Bondage basics: naughty knots and risque restraints you need to know

177 Pages·2015·92.436 MB·English

by  Morpheous

Naughty Knots
and Risqué Restraints
You Need to Know
Bondage
Basics
L o r d M o r p h e o u s
Foreword by Jessica O’Reilly, Ph.D.,
author of The Little Book of Kink
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Naughty Knots
and Risqué Restraints
You Need to Know
Bondage
Basics
L o r d M o r p h e o u s
Foreword by Jessica O’Reilly, Ph.D.,
author of The Little Book of Kink
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© 2015 Quiver
Text and Photography © 2015 Quiver
First published in the USA in 2015 by
Quiver, a member of
Quarto Publishing Group USA Inc.
100 Cummings Center
Suite 406-L
Beverly, MA 01915-6101
www.quiverbooks.com
All rights reserved. No part of this book may be reproduced or utilized, in any form or by any
means, electronic or mechanical, without prior permission in writing from the publisher.
To everyone who has ever been involved in MBE, and most of all
The Publisher maintains the records relating to images in this book required by 18 USC 2257.
to Princess and My Allyss, who have always believed in me . . .
Records are located at Rockport Publishers, Inc., 100 Cummings Center, Suite 406-L, Beverly, MA
01915-6101. and to the OLG.
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ISBN: 978-1-59233-645-6
Digital edition published in 2015
eISBN: 978-1-62788-189-0
Library of Congress Cataloging-in-Publication Data available
Cover design by Sporto
Book design by Sporto
Photography by Holly Randall, except as follows:
Morpheous, pages 24, 28, 30, 43, 72, 76, 82, 158, and 160
Geoff George Photography, pages 49, 54, 56, 57, 58, 60, 63, 64, 65, 84, 86-99, 106, and 107
Front cover photo by Lord Morpheous, rigged by Ruairidh, model: Kerry Maguire
Printed and bound in Hong Kong
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© 2015 Quiver
Text and Photography © 2015 Quiver
First published in the USA in 2015 by
Quiver, a member of
Quarto Publishing Group USA Inc.
100 Cummings Center
Suite 406-L
Beverly, MA 01915-6101
www.quiverbooks.com
All rights reserved. No part of this book may be reproduced or utilized, in any form or by any
means, electronic or mechanical, without prior permission in writing from the publisher.
To everyone who has ever been involved in MBE, and most of all
The Publisher maintains the records relating to images in this book required by 18 USC 2257.
to Princess and My Allyss, who have always believed in me . . .
Records are located at Rockport Publishers, Inc., 100 Cummings Center, Suite 406-L, Beverly, MA
01915-6101. and to the OLG.
18 17 16 15 1 2 3 4 5
ISBN: 978-1-59233-645-6
Digital edition published in 2015
eISBN: 978-1-62788-189-0
Library of Congress Cataloging-in-Publication Data available
Cover design by Sporto
Book design by Sporto
Photography by Holly Randall, except as follows:
Morpheous, pages 24, 28, 30, 43, 72, 76, 82, 158, and 160
Geoff George Photography, pages 49, 54, 56, 57, 58, 60, 63, 64, 65, 84, 86-99, 106, and 107
Front cover photo by Lord Morpheous, rigged by Ruairidh, model: Kerry Maguire
Printed and bound in Hong Kong
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Contents

Foreword by dr. Jessica o’reilly 8

introduction: all about Kink 11
Bondage 101
Chapter 1: 15
The History of Rope Bondage
Chapter 2: 29
Communication and Safety
Chapter 3: 39
The Equipment—Know Your Rope
Chapter 4: 55
Choosing Your Bondage Partner
Chapter 5: 73
Basic Knots and Other Rope Building Blocks
Chapter 6: 85
The Ties
Chapter 7: 109
Taking it Further
Chapter 8: 129
What’s Next?
Chapter 9: 155

resources 167

about the author 170

acKnowledgments 171

index 172
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Contents

Foreword by dr. Jessica o’reilly 8

introduction: all about Kink 11
Bondage 101
Chapter 1: 15
The History of Rope Bondage
Chapter 2: 29
Communication and Safety
Chapter 3: 39
The Equipment—Know Your Rope
Chapter 4: 55
Choosing Your Bondage Partner
Chapter 5: 73
Basic Knots and Other Rope Building Blocks
Chapter 6: 85
The Ties
Chapter 7: 109
Taking it Further
Chapter 8: 129
What’s Next?
Chapter 9: 155

