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Cover dcsign:Sherill Chapman Interior design: Sherill Chapman Printed and bound in Canada 7 89 - 23 22 21 MIX Paper from FSC raepeneMe aouraee F8C“ C103667 Contents Contributors V Preface ix I © Conceptualizing Families, Past and Present 1 1 introduction to Diversity in Canada's Families: Variation in Forms, Definitions, and Theories 2 Patrizia Albanese 2 Canada's Families: Historical and Contemporary Variations 25 Cynthia Comacchio 3 Same-sex Marriage in Canada 51 Doreen M. Fumia ll • The Life Course 71 4 intimacy, Commitment, and Family Formation 73 Melanie Heath 5 Parenting Young Children: Decisions and Realities 95 Amber Gazso 6 Separation and Divorce: Fragmentation and Renewal of Families 115 Craig McKie 7 Families in Middle and Later Life: Patterns and Dynamics of Living Longer, Aging Together 139 Karen M. Kobayashi and Anne Martin-Matthews III o Family Issues 161 8 Marriage and Death Rituals 163 Deborah K. van den Hoonaard 9 Paid and unpaid Work: Connecting Households, Workplaces, State Polices, and Communities 183 Andrea Doucet 10 Family Poverty in Canada: Correlates, coping Strategies, and Consequences 201 Don Kerr and Joseph H. Michalski 11 The Settlement of Refugee Families in Canada: Pre-migration and Post-migration Trajectories and Location in Canadian Society 225 Amal Madibbo and James S. Frideres Iv Contents 12 indigenous Families 245 Vanessa Watts 13 Lack of Support: Canadian Families and Disability 267 Michelle Owen IV • Problems, Policies, and Predictions 291 14 violence in Families 293 Catherine Holtmann 15 investing in Families and Children: Family Policies in Canada 313 Catherine Krull and Mushira Mohsin Khan 16 The Past of the Future and the Future of the Family 341 Margrit Eichler References 363 index 411 Contributors Patrizia Albanese is Professor of Sociology, Chair of the Ryerson University Research Ethics Board, Chair of the Local Organizing Committee for the 2018 International Sociological Association World Congress of Sociology in Toronto, and a past president o( the Canadian Sociological Association. She is a book series co-editor with Lome Tepperman (Oxford University Press); co-editor of Sociology: A Canadian Perspective (Oxford, 2016); and co-author of Making Sense: A Student's Guide to Research and Writing—Social Sciences (Oxford, 2017), Growing Up in Armyville (with D. Harrison; Wilfrid Laurier University Press, 2016), and Caring for Children: Social Movements and Public Policy in Canada (with R. Langford and S. Prentice, UBC Press, 2017). She is the author of Child Poverty in Canada (Oxford. 2010), Children in Canada Today (Oxford, 2016), and Mothers of the Nation (UoFf Press, 2006). She has been working on a number of research projects that share a focus on understanding family policies in Canada. Cynthia Coinacchio, Professor, Department of History, Wilfrid Laurier University, has a PhD in Canadian history from the University of Guelph. Her research focuses on Canadian social and cultural history, especially the history of childhood, youth, and family. She has published three books on those subjects, most recently The Dominion of Youth: Adolescence and the Making of Modern Canada. 1920—1950 (Wilfrid Laurier University Press, 2006), which received the Canadian History of Education Association’s Founders Award for best English-language monograph. She is currently collaborating with Neil Sutherland on Ring Around the Maple: A Sociocultural History of Children and Childhood in Canada, 19th and 20th Centuries, for WLU Press. Andrea Doucet is the Canada Research Chair in Gender, Work, and Care and Professor of Sociology and Women’s 8c Gender Studies at Brock University. She has published widely on themes of gender and care work, fatherhood, masculinities, parental leave policies, embodiment, reflexivity, and feminist approaches to methodologies and epistemologies. Her book Do Men Mother? (UofT Press, 2006) was awarded the John Porter Tradition of Excellence Book Award from the Canadian Sociology Association. She is also co-author of Gender Relations: Intersectionality and Beyond (with J. Siltanen, Oxford, 2008). She is currently completing two long-standing book projects—one on breadwinning mothers and caregiving fathers and a second book on reflexive and relational knowing (with N. Mauthner). Margrit Eichler is Professor Emerita of the University of Toronto/Ontario Institute for Studies in Education. She has published widely in the areas of family policy, biases in research that derive from social hierarchies (e.g. sexism, racism, ableism), women’s studies, and sustainability and social justice. She is a member of the Royal Society of Canada and the European Academy of Sciences. James S. Frideres is Professor Emeritus at the University of Calgary. He was the director of the International Indigenous Studies program and held the Chair of Ethnic Studies. His recent publications include International Perspectives: Integration and Inclusion with vl Contributors ]. Biles (McGill Queens) (which is on the Hill Times List of lop 100 books for 2012) and the ninth edition of Aboriginal People in Canada with R. Gadacz (Pearson, 2012). Doreen M. Fumia is Associate Professor of Sociology and the Jack Layton Chair al Ryerson University. Her work examines lesbians and aging, identities, anti-poverty activism, and neighbourhood belonging in Toronto. She has published in the areas of lesbian motherhood, non-traditional families, informal learning, and same-sex marriage debates. Amber Gazso is Associate Professor of Sociology at York University. She completed her PhD in Sociology at the University