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Today so many people are close-minded. They don't even take the time to listen to
someone. I should know, I used to do that myself. Eventually a time came when I was
able to question everything in my world, and the only way to get real answers is to be
open-minded enough to hear what the truth is.
I'm not writing this inform the world ofwhat I think the truth is. I'm writing this in
hopes that maybe we all can look at ourselves a little closer and see where we stop lis-
tening. I did it all the time when I was in high school. I never listened and always
expected everyone else to hear what I had to say.
Now I see atheists doing everything they can to keep religion out ofschools. Or
churches doing everything they can to keep evolution from being taught to children.
This problem goes far beyondjust religion or scientific theories, into all kinds of
things that people blind themselves to. Ifsomething is true, then why be afraid to know
or understand it?
I've found that the reason I was so scared to hear anything different than what I
believed was because I was, at heart, scared I might be wrong.
Some people would rather live their lives believing a lie, than rather even consider
that something they hold to be true could be false.
I say let's stop being afraid, and know the truth.
Anthony Wade Carver
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Meet the Author
Anthonyis 21years oldandis
majoring in GraphicDesign.
In his spare time he enjoys
beingwith hisfriends, watching
ormakingup movies, andwork-
ingon a website he andhis
friends created.
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He said, She said Eden Fuson
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Opinions of the worst kind, about:
Indecision
She
Said
I have yet to meet a guy who can make a decision
on his own, especially in a relationship. Girls, men
think we are too indecisive...well, let me tell you they
are no better. Picture this scenario:
1 Man - Where do you want to go eat? Opinion by Shila Young
2) Woman - 1 don't care, where do you want to go?
3)M-O.K. let's go here!
W
4) - No, let's go here!
M- No, I don't want to go there... This could go on for
hours and you wind up sitting at home eating bologna
sandwiches. Why can't the guyjust say cOK we're
going to go here because we went here last night'?
Now come on, a relationship is based on compromise
so why is it a blame game all the time? He said this or
she said that. Even what movie to pick on a Saturday
WW
night winds up being III Granted, you won't
know everything about someone right off...That takes
some time but ifyou are in a serious relationship then
you should know the basics. So stop worrying so
much. Ifyou honestly care about us as much as you
say you do, then sometimes you wouldn't have to ask
what movie we want to watch or what restaurant we
would like to eat at. You should be capable ofmaking
a confident decision without worrying about us getting
upset.
Pursuit
Whatever happened to a true gentleman who called
you up and held a door open for you or even came and
picked you up at your house? And no, I don't mean sit-
ting outside honking the horn waiting for us in the car.
I know it sounds so Cinderella, Prince Charming make
believe, right? Well OK, what girl isn't waiting for her
Prince Charming? I know I am and there are a lot of
girls out there who are like me. So, come on guys, put
a little effort in getting our attention. We like a guy
who actually takes the time to pursue our attention.
Matt's Reply: Compromise...what a wonderful word. For people who know their significant other well enough,
compromise is an applicable tool. However, it seems most women's view ofcompromise includes men using their
telepathic powers to read minds and then telling them where they want to go. Until we evolve to the point oftelepa-
thy, you have to communicate with us. As for finding that special someone to disagree with, the only reason
women can't find Prince Charming is because they look at the pretty boys and don't see the frog underneath. The
guys who have no problem taking the initiative are thejerks honking outside your house. The true Prince Charming
is the nice guy in the corner who can't seem to say anything, but that's because he is in awe ofyour beauty.
Remember the story "Beauty and the Beast"? The Beast wasn't Brad Pitt, but he was the best thing in Beauty's life.
and
Indecision Pursuit
Indecision
He Said
Ninety percent ofmy relationships have been
scarred with a frightening fact: I will have to make
every single decision. Not that I mind too much
because it means I tend to get my way. However, the
Opinion by Matt Hahn general pre-dinner conversation goes much like this:
1 )Woman: Let's go out to dinner.
2)Man: Okay, where should we go?
3)W: I don't care...you decide.
4)M: What about (insert restaurant)?
5)W: No, I'm not in the mood for (said restaurant).
Now, return to step two and repeat until sufficiently
infuriated. WHY? Why can't womenjust say what
they want instead ofmaking us play 20 questions?
