DEPENDENCE IN MAN DEPENDENCE IN MAN A Psychoanalytic Study Henri Parens and Leon J. Saul KARNAC First published in 1971 by International Universities Press This edition published in 2014 by Karnac Books Ltd 118 Finchley Road London NW3 5HT Copyright © 1971 to Henri Parens and Leon J. Saul All rights reserved. No part of this publication may be reproduced, stored in a retrieval system, or transmitted, in any form or by any means, electronic, mechanical, photocopying, recording, or otherwise, without the prior written permission of the publisher. British Library Cataloguing in Publication Data A C.I.P. for this book is available from the British Library ISBN: 978-1-78220-159-5 Printed in Great Britain www.karnacbooks.com To our wives and children CONTENTS Acknowledgements 1 Foreword-Margaret S. Mahler, M.D. 3 Introduction 5 PART I A STUDY OF FREUD'S WRITINGS 1 A Study of Freud's Writings on Dependence in Man 13 Dependence and the Genetic Point of View 13 Dependence in Relation to Helplessness and Anxiety 16 Relation of Childhood Dependence to Psychic Structure Formation 35 Dependence and the Two Currents of the Libido 54 PART II THEORETICAL CONSIDERATIONS 2 On the Genesis of Psychologic Dependence 73 Introduction 73 Psychoanalytic Observations and Formula- tions 75 Notes from Animal Observations 87 Comments 109 Summary 121 3 Inner Sustainment 122 Introduction 122 Metapsychological Notes 123 Summary 133 4 Two Co-ordinates of Dependence 135 Introduction 135 Dependence on the Object-"On Whom" 136 Dependence for the Gratification of Needs- "For What" 142 Dependence on Substitutes for the Object 154 Summary 157 5 An Epigenesis of Psychologic Dependence 160 Birth to Four Months 161 Three to Six Months 164 Six to Ten Months 167 Ten to Fifteen Months 170 14 to 36 Months 175 Three to Six Years 179 Latency 186 Adolescence 191 Early Adulthood 199 Middle Adulthood 202 Late Adulthood 206 Conclusion 210 PART III CLINICAL CONSIDERATIONS 6 Some Clinical Aspects of Dependence 219 Dependence and Character Disorders 220 Reactive Dependence 223 Reactions to Dependence 231 Summary 243 References 245 Index 252 Acknowledgements We are indebted to Dr. Calvin F. Settlage, who took time from a crowded schedule to subject our manuscript to careful criticisms when it was in its initial stage, and who brought it to the attention of Dr. Margaret S. Mahler. We find it difficult to properly express our gratitude to Dr. Mahler. In the midst of writing the first volume of her important work, On Human Symbiosis and the Vicissi tudes of Jnd~·viduation, she was generous enough, not only to evaluate our manuscript and offer helpful suggestions which we adopted, but also to write the Foreword. Dr. W. Godfrey Cobliner recommended changes, and these, too, we have gratefully incorporated. Our thanks go to Dr. Harry F. Harlow for his friendly comments on our discussion (Chapter 2) of his work. We thank Mrs. Irene Azarian for her kind encourage ment and constructive suggestions. To our editor, Mrs. Natalie Altman, goes our deep appreciation for her careful preparation of the manuscript. It was a pleasure to work with her.