DOCUMENT-RESUME' ED 110 435 SP 009 425 AUTHOR Bellanca, games A. TITLE Values and the'Search for Self. INSTITUTION National Edfication Association, Washington,' D.C. PUB DATE' 75 NOT 110p. , AVAILABLE FROM National Education Association, 1201 Sixteenth Street, a,W., Washington, D.C. 20036 (Stock No. 1356-5-00, no Ofice quoted) ss EDRS PRICE MF-10:76 PLUS POSTAGE. HCNNot Available from EDRS. DESCRIPTORS Effective Teaching; Interpersonal Competence; Interpersonal Relationship; *Personal Values; *Relevance (Education); *Self Concept; Self Esteem; *Self Evaluation; ,*Values IDENTIFIERS *ExperientialI,earning ABSTRACT # The purpose of thisThook is to help the reader to P become a more effective facilitator of learning. Based on the assumption that the most valuable learning is founded in self-knowledge lind a resultant knoiledge of others, the book presents a view of teaching as helping and caring withl'a supportive yet flexible, structure. It states that the goal of each individual is the ability to direct his/her own learning. Such an ability involves a five step process of (a) exercising personal control, (b) assessing (c) setting up goals, (e) evaluating needs, (d) ,using resources, and outcomes. The ideas, suggestions, models, and strategy outlines contained in the text are designed to help the reader toward a self-knowledge that will enhance his/her knowledge of individual learners, in such a way that those learners may ultimately be made as fltdependent and Self directing as possible. The book progreSsesifrom an initial examination of the reader's personal values and positions on key questions to suggestions and strategies that may help the reader lead others toward-the self-knowledge and the development,of effective relationships with others that togethel constitute the measure of relevance. This book contains,many valuing-forms to be thought over and filled in, metaphors to be reflected upon, activities, and simulations. (RC) ********************************************************************* Documents acquired by ERIC include many informal unpublished * materials not available from other sources. ERIC makes every effort * * to obtain the best copy available. nevertheless, items of marginal * * reproducibility are often encountered and this affects the quality *" * of the microfiche and hardcopy reproductions ERIC makes available *. * via the ERIC Document Reproduction Service (EDRS). EDRS is. not * responsible for the quality of the original document. Reproductions *\ * supplied by EDPS are the best that can be made from the original. *********************************************************************** iihes 'or , the JI O by Jaws A.Bellanea V 1 DEPARTMENT OF MEAL T14 EDUCATIONS. wELFARE NATIONAL INSTITUTE OF EDUCATION DOCUMENT HAS BEEN RE PRO ()urn) EXACTLY AS PE(ErvE0 LPOM PERSON OR ORGANIZATION JPO,N ,N0 IT PCHNTS OF vIEA, OP OPINIONS ',ALEC) DO NOT NECESSARILY PEPPL NT Orr ICIAL NATIONAL INST111111 DI POS,01,4 FO TrON OR 001 C 1 I Rd. National Education Association Washington, D.C. The publisher gratefully acknowledges permission to Previously published material used in this book may use the pronoun "he" to denote an abstract indi- repent from the following vidual, e g. ''the student We have not attempted to From "The Hollow Men'" in Collected Poems, although we currently this material, alter use 1909-1962 by T S. Eliot Reprinted by permission of "she/he" to such instances. Harcourt Brace Jovanovich, Inc NEA Publishing From I Seem To Be a Verb by R Buckminster Fuller with Jerome Agel and Quentin Fiore. By permission Copyright 1975 of Bantam Books National Education Association of the United States From "Breath in My Nosinls" by 1,ance Jeffers from When I Know the Power of My Black Iland,© 1974 by Stock Non 1356 5 00 Broadside Press. By permission of Broadside Press. From The Medium Is the Massage by Marshall tvIcLuhaii and Quentin Fiore (t.') by Marshall Mc- Luhan Quentin Fiore, and Jerome Agel. By permis- sion of Bantam Books Library of Congress Cataloging in Publication Data From Religion and Freedom of 'Thought tw Perry Mil, ler, Robert L. Calhoun, Nathan M. Pusey and Bellanca, James A 1937 - Values and the search for self. Reinhold Niebuhr. Doubleday & ComOnyinc it ' 1954 by the Union Theological Seminary By permis- Moral education Title. sion of Doubleday & Company. Inc 1. 1 370 11'4 LC268.B13 75-12724 From On Becoming a Person A Therapist's View of ISBN 0-8106-1356-5 Psychotherapy by Carl R. Rogers. (4.) 