77 Ways To Make Her Want To F@#k You

148 Pages·2013·1.229 MB·English

by  Jason Capital

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Foreword
We walk into her apartment. It smells like girl. I have no idea what to do. My
heart is pounding. We’re in her bedroom.
I can’t even move my arm to make a move.
Crash.
Burn.
Flash forward 5 years, to present day.
I’m in the parking lot of a bank in Santa Monica.
I’m standing up but my pants are down.
She’s sitting in the driver’s seat of her car, me standing over her with the door ajar.
She’s blowing me.
What’s her name again, I think.
Whatever. Names are so last year.
This is FUN, this is different, this is special.
We may have met just 30 minutes ago but I like her.
This is normal for me. How the fuck did this happen, I think.
Then I remember. I made this happen.
I took the cuts and bruises and risks to make myself this man. I’m proud. Then
I go back to the blow job.
What you’re going to learn below is a culmination of all the best tricks, tactics and techniques I
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learned while seducing the world over the last 5 years.
What’s crazy is I feel like I’m just getting started right now, where and what I
see myself doing a couple years from now excites me more than any girl ever
has (yet).
Translation: I can’t wait to bring you even more of this life-changing info.
To bring you this guide below, I traveled continents, risked arrest and even had
pitchers of beer poured over my favorite jeans by jealous females.
Every minute has been worth it, and I motherfucking wish the same for you.
Read this. Use it.
Yours in TRUTH,
Jason Capital
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Pace, Lead and Imply
Women love a bold man. I don't think I can stress this point enough.
No wait, I definitely can.
Truth:
Women don't even care if you're right or wrong. They just care that you
BELIEVE what you're saying to be pure TRUTH, and you're not changing
course, no matter what she says or does or even if shit doesn't work out the
way you'd planned. As the man, your frame stays fully on 100%, you take the
lessons out of it and you continue onward towards your destination.
So when you do what follows below, understand that while most of the time,
she'll be so entranced that she'll want to rip your clothing off right there but
other times she may want to challenge you. Good! Fine. No problem. See, she
just wants to see that you truly believe what you're saying about her to be true, she wants to feel your
congruence, she wants to test your frame to see just
how strong it is. And then, when you maintain your frame and congruency, she'll
be even more ready/excited to fuck you.
Here's an example of pacing her current sexual reality and letting her know
what she
wants:
I meet a girl. We flirt, laugh and tease into the night. Before we know it, we're alone in the dark
corner of a bar, hands in each other's, staring deep into each
other's eyes.
I tell her, “This feels really good, just being with you here. I can tell you're someone that really
enjoys good sex, and relaxing and letting go. But I know
there's a part of you that has always wondered if there's more...if there might be something truly
great or freeing
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about sex you’re not experiencing, or haven’t experienced yet. And you’re
curious. You know it’s out there, and there’s this part of you that wants to fully open up and be
taken by this experience and just be filled up completely in its entirety... <pause here> And as a
man, it’s my responsibility to tell you...
(PAUSE)...it’s out there...it might even be right in front of you. If you’re lucky.”
Let's cover what's going on here, then get to #2.
By the way, I don't plan on explaining every single one of these as deep as
possible.
The reasons are twofold:
1. That would take forever.
2. I want YOU to have your own interpretation of what's going on here and
how this fits in with your game and seduction. This is very much my way of
saying, “Be your own guru,” simply because I KNOW that's what's best way for you long-term.
I just want to give you the foundations of this stuff as I peel back the curtain, but after a few of these,
you'll recognize you have a good understanding of
them and then your brain can really get creative with this stuff. Like I said,
these might be your next 77 ways to make a girl want to fuck you, and you can
certainly live one hell of a life ONLY using them, but you might also find you
have even more fun when you internalize the principles here and start coming
up with your own.
So what's going on here?
I am not a hypnotist nor a “certified” NLP expert but I know enough of it to seduce the opposite sex.
Pacing is describing her current frame of reality, and
it's what I did first here:
This bar is really different. It feels really good, just relaxing here together.
(describing where we are, what we're feeling = pacing). I can tell you’re
someone that really enjoys good sex, and relaxing and letting go. (this is a cold-read that is true for
99% of girls, and is a form of pacing too).
What happens when you pace like this? Subconsciously (and maybe
consciously), she realizes that you UNDERSTAND HER WORLD. I can't stress
this enough. Girls want to fuck guys who are polarizing with their masculinity
and understand her world better than
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she does. And by pacing, you're doing this. You're not telling her you get her;
YOU'RE ACTIVELY SHOWING IT. Much, much better this way. But that's not
why we do it. This is:
By pacing her current reality (or in this case, her sexual reality), we're setting ourselves up to lead
her wherever we want, intellectually and emotionally. If
you were to just tell her straight up, “Listen. You're not getting fucked right, you've never been
fucked right and you know it,” some women might go for it but most will resist that. However when
