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TheTechnologies of Dating to Relating -FromA toZ (Aman's guidetounderstandingwomen) Or "How Iwent from stupidtosmart injust 50 years." Or "How Iget moredates with,relationships withandproposals from Hot YoungWomen at age50 than Idid at age25." By Mr. L. Rx ©2007DatingToRelating, Inc 1 www.DatingToRelating.com Published by Ardvark Global Publishing Company, LLC 9587 So. Grandview Dr. Salt Lake City, UT 84092 USA Copyright © 2007 Dating To Relating, Inc. By Mr. L. Rx ALL RIGHTS RESERVED ISBN Number: 978-1-4276-2912-8 No part of this book may be reproduced or utilized in any form or by any means, electronic or mechanical, including photo copying, recording or by any information storage and retrieval system, without permission in writing from the publisher. ©2007DatingToRelating, Inc 2 www.DatingToRelating.com INDEX Introduction-5 Foreword-8 1)DATING-HowdatingGuru's strategies gowrong. –9 2)Different menlikedifferent women. Different womenrequiredifferent strategies. –10 a)MyCredentials -12 b)Relationships –Theproblem withDatingGurus -16 c)Examples ofstrategies andhowdifferent personalities canrequirecompletely oppositestrategies -20 3)Twobasicproblems –25 a)What guys dowrong- 25 b)What peopledowrong-31 c)Shortcut PersonalityTheory– “Feet Angles” and PersonalityTypes -32 4)TheBasicSolution –OBSERVATION–How toDevelopstrategies -41 a)Perceptionchannels –41 b)MotionToward–Motionaway-46 i)Purposes inobservingMotion–48 ii)ScaleofSexual Motion–51 iii)Adjustingas youinteract –51 EXAMPLE1-52 iv)Set Patterns ofMotion-54 EXAMPLE2 -57 c)Gradients –62 5)Objectives -65 a)Get Experience– Multiple or “Serial” dating -65 b)SaneDatingprinciples buildsaneRelationships –67 c)SaneDatingprinciples can be appliedtoexistingRelationships -73 d)ProspectingandQualifying-is shethe girl you arelookingfor -78 6) Turning “meeting” into dating relationships. -82 a) Creating “Future” –82 b) Meetingwomenwalkingdownthestreet. -87 c) MeetingWomen InStores, Restaurants, Malls, etc.-92 d) MeetingWomenWhoWork InMalls, Restaurants, Stores, etc. -97 ©2007DatingToRelating, Inc 3 www.DatingToRelating.com e) HowandWheretomeet women.-100 7)TurningDatingintoRelationships -103 a)Howto get aseconddate.-103 b)HowtoTurntheSecond,ThirdandFourthDates intoaGirlfriend -107 8)Relationships -TheDifferent Types ofSexual Relationships 112 9)HowtoCreatea BetterRelationship –118 a)HowtoManage "CreatingA BetterRelationship"-123 b)CreatingARelationship -Thedifferent Types ofCreate andGradients -128 c)Your Love Interest as YourTeammate–137 10)Seduction-142 a)TheArt ofSeduction –AClassicExample–142 b)Seduction -Short and LongTerm Techniques - 145 c)SeductionQualities OnAFirst MeetingorDate-151 11)AlternativeRelationships -- Lovers, MultipleLovers andArrangements -154 12)HowToMake Love ToAWoman-163 a)Foreplay- 163 b)HowToGet YourWifeorGirlfriendToWant MoreSex -166 c)MaleDysfunctionand Relationships -172 d)Sexual Technique-Howtomakelovetoawoman –175 SUMMARY-178 APPENDIX-179 ©2007DatingToRelating, Inc 4 www.DatingToRelating.com INTRODUCTION I’ve often been asked, “what is the purpose of writing another book on dating.” Well mypurposeinwritingthis bookis