1961. By pemus= sion of Houghton Mifflin Company From Seven Arrows by Hyemeyohsts Storm,Ilarper & Row Publishers, Inc., 1972. By permission of Harper & Row From The Pursuit of Loneliness 1, 1970 by Philip E. Slater Reprinted by permission of Beacon Press From Learning for Tomorrow by Alvin Toffler, editor. Reprinted by pennission of Random House. From The Art (,f Loving by Erich Fromm « 1956 by Erich Fromm By permission of Harper & Row Dub- lishers Inc. From De;atli of a Salesnum by Arthur Miller 1949 by Arthur Miller. Reprinted by permission of The Viking Press, Inc From "Four Songs of Life by Ray Young Bear. 1971 by South Dakota Review By permission of South Dakota Review 77/ , Table of Contents Chapter Page Preface 5 An Introduction 7 1 Searching For Identity 9 2 , Beginning The Process 20 3 Assessing Needs 31 - 4 Getting In Touch 39 5 Questioning Assumptions And Beliefs 46 6 Perceiving Relationships 52 7 Deciding so 8 Setting Goals 68 9 Finding Resources 74 10 Controlling Learning 81 r 11 Evaluating 89 12 Facilitating The Learning Process 95 13 Creating Personal Structures 102 It. 14 Changing 109 teacher-facilitator also helps individuals func- Preface tion effectively in groups by guiding them to The purpose of this book is to help the reader engage in smergetic effort the cooperative especially the classrbom-teacher .to become use of their individual skills toward., s ific a more effective facilitator of learning. Based on goals agreed on by the group. By buil, ng a the assumption that the most valuable learning support climate, the facilitator can lead stu ents is founded in self-knowledge and a resultant to an understanding of the difficult roles indi- knowledge of others, the book presents a view viduals play in a group and how to vary those of teaching as helping and caring within a sup- roles for effective action. Related to this is the portive but flexible structure. In this view, the idea that exploratory thinking to help tb, mind goal of each individual teacher or student is the generate alternatives enables an individual to ability to direct heilhis own learning. Such an "make something from nothing" I an ability ability involves a five-step process of exercising that is in the truest sense creative. It is clear that personal control, assessing needs, setting up this very ability is vitally needed at a time when goals, using resource, and evaluating out- our future both immediate and distant re- comes. quires not only realistic prediction, but also in- Being a good teacher-facilitator necessitates a genious problemsolving that may not have knowledge of one's own attitudes, teaching much in the way of tradition to support it. style, and skills, and a willingness and ability to The movement of the book, then, is from an evaluate oneself. In fact, self-knowledge and initial examination of the reader's personal:val- self-evaluation are essential to the role of ues and positions on key questions to sugges- teacher-helper. For this reason, the ideas, sug- tions and strategies that may help the reader gestionsnodels,,,, and strategy outlines con- lead others toward the self-knowledge and the tained it tfieext are designed to help the reader development of effective relationships with toward a self- nowledge that will enhance others that together constitute the measure of e of individual learners, in her/his knowle relevance. Teacher and student become change e learners_miy ultimately such a way that th agents with the ability tq direct events, rather nt-ind sell-directing as be made as indepen than submit to the unstructured chaos so many possible. people fear may overtake our society. , Few of us would deny that valuing is one of Whether the reader wishes to read the book the cornerstones of self-knowledge. Building on straight through, from cover-to-cover, or to dip this major social belief, the author helps the into it at random wherever words or phrases reader explore the interrelationships of valuing, seem particularly relevant or tempting, the ac- thinking, and feeling that make self-directed to be simulations, tivities learning possible for both teacher and learner; thought over and_filledin, metaphors to be re- in, In accepting the premise that what one values will be invitations to a participation. flected on . determines the choices that one makes, the au- with the author in a creative quest. Such par- thor also accepts the corrolary belief that choices ticipation can lead to the satisfaction and pleas- or decisions only have value if they are carried ure that come from a sudden, increasing illumi- into action., ' not only that of expanded personal nation In developing the idea of process, the author knowledge but also that of a constantly deepen- leads the reader