CONCISE GUIDE TO Psychodynamic Psychotherapy Principles and Techniques of Brief, Intermittent, and Long-Term Psychodynamic Psychotherapy Third Edition CONCISE GUIDE TO Psychodynamic Psychotherapy Principles and Techniques of Brief, Intermittent, and Long-Term Psychodynamic Psychotherapy Third Edition Robert J. Ursano, M.D. Stephen M. Sonnenberg, M.D. Susan G. Lazar, M.D. Washington, DC London, England Note: The authors have worked to ensure that all information in this book is accurate at the time of publication and consistent with general psychiatric and medical standards, and that information concerning drug dosages, schedules, and routes of administration is accurate at the time of publication and consistent with standards set by the U.S. Food and Drug Administration and the general medical community. As medical research and practice continue to advance, however, therapeutic standards may change. 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ALL RIGHTS RESERVED Typeset in Adobe’s Times and Helvetica Manufactured in the United States of America on acid-free paper 08 07 06 05 04 5 4 3 2 1 Third Edition American Psychiatric Publishing, Inc. 1000 Wilson Boulevard Arlington, VA 22209-3901 www.appi.org Library of Congress Cataloging-in-Publication Data Ursano, Robert J., 1947– Concise guide to psychodynamic psychotherapy : principles and techniques of brief, intermittent, and long-term psychodynamic psychotherapy / Robert J. Ursano, Stephen M. Sonnenberg, Susan G. Lazar.—3rd ed. p. ; cm. — (Concise guides / American Psychiatric Publishing) Includes bibliographical references and index. ISBN 1-58562-173-0 (pbk. : alk. paper) 1. Psychodynamic psychotherapy. 2. Psychotherapist and patient. I. Title: Psychodynamic psychotherapy. II. Sonnenberg, Stephen M., 1940– III. Lazar, Susan G., 1944– IV. Title. V. Concise guides (American Psychiatric Publishing). [DNLM: 1. Psychotherapy—methods. 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CONTENTS About the Authors . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .xv Introduction to the Concise Guides Series . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .xvii Preface to the Third Edition . . . . . . . . . . . . . xix 1 Why Psychotherapy? . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .1 Psychiatric Illness . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 2 The Contribution of Psychotherapy . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 2 Psychotherapy and Medical Illness. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 4 Summary. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 6 References. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 7 2 Basic Principles . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .13 The Focus of Psychodynamic Psychotherapy . . . . . . . . . . 14 The Setting of Psychodynamic Psychotherapy. . . . . . . . . . 17 The Technique of Psychodynamic Psychotherapy . . . . . . . 18 References. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 21 Additional Readings . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 22 3 Patient Evaluation, I: Assessment, Diagnosis, and the Prescription of Psychotherapy . . . . . . . .23 Beginning the Evaluation . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 26 Selection Criteria . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 29 References. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 31 Additional Readings . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 32 4 Patient Evaluation, II: Psychodynamic Listening. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .33 The Four Psychologies . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 33 The Clinical Moment and Clinical Assessment . . . . . . . . . 36 Psychodynamic Listening in a Consultation-Liaison Situation . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 39 Psychodynamic Listening in a Psychotherapy Evaluation . 43 Psychodynamic Listening in a Psychodynamic Psychotherapy Context . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 46 Listening to Oneself Outside of the Consulting Room . . . . 50 References . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 51 Additional Readings . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 52 5 Patient Evaluation, III: Psychodynamic Evaluation. . . . . . . . . . . . . . .53 The Chief Complaint . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 57 The History of the Present Illness, the Past History, and the Family History . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 59 Early Memories and Trauma . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 62 Developmental Deficit. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 67 Assessment of the Patient’s Conscience . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 69 Conclusion. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 70 References . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 71 Additional Readings . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 71 6 Beginning Treatment . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .73 First, Do No Harm. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 75 Abstinence and Free Association . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 75 The Atmosphere of Safety. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 78 The Attitude of Physicianly Concern . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 80 Disappointment in the Opening Phase . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 81 The Early Experience of Transference, Defense, and Resistance. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 82 Initial Use of Dreams in Therapy . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 85 References. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 87 Additional Readings . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 88 7 Resistance and Defense . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .89 Resistance . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 89 Defense . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 90 Repression . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 91 Denial . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 92 Reaction Formation . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 92 Displacement . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 92 Reversal . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 92 Inhibition . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 93 Identification With the Aggressor . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 93 Asceticism . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 93 Intellectualization . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 93 Isolation of Affect . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 94 Regression . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 94 Sublimation . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 94 Interpreting Resistances and Defense Mechanisms . . . . . . 94 Transference Resistance . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 98 References. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 101 Additional Readings . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 101 8 Transference . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .103 The Need to Repeat the Past . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 104 Transference in Psychodynamic Psychotherapy. . . . . . . . 105 Forms of Transference . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 106 Working With the Transference . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 107 Transference as Resistance . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 109 Erotic and Aggressive Transferences . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 112 Working Through the Transference . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 113 Enactment and Projective Identification. . . . . . . . . . . . . . 114 Dealing With “No” Transference . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 115 References. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 117 Additional Readings . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 118 9 Countertransference . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .119 Concordant and Complementary Countertransferences . . 122 Countertransference in Work With Borderline Personality Disorder Patients . . . . . . . . . . . . 127 Other Countertransferences . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 129 The Therapist’s Need for Personal Psychoanalysis and Supervision. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 130 References . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 131 Additional Readings . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 131 10 Dreams . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .133 The Use of Dreams in Psychotherapy . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 133 Introducing the Patient to the Use of Dreams . . . . . . . 133 Use of Dreams During the Middle Phase of Therapy . 135 Use of Dreams During the Latter Phases of Therapy . 136 The Dream as an Indicator of Unconscious Conflict . . . . 138 The Dream as an Indicator of Transference . . . . . . . . . . . 139 The Dream as Indicator of Genetic Data or Adaptational Style . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 141 Dreams as a Defense . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 143 The Termination Dream . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 144 Words of Caution . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 145 References . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 146 Additional Readings . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 146 11 Termination. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .147 Recognizing When the Termination Phase Is Approaching . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 147 Tasks of the Termination Phase . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 149 Review the Treatment . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 149 Experience the Loss of the Psychotherapy and the Therapist . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 150 Reexperience and Remaster the Transference . . . . . . . 151 Increase Skills in Self-Inquiry as a Method of Problem Solving . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 151 Disappointment in the Termination Phase . . . . . . . . . . . . 152 When the Treatment Is Unsuccessful . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 154 When the Patient Refuses to Terminate Despite Successful Treatment . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 156 Leave-Taking: The Reactions of the Therapist. . . . . . . . . 157 Terminations That Do Not Take Place . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 159 References. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 160 Additional Readings . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 161 12 Practical Problems and Their Management . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .163 The Office: Decor and Setting . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 163 Fees . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 166 Medical Insurance and Managed Care . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 168 Pharmacotherapy . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 169 Telephone Calls . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 170 Vacation Scheduling . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 171 Suicidal Patients . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 171 Dangerous Patients . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 172 Gifts . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 173 Advice Giving: The Psychotherapist as Physician . . . . . . 173 Illness in the Patient . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 174 Therapist Errors . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 175 General Guidelines . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 175 Suggested Readings . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 176 13 Brief Psychotherapy . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .177 Selection of Patients . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 178 Duration of Treatment and Termination . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 182 Techniques . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 184 References. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 185 Additional Readings . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 186