Tell you what. Instead ofmaking me name them,
here is a list ofevery restaurant in town. You look
through it, decide where you want to go and then come
get me. I'll be in the back yard pulling out my hair and
having a civil conversation with the dog.
Pursuit
Yes, I know it's traditional for the man to take the
initiative and pursue the woman. However, ifyou want
to get technical, it's traditional for the woman to be in
the kitchen, but things have changed. Women have
been and continue fighting for equality. What they
don't take into account is the balance. You can't have
all the bonuses ofbeing equal without having down-
falls. Since we are equal, we get to share everything.
Now, you don't have to stand across the room won-
dering ifwe saw your shy glances. Just walk up and
say, "Hi." Heck, you could even invite us out to
dinner.
No one knows how much I have spent on meals to
kick-start a conversation. On top ofthat, many women
enjoy the meal and leave having had no interest in me
in the first place. Come on, I enjoy a good chase as
much as the next man, but I'm getting poor.
Shila's Reply: O.K. my partner in crime may have a point on the whole dinner scenario however, like I said in
my statements, ifguys cared about us they wouldn't have to always ask what we really wanted. Compromise is a
wonderful word but guys don't seem to understand the meaning. Now call me crazy and old-fashioned ifyou
want...but I think that the man should do the pursuing. A lot ofwomen like the chivalry act. While it was once
considered improper for a girl to call a guy, that's not the case anymore. While a girl can call a guy, the man
should be the one to step up to the plate.
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to an end and a new one begins looking
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back over the past two years, I find
that Butler has made more of an impact
on my life than I thought.
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I originally decided to
come to BCCC because I
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%J oyful, exhausted, wasn't quite ready for a big
%v#. anxious, confused, excited and university and I was offered a
scared are all the emotions I scholarship on the Grizzly
am feeling as I say goodbye to Magazine staffto do what I
my time spent at BCCC. love, photography and writing.
%•• Ironically, these were my exact From this, I have learned SupriSS! A group offriendssuprisedmeand
feelings two years ago as I procrastination is not a good decoratedmyhouse on my birthday thisyear. I
decided what my next step thing, and it has helped me hadno idea that they wereplanning it.
would be after high school. become more experienced in
Two years, where did the time what my career might be later
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go? As much as I want to on in life. I was also given the
leave (and believe me I want to opportunity to work with the
* go very far away from here), I Athletes and Special Needs
have become comfortable in El students in the Advising office
Dorado, and I must admit that as a tutor. Thisjob opened my
it has become like a second eyes to what being patient
At home to me. really means, that there are
Coming from a graduating many other people who wait r-
class of35 people, from little till the last minute to get
Pretty Prairie, I thought 'Wow, something done and also to SOLlth Padre! Usgirls andNoah Morford
%•• how am I ever going to make it never ever assume things about waiton ourfoodatayummybarbecueplaceat
in the 'city' ofEl Dorado?' anyone or anything. My peers South Padre.MSophomoreyearwe wenttoSouth
Given time, I learned that the have taught me things in more Padre Texas sPrinSBreak
only thing I really needed to ways than one, about school,
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%v. know was where Central Street friendship, life and, most
was. I have experienced dorm importantly myself.
life, cafeteria food, late nights I have grown in
•• studying, late nights doing knowledge, self-assurance and
everything but studying, going a sense ofwho I really am. It
to Wal-Mart for no reason, has brought out things in me
eating pizza for breakfast, that I didn't even know were
At lunch and dinner (all in the possible and helped to focus
same day), taking naps on things that I already had.
whenever possible (sometimes But that is what college is all
in class) and meeting people about; experimenting and
who I know have become my finding out who the person is Around and Around Lastyearroller
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lifelong friends. that you look at in the mirror skatingwas apartofthehomecomingactivities,
heldattherinkin ElDorado. Itwasfunny tosee
all thepeople ourageskatingaroundin a circle.
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Goodbye
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Rhonda Giefer
everyday, yourself. There are that I put myselfin, because
things that I have done that I regret is a useless emotion. %:
August 2001- am not so proud ofand things It is a chapter in my life that
that I really have a lot of has already been written and
May 2003 pride for. One major thing I it has helped me learn from
have noticed here is that my mistakes and failures but ••
people rarelyjudge you, also from my accomplish-
because they too are in the ments and good deeds.