to realize that, in addition to ing knowledge and appreciation of other helping the learner function independently, the human beings. _ i myself as a helper, a facilitator, a giver of sup- An Introduction port who has mastered certain skills and tech- niqtles which work for me in certain circum- V5 but not always. I can no more direct stances Writing this introduction highlights certain absolute you by providing magic formulas or ambiguities I have had since I began writing the recipes than I can waste students' time with a first pagesof this book. On the one hand, I hesi- moralizing lecture. In ,this spirit, I have used tate to dilute an experience, especially the ex- Strategies and methods, adapted to print-form, perience I have wanted to create, by describing which I feel will help you discover yourself, in the expository mode what that experience your values, and your stance on key issues. In should be; on the other hand, I must realize that this context, I know full well that you will react my personal involvement in the very humane to concepts and define+ key words differently learning environment which provides the daily than I. I accept that. In fact, I welcome any self- space and time to teach experientially (as well as definition .which this book helps you make. I hope learn), which gives such clear priority to feel- that you can learn to feel comfortable with fits wings and processes, to ideas and personal . approach, even to the point in which you reuse growth, and which challenges students and the book a second or third time. `My fantasy is staff to share the creative act of learning, this that you will perceive yourself, more clearly involvement may place unfair expectations on after each reading, as the authority on your the treader for whom content-centered learning learning processes; the power Mita controls is the familiar norm. To avoid being crowned your learning and your life. That is self- King of Authority, a role assignment which direction. contradicts the essential intent of this book; to preserve .those values I place on facilitated If this book is your first exposure to induc- self-definition; but to help those readers for tively structured, experiential learning, you and whom this book is an introduction to process may find it more valuable to move slowly learning, I have elected to deal with my am- reflectively. I find, even after many years of in- biguity by describing certain ground rules. volvement in such experiences, that I benefit Hopefully, these ground rules will explain most if I support my journeys thru values, feel- where I am and how I feel about the self- ings, Ali beliefs by maintaining a daily journal. .`An early self-discovery was my need for the directed learning process. journal to control my focus. I have accepted this If I had decided to write in the expository limit and disciplined myself to record for my mode, I, would transcribe those absolute laws own reflection the paths and discoveries un- which you must accept as the final, irrevocable covered by my search for self. the musts, the tablet of law the oughts, I could perceive of no result more disastrous shoulds. But just as lectures do not work for me than the use of this book as a repository of either as listener or speaker in the classroom "games," "tricks," or "toys" for manipulating expository theses do not work on the printed or entertaining students. I know that simula- page., r' tions, games, and values strategies can become Just as I will not direct my students along a humorous diversions, without the firm com- path which says, "Listen and you will hear the mitment that self-definition and self-direction gospel word," so L will not describe "the abso- result from an inherently supportive attitude lute word on self-direction" to you. When I toward life and learning, such strategies and make that statement, lam aware that you might games can become a farce, sometimes even a interpret myLstance as a hands-off "do your tragedy. own thing" approach. I hope you will not. To Conversely, if you can say to yourself, "Yes, I me, a laissez-faire style is as equally valudess to value self-definition and self-direction and I learning as the dictatorial absolute. I find myself want to share my discovery with my students," somewhere between those polar extremes. I see you will have made the first clear step away umbrella action which I have called self- from being the respository of truth, the foun- direction: the taking of personal control tainhead of knowledge, toward becoming a assessing needs, setting goals, using resources, facilitator who shares