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Schoat ‘About the Book se pacislsuse ts onetime nates fcrev ences, ine gs it ee Te feeavcsiva clea ant aril sya geet Tyeseronadmaienn ar sate ri ent suet landcom eg eS eerangect septs Rt": econ, odsne iempretrstons of rue e Bask oe wuz epacnsted Wim N. Golden, AD. oF eect of he Benes ins ba Pn vec eat reson 2 Fe iy cake ete eran ai Henri an Bord ua Qo lew snzany pet neeelieantians pinay set rem choy hae, A PRIMER FOR BEGINNING PSYCHOTHERAPY Second Edition William N. Goldstein, M.D. Baltimore- Washington Institute for Psychoanalysis Georgetown University Medical Cemer Published by BrumneeRontedge 29 Wow 3th Skeet New Yor NY 10001 Published in Grea tain Bmnee Rouge TD New Foto Tae Land ECAP ALE, ‘Brummer Range iy mnprnt ofthe Tap & Frais Cp AA PRIMER FOR BEGINNING PSYCHOTHERAPY, SECOND EDITION SGepmighe ¢ 2001 flor rane, ghe sete, Pent in the Carte Shae of Arete. Enver bere ude tae Lod tates Corina AC ‘6, no pan ofthis pubic aye seeded d= sted form ar by eat stn tr tered 3 dabase oe teniesal stony whet oe ten pen sab the publish, ‘ACA cae recon fo hs Uk yale rom chem Lary. (Goo 'thepape nhs publeason meet te requests ef the ANT anand? a8 18 (Permanence at Poser vee # Wiliam Gls 2h MAW esnnol ona fi CONTENTS Preface " Preface tothe Fn Elton si The Patients 1 1. eho ve the Patents? 1 2 Can Patients Conveniently Placed wy Digger e Groupe? + 1 Whot Are the € harass of sae NenmabNcurot Grasping? 2 1. What Ave the Choracserisies of =e Rarer ine Grouping? 2 5. Wht sre the Chraeseristis of she Norte Groupings 8 (6 What Ste the Characerisies of ne Payenote Cuong Is acing Patient Tse Large Gonapngs Leta tarTrerapye 10 The therapies 1 Who Are the Pap berate? u 9 Wha Are Some of Probiems inerent in Dain Paychoteraye id 10. How Impertan Is One's Personal Therapy or Paychnanalis® 12 1 What Kinds oF Pessonal Characteristics and Experiences Fp Makea Good therapist uw 2, What About the 2oe uf Life Lxperienent 8 sal Inthe Row of Teatning and Superson? 3 1. How Long Dues Take ta Become ar Cfastve Therapist? 14 Ibi: Urol See a Variety of Palit, we Buller Specine? 4 6, Do Same Therapies Wok Helier ‘With Specie Iypes oF Pater? ny 1), che Sou ue tthne Background ofthe Therapist Imporion\? 1h “he Psychotherapy 18, Hoy Can Pachotherepy Re Cased? 18. What Psych. and for Whom fe incstedt 20, Wiha: is Analy Griented Psy notherapy anc! for Whom Inca? 21. Whar Made Anaiialy Oren Paychatherapy, anu for Whaat deat 2. Whol ts Dynamizaly Oriente! Peychotherapy fn for Whom le feat 23, Whalls Suppor Parchotherapy, and for Whur Bi Isdieared? 24, Wats Cogative hragy an for Whom ft Indie Large issues Regaeing Psychotherapy 25, What Ave the Larger tues Regaring Psychotherapy? D6. whats saan by th Sabiliy Ghthe Thome 22, Should the Therapist he Neutral? 2M. Mustthe Thera: Be Fen? 29. Whatis Caunte transference and inet Role Dues ey 38. What I the Kole uf Empathy? #1 fs Active Should the Taerapst Be? 35, What the Mecharism af ChanyeirPeychaterpyt The Office Seting 33, How lnportaeIs-he Office Satin 34, Whar Facions Are impertant in Sett'g Lp en Otic? 35, What Aout the Wang Room? 36, What Ascut the Bathroom? 37 rat ahoul a Telephone? 3B, 52 Home Office Desirable? The Iii tte "0, St Shoald thw Thecapi Say ‘ren the Palen Fist eas? 0. What Kinds of Patients Tend la Stayan the Phone and Hoye Chas the theranit Deal With Thom? 11 What Av the Goals ofthe al Sos 12, oo ste In Session Struct 1. ow Does he Therapist Procend With Hier lak VA. Mow Ate Recarwrenations Make Wot tthe West Way to Reta Aother eres? Areangements 16, What nial Arar goments New to Be Diseased ih the Parez 2. What Avou: Seneoulngt St, shat About te Frequency of Sessions? 8, What About the Sing of Seasons? 50, How Ave fees Estab? Sk, Shaul Patients Bo Chapel or Missed Appointments? 2. What Guldeis I the Patent Given? dre Contract Desrablet "1 Should Sieakirg and Foo Be Alu During ne Sessions? 18 What Aout Interactions Setwven Therapist wel Patt Ouse of th Sessa Transference andthe Therapeutic Alliance 8. What isthe Dierence Between the thesapeatic ance sna Wansferenec? 7, Ws Patio ave Probl Forving thergpeute Allancet ¢. How lea Weak Theraseuticallaeec Stenghened? 5. with Wl Paterts Dae: Eanslevence Develup Rapidly? 