you pace her reality first, and really
make her feel that you understand where she is right now and what she's
feeling, she's entranced. She patently waits on every next word of yours like it's gospel, like a dog
waiting for a treat. And I don't mean that in a negative way.
You're making her feel something wonderful when you do this so let's keep
going.
After you pace someone's reality, it's time to LEAD them where you want.
Remember: Leading is a highly masculine quality and incredibly attractive. Girls
love the guy who knows exactly where he's going and is leading her there with
him. But what's so powerful about the pacing is now she's willing to accept
whatever you say as truth. Her frame is highly malleable in this situation, so to make her want to fuck
you, you're going to tell her what she wants (and of
course, you're going to imply that what she wants is to fuck you).
But you can't just tell her. That's not flirting, or seduction. You describe it in vague generalities that
she can't disagree with. Let's break this down really
quick:
But I know there's a part of you that has always wondered if there's more.. If there might be
something truly great or freeing about sex you're not
experiencing, or haven't experienced yet. And you're curious. You know it's
out there, and there's this part of you that wants to fully open up and be taken by this experience
and just be filled up completely in its entirety.
(PAUSE/Tension Glance) And as a man, it's my responsibility to tell you...
(PAUSE)...it's out there...it might even be right in front of you, if you're lucky.”
Look at that sentence above. Beautiful, right? Lol.
I've paced her reality and now it's time to lead it where I want. Through vague
but sensual language, I allow her to feel that part of her that has always deep
down yearned for a more fulfilling sexual experience. When you're leading, it's
always great to talk about the “parts” of her so she can't disagree with anything you're saying.
Obviously we
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all have “parts” of us that want one thing, and other parts that want another.
Notice the hypnotic language too. “There's this part of you that wants to fully
open up and be taken by this experience and just be filled up completely in its
entirety.”
And then I end it with a fun challenge, implying what she's thinking but without
coming out and just saying it. For those of you who never studied seduction in
life, we call this “flirting” :-)
Plus, you guys know how I much I love the principle of “Fun and Challenging”.
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HER FAULT!
Framing, and frame control, really is the coolest thing ever.
I heart it so hard.
Not in a power-loving way or whatever, you can know everything you want
about frame control but unless you actually live like a badass when people are
watching and when they are not, it won't make a difference.
But if you do, and you know how to get your frame control on, you can do
insane amounts of positive damage with your girls.
I'll tell you why: Most girls' frames are highly moldable.
This isn't a bad thing, at its core; this is a big reason why women are so
awesome. They're open, perceptive and fluid.
And this is totally fucking awesome for seduction.
Check it: Whatever frame you're acting through with a girl (and if you commit to
the frame to the bitter end), she will take it on and act through that frame
herself.
Like, I don't know, for instance, what if your frame was that SHE is making
YOU like her?
Best. Frame. Ever.
This is two-step formula I use over and over in almost every seduction.
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Step 1. Blame my attraction, escalation or any other sexual thoughts on her
(the frame)
Step 2. Take it away (the tension)
Let's go to the big screen for an example here:
You're with a girl you met 15 minutes ago.
It's clearly on, you guys are flirting, playful touching, it's fun.
But you want to step it up a notch and really turn the heat up.
You look at her and say, “Seriously, why are you doing this to me? Making me
like you and thinking about kissing you. Not fair.” (STEP 1)
She laughs and says, “Me! You! You're making me think about all that stuff!”
You smirk and calmly reply, “It wouldn't even matter anyways. Cute girls are
always bad in bed.” (STEP 2)
She shrieks in delight, smacks you on the arm as you pull her in and kiss the
fuck out of her.
This making sense?
Ask yourself now; what are some funny things you'd want to say that blame
your attraction for her ON HER?
Here's a quick brain dump of mine:
Why are you doing this to me? You're the worst. I hate you.
Seriously, stop it. Stop looking at me like that. Don't smile at me like that either.
Are you trying to hypnotize me with your eyes right now?
Why are you making me think these thoughts about you?
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You know, it’s really not cool to be so cute and charming. Not fair.
Do you seduce every guy like this?
It’s really not fair of you to make me feel this way about you.
How did you know I have a weakness for brunettes from Southern Cali?
You’re doing this on purpose, aren’t you...I’m on to your tricks little girl.
And so on.
Here are the two different ways I find it most amusing to “take away”:
1. The “I can't even talk to you anymore”..
Examples:
I can’t even look at you anymore, stop it, turn the other way.. (as you playfully turn her the other
way)
I can’t even talk to you anymore, seriously, zip it, shut your mouth now.. (as you playfully close
her lips with your hands)
You’re the worst. I hate everything about you, especially how you make me
feel when you smile and laugh. Seriously. Stop it. Now. Leave. Get out of
here. (and then of course, I playfully push her away before pulling her back in for a kiss)
2. Creating a real or fake barrier Barriers put attraction on steroids.