of Alberta in 2006. Her current research interests include citizenship, family and gender relations, poverty, research methods, and social policy and the welfare state. Her recent journal publications focus on low-income mothers on social assistance. She is currently working on two major research projects funded by SSHRC. In one project she is exploring how diverse families make ends meet by piecing together networks of social support that include both government programs (e.g., social assistance) and community supports, and informal relations within families and with friends and neighbours. Another comparative project explores the relationship between health and income inequality among Canadians and Americans in mid-life. Melanie Heath is Assistant Professor of Sociology at McMaster University. She is the author of One Marriage Under God: The Campaign to Promote Marriage in America (NYU Press, 2012). She has published articles in Gender & Society and Qualitatwe Sociology. Her current project on “Harm or Right? Polygamy's Contested Terrain Within and Across Borders” is funded by a five-year SSHRC Insight Grant. Catherine Holtmann is Associate Professor of Sociology at the University of New Brunswick and Director of the Muriel McQueen Fergusson Centre for Family Violence Research. Her research focuses on gender and religion, domestic violence, immigrant women, and social action. She is the lead investigator for the SSHRC-funded AfterGrad NB project team, which explores barriers to post-secondary education for high school graduates. Don Kerr is Professor of Sociology at King’s University College at Western University. His areas of interest are population studies and Canadian demography. His research has focused on social demography, population estimates and projections, environmental demography, the Indigenous population, and family demography. Mushira Mohsin Khan is a PhD candidate in the Department of Sociology and a Student Affiliate with the Institute on Aging and Lifelong Health at the University of Victoria. Her research focuses on transnational ties and intergenerational relationships within mid- to later-life diasporic South Asian families, ethnicity and immigration, aging, and health and social care. Her work has been published in a collection on health care equity for ethnic minority older adults (SFU, 2015), the Population Change and Lifecourse Strategic Knowledge Cluster Discussion Paper Series (2015), and in Current Sociology (2016), and the International Journal of Migration, Health, and Social Care Contributors vil (forthcoming). She is the recipient of the SSI-1RC-Joseph-Armand Bombardier Canadian Doctoral Scholarship (2015-18). Karen M. Kobayashi is Associate Professor in the Department of Sociology and the Centre on Aging at the University of Victoria. Fler research interests include the economic and health dimensions of ethnic inequality in Canada, intergenerational relationships and social support in mid-to-later life families, and the socio-cultural dimensions of dementia and personhood. I ler current research programs focus on the relationship between social isolation and health care utilization among older adults, access to health and social care among older visible minority immigrants, living-apart-together (LAI’) relationships in adulthood, and an evaluation of quality of care in residential long-term care facilities. Recent work has been published in the Journal of Aging Studies, Ethnicity and Health, Canadian Review of Sociology, and the Journal of Aging and Health. Catherine Krull is Dean of the Faculty of Social Sciences and Professor in the Department of Sociology at the University of Victoria. Prior to her arrival at UVic, she was a professor at Queen’s University. She has served as editor of Cuban Studies as well as editor-in-chief of the Canadian Journal of Latin American and Caribbean Studies. Book publications include Cuba in Global Context: International Relations, Internationalism and Transnationalism (2014); Rereading Women and the Cuban Revolution (with J. Stubbs, 2011); A Measure of a Revolution: Cuba, 1959—2009 (with S. Castro, 2010) and New World Coming: The 1960s and the Shaping of Global Consciousness (with Dubinsky et al., 2009). She has held research fellowships at the Institute for Advanced Studies (University of London), the Institute of Latin American Studies (University of Florida), the Institute of Latin American Studies (David Rockefeller Center, Harvard University), the Department of Sociology (Boston University), and the Centre for International Studies (London School of Economics). Currently, she is working on two monographs, one on the Cuban Diaspora in Canada and Europe (with J. Stubbs, University of London), and Entangled US/Cuban Terrains: Memories of Guantanamo (with A. McKercher, McMaster University). Amal Madibbo is Associate Professor of Sociology at the University of Calgary. Her research focuses on immigration, ethnic relations, globalization, and international development. She has special interest in race and anti-racism, Black francophone immigration to Canada, and race and ethnicity in sub-Saharan Africa. Anne Martin-Matthews is Professor of Sociology at the University of British Columbia. Her current research focuses on two areas of inquiry in the sociology of aging. The first examines the provision of health and social care to elderly people, examined from the perspectives of agency providers, home care workers, elderly clients, and family carers. Her second area is on widowhood in later life. She is working on CI HR-funded research on home care in Canada. Craig McKie is a retired professor of