two-fold. First, there is no accurate technology on “how to meet,” “how to pick up” women etc., that I am aware of. Now that doesn’t mean that there are no books out there that can help guys and girls withtheir relationships. There are a numberofbooks out therethat contain strategies that work,but thereareNObooks out therethat containtechnologies that work- in fact, I haven’t even seen a book, which addresses the technologies of dating and relating. What is thedifferencebetweenastrategyandtechnology? Well forthepurposes ofour book, let’s define it as follows. Astrategyis detailedinstructions onhowtodosomethingorhowtoapproachsomething that if youemploy(even without fullyunderstandingit)will worka certainpercentageof times. Atechnologyis afull understandingonall theprinciples ofanareaso that onecan masterthearea.Atechnologywill generatedozens ofstrategies eachof whichworks undercertaincircumstances. Whydoes anyoneneed a technologyinsteadofastrategyandwho wouldbethekindof person that wouldwant a technologyratherthana strategy? Well thereareseveral reasons whyaperson might preferatechnologyto astrategy. 1) If youarejust thekindofperson whowants tomasteranarea, you wouldprefera technologyto astrategy. 2) If youaretiredofthelow yieldthat datingstrategies produceandwould preferto close80-90%of ANYof thewomen youmeet in ANYsituationratherthan10%ofthe womenthat youmeet in general circumstances youwouldpreferatechnologytoa strategy.(Actually,some strategies –somethat Igive youinthis book –can yieldas muchas 80-100%results –if you applythem undercertainspecificconditions andwith certainspecificpersonalitytypes. Theproblem is thesesamestrategies will not workat all –0%results –underotherconditions andwithotherpersonalitytypes.) 3) Ifthestrategies that youhavebeenexposedtorequire youtodoandsaythings that just don’t feel right, that just aren’t you, then you wouldpreferatechnologytoastrategy. Atechnologywill allowyouto generate yourown strategythat works for youandthat youarecompletelycomfortablewithdoing. ©2007DatingToRelating, Inc 5 www.DatingToRelating.com After observing the “Dating Guru” scene for many years and buying many of these products myselftosharpenmyown game, Irealizedthat noneofthese guys hadany technology,onlystrategy.Moreover, when Ilookedat theirresults, theirstatistics were worsethanmine. I learned a lot from these typical “dating gurus.” After all, anythinganyonehas tosayon thesubject is applicabletocertainsituations and Ifindthat valuable. Icertainlyhavenot doneeverythingandthereare certainlymanyclever guys otherthanme whohavecome upwithcleverstrategies formeetinganddatingwomen. Soall oftheseguys are goodguys inmyopinion.TheyareALLtryingtohelptheir fellowman.But thereis aproblem out there.Therearenot TECHNOLOGIES only strategies, andthat is whyIwrotethis book. Gurus can comeupwith astrategythat works from trial anderror,wordof mouth, watchingother guys, etc. But atechnologyofdatingand relatingis awaytodevelop manystrategies from theoryandobservationthat areapplicableacross a widevarietyof situations andpersonalitytypes –anysituationanypersonalitytypethat you choose. It is awaytoadjust andcorrect withchangingtimes, situations, needs, etc. Most importantly, atechnologyis awaytoget what youwant.Astrategysometimes will leave youhighanddryin that department.