The Annihilation Method

59 Pages·2006·6.57 MB·English

ANNIHILATIOMNE THODW ORKBOOK
INTRODUGTION
Thanky oua llf orr eadinga ndw atchingl.'m n otg oingt o telly out oom ucha boutm y
backgroundb, ecauseit 'sa ll in my book.W hat I will tell you is that I wentf romt he
world'sw orstA FCt o the world'sg reatestp ickupa rtisti n aboutt wo years.A nd I believe
thata nyoneli stenincga nd ot hat...ifthegyo abouti t right.
So I'mg oingt o teachy ou howt o go abouti t right.
Pleasen otet hat I havel eftp lentyo f spaceo n eachp agea fter€a ch lesson,s o thaty ou
mayt ake notesa ndw rited ownr outinesa nd pointersfr omt he DVDS.
Let me tell you all why I'md oingt his. lt's becauseI spentt wo yearsi n this communityo f
pickupa rtists.A nd lwatcheds omep eopler apidlyi mprovea nd othersg o nowhere,
spinningth eirw heels.I interviewede veryp ickupa rtist,e verys tudent,a nde very
woman.I researchedth is all the time.A nd I learneds omethingm: osto f the peopleo ut
therea re learningth isw rong.T hey'reo nly learningto exerciseo ne muscle.l t's like
goingt o the gym andj ust doingc urls.S ure,y ou'llb e ablet o beata nyonea t arm-
wrestlingb, ut you'reg oingt o lookl ikea freak.
I'mg oingt o starto ut by givingy ou somet heory,t hen I'mg oingt o givey ou some
practicaltoolsW. henI started,a ll lwantedw eret he routinesa nd lines;n owt he theory
ando verallt ruthsa ndg uidancea rew hat I crave.S o you'rea ll goingt o get DVDSs o you
can heart hisw heny ou'rer eadyf or it...ands o you can practicea nd heart he proper
delivervo f the routines.
PART I
A lot of you haveh eardo f the AnnihilationM ethod.I calledi t the Annihilationl\ ilethod
becauseI wantt o builda newy ou thatw ill annihilatea ll competitorsT. het wo biggest
clich6so f datinga dvicea re:
- Just be yourself...s houldb ey ourb ests elf
And
- Be confident...w hichi s impossiblew ithouts uccess.S uccessb reedsc onfidence.
We'reg oingt o learnh owt o haves uccess.
Simplefo rmulab: e interestinga nd interested.b..e confidenta nd competent.
The AnnihilationM ethodi s a workoutp rogramfo r everys inglem usclet hat is you. I want
you firingo n everys inglec ylinderW. heny ou are meetinga woman- just likew hen
you'reg oingf or a job interviewo r at a familyr euniono r tryingt o get upgradedto first
classo n an airline- eveMhingc ounts.
It hast hreee lementsw: ho you are,w haty ou do, andw hena nd howy ou do it.
Forw ho you aret herea re the L.A.S.V .E.G.A.St.r aitso f a desirablem an,f or whaty ou
do the fives equentiasl teps,a nd for wheny ou do it, the basicp rincipleso f calibration.
This is ALL you evern eedt o know.
There'sa veryf amousw omanw ho has a datingt heory.S hec allsi t the five-pronged
theoryo f dating.Y ou havet o measurey ourselfi n termso f:
r LOOKS
. Money
. Intelligence
. Personality
. Character
. Statusa nd Prestige
You havet o measurey ourp ointsi n thesec ategoriesa gainstt hoseo f a woman,a nd if
lhey matchy ou'res uitedt o eacho ther,s he says.A nd she tellsg uysn ot to try for girls
^,,t ^f thair la.^,,a
Guessw hat?T hisi s a loado f horseshit.Y ou don'tn eedl ooks,m oney,o r any of that. I
knowb ecauseI had neitherw hen I startedt hist hing.L ooksa nd moneya re symbolso f
deepert hingst hatw omena re lookingf or.A nd all of thosed eepert hingsa rew ithint he
graspo f anyone.T his is the AnnihilationM ethodt:o givey ou all of thoseq ualitiesa nd
givey ou a roadm apt o acquiret hemt hat requiresn othingb ut learninga nd practice.
PART II
Beforew e get to the annihilationl,e t'sd iscussh owt o learn.
WhatS eparatesa ChumpF roma Champ?\ /vhyd o somep eoplel earnq uicklyw hile
othersl anguish?
1. Arey oui nt hef ieldo r an interneat nds eminarjunkie?
2. Smalcl hunkk nowledgea,n dd ealwithc hallengeass theya riseW. orko ut
Droblemsin reall ifef irst,a ndt hen in vour head.N ott he otherw av around.
3. Understandintgh e unconsciouisn competencteo unconscioucso mpetence
model.
4. Willingnestos got hroughth ep ainp erioda ndl eaveth ec omforzt one.
SchwarzeneggeTr:h isl astt woo r threeo r fourr epetitionst,h at'sw hatm akest he
musclesg row. That's what divides one frcm a championa nd one from not being
a champion.l f you can go through the pain period, you make it to be a champion.
lf you can't go throughi t, forget it. And that's what most people lack: having the
guts- the gutst o go in andj ust say... "l don'tc are whath appens."I haven o fear
of faintingi n the gym... I threw up many times when I was workingo ut. But it
doesn'tm after,b ecausei t'sa ll wofthi t.
5. Separatinugs efulfromu selessle arning.
6. Willingt o test idease veni f theyd on'ts eeml ogical.
7. Understandinthge p rinciplebse hindth e ideasw hent heyw orkf ory ou.
8. Learningfr om mistakesa, nd knowingt hat nothing'sim possibleG. ettingr id of
limitingb eliefs.
9. Who do you blame?l t's neverh erf ault.l t's alwaysy ours.W illingnessto examine
yourselfa ndt ake criticismw ithoutt akingi t personally.
10.P ush it twentyp ercenftu rthetrh any ourk nowledge.f .a. iluresa rel earning
lessons.
11 .L ooka t the questionsy ou'rea skingt o see if you'reo n the rightc ourse.A re they
helpingo r aret heyn eurotic?
12.H ango ut withs omeoneb ettert hany ou. Earnt heirt rusta nd mentorshipb y being
promisinbgu tn on-threatening.
13.lsy ourr atioo f effortto resultsin creasinglf? n ot,y oum uste xaminew haty ou're
doing,b ecausey ou'red oingi t wrong.
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PART III
To get better,y ou needa wingo r a groupo f wingsw ho you trust.A nd botho f you need
to be honestw ithe acho ther.T ell eacho thert hingsy ourf riendsn everw ould.l f you
don'tt ake it personallya nd understandth at it's constructivea nd subjectivey, ou will do
well.l t'si mportantot ask,w henp ossibles,o meone'Fs IRSTI MPRESSIOoNf you,a nd
havet hemb e unafraidto be critical.T hef eedbacki s important.
EXERCISE:
Question1 : \/y'hvd o vou wantt o learnt his?
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Question2 : Ask yourselfa gain:\ /Vhya re you reallyw atchingth is program?
Question3 ; Now,i gnoret he abovea nswersa, nd reachd eepi ntoa nd honest
placea nd reallyp ut it downo n papero ncea ndf or ali: VVhya rey ou doingt his?
EXERCISE:
1. Describeh owy ou appeart o othersi n a simples entenceo r two.
2. Drawa simplep ortraito f yourselfn ow.