Sing it! Last year during Christmas same situation in trying to I know that I will take all
break I took home about 7guys to Pretty figure out what they are that I have accomplished, %•'.
Prairie to see what the "farm" life is like. going to do in the next step learned and experienced here
Jamaal Whyce andLaShadHill founda doll oftheir own lives. with me and continue to
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\Happy New Year!! Fortheendof2002 and
'he beginningof2003, we hadagatheringatmy gotten angry, been a little accomplish, learn and
house to ring in the newyear. crazy and stressed out but experience in the next place
there has always been I decide to go. With no %••
someone there to help me doubt in my mind, I know
not become discouraged that when I look back on
when something went the two years I have spent
wrong, or shared in my here, I will always feel that %v.
triumphs when I succeeded. BCCC and the people along
Whether it was a teacher, the way have helped me
boss, friend or even a become who I am and,
%••
stranger, I knew I was never most importantly, who I
alone to experience will become.
cicumstances that were out
ofmy control or ones I had
%v.
control over. I will never
regret anything that has « a
happened in these two years;
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%:• choices, friends or situations
The Lantern has existed in other forms but became step up the quality ofwhat the people on campus see
a weekly in 1966. It's put out thousands ofeditions and read. But even though all these changes occur, the
and been through many advisers and countless staff goal remains the same.
members. The paper undergoes changes every year to Dr. Gene George, who was once a student editor
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Staff
Here is theLantern staff. Frontrow,
left to right:
ShelleyStraub, ScottRoberts, Sam
Smalley, Kim Mangus, Laura
Bianco. Secondrow - Sara Pierce,
Jessica Shirley, Tammy
Dorpinghaus, Josh Gilmore. Back
row-Andy Clum, Jon Brickley, Mrs.
Freda Briggs. LoreeDeRoseand
Liam Wyattwere notpresentwhen
thephoto was taken. (Lantern
Photo)
and later an adviser for the Lantern, says, "The public forum; two, it is a learning laboratory forjour-
Lantern has tried to be an independent newspaper. nalism students," Briggs says.
Any good newspaper serves its community." The goal that Mrs. Briggs has made for the students
There was a time in which the administration and to learn is to work together as a team and to meet
the students who ran the paper were nearly at war with deadlines, and finally to tolerate others in a stressful
one another, but now things are a lot better. situation.
"We had tense times between the administration Shelley Straub, a sophomore from Wichita, is man-
and the paper," Dr. George says. aging editor ofthe newspaper today. She has been
Jane Watkins, who was an adviser for the Lantern working in news publications since she was a sopho-
16 years ago, pointed out how passionate the students more in high school.
on staffwere. She says the students were "good writ- "It has definitely taught me a lot ofuseful things
ers, and good thinkers." and it has prepared me for anyjob I may hold in the
Today, the administration and the students who future," she says.
work for the Lantern have a good relationship, accord- In spite ofeverything the paper has gone through,
ing to both parties. the mission remains the same, to serve its community.
Freda Briggs is the current advisor for the Lantern.
She has been the adviser for six years. Mission Statement ofThe Lantern
There are always ongoing changes. The Lantern serves as both a professional news-
Briggs says, "When I came six years ago we were paper and as a laboratory experience for students who
still printing our own photos, then we used negatives are on staff. It is The Lantern's mission to accurately
and now it's mostly digital." repert the news, allow readers to express their views,
"Technology is the main change," says Briggs. and to present issues and information that affect the
Even though there have been a lot ofchanges and college and the community it serves.
many upgrades, thejob ofthe newspaper remains the
same.
"The role ofthe newspaper has two parts: One is
news and information to service the campus and its
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"Movies and More: the Sequel" was the title for
the dance concert. Students danced to songs from
movies such as "Footloose" and "Dirty Dancing"
and music from James Bond movies.
Students have been working on the concert
since February. They work every day ofthe week
and sometimes the weekend. Karla Lloyd, Butler
dance instructor, says, "The dancers work really
hard and they are not afraid ofchallenges."
Lloyd has taught dance for 15 years and has been
at Butler for four years and she still loves it.
Karla Brown, sophomore from Wichita, says,
'"Movies and More: the Sequel' is a brilliant
performance." The dance concert was well I
prepared and it showed!
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