A Pick Up Artist’s Guide To Approaching: How To Meet Women: Any Time, Any Place (PUA Book 2) PDF
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Copyright Copyright 2014 by Jack Davies This book is protected under the copyright laws of the United States of America. Any reproduction or other unauthorised use of the material or artwork herein is prohibited. Although the author and publisher have made every effort to ensure that the information in this book was correct at press time, the author and publisher do not assume and hereby disclaim any liability to any party for any loss, damage, or disruption caused by errors or omissions, whether such errors or omissions result from negligence, accident, or any other cause. All rights reserved. Table of Contents Foreword Keys To A Successful Approach Evolutionary Theory Key Concepts Self Amusement: Leading: Dominance: Investment: Takeaway Social Violation Theory Reactivity Social Freedom Framing Interest / Disinterest Calibration Signs She’s Interested Compliance Value Attraction Through Emotion Attraction Through Demonstration Survival of the Fittest vs Sexual Selection Disqualifed Help Types of Openers 1) Opinion Openers 2) Social Openers 3) Projection Openers 4) Direct Openers 5) Approach Invitation Openers 6) Lone Wolf Opener Pre-Fabricated Stacks Stack One Stack Two Group Theory Contingencies Social Violation Theory Being Interactive Grounding Routines Lost Friends Weird look on open Lost Attention Ignored Opener Interest in Attraction Female Interrupt Male Interrupt Obstacle attempts pull away “I want to Dance” Pull Away : Guy attempts to AMOG: I Have a Boyfriend All Disinterest Points Shit Test Cheat Sheet Qualification Testing Screening Rewarding Releasing Group Vs Target Qualification Example Qualifiers Body Language 101 Walk Up Direct Walk Up Indirect Walk Up In Set Body Language Locking In The Body Rock Dominant Walk Social Value Avoiding Big Mistakes Leaning In Head Tilt Not Locking In Apologetic or Nervous Body Language Pain Walk Up Premature Eject-ulation Stalling Bad Delivery Appendix A: Venue Selection Day Venues Night Venues Social Gatherings Appendix B: Peacocking Terms & Conditions Foreword Everyone knows the game is played in comfort, another way of saying mid-game, or anything that happens after the initial walk up to get her attracted. I wholeheartedly agree with that assessment, with one caveat: the greatest mid- game in the world will not help you if she never gives you the time of day. Approaching and Attracting women lets you pick who you want to meet. It allows you to be free when it comes to your dating life. No more will you be consigned to meeting women through friends, at work or, god forbid, dating a distant relative. No, you see her in the day at a park, or at a bar at night and you can go talk to her, if you know how. Approaching women is one of the most difficult skills for men to cultivate. We have many fears about something as seemingly simple as striking up a conversation with a beautiful woman. The very suggestion of which can bring all our insecurities to the surface. What men have needed for a while now is a complete guide to the various methods that allow you to talk to women. Many differing styles are available in order to break the ice and different schools of thought on what you should be looking to accomplish in the first three minutes. Rather than try to sell you on any one school of thought, my goal is to lead you by the hand and show you a few of the different approaches that are employed by various pickup schools. Obviously, while I cannot share any of their proprietary property, I can give you the stuff that they openly teach, to begin an interaction in a format that can maximise your success and allow you to then follow your instincts as to what you want to learn from whom. The biggest benefit of learning some ideas behind approaching is that you avoid the mental trap of ‘I don't know what to say'. For many men, a lack of real understanding and knowledge of basic approaches causes missed opportunities with women that could completely change their life for the better. Of course, as anyone who approaches will know, social interactions are not a one-way street. As you walk up and break the ice, women can throw any number of different challenges at you, from shit tests to Disinterest and that is before you get to her friends causing problems. I understand that just the approach and knowing what to say (if indeed you opt for a structured approach) is only half the battle. For this reason, I have added how to handle the various contingencies that come up in the optimum way. Throughout this book remember one thing: Attraction Isn’t A Choice. -- For me, when I started out, just knowing that I had ways to strike up a conversation with women, something that allowed me to test and improve myself when it came to the opposite sex, excited me. How could you not want to go ahead and learn these skills? Once you realise that you are are not limited by your current skill level, but instead able to improve the quality of your sexual partner through improving your own social skills Of course, what quickly follows is the addiction because once you know what you are doing; walking up to women becomes fun. The best analogy I would give you is that it's a roller coaster, you know logically that nothing bad could happen and you enjoy it, but at the same time you get that nervous rumbling from deep in your gut when you see that big vertical drop approaching. Then it happens, in this case 'it' means women playing with their hair, touching you and wanting you to keep talking to them to see where it goes. When you see that, everything goes bright and you play the Game to win. Note: The benefit to having this book as a digital release is that it affords me a great deal of flexibility when it comes to being able to update it. If you feel something is missing or you would like further clarification, then e-mail me: Keys To A Successful Approach In order to successfully approach women, there are several key components that need to be covered: I) Psychology - We need to understand why women respond to certain approaches and reject others. We also need to have a basic grasp of some key techniques that are in play when we approach. In this case, that means knowing the different types of value and how to increase ours, the qualities she is looking for, and how to avoid pit falls. + II) Body Language - As we have all heard, 75% of our communication is given via body language. It is hugely important that body language be understood before we even walk up to a group of women. In this section, we'll look at body language for the walk up, when in set, and even how to move around the venue. III) Openers - There are many ways to open a set, no style is the one true way, but you will find one way will be more consistent for you. I cover everything from direct to indirect and there are quite a few shades in-between those. I also explain how lone wolf sets differ and the non-approaching opener for those that want to skip the walk up. III) Contingencies - What roadblocks are thrown up? Why do women do these to you? How can you overcome the objections? Are you creating the objections through improper body language or not winning over the group? If it has happened to you, it is in this section. IV) Transitioning to Qualification - Attracting a woman, the way we look at it should only take three to five minutes, never more. Does that mean you never need to get her attracted again? No! What it means is that if you spend too long trying to attract her it sends the wrong message and she will rebuff your advances. You have to know how to move the interaction forward, so that you can get to mid-game.
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