1-2-3 Magic: Effective Discipline for Children , 3rd Edition PDF
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1-2-3 Magic Effective Discipline for Children 2-12 Third Edition Other Materials by Thomas W. Phelan, Ph.D. Available from ParentMagic, Inc. 1-2-3 Magic Managing Difficult Behavior in Children 2-12 Video and DVD More 1-2-3 Magic Encouraging Good Behavior, Independence and Self-Esteem Video and DVD 1-2-3 Magic Videos and Book also available in Spanish Surviving Your Adolescents How to Manage—and Let Go Of— Your 13-18 Year Olds Book, Video, DVD and Audio Self-Esteem Revolutions in Children Understanding and Managing the Critical Transitions in Your Child’s Life Book and Audio Disorder All About Attention Deficit Symptoms, Diagnosis and Treatment: Children and Adults Book, Video, DVD and Audio Adults with Attention Deficit Disorder Essential Information for ADD Adults Video “I Never Get ANYTHING!” How to Keep Your Kids from Running Your Life Book To order: call 1-800-442-4453 or visit www.parentmagic.com 1-2-3 Magic Third Edition Thomas W. Phelan, Ph.D. ParentMagic, Inc. Glen Ellyn, Illinois Copyright © 2003, ParentMagic, Inc. All rights reserved. No part of this book may be reproduced or transmitted in any form or by any means, electronic or mechanical, including photocopying, recording, or by any information storage and retrieval system, without permission in writing from the publisher. Any resemblance between persons described in this book and actual persons, living or dead, is unintentional. This book is not intended to replace appropriate diagnosis and/or treatment, when indicated, by a qualified mental health professional or physician. Illustrations by Dan Farrell Distributed by Independent Publishers Group Printed in the United States of America 10 9 8 7 6 5 4 For more information, contact: ParentMagic, Inc. 800 Roosevelt Road Glen Ellyn, Illinois 60137 to Eileen Contents Preface to the Third Edition i Parenting: Not for the Faint of Heart! 1 PART I: STRAIGHT THINKING 1. Is It Magic? 7 2. Stop Behavior and Start Behavior 11 3. The Little Adult Assumption 15 4. The Two Biggest Discipline Mistakes 19 PART II: CONTROLLING OBNOXIOUS BEHAVIOR 5. Counting Obnoxious Behavior 25 6. Twenty Questions 39 7. What to Do in Public 55 8. Variations: Sibling Rivalry, Tantrums and Pouting 63 9. The Kickoff Conversation 67 PART III: NO CHILD WILL THANK YOU 10. The Six Kinds of Testing and Manipulation 73 11. Counting in Action 87 12. More Serious Offenses 97 PART IV: ENCOURAGING GOOD BEHAVIOR 13. 7 Start Behavior Tactics 111 14. Up and Out in the Morning 127 15. Cleaning Rooms, Picking Up and Chores 133 16. Mealtimes 141 17. Homework and Practicing 147 18. Bedtime and Nighttime Waking 155 19. The Family Meeting 167 20. When Do You Talk? 173 PART V: STRENGTHENING YOUR RELATIONSHIP 21. Your Child's Self-Esteem 179 22. Overparenting 183 23. Affection and Praise 187 24. Real Magic: One-on-One Fun 191 25. Active Listening 197 26. Your New Life 205 Index 209
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