Sociology. He taught at the University of Western Ontario for several years, spent more than a decade working for Statistics Canada in vlll Contributors Ottawa. latterly as editor-in-chief of Canadian Social Trends, and most recently, from 1990 until retirement, he taught in the Department of Sociology al Carleton University. Joseph H. Michalski is Associate Professor and Chair of the Department of Sociology. Kings University College at Western University. His current theoretical work and research focus is on the geometry ot social space in relation to behaviours as diverse as intimate partner violence, welfare, and knowledge production. Michelle Owen is Associate Professor of Sociology and the Disability Studies Advisory Committee Chair at the University of Winnipeg. She is the director of the Global College Institute for Health and Human Potential and was given the 2011 Marsha Hanen Award for Excellence in Creating Community Awareness. She is working on two disability- related research projects: on how Canadian academics with multiple sclerosis negotiate the workplace, and the experience of intimate partner violence in the lives of women with disabilities. Deborah K. van den Hoonaard is Professor ol Gerontology and Canada Research Chair in Qualitative Research and Analysis at St Thomas University in Fredericton. New Brunswick. She is the author of Qualitative Research in Action: A Canadian Primer (OL I’. 2015), B) Himself: The Older Man's Experience of Widowhood (U IP, 2010), The Widowed Self The Older Woman’s Journey Through Widowhood (WLU Press, 2001), and co-author (with W.C. van den Hoonaard) of Essentials of Thinking Ethically in Qualitative Research (Left Coast Press, 2013). Vanessa Watts is Academic Director, Indigenous Studies at McMaster University. She is Mohawk and Anishinaabe and is of the Bear Clan. She is currently in the process of completing her PhD in Sociology at Queen’s University. Her undergraduate degree is from Trent University in Native Studies and her Master’s Degree was in the Indigenous Governance Program at the University of Victoria. Preface The fourth edition of Canadian Families Today is an introduction to the sociology of family life that draws on a wide range of materials. In 16 chapters, 20 experts in the field cover a wide range of topics that introduce you to families in a Canadian context. Several important updates for this edition reflect the real-word changes experienced by Canadian families, and the way that focuses of study within the sociology of family life have adapted and shifted in turn. Chapters throughout the text have been updated wherever possible with the latest Statistics Canada data—the results of the 2016 Census. Several new au thors have been added, including Vanessa Watts, who authors an entirely new chapter on Indigenous families, reviewing the topic in a broad way through the lens of assimilationist stale objectives towards the absorption of Indigenous families in Canada. 1'he book is organized into four parts, reflecting its main themes. Part 1 contains the introductory chapter by Patrizia Albanese, which discusses the diversity of family forms existing in Canada today, reviews dilferent definitions of the family, and considers how the changing definition of this concept has had policy implications for access to programs and privileges or status within society. In Chapter 2, Cynthia Comacchio reviews the major changes and continuities in the history of Canadian families over the past two cen turies. In Chapter 3, Doreen Fumia discusses same-sex marriage in Canada and changes in marriage law in the form of Bill C-38—the Civil Marriages Act. She explores how concepts of ‘‘normal" and “abnormal" sexuality continue to demarcate relationships and thus persist in relegating many Canadians to a position as “other.” Part 2 provides information about various stages and events in the life course. In Chapter 4, Melanie Heath focuses on how people form relationships. Heath discusses technological innovations that have been affecting dating and sexual relationships in recent years. Amber Gazso, in Chapter 5, focuses on becoming and being a parent of young children. She outlines some of the activities of parenting, with emphasis on how everyday practices of parenting are textured by ideological discourses in our society. In Chapter 6, Craig McKie focuses on how families fragment through separation or divorce, but often reformulate within the context of a new union. McKie discusses post-separation hardships, but also concludes that these must be weighed against the real risks of physical and emotional trauma in relationships that are full of conflict, risks that are greatly diminished by separation. Middle age and “old age,” two other stages of the life course, are considered in Chap ter 7. Karen Kobayashi and Anne Martin-Matthews focus on the transitions that mark middle age (e.g., the “empty nest,” caregiving) that are triggered by life events in families including adult children leaving home or care for aging parents. Chapter 7 also highlights the central role that families play in the lives of older adults. Part 3 of Canadian Families Today focuses on some of the many challenges, deci sions, and strategies that families face in light of the shifting social, economic, and polit ical contexts. In Chapter 8 Deborah K. van den Hoonaard focuses special attention on the rituals associated with marriage and death. She considers how rituals have evolved over time, and notes that individuals now exercise greater scope in their choices about how to conduct rituals. In Chapter 9, Andrea Doucet describes patterns of paid and unpaid