game itwill beextremely deep andcomplicated, quite
inaccessibleto beginners. Conversely,if Iamto rewrite Nitro (a
book targeted to intermediate players)then I'm not taking full
advantageofwhat I'velearnedinthe intervening period. Sothis
iswhat Idecided.
I will write about exactly what I doand what I
think about when seducing new girls.
This book isa brain dump of my current game model. Imake
noconcessionsto guysindifferent situations from me:different
locales,different goals,different strengths andweaknesses.That
would dilute mymessageandrequire meto opine on problems
that Inever personally had to solve.Instead, Ioffer the purest
and most detailed version of NickKrauserDaygame.Thisismy
authentic voice.Makeof it what you will.
Idon't pretend that this isthe only way to game. Idon't even
pretend that it'stheonlywaytodaygame.1follow the samebasic
model asthe other London daygame elites, but this ismy spin
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on that blueprint. Theyeachhavetheir version.
Sotakewhat you canfrom the book. Ifyou want to directly ape
my material for awhile then do so.Ifyoujust want to peer into
my mind to answeraquestion, haveat it.Toaidthe reader I've
followed two strict rulesinwriting this book.
1.Everything Iwrite must bewhat Iactually do andthink.
2. Everything must have a direct practical application. No
mental masturbation.
What this book doesn't cover
Iwrite only about thetechnical application ofGamewhile in-set.
Therearetwo sidesto improving your Game- thosethings you
do while communicating with the girl,andthose things you do
when the girl isn't present.This book isatechnical manual for
the former - everything hererelatesto active behavioural tech
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niques performed while interacting with the girl.
Learning the in-settradecraft iscrucial to upping the quality of
your sexlife,but don't focuson itto the exclusion ofeverything
else.Ido not talk about "passive"Game in this book: going to
the gym, eating healthy, dressing well, building alifestyle eco
system, making money and soon. Ihighly recommend you do
them but this book will not cover passivegame. Additionally,
be aware that Isometimes reference scientific concepts but
these arenot intended tobeliterallytrue.Iintegrate ideasfrom
diverse fields asaheuristic aid becauseIbelieve thesethought
processeshavehelped meto become better atseducing wom
en.They don't need to survive peer review from subject mat
ter experts. It'senough that they work on the street, which is
my laboratory.
Acknowledgements
I'vegiven direct credits inthe postscript to the menwho moved
the London Daygame Model forward. Additionally I'd like to
credit Bodisatta andTomTorerofor our ongoing discussionsof
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technical issuesover the past couple of years,and specifically
for reviewing late drafts of this book to tighten up the integri
ty of the model. Also LaidNYCreviewed an early draft to give
feedback from aUSperspective, which helped to moderate my
Euro-centric approach.
Enough preamble. So here it is, my Leviathan. Knock your
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Overview
Goal: Understand the big picture
Spendafew minutes examining the Krauser Oaygame Model
flowchart. Thisisthe master graphic of how daygame proceeds
from the moment you hit the streets(Vibe),to engaging the girl
to getanumber (Street),the transition phaseto get herout on a
date (eitherShortGameviatexting orLongGamefor logistically
difficult girls),then meeting and escalating herinperson (Date)
soyou canextract herto asexlocation (Close).
Yourfirst thought was probably "Fuckme,that's complicated!"
Yes,it'sacomplicated graphic solet'sspendafew pagesexplain
ing why it'sthere and how this book works through it.
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The Book Structure
DaygameMasteryfollows the backboneofthe KrauserDaygame
Model. Eachof the four phases(Vibe,Street,Date,Close)have
asection, and within each section isachapter for every sub
stage in the chronological order they generally occur during
sets.These sub-stages form the vertebrae of the Backbone.
Anytime you get lost in the details,just checkthe flowchart to
recoveryour bearings.
Everyother element on the chart isdiscussedwithin the body
ofthe text at some point inthe above-mentioned structure.
How to use the chart
Playersmustalwaysstriveforthe perfect balancebetween being
inthe Now and planning the restofthe set.Theymust respond
moment-by-moment to the ebbs and flows of the interaction,
while exercisingdiscipline to keepitmoving towards sex.Nature
hasequipped uswith hard-wiring to follow the mating dance.