resources 167

about the author 170

acKnowledgments 171

index 172
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Foreword
I first met Morpheous a few years back at his local breakfast haunt in Toronto. As he approached, Though I had read and studied hundreds of sexuality books before reviewing Bondage Basics,
clad in all black from head to toe, I felt a powerful presence descend upon me. I’m unsure if it was I still learned a great deal from Morpheous’ new material. From reviewing standard terminology
his height, his saunter, or simply his energy, but there was something undeniably and unsurprisingly and offering sage advice for effective communication, to providing step-by-step introductions for
dominant about the way he carried himself. When he reached out to shake my hand and introduce knot tying and negotiating boundaries, Bondage Basics guides the reader on an exciting and kinky
himself with a smile, however, his decided strength was immediately overshadowed by his warmth journey. Each chapter builds upon the former in a natural and easy-to-follow sequence. And
and mild-mannered nature. It took only a short moment for me to appreciate that beneath the because the risk associated with rope play may be higher than other forms sexual activity, the
ostensibly intense exterior was a man of complexity, humility, and kindness. author complements every move, technique, and strategy with sensible safety advice, which is
sure to be relevant to newbie and experienced kinksters alike.
Bondage Basics reflects this complexity of character, offering a balance of humor, playfulness,
education, sensuality, eroticism, and practical advice for beginner and intermediate rope play. In addition to offering a more expansive perspective on bondage, Morpheous, who is renowned for
Morpheous brilliantly weaves personal anecdotes together with standard best practices to offer a valuing and protecting his personal privacy, also offers readers a rare glimpse into his personal story.
thorough exploration of bondage as a form of art and pleasure. From the onset, it is apparent that I’m not the least bit surprised to learn that he grew up on a farm—he certainly doesn’t mind getting
the author has put great personal care into the text in the same fashion as he would when playing his hands more than a little dirty—and I’m equally unsurprised to discover that the world’s largest
out a scene with one of his rope bunnies. bondage event, which he launched over a decade ago, is free to attend, as he has a reputation for
his generosity of spirit, time, and resources. The author’s passion for bondage may have made him
When I first opened this book, I was struck by the beautiful images and was surprised to see a few
an involuntary innovator in his early years of experimentation, but Bondage Basics will ensure that
familiar faces . . . and rear ends! Morpheous clearly had a hand in selecting the models and styling
Morpheous’ cultural influence endures as readers are inspired to carve out their own paths and
the shoot. And though the aesthetic appeal of Bondage Basics is indisputable, it is the text that is
develop their own meaningful innovations.
most meaningful, thoughtful, and moving. Reading this book, I couldn’t help but develop a more
profound appreciation for rope play and its expressive bond with BDSM. While I have always loved Morpheous is not just a kink educator and sought-after expert; he’s also a collector, connoisseur,
being tied up and have long considered power play (see page 83) the most delightful of all sexual and trailblazer in the field of rope bondage and BDSM. It is an honor and pleasure to both preview
indulgences, I was admittedly a rope play neophyte before sinking my teeth into Morpheous’ latest and offer a small contribution to such an important and beautiful project.
book. Upon completion of the text, not only have I been inspired to replace my silk scarves and
Read with pleasure!
designer neckties with a selection of soft, pink nylon rope, but the author’s review of the fascinating
history associated with this “loving, sensual, and erotic activity” has broadened my perception of
—Jessica O’Reilly, Ph.D.
rope bondage in terms of art, pleasure, and cultural practice.
Author of The Little Book of Kink and The New Sex Bible
The public’s interest in kink has also broadened over the last few years with the rise of BDSM- www.SexWithDrJess.com
themed books and movies. And while these fictional stories have sparked an important dialogue
about consent, relationships, and kinky sex play, those fictional accounts offer little to no direction
with regard to the implementation of kink. That’s where Bondage Basics comes in.
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Foreword
I first met Morpheous a few years back at his local breakfast haunt in Toronto. As he approached, Though I had read and studied hundreds of sexuality books before reviewing Bondage Basics,
clad in all black from head to toe, I felt a powerful presence descend upon me. I’m unsure if it was I still learned a great deal from Morpheous’ new material. From reviewing standard terminology
his height, his saunter, or simply his energy, but there was something undeniably and unsurprisingly and offering sage advice for effective communication, to providing step-by-step introductions for
