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52 Things Husbands Need from Their Wives: What Wives Can Do to Build a Stronger Marriage PDF

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Endorsements Praise for 52 Things Husbands Need from Their Wives “My husband and I were on the 15-year plan…taking almost 15 years before we began to understand one another. I wouldn’t recommend that plan for anyone. Instead I would wholeheartedly recommend Jay Payleitner’s book 52 Things Husbands Need from Their Wives. Wives—read it, apply it, and begin today to understand the man in your life.” —Kendra Smiley, speaker and author of Do Your Kids a Favor…Love Your Spouse and other books “As wives, we can choose to be encouragers for our husbands just as much as we can choose to be discouragers. Jay Payleitner gives us the inside scoop on what every husband needs. His biblically based perspective and end-of-the-chapter takeaways make this book a practical relationship builder for any couple.” —Karol Ladd, author of Positive Life Principles for Women “Jay’s giving away our secrets, and we thank him for it. This is an insightful read, directed to women but educational for all of us, and a practical, user- friendly tool for any wife wanting to better understand the creature she’s joined to.” —Joe Dallas, author and speaker “Very to the point of what a woman needs to know about her man. After reading these 52 insights, you will better understand that your spouse isn’t so weird after all.” —Emilie Barnes, speaker, author, and founder of “More Hours In My Day” “As military families we spend so much valuable time apart from one another. Knowing how to give my husband what he needs—together or apart—is a treasure. On behalf of all wives, thank you, Jay, for your insight and transparency on the one true gift we all can share—love.” —Tara Crooks, cofounder of Army Wife Network, coauthor of 1001 Things to Love about Military Life “Husbands, step up to being the spiritual leader in your homes. Start by seeking first the kingdom of God over your own kingdom, and cherishing your wife. Then give your wife a copy of this book by Jay Payleitner. I guarantee you that your marriage will be for the glory of God.” —Harry W. Schaumburg, DMin, author of Undefiled: Redemption from Sexual Sin, Restoration for Broken Relationships “This little book is a treasure trove of wisdom and advice for any woman who wants to understand her husband better. Simple (just like your husband) in its approach, it gives an excellent snapshot of what’s inside the heart and soul of a man. I highly recommend it!” —Rick Johnson, bestselling author of Becoming Your Spouse’s Better Half and How to Talk So Your Husband Will Listen—and Listen So Your Husband Will Talk “Wives, you have great power to help your husband feel confident as he faces life’s battles. And your encouragement can be a huge asset to him becoming a great husband and father. Jay’s 52 Things Husbands Need from Their Wives will help you understand your man.” —Carey Casey, CEO of The National Center for Fathering and author of Championship Fathering “Jay has done it again. He continues to give us unique insight into building strong family relationships.” —Dan Seaborn, president and founder of Winning At Home, Inc. HARVEST HOUSE PUBLISHERS EUGENE, OREGON Unless otherwise indicated, all Scripture quotations are from the Holy Bible, New International Version®, NIV®. Copyright © 1973, 1978, 1984, 2011, by Biblica, Inc.™ Used by permission of Zondervan. All rights reserved worldwide. www.zondervan.com Verses marked NLT are taken from the Holy Bible, New Living Translation, copyright © 1996, 2004, 2007 by Tyndale House Foundation. Used by permission of Tyndale House Publishers, Inc., Carol Stream, Illinois 60188. All rights reserved. Verses marked NASB are taken from the New American Standard Bible®, © 1960, 1962, 1963, 1968, 1971, 1972, 1973, 1975, 1977, 1995 by The Lockman Foundation. Used by permission. (www.Lockman.org) Verses marked GNT are taken from the Good News Translation – Second Edition © 1992 by American Bible Society. Used by permission. Cover by Left Coast Design, Portland, Oregon Cover photo © Yari Arcurs / Shutterstock Jay Payleitner is represented by MacGregor Literary Inc. of Hillsboro, Oregon. 