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Jessica Kingsley Publishers 73 Collier Street London N1 9BE, UK www.jkp.com Contents Introduction. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .. . . . . . . . . . . . . 7 1. A Brief History of Sex. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .. . . . . . . 11 Sexual behaviour . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 12 Biology . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 13 Sex, sexology and sexuality . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 16 Sex and gender . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 21 2. Sex and Sexuality . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 25 Sex, love, power and sexuality . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 25 The portrayal of sex . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 30 3. Theories of Sexual Offending . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 37 Why do they do it? . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 37 Treatment . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 43 4. People Who Sexually Harm Others. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 53 Typologies . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 53 Offending against children . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 56 Sexual violence . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 62 Female perpetrators . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 64 Stalking. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 66 Mental illness . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 67 Harmful sexual behaviour by young people . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 68 Older people. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 72 5. Theories of Risk . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 73 The risk society . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 73 Probability . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 75 Perceptual bias, likelihood and complexity thinking . . . . . . . . . 77 Defensive, defensible, precautionary principle and false positives . 82 Prior assumptions and Bayesian inference . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 87 6. Assessing the Risk of Those Who Cause Sexual Harm . . . . 93 Organizational defensive and professional defensible decision-making . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 93 Using risk assessment ‘tools’ . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 95 7. Legal Contexts. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .. . . . . . . . . . . 103 Prosecutions . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 103 Consent . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 104 Sentencing. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 105 Civil orders. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 108 Children and young people . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 109 Mental health . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 111 8. Approaches and Debates. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 115 Treat, cure or control? From theory to practice and from practice to effective outcomes . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 115 A brief history of interventions. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 116 The rise of evidence-based practice . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 119 Control, treat and correct . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 122 Cognitive behavioural approaches . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 124 Programm-ization . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 129 Empathy . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 137 Adverse childhood experiences and DESISTANCE . . . . . . . . . . 139 9. The Reflective Professional . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 147 Promoting positive change to reduce the risk of future harm . . . . 147 Professional values and personal change . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 148 A person-centred approach . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 154 Thinking critically about complex behaviours . . . . . . . . . . . . . 155 Looking after ourselves . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 157 References . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 161 Appendix: List of Sexual Offences (Sexual Offences Act 2003) and Recorded Number of Sexual Offences (2019) . . . . . . . . . 187 Subject Index . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 195 Author Index . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 201 Introduction This book is about working with those people who perpetrate sexually harmful behaviours. Acknowledging the very serious impact on those who are affected by this behaviour, the book is not about ‘victims’ – that is a different book. It is difficult to strike a balance in content and use of language professionally and more generally. Whilst the title of this book uses the term ‘sex offenders’, the use of language throughout attempts to avoid the term where appropriate, and there are several reasons for this. Using the term ‘sex offender’ strictly means that a person has been found to be guilty by a Court of illegal sexually abusive immoral behaviour. Without entering too deeply into the philosophy of law, it is possible to suggest that the law is underwritten by a common base of principles of the community that constitutes ‘institutional morality’ (after Ronald Dworkin, 1931–2013, cited in Gillespie & Weare, 2019, p.11). The term ‘sex offender’ does not cover all those who have harmed or are suspected of harming somebody. Therefore in Chapter 4 we use the phrase ‘people who sexually harm others’ because this is a broader term that includes all those who have been found guilty of a sexually harmful behaviour in a Criminal Court, and includes situations where it is accepted that harm has occurred or is likely to occur but where no person has been found guilty of a crime (see also Chapter 7). What is more, by naming or labelling a person a ‘sex offender’, the person is identified primarily by the worst ‘bad’ thing that they have done. Recognizing that harming another person sexually is ‘a very bad thing’, identifying the person solely by their harmful behaviour 7 A Practical Guide to Working with Sex Offenders is not helpful when trying to work effectively with them to reduce future risk of harm (see Chapter 9). The next point raised by language is whether to call the person who has been harmed a ‘victim’ or a ‘survivor’. Bearing in mind that not all people survive the extremes of sexual violence, identifying a person as a victim also has a number of connotations. Identifying a person solely by the worst thing that has happened to them is again perhaps not entirely helpful; the person is more than just ‘a victim’. Whilst we have tried, where appropriate, to avoid the term ‘victim’, we have inevitably had to use it, as there is no entirely suitable alternative. Sex and sexual behaviour is a complex phenomenon that is hard to define in its totality. Sex is generally socially ubiquitous, even in its absence. ‘Deviant’ abusive sex adds a layer of complexity, particularly in the use of language – it is a moving social landscape that has undergone very significant changes in social expression. Some social expressions used in the past would not be acceptable now, and some contemporary social expressions would have been decidedly judged immoral in the past – there are substantial examples all around us. Undertaking this work requires us to consider our own standpoint on sex and sexuality, including an understanding of our own sexual interests, experiences and behaviour that can be an uncomfortable process but necessary for an effective reflective practitioner. It is also reflexive because when we think reflectively about sexual behaviour, our thoughts about sex tend to change. Talking about sex is uncomfortable, but paradoxically it is ubiquitous. Herschel Prins (1980), a founding voice of forensic psychiatry, raises some fundamentally insightful issues, such as whether sex offenders should be treated as a separate identifiable group of people different from all others; that (in 1980 at least) there were as many claims of spurious as well as genuine expertise as to causes of sexual harmful behaviour; and that this is an intensely emotive topic. He concludes, from a psychodynamic perspective, that ‘successful management treatment may lie within the person offering it’ and that it is necessary to be ‘aware of one’s own sexual “blind-spots”’ (1980, p.213). Hence the initial chapters in this current 8