Marriage and Family; Psychotherapy/Mental Health “A fascinating addition to the library of family therapists . . . which OFFERS A SMORGASBORD OF INTERVENTIONS designed for a wide range of presenting problems. . . . a very intellegent book.” —Journal of Family Psychotherapy “OPENING THIS BOOK IS LIKE OPENING A TEN-POUND BOX OF ASSORTED CHOCOLATES. . . . Each contributor writes to share—not to show off. . . . Interventions range in length from one to four pages, and there is little psychobabble.” –Transactional Analysis Journal “A VERY USEFUL ADDITION TO ANY CLINICAL LIBRARY. One is struck by the high-quality of the contributors. . . . This is not a collection of gimmicks or quick fixes but a presentation of reasoned client interventions.” —The Family Journal “A compendium of tips, anecdotes, and informal case synopses contributed by family therapists.” —SciTech Book News 101 Interventions in Family Therapy features contributions by a diverse group of well-known leaders in the field, “therapists on the street,” and faculty of family therapy training programs. Each clinician presents a creative and useful intervention beginning with a complete description of the method, followed by the specific indications and contraindications for its application, and concludes with a particular case illustration. These engaging and informative stories document helpful interventions that really work, not the exotic and impractical methods of prolific marriage and family authors. Therapists at all levels can learn and incorporate these into their work with families. an informa business ISBN-13: 978-0-86656-902-6 R o u t le www.routledge.com d g e 101 INTERVENTIONS IN FAMILY THERAPY Thorana S. Nelson, PhD Terry S. Trepper, PhD SOME ADVANCE REVIEWS "An outstanding resource which provides practical guidelines for clinical interventions .... I quickly discovered this volume to be an exciting and energizing grab bag of straightforward advice for both the beginning student and the experienced family therapy practitioner. The editors and contributors are to be commended for bringing together a wide range of clinical situations with practicality and applicability! This is an enjoy able, highly readable, and useful book. It should become part of our library for years to come." JohnS. Shalett, MSW, ACSW, BCD Director of Counseling Family Service of Greater New Orleans "Creativity just oozes from the pages of this book as clinicians of all levels and ilk tell their most rewarding interventions. Most importantly, authors in the last section reflect on how to approach intervening and prevent the selecting of a juicy inter pretation that is used indiscriminantly, out of context, without proper preparation or knowledge." Cheryl L. Storm, PhD Associate Professor Marriage and Family Therapy Program Pacific Lutheran University "Trepper and Nelson wanted to provide the reader with a smorgasbord of interventions-ideas that worked for thera pists. They have succeeded in providing clinicians with practi cal, sometimes unusual and often imaginative interventions. It is both highly entertaining and enlightening." William J. Hiebert, STM Executive Director Marriage & Family Counseling Service Rock Island, Illinois NOTES FOR PROFESSIONAL LIBRARIANS AND LIBRARY USERS This is an original book title published by The Haworth Press, Inc. Unless otherwise noted in specific chapters with attribution, materials in this book have not been previously published else where in any format or language. CONSERVATION AND PRESERVATION NOTES The paper used in this publication meets the minimum require ments of American National Standard for Information Sciences Permanence of Paper for Printed Material, ANSI Z39.48-1984. -- - ~ - ~ ~ ~-=-~ - ~ ~' I";"'>-= - ~ ~mr <==: "" §:_ t. ~ ~ -- 101 Interventions in Family Therapy HAWORTH Marriage and the Family Terry S. Trepper, PhD Senior Editor New, Recent, and Forthcoming Titles: Christiantown, USA by Richard Stellway Maniage and Family Therapy: A Sociocognitive Approach by Nathan Hurvitz and Roger A. Straus Culture and Family: Problems and Therapy by Wen-Shing Tseng and Jing Hsu Adolescents and Their Families: An Introduction to Assessment and Intervention by Mark Worden Parents Whose Parents Were Divorced by R. Thomas Berner The Effect of Children on Parents by Anne-Marie Ambert Multigenerational Family Therapy by DavidS. Freeman 101 Interventions in Family Therapy edited by Thorana S. Nelson and Terry S. Trepper Therapy with Treatment Resistant Families: A Consultation-Crisis Intervention Model by William McCown and Judith Johnson 101 Interventions in Family Therapy Thorana S. Nelson, PhD Terry S. Trepper, PhD Editors ~~ ~~o~;~~n~~~up LONDON AND NEW YORK First published 1993 by The Haworth Press, Inc. Published 2013 by Routledge 711 Third Avenue, New York, NY 10017, USA 2 Park Square, Milton Park, Abingdon, Oxon OX14 4RN Routledge is an imprint of the Taylor & Francis Group, an informa business ISBN: 978-1-315-80402-6 (eiSBN) © 1993 by Taylor & Francis. All rights reserved. No pan of this work may be reproduced or utilized in any form or by any means, electronic or mechanical, including photocopying, microfilm and recording, or by any information storage and retrieval system, without permission in writing from the publisher. Library of Congress Cataloging-in-Publication Data 101 interventions in family therapy I Thorana S. Nelson, Terry S. Trepper, editors. p. em. Includes bibliographical references. ISBN 0-86656-902-2 (alk. paper)-1-56024-193-4 (pbk.: alk. paper). I. Family psychotherapy. 2. Family psychotherapy-Case studies. I. Nelson, Thorana Strever. II. Trepper, Terry S. Ill. Title: One hundred one interventions in family therapy. RC488.5.A17 1992 616.89'156-dc20 91-22252 CIP Thorana S. Nelson, PhD To my mom Terry S. Trepper, PhD To Scotty, King of Tots ABOUT THE EDITORS Thorana S. Nelson, PhD, is Director of the Marriage and Family Therapy Program and Associate Professor, Department of Family and Human Development at Utah State University. She has pub lished in the areas of gender, transgenerational family therapy, and basic skills in family therapy. Terry S. Trepper, PhD, is Director of the Family Studies Center at Purdue University Calumet where he is also Professor of Psy chology. An expert in sex therapy, family therapy of sexual abuse, and family therapy treatments for substance abuse, he is editor of the Journal of Family Psychotherapy. CONTENTS Foreword xvii Preface xix 1. The Other Side 1 D. Ray Bardill 2. The Case of the Missing Client: Using Non-Pejorative Language with Strong Denial Systems 5 Yolanda Reyna Vincent Taylor 3. Read Aloud 11 Diane B. Brashear 4. Stepfamily Enrichment: Assets Feedback 13 Lorna Hecker 5. Ingredients of an Interaction 17 Michele Baldwin 6. The Tug-of-War Toilet 22 Joyce K. Gilkey 7. Metaphors on Space 24 Gregory Brock Charles P. Barnard 8. The Treatment of Postdivorce Adjustment Problems Through Cognitive Restructuring 28 Donald K. Granvold