(Ilearnedthat when Iwas 25 years oldwhen I developed a strategy that worked 100% of the time on the barroom and club “beautiful tease” girls who had been my elusive fantasy challenge for years. However, after winning anumberofthese girls inarow, Isoon learnedthat theywerenot worththe effort.Their personalities andeventheirphysical beautycould not satisfyme.) Thesecondreason that Iwrotethis bookis that IobservedanotherbigHOLEout therein thedatingGURUinformationscene. TheseDATINGGURUS onlytalkabout meetingwomen,pickingup women,attracting women.Noneofthese guys seem to(admittedly) knowathingabout KEEPING a womanafter youattract them,developingarelationshipwithawoman,findinga marriagepartnerandcreatingasuccessful marriage. There are other guys (and girls) who write about relationships, but they don’t seem to knowmuchabout datingandattractingandmeetingwomen. BUTTHE TRUTH IS a successful relationshipdepends onhow you goabout meeting women,attractingwomen,qualifyingwomen, gettingtoknowwomeninthefirst place. TheyARENOTtwodifferent topics, as most gurus seem tomakethem out tobe. If youwant asuccessful marriageorotherlong-term-relationship,then you hadbetter learn first howtomeet andattract womenwho arecompatiblewith yourownpersonality and needs and desires. If you do not, you won’t make it a lifetime (at least not happily) withoneperson, nomatterhow good youarewiththetenets ofrelationshiptechnology. ©2007DatingToRelating, Inc 6 www.DatingToRelating.com Sointhis book,Igive youtheopeninggame,the middlegame andthefollowthrough. Thereis noend game,becauseas longas youareinarelationshipthereis noend –only future. This is whyIwrotethis book-tofill thesegaps intheinformational forest ofDATING andRELATING. 12/15/07 Mr. L.Rx. ©2007DatingToRelating, Inc 7 www.DatingToRelating.com Foreword - How to use this book This bookcontains alot ofdata.Perhaps morethan youwill everneedorwant toknow. As I’ve explained in the introduction,thefields or datingand relatingareintertwinedand related, I’ve tried to write this book so that the Chapters are autonomous. Occasionally theymayrefertoanother Chapter,whichifit does, youshouldprobablylookupand read. Therefore,thereareseveral ways youcanusethis book 1) Youcanreadit from covertocover.(Highlyrecommended) 2) Youcanuseit as areferencelookupatopicof yourchoice andreadtheChapter orChapters that coverthat. 3) If you want the “meat” of my technology of meetingandpickingup womenthen youshouldreadChapters 3and4.(Quickstart) 4) If you want the “meat” of my relationship technology then you should read Chapters 8and9(Quick start) 5) If youwant strategies for meetingandpickingup women youshouldread Chapters 2(c) and6. 