Date Like A Man: What Men Know About Dating and Are Afraid You'll Find Out PDF
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D A T E L I K E A M A N WHAT MEN KNOW ABOUT DATING AND ARE AFRAID YOU’LL FIND OUT MYREAH MOORE Jodie Gould and This book is dedicated with love, respect and gratitude to all the gay men in my life who are no longer on this planet. You helped me learn to treasure myself. Love you madly and miss you very much, my angels! —MM To my friends and family (nuclear and extended) for their support and encouragement, and to my husband, Robert Katel, who knew how to date me like a man. —JG Contents ix Introduction 1 PART I The Warm-Up: Preparing to Date Like a Man Why Men Are the Master Daters Men Know What They Want and Need (And How to Get Those Wants and Needs Met) What Do Your Wants and Needs Really Mean? Developing Your “Most Wanted” Profile Reflecting on Your Mirror Image Men Like Themselves Men Don’t Think of Themselves as Victims Men Are Independent Men Know That Money Is Sexy Men Know That Power Is Sexy Men Know They Can Be Sexy at Any Age Men Understand the “Vision Thing” 27 PART II Becoming a Master Dater: Women Can Be Players, Too Men Know Dating Is a Numbers Game Men Believe There Are Too Many Women, There Is Too Little Time Men Don’t Worry About Potential Men Don’t Talk About Relationships iv CONTENTS Men Don’t Overanalyze Men Don’t Feel Comfortable in Homes That Are Too Feminine Men Like to Take the Initiative Men Like to Make Plans Men Want Acceptance Men Know How to Set Boundaries Men Like History, But Don’t Reveal Your Past Too Soon Men Like to Sleep with Their Women Friends Men Can Have Sex with the Ex Men Don’t Respond Well to Guilt Men Don’t Like Nags Men Don’t Like Women Who Are Fixated Men Don’t Like Women Who Are Tactless Men Don’t Want to Hear About Your Female Problems Men Don’t Want to Meet Your Posse Too Soon Men Like Women Who Eat Men Like Women Who Can Be One of the Boys Men Know How to Protect Themselves Men Can Mix Business with Pleasure Men Should Treat You Like a Business Client Men Operate on a “Need-to-Know” Basis Men Who Don’t Call After the First Date Aren’t Interested Men Have Their Own Holidays Men Know How to Let Go Men Keep Their Private Dramas to Themselves Men Don’t Want to Be Bought Men Know How to Lose Men Know It’s Okay to Be Cocky Men Know How to Break Up Men Don’t Give Too Much Men Are Opinionated Men Don’t Like Wimps Men Don’t Like Princesses Men Don’t Like Women Who Are Wild CONTENTS v 91 PART III Dating the Master Dater A Man Will Treat a Woman the Way He Treats His Mother If a Man Is Mean to Service People, He’ll Be Mean to You Men Fantasize About Sex, Not Relationships A Man Who Cheats on His Wife or Girlfriend Will Cheat on You Men Know How to Disappear If a Man Says He’s Never Been in Love, He Isn’t Capable of Loving You When a Man Says, “You’re Not My Type,” Believe Him When a Man Says, “I’m Not Good Enough for You,” Believe Him Men Who Need to Find Themselves Aren’t Looking for Marriage Men Know It’s Okay to Look But Not Touch Men Need to Bond with Their Buddies Men Like to Fix Things Men Like to Be Rescuers By the Time a Man Says He Loves You, He Probably Does Men Borrow Money from Banks, Not Girlfriends Men Know That Excuses Don’t Fly Men Like to Have Their Egos Stroked Clues That a Man Isn’t Interested in You When a Man Says He’s Not Ready to Commit, He’s Not Ready to Commit to You The Players 129 PART IV Having a Game Plan The Sexual Waiting Game (Men Hate It, But You Gotta Do It) Men Know How to Advertise vi CONTENTS First, Second, and Third Date Game Plans Men Are Fluent in Body Language Men Like to Flirt, Too Men Like Real Breasts Men Like Hair They Can Touch Men Like Long Nails, Not Claws Men Respond to Color A Man Will Show You When He’s Not Interested Men Don’t Approach Women Who Travel in Packs Men Don’t Like Too Much Perfume Men Don’t Like Too Much Jewelry 161 PART V How to Have Sex Like a Man: Sex Tips from Men That You Can’t Live/Date Without Men Know the Difference Between Love and Lust Men Will Have Sex Anywhere Men Are Selfish About Sex Men Like Women Who Are Fit Men Like Blow Jobs Get to Know Mr. Happy Kiss It, Lick It, Squeeze It, Tease It Deep Throating Men Like Women Who Swallow The Moveable Feast Some Men Like Entering Through The Back Door Men Like to Watch Men Like to Masturbate Men Like Pornography Men Like Lingerie Men Like Fantasy Men Like to Talk Dirty Men Like Women Who Bring on the Noise Men Like Women Who Are Flexible Men Like Quickies CONTENTS vii Men Like Lesbians Men Don’t Like Condoms Men Don’t Like Kissing Men Like Compliments Men Like to Bring Home the Trophy Men Know Marriages Are Like Mergers and Acquisitions Men Want to Be the One to Propose Men Have Different Proposal Styles 191 PART VI Achieving Your Personal Best: With or Without a Man Men Love Sports (Duh!) Men Like Golf Courses, Not Continuing Ed Men Look for Bedmates, Not Soulmates, in Bars Men Shop on a “Need to Go” Basis Men Go Places (A Calendar of Events) From the Mouths of Babes 225 Afterword Becoming a Dating Champion It’s Time to Start the Audition 229 Acknowledgments About the Authors Cover Copyright About the Publisher
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