dominant about the way he carried himself. When he reached out to shake my hand and introduce knot tying and negotiating boundaries, Bondage Basics guides the reader on an exciting and kinky
himself with a smile, however, his decided strength was immediately overshadowed by his warmth journey. Each chapter builds upon the former in a natural and easy-to-follow sequence. And
and mild-mannered nature. It took only a short moment for me to appreciate that beneath the because the risk associated with rope play may be higher than other forms sexual activity, the
ostensibly intense exterior was a man of complexity, humility, and kindness. author complements every move, technique, and strategy with sensible safety advice, which is
sure to be relevant to newbie and experienced kinksters alike.
Bondage Basics reflects this complexity of character, offering a balance of humor, playfulness,
education, sensuality, eroticism, and practical advice for beginner and intermediate rope play. In addition to offering a more expansive perspective on bondage, Morpheous, who is renowned for
Morpheous brilliantly weaves personal anecdotes together with standard best practices to offer a valuing and protecting his personal privacy, also offers readers a rare glimpse into his personal story.
thorough exploration of bondage as a form of art and pleasure. From the onset, it is apparent that I’m not the least bit surprised to learn that he grew up on a farm—he certainly doesn’t mind getting
the author has put great personal care into the text in the same fashion as he would when playing his hands more than a little dirty—and I’m equally unsurprised to discover that the world’s largest
out a scene with one of his rope bunnies. bondage event, which he launched over a decade ago, is free to attend, as he has a reputation for
his generosity of spirit, time, and resources. The author’s passion for bondage may have made him
When I first opened this book, I was struck by the beautiful images and was surprised to see a few
an involuntary innovator in his early years of experimentation, but Bondage Basics will ensure that
familiar faces . . . and rear ends! Morpheous clearly had a hand in selecting the models and styling
Morpheous’ cultural influence endures as readers are inspired to carve out their own paths and
the shoot. And though the aesthetic appeal of Bondage Basics is indisputable, it is the text that is
develop their own meaningful innovations.
most meaningful, thoughtful, and moving. Reading this book, I couldn’t help but develop a more
profound appreciation for rope play and its expressive bond with BDSM. While I have always loved Morpheous is not just a kink educator and sought-after expert; he’s also a collector, connoisseur,
being tied up and have long considered power play (see page 83) the most delightful of all sexual and trailblazer in the field of rope bondage and BDSM. It is an honor and pleasure to both preview
indulgences, I was admittedly a rope play neophyte before sinking my teeth into Morpheous’ latest and offer a small contribution to such an important and beautiful project.
book. Upon completion of the text, not only have I been inspired to replace my silk scarves and
Read with pleasure!
designer neckties with a selection of soft, pink nylon rope, but the author’s review of the fascinating
history associated with this “loving, sensual, and erotic activity” has broadened my perception of
—Jessica O’Reilly, Ph.D.
rope bondage in terms of art, pleasure, and cultural practice.
Author of The Little Book of Kink and The New Sex Bible
The public’s interest in kink has also broadened over the last few years with the rise of BDSM- www.SexWithDrJess.com
themed books and movies. And while these fictional stories have sparked an important dialogue
about consent, relationships, and kinky sex play, those fictional accounts offer little to no direction
with regard to the implementation of kink. That’s where Bondage Basics comes in.
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Introduction
All About Kink
Regardless of what they’d like you to believe, absolutely everyone has a kink.
Your cranky, mean boss, for instance, might sit in your board meeting with the
lace of his wife’s underwear gently tickling his balls, making it a constant fight
for him to not display a throbbing erection. He might speed home in his Ferrari
so that he can get to his wife, who’s waiting in thigh-high boots and a corset to
make him lick her boots clean while he grovels on his knees, begging her to sit on
his face and humiliate him.
That’s the thing about kinks; they often seem at odds with how someone is in “real
life.” This is because our kinks offer us an escape from stress; they create a space in
which we can truly be ourselves, outside of all the expectations of those around us.
They let us express ourselves emotionally, artistically, sexually—in any way that you
can think of. They give us confidence and allow us to grow. This is one of the reasons
why I wrote this book—to shed light on rope bondage art as a sensual medium and
help people create their own art (and hopefully be sexually titillated all the while).
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