6) If youwant strategies for relatingtowomenthen youshouldreadChapters 11and 12. Nowas youreadthis book,if youfindsomethingthat youfeel youcould applyto your situation, Isuggest youstopright thereandtryit. Then comebackand readalittlemore. Whenever youfindsomething youcan apply,stopagainandapplyit.Then returntoread somemore. Thepoint is toget youto applythis stuffforthebetterment of yourlifeand relationships. Soif youfindsomethingthat will help,put thebookdownand goout and doit (unless it is threeinthemorningandthat is impractical.)Thebookwill always betherewhen you return. Mr. L.Rx ©2007DatingToRelating, Inc 8 www.DatingToRelating.com 1) DATING - How dating Guru's strategies go wrong. THEPROBLEM WITH DATING "GURUS."Theproblem is simple.Theyonlytell you howtomeet andattract women.Theydon't tell youhowto RELATE and KEEP them. WORSE yet,theydon't eventell youthe correct principles ofMEETING women.....they tell youwhat workedfor them.....andtheytell you todothings that don't quitefeel right for you...... WHY? BECAUSEMOSTGURUS HAVENOREALEXPERIENCEWITHMEETINGA BROADRANGEOFWOMENANDSECURINGARELATIONSHIP WITHTHEM. MOSTGURUS HAVE SIMPLYDISCOVEREDONETECHNIQUETHATWORKS (ONONETYPEOFWOMEN),THEN DO IT ALLTHETIMEONEVERYONE,AND TELLYOU-- IT IS ANUMBERS GAME - NO--IT IS NOT ANUMBERS GAME -IF YOUKNOW WHATYOU AREDOING SITUATIONALLY,YOUCANCLOSE80-90% OFTHEWOMENTHATYOUARE INTERESTED IN. WHEN IREVIEWEDWEBSITES BEFOREPREPARINGTHIS BOOK, ICOULDN'T BELIEVETHAT IACTUALLYSAW GURUS WRITINGADVICE: --GURUS WHOHADNOACTUALEXPERIENCE.THEIR ADVICEWAS BASED ON INTERVIEWS! --GURUS WHOWEREWOMEN(WHODON'T EVENUNDERSTAND THEMSELVES) GIVINGADVICETOMEN. --ANDDOZENS OFGURUS WHOHAVETECHNIQUES THATCAN CLOSE WOMEN(BUTWOMENTHAT IWOULDN'T TOUCHWITH A10FOOTPOLE. -- DOYOUWANTTHECREAMOFTHECROP LIKEME.OR WHATEVER YOU CANGETBYCLOSING10-20%OFWHATEVER USINGANUMBERS GAME.) NUMBERS GAMES AREN'T "TECHNOLOGIES"THEYARECRUDE STRATEGIES. IKNOW GUYS WHOCANGO INTOA BAR ANDASKEVERYWOMENTHEY MEETVERYCRUDELY"DO YOUWANTTO ####"ANDGUESS WHAT, DEPENDINGONTHE GUY IF THEYASK100 WOMENOR SOTHEY'LLGET ONETORESPOND. THEPROBLEM WITH NUMBERS GAMES IS THATTHEYMAKEYOUDO THINGS THAT FEELUNCOMFORTABLE,THAT AREN'T QUITEYOU...AND THEYDON'TWORKONTHEWOMENYOU REALLYWANT!!!! ©2007DatingToRelating, Inc 9 www.DatingToRelating.com 2) Different Men like Different Women –Different Women Require different strategies. Theproblem is, there are different TYPES ofmen.Anddifferent types of menlike different types ofwomen.Different types ofwomenrequiredifferent strategies foreach type.And I'm heretotell youall ofthem. IF YOUWANTGOOD ADVICE,YOUSHOULDSEEKOUTSOMEONEWHOHAS ACTUALLYDONE IT AND LEARN FROM THEM. IHAVEDONE ITALL! --IHAVEMETANDMAINTAINEDRELATIONSHIPS WITHA BROADVARIETY OFDIFFERENTWOMEN. --IHAVESUCCESSFULLYMETWOMEN(ANDDEVELOPEDRELATIONSHIPS WITHTHEM) IN BARS IN CLUBS NATURALLY--ONTHESTREET, INTHESTORE,ETC. ON LINE THROUGHNEWSPAPER andVOICEMAILADVERTISING THROUGH FRIENDS -- IHAVEGONE ONOVER 700DATES WITH DIFFERENTWOMEN IN ONE YEAR. --IHAVEHAD AMARRIAGE LAST12YEARS WITHOUTEVER CHEATINGON MYWIFE --IHAVEHAD AMONOGAMOUS RELATIONSHIP WITHAGIRLFRIENDFOR 7 YEARS WITHOUTEVER CHEATINGON HER. --IHAVEHADMULTIPLE LONGTERM SEXUALRELATIONSHIPS WITHAS MANYAS 10WOMENATONCEWITHOUTHIDINGMY INTENTIONS OR LYINGTO ANYONE OFTHEM. --IHAVEGONE TOBARS ANDCLUBS ANDGOTTEN LAID BYONE-NIGHTERS EVERYNIGHT FOR MONTHS ONEND. --IHAVEGOTTEN LAIDBYA DIFFERENTWOMANEVERYNIGHT OFTHE WEEKFOR MONTHS ONEND. --IHAVEMANIPULATEDTHEMANIPULATORS (YOUKNOW,P****TEASERS) WHOWEREOUTTOUSEME.(YES,OFCOURSE, IGOTSEX, BUT ITWASN'T VERYGOOD) ©2007DatingToRelating, Inc 10 www.DatingToRelating.com