ARE YOU CONSIDERING THERAPY? ARE YOU CONSIDERING THERAPY? Anouchka Grose First published in 2011 by Karnac Books Ltd 118 Finchley Road London NW3 5HT Copyright © 2011 by Anouchka Grose The right of Anouchka Grose to be identified as the author of this work has been asserted in accordance with §§ 77 and 78 of the Copyright Design and Patents Act 1988. All rights reserved. No part of this publication may be repro- duced, stored in a retrieval system, or transmitted, in any form or by any means, electronic, mechanical, photocopying, recording, or otherwise, without the prior written permission of the publisher. British Library Cataloguing in Publication Data A C.I.P. for this book is available from the British Library ISBN-13: 978-1-85575-857-5 Typeset by Vikatan Publishing Solutions (P) Ltd., Chennai, India Printed in Great Britain www.karnacbooks.com v ABOUT THE AUTHOR vii INTRODUCTION ix CHAPTER ONE What are the different types of therapy? 1 Qualifications 2 Counselling and psychotherapy 6 Art therapy 10 Behavioural therapy 12 Biodynamic therapy 17 Cognitive therapy 19 Cognitive behavioural therapy (CBT) and cognitive analytic therapy (CAT) 23 Computerized CBT 30 Existential psychotherapy 32 Gestalt therapy 34 Humanistic counselling 37 Integrative psychotherapy 41 Person-centred psychotherapy 44 Psychodynamic psychotherapy 45 CONTENTS vi CONTENTS Psychosynthesis 48 Systemic therapy 51 Brief therapies and life coaching 54 Brief therapy 55 Emotional brain training (EBT) 57 Hypnotherapy and hypno-analysis 60 Life coaching 63 Neurolinguistic programming 65 Psychoanalysis 69 Freudian psychoanalysis 75 Jungian analysis 81 Kleinian psychoanalysis and object relations theory 85 Lacanian psychoanalysis 89 Relational psychoanalysis 93 CHAPTER TWO Psychiatry versus psychology 97 Medication or conversation? 99 Therapy and psychosis 102 Which drugs? 105 Antipsychotics (or neuroleptics) 105 Antidepressants 107 CHAPTER THREE Individuals, groups, couples, and children 109 Couples and families 109 Group therapy 111 Child psychology 113 CHAPTER FOUR Finding a therapist 117 To pay or not to pay? 118 Finding a therapist independently 123 vii ABOUT THE AUTHOR Anouchka Grose is a practising psychoanalyst and member of the Centre for Freudian Analysis and Research, where she regularly gives lectures. She is also the author of two novels, and a non-fiction book, No More Silly Love Songs: A Realist’s Guide to Romance. ix INTRODUCTION Advising someone to “get some therapy” is easily done. But telling them how, where, and which sort is far more difficult. Should they go via their doctor, fol- low a friend’s recommendation, or try their luck on the Internet? “Therapy” is a word that covers a multitude of different practices. It may involve giving someone a set of techniques to block out unwelcome thoughts, or they may be invited to spend years exploring these thoughts on a weekly, or even daily, basis. In between, there are numerous other possibilities, some of which might include massage, hypnosis, or even dancing. If you’re in a difficult situation and have the idea that it would help to go and speak to someone, you may suddenly find yourself confronted by an array of impos- sible choices and impenetrable terms. Should it mat- ter to you whether a therapist describes themselves as humanistic or integrative? Mightn’t it be better just to know whether they are sympathetic and insightful? If you’ve decided to “get some therapy”, the next step may be trying to work out what that actually means. This book sifts through the more readily available forms