expertise with those who and evaluating (not to mention the prerequisite freely choose your support. Undoubtedly, you affective processes). In the closure form at the will experience as much discomfort, confusion, conclusion of each chapter, process takes a third and anxiety at that step, as you will when you use, the formal exercise which asks you to re- attempt to use the first strategies in this book or ' fleet on the total learning you have gained in when you "process" a chapter for the first time. the chapter. In this sense, processing not only As a partial remedy. you might recall your feel- asks you to review the concepts you have gar- ings the first time you leaned to swim, or ski, nered (WHAT), but also to recognize induc- or master any new skill. tively the chapter's purpose (WHY), the chapter's processes and strategies (HOW), and Throughout the book, yqu will encounter the to apply your learning to a situation which has word process. In the basic sense, process is a meaning kivate to you. In a sense, the what, *dun which delineates the flow of ideas, feel- the why, and the how become your content; in ings, values, and beliefs as the individual takes the final processing, you discover that personal 4., control of learning. As a verb, it takes on more value which you can creatively apply to your significant meaning by defining those acts, both self-definition. Static knowledge becomes your internal and interpersonal, which comprise that creative action, your self- direction. le .. , "Know thyself." Aristotle "Within each of our own Separate Lodges, deep within ourselves, there is gso part of this same Great Medicine Fire of the People. The questions wer are al- ways asking is "who am I", or "who is this living spirit, this fire?" The questioning of this mystery is the begin- ning ofour search for Understanding or our Fire of Self. . ," Hyemeyohsts Storm, Seven Arrows "Charley, the man didn't know who he was" Arthur Miller, Death of A Salesman Searehi tity The names you listed, may give you some The search for self is not unique to our age. inklings about yourself. Are you on your list? The questions "Who am I?," "How do I relate to the people and events around me?," and Is there! anyone prom your cultural or racial "Where am I going?" have echoed and re- heritage? From your own sex? From your group er ethnic or soda! groups? echoed °across every known boundary. Histo,ry ofifriendsUrom cS,t and literature record the names in fact and ex? From your students? From the opposite What conclusions doz you draw about yourself symbol from your list? Antigone Coltrane Jane Addams Ulysses Reflecting Malcolm X Job Theresa of-Avila Paul Tillich Gwendolyn Brooks Galileo Spaceship Me Goethe Einstein INSTRUCTION: This is a self-reflection exercise. David Walker Simone de Beauvoir You have many options for its use. (1) Read the re- Susan B. Anthony Willy Lornan flection slowly. Stop and meditate between words and phrases. (2) Have someone read the images to slowly and softly giving you ample time to you Add-A-List meditate on each word and phrase. ,(3) ;Use a, tape recorder. Read the reflection aloud. Proceed softly INSTRUCTION., To the list given above, add the and slowly. Allow more than ample lime between each names of peisons you know from direct experience, word group. Then play back the entfire meditation. literature, history, science, or wherever, who e val- ues and actions are focused on the quest for i.."_;:ntity: As a first-goPat the ideas and processes of this book, the search for self, for personal meaning, for posi- you may want to limit yourself to the first option. tive relationships with other persons, places, or This will enable you to concentrate on the strategy's events. Limit yourself to three minutes. content/However, to appreciate the process of reflect- ing, you will want to eiperience the meditation. For 1. this, as well as the practice you will receive if you choose to share this meditation or others with stu- 2 dents, the tape recorder may make the most sense. 3.* 4 The content of this meditationy as with others throughout the book, is geared to the issues, and 5. ideas relevant to the interaction between you, the 6. reader, and the purposes of the Book. In use with students or other teachers, use the strategy, but 7. adapt the content to the audience's needs. 