6C. What Are Somme Ganerazat oss Regarding the Handling Tanserencet 1, Hoss Does the Therapist Dea ‘ith Negative Tansferencest 12, owe Des the Therapist Daal ‘th Eotcied Tanserencee? Basie Stategy 63, There a Base State fr Papentarapy 1 Wat Sategies Ase Recommendad focthe Diterent Lrge Graupingst fh. Wha the Basi Sine far Borderline atin? herapeuti interven 66, 68, co 33 7. {What Are the insight Oven tnerveains? ‘ya Av the Suaportie Infrventonst What Determines the Therap Choice of intervention? Regarding Interventions, What ls Guod Approach atthe Bugianing of Therapy! Ae the Manner and Style ofthe incervention Important What i an Affimatve Inespretaion? "2. Wha Ave Preparstary Comment Sau Therapats Asc the Palen for Feedback, ‘on their Interventions? a. vehon Shs the Theranist Answer Questions? How, Dies te Therapist Deal With Latenese, How Dous the Therapist Deal ‘with sed Appuintmants? How: Dies the Therapist Decl with Gite ‘ve Sel Disclosures beetlt ‘har icthe inate Warring? Interventlane tegardiny Ansiety and Defense oo. ot a, 4 ¥ a 2 ‘Whats an Intewention Regarding Amiety and Detense? Hoss Does the Thera: Make Interventions Regarding Ariely ged Detensct ‘What are Zeeryoy Fears of erento Regarding Analety and Defer Can Trtervertons less Other Uncomfortable Alec and Defencet {Cana Vignette Demonsiaaing Intervet Regarding, (Other Uncomiorasle Affe aml Defens be Prviged? Gan These Types af lnervenns Re Mae Vth Paionsin the Psychotic Grouping? hae Diffrances Ave Mere When Using Theve Interventions Wita Mare Troubled Patent What happens Wher *e Ate: Fapevince! sn tho Thetapy Session Is Too Inne! Wha: Does the Trerapis Do When the Patient Lazo Hisor Her Obsorving igor ‘re Taare Cither Concept! Mode That Cx Be Use Insiead of asiety ard eens? Speclal ren ond Probes I Howe oes the Therapist Deal With the Use 9), What hs Pojetie Mentfcation, ard Hove be ith in Psychotherapy ‘hat are Foicments and Hav? Are They Deat wes Pgchathesayye 11, Hw Dues the Therst Dee With Severe Acting Out "NM. Hew Bes the short Deal Wi) se Seiida Patient "5 Whar Does Ie Therapist Do When Patents Sov beam Realy Testi! ‘in Hise Are Betas et ane in Psychotherapist SV, eae ae the Fios and Con of Preseibin Neialion? Phase, Trend and Termination Si Ae" Ihere Phases or era Petar? "v8, When Mes the Termination Phase Begin Tn, hat aes the Leis aton hase ba Contemporary Schook of Tanght 10, Wratle Modem Canfls theary? 102, What Clese Pineess Alea 18, What the Relation’ Sehae 14. hate Se Faychology! 1. What Is ertigestr yt 16, What ie Sail Conse 1. What is Objet Relations Teory? 190. Is eAckantageniaetn Se itegiate Eierent adel? 16. Hoy Do Thatapitca®Dillerent blidels View Fach Cher? spp ‘Ad, Whats the Purpose af a Facue on Ego Functions? ‘42, Mow Boes One Concentua ie Sealy Testing “3. What Is Sense ot Realy? ‘A. What ls Aeapration to Realy? Hor Dees Ge think about Impa Fusstraton flerance? Ais How Ave Thought Processes Deserted? A, wnat Are ntepersona, Relation nd How Dg They Diter ram Object Relations? AA. What fhe Representational Werld ane Huw Dous Re tet Self and Objet Represenatons? $9. Haw Ain Defense Mechaniare Coneeptualzed? A. Wha Other Ce Functions Might We Consider? References oo PREFACE "ive sci edition othe prmcr provides severa! ase addons. rest vial rennont ol ese i a chapter en contemporary sehonts of hugh Mlnugh once preemizear arenas pycher heals wih parvo He alin, ego pelolegy ABR ORs Ons of several EgRIY AMBRE «howls af thought. Other competing models include self psychology, Iinessubieciiey, abject relations shear. soe easton, he tinal sthort The chapter on eanternporary schaols offer suseBct nunariesof dese varying model, com-pating 3nd commasting each. The wince: foewsesaialy en cinta ana practial weazters Ths ah "uphasizes an ego psyeholagial approach, it can be equally YsefUl 12 Ietchistsnsing hoe ler competing models, Thesceond eelinalu presents asasmber of er pactcalries. These velar seuss ms seganding Une requency of sessions, the Spaciog ct sions, anvoink questions. accepting gf, self islasures, and enact vents. Elly. an wapendix en ege himetions has beer: aded, Designed ‘specially tor eros un ameiae ech this ay cf niki. tae app ‘ssh he yerticulady sefu wits regard) clasaving patients into fone ol the oat large dass yroupinas i PREFACE TO THE FIRST EDITION Designed especially ar cfents gust aeutal health professionals a he ‘oh