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Table of Contents The Ultimate Guides from Cleis Press Title Page Acknowledgements Introduction CHAPTER 1 - 12 Myths About Anal Sex Myth #1: Anal sex is unnatural, wrong, and immoral. Myth #2: Only sluts, perverts, and weirdos have anal sex. Myth #3: The ass is exit only, it’s not an erogenous zone. Myth #4: Anal sex is dirty and messy. Myth #5: Only gay men have anal sex. Myth #6: Straight men who like anal sex are really gay. Myth #7: Anal sex hurts. Myth #8: Women don’t like anal sex. Myth #9: Anal sex is dangerous and unhealthy. Myth #10: If you have lots of anal sex, you’ll end up in adult diapers. Myth #11: Anal sex is the easiest way to get AIDS. Myth #12: Anal sex is naughty. Replacing Myths with Truths CHAPTER 2 - Our Asses, Ourselves: Anal Anatomy The Anus The Anal Sphincters and PC Muscles The Anal Canal and the Rectum The G-spot The Prostate CHAPTER 3 - Beyond Our Bodies: Emotional and Psychological Aspects of Anal Eroticism Desire Talking About It Fear Fantasies Trust and Power CHAPTER 4 - Preparing the Ass for Pleasure Hygiene Manicured Nails Shaving and Waxing CHAPTER 5 - Enemas Plastic Bottle and Bulb Syringe Enemas Enema Bags and Accessories Using an Enema Bag Shower Attachment Enemas Enema Do’s and Don’ts Cleaning Enema Equipment Enema Ingredients CHAPTER 6 - Safer Sex Gloves Oral Sex Barriers Condoms The Female Condom Making Toys Safe Other Safety Precautions Protecting Yourself CHAPTER 7 - Lubricants Oil-or Vegetable-Based Lube Desensitizing Lube Water-Based Lube Silicone Lube How to Use Lube CHAPTER 8 - Anal Sex Toys Anal Beads and Bead Toys Butt Plugs Anal Probes and Vibrating Toys Dildos Strap-on Dildos and Harnesses Inflatable Toys Anal Toy Tips Sex Toy Materials, Care, and Cleaning CHAPTER 9 - Doing It for Yourself: Anal Masturbation Why You Should Masturbate How to Masturbate CHAPTER 10 - Let Your Tongue Do the Walking: Analingus Hygiene Analingus Tips and Techniques Analingus and Safer Sex CHAPTER 11 - Anal Penetration Beginning Penetration Penetration with Penises, Dildos, and Bigger Toys Double Penetration Anal Sex Positions CHAPTER 12 - Anal Pleasure for Men Gender Roles and Psychology Prostate Stimulation Just for Men: The Aneros A Different Kind of Orgasm CHAPTER 13 - BDSM and Anal Play BDSM: The Basics Spanking Butt Plugs and BDSM Anal Training Psychological Play Maintaining the D/s Dynamic Penetration by Consensual Force Erotic Enema Play CHAPTER 14 - Butt Bondage: Long-Term Butt Plug Wear Tips for Wearing a Butt Plug Keeping It In Bondage 101 Bondage Tape Butt Plug Harness Rope Bondage Harness Leather Butt Plug Harness How Long Is Too Long? CHAPTER 15 - The Art of Anal Fisting My Personal Philosophy Preparation and Safety Keep It Real: Communication and Expectations There’s No Such Thing as Too Much Lube Positions for Fisting Work Your Way In Four Fingers and Beyond Once You’re In Aftercare CHAPTER 16 - Troubleshooting: Common Issues and Problems CHAPTER 17 - Anal Health, Anal Ailments, and STDs Anal Health Sexually Transmitted Diseases Anal Ailments Anal Wellness CHAPTER 18 - The Ultimate Frontier CHAPTER 19 - Resource Guide Books Enema Equipment and Information Shopping Guide Videos Websites Index About the Author About the Illustrator Copyright Page The Ultimate Guides from Cleis Press The Ultimate Guide to Adult Videos by Violet Blue The Ultimate Guide to Anal Sex for Men by Bill Brent The Ultimate Guide to Anal Sex for Women by Tristan Taormino The Ultimate Guide to Cunnilingus by Violet Blue The Ultimate Guide to Fellatio by Violet Blue The Ultimate Guide to Pregnancy for Lesbians by Rachel Pepper The Ultimate Guide to Sex and Disability by Miriam Kaufman, MD, Cory Silverberg, and Fran Odette The Ultimate Guide to Strap-on Sex by Karlyn Lotney Acknowledgments There are so many people whom I’d like to thank for their contributions to this book. To Felice Newman and Frédérique Delacoste, for their time, devotion, and gracious understanding. In 1997, they took a chance on a first-time author and a provocative subject, and I am forever grateful to them. Special thanks once again to Felice, to whom I dedicated the first edition, for going beyond the call of duty as an editor. Thank you to my copyeditor, Kevin Bentley. So many people contributed to the success of the first edition, and some of them are Tom Bates, Rosana Francescato, Karen Green, Russ Kick, Robert Morgan, Chip Rowe, the folks at San Francisco Sex Information, Don Spargo, Jr., Howard Stern, and Don Weise. To Joani Blank, Susie Bright, Patrick Califia, Debi Sundahl, Nina Hartley, Bert Herrman, Nan Kinney, Jack Morin, Carol Queen, Anne Semans, and Cathy Winks for their extraordinary, groundbreaking work. Without them, this book could not exist. To Ray Cirino for his inspiration, Beth Tyler for her kick-ass website, the vixens at Vixen Creations for making my dream butt plug, and Shar Rednour and Jackie Strano for putting bend-over boyfriends on the map. To Claire Cavanah, Rachel Venning, and everyone at Babeland for their support and the opportunity to work in such an important place. To John Stagliano, Ernest Greene, Evil Angel, and the cast and crew of my video for bringing the book to life in an entertaining and educational way. To the organizations, colleges, universities, and stores that have invited me to speak or teach about anal sex, and to the courageous people I have done anal demos on—including Barb, Carol, David, Frasier, George, Glenda, Janet, Jessica, Maggie, Marsha, Nancy, Nina, Paula, Sarafina, and Tracy. I learned so much from each of you. To Thia “Fish” Jennings for her wit, her understanding, and her brilliant illustrations. To Nancy Bereano of Firebrand Books, Joan Nestle, Greg Constante, Patrick

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Revised and updated throughout, including all-new chapters specifically for beginners and for women giving anal pleasure to men, The Ultimate Guide to Anal Sex for Women is a comprehensive and creative guide to anal pleasure. Tristan Taormino offers the kind of informed reassurance that can encourag