Chicken Soup for the Soul: Grieving and Recovery 101 Inspirational and Comforting Stories about Surviving the Loss of a Loved One Jack Canfield, Mark Victor Hansen, Amy Newmark Published by Chicken Soup for the Soul Publishing, LLC www.chickensoup.com Copyright © 2011 by Chicken Soup for the Soul Publishing, LLC. All Rights Reserved. No part of this publication may be reproduced, stored in a retrieval system or transmitted in any form or by any means, electronic, mechanical, photocopying, recording or otherwise, without the written permission of the publisher. CSS, Chicken Soup for the Soul, and its Logo and Marks are trademarks of Chicken Soup for the Soul Publishing LLC. www.SimonandSchuster.com The publisher gratefully acknowledges the many publishers and individuals who granted Chicken Soup for the Soul permission to reprint the cited material. Front cover photos courtesy of iStockphoto.com/Iakov Kalinin (© Iakov Kalinin) and/Coldimages (© Jan Will). Back cover photos and Interior photo courtesy of iStockphoto.com/duckycards (© Jill Fromer) Cover and Interior Design & Layout by Pneuma Books, LLC For more info on Pneuma Books, visit www.pneumabooks.com Distributed to the booktrade by Simon & Schuster. SAN: 200-2442 Publisher’s Cataloging-in-Publication Data (Prepared by The Donohue Group) Chicken soup for the soul : grieving and recovery : 101 inspirational and comforting stories about surviving the loss of a loved one / [compiled by] Jack Canfield, Mark Victor Hansen, [and] Amy Newmark. p. ; cm. Summary: A collection of 101 true personal stories from regular people about losing loved ones, covering all the phases of mourning and recovery, with emphasis on how to accept the loss and move forward. ISBN: 978-1-935096-62-7 eISBN: 978-1-6115-9185-9 1. Death--Literary collections. 2. Bereavement--Literary collections. 3. Death--Anecdotes. 4. Bereavement--Anecdotes. 5. Loss (Psychology) I. Canfield, Jack, 1944-II. Hansen, Mark Victor. III. Newmark, Amy. IV. Title: Grieving and recovery PN6071.D4 C45 2011 810.8/02/03548 2010938808 PRINTED IN THE UNITED STATES OF AMERICA on acid ∞ free paper 18 17 16 15 14 13 12 11 10 01 02 03 04 05 06 07 08 09 10 Contents Making the Most of Memories 1. Bean Soup, Jacqueline Rivkin 2. Daffodil Month, Jennie Ivey 3. My Mother’s Recipe Box, Sally Schwartz Friedman 4. Two Lives, Paige Cerulli 5. A Family Heirloom, Allison Knight-Khan 6. Learning to Soar Again, Jean Kinsey 7. Sharing the Journey, Ferida Wolff 8. Butterfly Miracles, Jeanne Wilhelm 9. The Red Pen, Elynne Chaplik-Aleskow Finding Comfort 10. Beacon, Sarah Wagner 11. Stork Stand, Candace Carteen 12. Not Quite Unbearable, Terri Elders 13. Knit Together, Barbara Farland 14. The Empty Table, Joyce Stark 15. A Healing Gift, Jenny Force 16. The Chaplain’s Prayer, Brenda Dawson 17. Cornell Sunflower, Sheri Gammon Dewling 18. My Daughter, Rose, Laraine Paquette 19. A Sign from God, Ann Schotanus Brown 20. From Pain to Purpose, Sandra E. Maddox Helping Hands 21. A Compassionate Guide, Scott Newport 22. A Little Child Shall Lead Them, Candace Schuler 23. Mother’s Bracelet, Peg Kehret 24. I Am a Nurse, Melissa Frye 25. Mr. Fitz, Highland E. Mulu 26. Life Is a Series of Choices, Liza Rosenberg 27. How to Help, Beverly F. Walker 28. A Quilt of Memories, Meaghan Elizabeth Ward 29. The Woman Who Could Not Stop Crying, Bobbie Jensen Lippman 30. A Slice of Heaven, Jan Grover Attitude Adjustments 31. Secret Shopper, Bettie Wailes 32. The Eight-Iron Victory, John H. Hitchcock 33. The Willingness to Let Him Go, Cate Adelman 34. Learning About Loss Before It’s Too Late, Saralee Perel 35. My Son, Lorna Stafford 36. Last Laugh, Cheryl MacDonald 37. When Fathers Weep at Graves, Beverly F. Walker 38. A Call to Action, Susan Palmquist 39. Chicago Peace, Teresa Curley Barczak 40. The Christmas Card, LaVerne Otis At the End 41. Not Alone, Jean Kinsey 42. A Final Savasana, Priscilla Dann-Courtney 43. When I Was a Coward, Aleesah Darlison 44. Winning the War, Laura J. O’Connor 45. The Greatest Gift, Thomas P. Haynes 46. Happy Birthday to Me, Verna Wood 47. A Time for Tenderness, Brenda Black 48. Last Words, Bridget McNamara-Fenesy 49. Little Bird, Diane Wilson 50. Mourning Ahead, Barbara LoMonaco Moving Forward 51. Love, College, and Chemo, Lisa Tehan 52. The Blueprints, Cindy Golchuk 53. Six Words, Brigitte Hales 54. Broken Glass, Amy Schoenfeld Hunt 55. The Chinese Chicken Incident, David Chalfin 56. Hand-Me-Down Funeral, Pat Snyder 57. The Gift of Compassion, Sami Aaron 58. The Uninvited Guest, Heather Schichtel 59. The Voice from Beyond, Craig Idlebrook 60. A Hierarchy of Grief, Carolyn Roy-Bornstein 61. [email protected], Harriet Cooper 62. Grieve Bee, Claire Mix Across the Generations 63. The Funeral that Made a Family, LeDayne McLeese Polaski 64. Phone Calls, Sallie A. Rodman 65. Grandma on the Block, Ferida Wolff 66. Gracie’s Angels, Mandi Cooper Cumpton 67. Lillian’s Daughter, Sally Schwartz Friedman 68. New Englander at Heart, David Hull 69. Dancing into Heaven, Libby Grandy 70. Nancy, Shaylene McPhee 71. A Gift of Time, Kathy Dickie 72. The Miracle of the Easter Pies, Bob Brody New Beginnings 73. First Day, Rob Loughran 74. In My Hands, Ruth Knox 75. Lost and Found, Suzanne F. Ruff 76. The Light of Morning, Lola Di Giulio De Maci 77. Fear, Barbara Ann Carle 78. Find Your Path, Larry Agresto 79. A New Normal, Diane Helbig 80. Sneaking Sodas, Susan Farr-Fahncke 81. Triumph over Tragedy, Brenda Dillon Carr 82. Boughs of Love, Donna Brothers Healing in Time 83. The Joshua Tree, Amanda Pool 84. A Book of Memories, Sharon F. Svitak 85. David, Amy Victoria Austin Hert 86. Seven Stages Scrambled, Susan Jean LaMaire