52 THINGS HUSBANDS NEED FROM THEIR WIVES Copyright © 2013 by Jay Payleitner Published by Harvest House Publishers Eugene, Oregon 97402 www.harvesthousepublishers.com Library of Congress Cataloging-in-Publication Data Payleitner, Jay K. 52 things husbands need from their wives / Jay Payleitner. pages cm ISBN 978-0-7369-5485-3 (pbk.) ISBN 978-0-7369-5486-0 (eBook) 1. Marriage. 2. Marriage—Religious aspects—Christianity. 3. Wives— Conduct of life. 4. Husbands—Psychology. I. Title. II. Title: Fifty-two things husbands need from their wives. HQ734.P3169 2013 306.872'2—dc23 2013012426 All rights reserved. No part of this electronic publication may be reproduced, stored in a retrieval system, distributed, or transmitted in any form or by any means—electronic, mechanical, digital, photocopy, recording, or any other— without the prior written permission of the publisher. The authorized purchaser has been granted a non-transferable, non-exclusive, and non-commercial right to access and view this electronic publication and agrees to do so only in accordance with the terms of use under which it was purchased or transmitted. Participation in or encouragement of piracy of copyrighted materials in violation of author’s and publisher’s rights is strictly prohibited. To my bride, Rita—for loving me despite, through, and because of all my faults. Acknowledgments I need to thank all the women over the years who have modeled the art and science of being a wonderful wife. My mom, Marguerite. My sisters and sister-in-law, Mary Kay, Sue, and Chris. My daughters-in-law, Rachel, Lindsay, and Megan. And my own awesomely awesome bride of more than three decades, Rita. There are also quite a few other women I know who are divinely supportive wives. I am thinking of dozens of Rita’s girlfriends from church and the community, from among those sitting in bleachers and volunteering at school, and from the neighborhoods in which we’ve lived. Also, I’ve come to really appreciate the wives of all the guys in my men’s Bible study groups over the years. Some of you I may have never even met, but your husbands speak well of you! Beyond my family, individuals who have contributed directly to this project include Geri Fuehring, Gary Sanders, Randy Burggraf, Bob Anderson, Dave George, Dennis O’Malley, Dick Graff, John Hrivnak, John Waters, Mitch Belon, Tom Pate, Terry Jones, and Ron Basar. Strategic encouragement and support came from fellow author Karol Ladd, my agent Sandra Bishop, and my colleagues Carey Casey and Brock Griffin at The National Center for Fathering. I also cannot say enough good stuff about Paul Gossard, Terry Glaspey, Bob Hawkins Jr., and the entire team at Harvest House Publishers. I am more than grateful to the pastors and event planners who have invited me to encourage, laugh with, and challenge diverse groups of dads and husbands. I have no idea whether this book—for wives—will lead to my speaking in auditoriums in which I am the only male. Yikes. Finally, of course, to our heavenly Father, who created marriage as the perfect building block for families, neighborhoods, communities, nations, and our world. Contents Endorsements Acknowledgments Asking You to Trust Me A Husband Needs His Wife… 1. To Slide Over Next to Him 2. To Know His Likes 3. To Expect Some Flaws 4. To Condone His Man Cave 5. To Hold Down the Fort 6. To Be Careful About Scheduling Expectations 7. To Be Captivating 8. To Let Him Be More Than a Babysitter 9. To Love On Him 10. To Just Stop It, for Goodness’ Sake 11. To Be a Great Present-Opener 12. To Keep Doing What You’re Doing 13. To Give Him Time to Decompress After Work 14. To Be Flattered When You’re on His Mind 15. To Keep the Light On for Him 16. To Cry and Laugh Together with Him 17. To Forgive Him, Especially If He Won’t Forgive Himself 18. To Not Join In on the Husband-Bashing 19. To Redeem Those Love Coupons Promptly 20. To Put In Your 10,000 Hours

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“I don’t always understand what he needs or wants from me.”Most wives want a heart-to-heart connection with their husbands. But men often communicate their needs in ways that seem strange to women. How to bridge the gap?Straight from a veteran dad and husband come these insightful, unexpected,
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