8 A helping worth each reflection begins with a sug- 9. gestion that you relax and get, comfortable with- out falling asleep. Be sure that you take the time to 11. slow yourself down, clear your head, and concen- how trate-oil yourself and your external processes 12 you feel, what images you see, the sensations that impinge from the outside. The more successfully you can control your feeling, thinking, imagining 14 processes, the more you will entich the reflection 15 f.. If you are not used to medi« experience for yours tation, don't be disco raged at the difficulties you 16 first encounter. 10 Albert Camus, Stephen Spender, and Yev- . settle into a position which Make yourself comfortable . . allows you to relax tushenko add their') voices to the bleak descr.ip- . breathe softly close your eyes . . . . get into your rhythm . , . recall the names tion of the 20th century human condition, a relax . . . . on your add-a-list let their faces float across your condition which they, feel is formed, controlled, . , . mind's eye . picture each person in her or his time . and prolonged by the subtle technological pow- . the environment . the civilizatwy . . the personal con- , . ers which have destroyed tip human spirit. ..., . who are you? flicts . of-those persons . . become one . . . how do you feel about yourself and your times? . . . . what makes you most uneasysabout yourself? . about . . 3 The Parable of the Cage those around you? . . for whom or what are you i.-,arcli- . _ ing? . . return to yourself . . who are you? . what do Once upon a time in a far-away land, all the . . . lief; shape yhr ac- . what attitudes and you value? , . people lived in cages,Tach and every cage was . how do you feel about you elf?' . tions? . . your rela- furnished with identical equipment. The north tionships with other persons? . . w wre Are you going? . wall was a .giant, three-dimensional color.video , see yourself as a spaceship . . get a sense of your size:, , screen with multichannel stereo-soad and . thrust . your length . diameter , , . capacity . . as , . odor effects. The south wall was a maze of spig- you hurtle through space, chart a course a , . what is your gots, slots, and chutes. A soft chair and bedding heading? . your destination? . . what obstacles are in . . . rested against the east wall and faced the cage , . Your path? your chances of survival? . how do, you . bars on the west. The inhabitants lounged . arrive at feel as you hurtle through the scree -void? . .lavor your motionlessly on their floors, eyes frozen to the your destinatan how do you'feel now' . . . giant screens. When the buzzer sounded, the s until you are ready to open you r cites and enti reactions . the reflection. screens blanked, and the'caged people rose as one from the floor,.sat at the tables which had Buckminster ruller plummets the inhabitants 'unfolded from the wall, and waited for the of the 20th century through the nether regions blue-striped straws to funn'el the liquidized-vit- . of time on Spaceship Earth. Optimi-tically, in amin food into their mouths. As one, they rose, # ontrol the tools of science an4 his view, we returned to the video screen and settled down technology w, i ich carry us on an adventurous to watch. No one spoke, no one showed any exploration of" the universe's as yet untapped expression as the television flickered on. resotirces / . One sunny day, a visiting idignitary, guided by, a robot, toured the cage-town. Puzzled by But other thinkers of our time see through a the apathy and passive dependence of the cage darker glass. peopl& the dignitary asked the robot to explain T S. Eliot sees2.0th century humanity as a lost why the people acted as they did. race. Instead of comfort and security, Eliot finds "You have ,not asked a question .1-fly program loneliness, meaninglessness, and spiritual can answer," responded the computerized death. . guide. The dignitary thought a moment. He We are thf.. hollow men tried a new approach:- We are the empty men , "How did these people so perfect their tech- Leaning together nolc,gy that' they can rely totally on machines?" Headpiece stuffed with straw. Alas! "The Hollow Men" 'The robot blinked its light's. "These humans have taken advantage of the freedom we Eliot's voice cliael not cry alone. jean Paul machines have offered. No longer are humans Sartre, the existential philos,opher and play- required to engage in physical or mental labor, wright, descnbes the valueless, emotionally make choices, or communicate with each other. bankrupt characters who.search fruitlessly for We feed, clothe, entertain, and maintain all an escape door from the wasteland of their lives; humans in their cages. They no longer suffer but, as he describes in his play No Exit, th'e there are no emotional traumas, no personal doors open "to nothingness." W. H., Auden,
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