sages uf ches careers. tis prtter provides a practical gulde for ing poribetberaye: Shave and conc, i addreses virtually all ques ions thata meapayte therapist aight have, A major goal sto present he Isis io a cece and secre way, wilh special eaphasis on techniques vn cine ena The avimer begs by lookong ate yateuts: whe they are and wy ‘hey corte fur psychotherape. & clasifieaon: dividing all patiens iazd nen four lnye yruupings—normal neu, arcs borderline, and Inichatioiselaburated. Ie leg icstien is espetlly welul eae age ouping bezag associated wth ls oer therepeuli strategies, approacaes, nnd techniques. Througnoue the hook, there is comparison and comtast regarding excl of Cie four graapings The pune set adaesses che therepss: vk they are, what atioets ‘hem 16 the Feld au inhorer problems with which they wil have to the penal characteris, experiences, and rang deeaped faust ‘sec Ia Hheve ulviduals are addressed, addin ta The ines of sen ‘nic group, onl spedazation, Anocerview uf psychotherapy is then presented. Theshiferen types ot Peyehotherepy ae coaeeptualized an a contig wie not sig ‘rlemted and explurory pas at ane ond and the mee suppoctive types 2: the the, Tie Iypes of payehacherapy slang is coutiowara ace de ‘tbect paychnanayss, analytically aeienrad payehoracray, mcd salicaly creases prytactherapy, dymamicalyeniented pavehotherspy, sad supportive peyshuuerapy. Cognzive therapy i algo dlsenssed. Fm Hass Ison whos ands of patienrs da nest swah cael af the dle terapie. ‘The nee: tor chapters address questions related to getting starved. A chazter on the layer isues regarding payenotherapy fornscs on the sa Wty of te sherapensieenvianinent the neural an Mex of Mi "erapist, counteruansference,exypaty, he atiity of he Herapis an ‘he meehaoist of change th poychoterapy. A chapes un atrankernert Aiscusses scheduling, pagme nts. assed appoinumsents, uel fr the pation, camtracs, and smoking and feodin the sessions. A arparae ea {er provides jostruction adopt hows to ovange tke llc, while ae on the ‘intial iuterview higlighrsImeracions between patient and therapist this beginning sage of eee ‘he Temalner ol une book focises on te aly-erly of peyehotherepy. “ove eciesques and inteevontins ave spelled out in etal. arapl Ms ‘raced by linial vigneres. Chapters on tansference and che therapcxtc lane anon tte basi swategy yrovile uecestary theoretical background {chapter on therapeutic nervous describes the various types of Tervetions, the se ection of interveations, and the manner ana syle af mgerventnns Ts chapter asa discusses Firma aterpretations, pr Paratory vomreae, feedback trary the pint, lets, enssed appa smears, and the 5 minite warning. ‘Actapner on juteeventions regarding anstety aul delense details teeh- niques using is cunceptualstemenrh, pravidumapplications to al fon" lange groupings. chapter on special iss ad probicans alesse em live defenses preectivewenication. severe ating nthe sudcdal pa Tec, cittonltes wits ealiey esting. dvcams, and mediante. The ime fend wth a chapcerdlecosing phases, ends, ad Iecinati The Patients. Freots include anybody and everstond: They cunt fro all walls of He, all snigecuneetisstses. and all ethnic groups. They present stk hnencing araniee ie regard ta chavacret Waits, pemoneites antl beay= jor Svhat they have in eoraman is Mua they ouller ‘xa problems that fete with eit stag self goals, maximizing thet patents, vl kding basically contented hives, Phe problems stem [eo calls Tht ate at Tease partially yatside oftheir awareneses, These prubleuts ‘ony in intensity and present esther at symapeorae a 36 pers nate nnd patterns. OF He problems are avery Baracrsone to she [Us ‘Luther times, aldbough they do nar cause discomfort, dey itenfere wh che pater’ lives in ways that have became apparent them. 2. Can Patients Be Conveniently Placed nto Diagnostic Groups? "atonts can he slssified io endless ways. One diageomtesycien, parte: ly useful for pevehorherspy, places all patients into one of four luge "oupigs: normal-enrore: namie borderline, and psyehoti. Ha Uihese geoupings ean be diferendated by a facus on eo functioning, ‘Aldieugtt not currently In vogie, «focus om ego Funetoning fsa mos llecive way nf born desebing aad aderstaniing patents Altscugh Nosed om psychoanalytic eure. dis gppreaeh cam be thonght a as 9