Thereisaclearlogical progression from meeting to sex,which is
mapped out inthis flowchart. Youmustdrill itinto yourself until
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itbecomesapart ofyour consciousness,which canonly happen
from taking action on the streetsand later on dates.
Isuggest an iterative process.Study this book, internalise the
model and then try to flow free in set.Debrief afterwards and
re-examine how you performed compared with the ideal pro
gression.After months ofpractice you'll feelyour"muscle mem
ory"respondwhile proceeding through the structure,which will
become second nature.The model isdesigned to deconstruct
everyelement ofdaygame sothat you canironout allyourflaws
and fully develop every element of your game.While you may
feelclunky atfirst,this becomes precision engineering overthe
long haul.
Butwhen you're inanygiven set,looking into agirl'seyes,don't
sweatthe details. It'stoo much to keepthe whole thing inmind
atanyone time. Thisiswhy we practice.
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How to read the flowchart
Starting at the top we have the Control bar.Game isabout
imposing your reality upon a girl and drawing her onto your
wavelength, what we'dcallFrameControl. It'snot simply match
ing wavelengths - you can't be pulled onto hersor you'll lose
the frame. Yougradually take control of her on two meta lev
els(hermind andherbody) until you havesexualcontrol.Control
strengthens asthe setmovesforward, but it isnot asequential
linear progression.Alwaysbeawareof how strong your Handis.
BelowtheControlbar,herHeartbeatrepresentsherlevelofemo
tional involvement andexcitement ateachmoment inthe back
bone. Sheishit with masculine dominance onTheStop,which
causesaninitialf1utter.Youthen build upexcitementandelectrici
tywhileVibing.AfterreachingHookPoint,youcandialtheenergy
down totrigger Investment,andthen spikeitattheCommit step
to takethe number on ahigh. Herheartbeat isthen steadyand
low during the digital communication, with occasionalspikesto
keep herinterest until slight momentum buildstoward the Date
invitation. Datingbeginscalm,but spikesinVenueOneandbuilds
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uptoa crescendoinVenueTwo.SheisonahighforThe Kiss.More
calm and comfort follows, soshewill follow your leadto Venue
Fourwhen you heatherupagainto beat LMR.
Thered energy bar throughout the model representsyour for
ward momentum towards sex.Inthe beginning you usesexu
al state (horniness plus intent) to motivate your approaching,
with your masculine Vibe being modulated byyour emotional
control. When you get in front of the girl on the Street and on
the Date,you usematched-pairs push-pull to entice her along
for the ride.After the kiss,you replaceitwith strong leadership.
Everysuccessfulseduction hasasmallnumber ofkeymilestones
that you must reach- LeapsOf Faith. Regardlessofthe levelof
yourgame,you instinctively know that everything that between
these milestones is merely setting up the next one.Theseare
the moments when you feel nervous about rejection. Inorder,
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• TheRun-up:Making upyour mind to open agirl and then
getting your feet moving isthe first big LeapOfFaith.Usual
lyonceyou aremoving towards the girl the nervessubside.
• Conveying Intent: Atsomepoint you haveto hit onthe girl,
letting her know you want to havesexwith her.
• DateInvitation: Youcanspin out your top-notch text and
Facebookgame indefinitely, but unlessyoutell heryouwant
to meet at aspecific time and place you will never be able
to escalateto sex.
• TheKiss:Thisisthe first time you overtly agreethat you are
sexuallyattractedtoeachother andthere'snoUBFweirdness.
• PullingTheTrigger:Thisisthe biggest LeapOfFaith.When
youpushherinto ataxiyouaresaying"Iet'shavesextonight;'
and if shegets in she'ssaying"ok'The most nerve-wracking
moment of all.
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EachLeapOf Faith results in a response.Along the bottom of
theflowchart arethe girl'smajormoments ofCompliance repre
senting the outcomes you areseeking.Whenyou haveone,you
progressto the nextstage.Whensherefuses,the circulararrows
giveashort-form versionofhow to recoverfrom the knock-back
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