The New Americans Recent Immigration and American Society Edited by Steven J. Gold and Rubén G. Rumbaut A Series from LFB Scholarly Cape Verdean Immigrants in America The Socialization of Young Men in an Urban Environment Ambrizeth Lima LFB Scholarly Publishing LLC El Paso 2012 Copyright © 2012 by LFB Scholarly Publishing LLC All rights reserved. Library of Congress Cataloging-in-Publication Data Lima, Ambrizeth Helena, 1965- Cape Verdean immigrants in America : the socialization of young men in an urban environment / Ambrizeth Helena Lima. p. cm. -- (The new Americans: recent immigration and American society) Includes bibliographical references and index. ISBN 978-1-59332-404-9 (hardcover : alk. paper) 1. Cape Verdean Americans. 2. Immigrants--United States--Social conditions. 3. Immigrant youth--United States. 4. Social integration-- United States. 5. Racism--United States. I. Title. E184.C24L53 2012 305.896'658073--dc23 2011036554 ISBN 978-1-59332-404-9 Printed on acid-free 250-year-life paper. Manufactured in the United States of America. Dedication To my mother Ema Helena Ramos and my father Oceano Lima who sacrificed their dreams so that I could have a “better life.” Table of Contents Preface .......................................................................................ix Acknowledgements..................................................................xiii Introduction.................................................................................1 Chapter 1: Ethno-Historical Frameworks and Theoretical Lenses..............................................................................7 Chapter 2: Broken Families, Broken Hearts: Family Separation and Reunification........................................37 Chapter 3: Who Showed You Such a Far Away Road? Linguistic and Cultural Dynamics within the Home, School, and Neighborhood Contexts.............................47 Chapter 4: Race, Gender, and Ethnicity.....................................77 Chapter 5: Where Past and Present Intersect: Planning the Future..........................................................................121 Chapter 6: Conclusion..............................................................153 Bibliography............................................................................171 Index ....................................................................................187 vii Preface Here I am, in the middle of the ocean on my way to America Going to a distant land is a man’s destiny it is a nameless destiny that we must fulfill - Popular Cape Verdean Song The first time that I truly felt the impact of one particularly pressing challenge facing my community was the day that I was reviewing some files for the Cape Verdean Consulate in Boston. My task was to retrieve information on Cape Verdeans who were about to be deported to Cape Verde. As I opened one of the files, I came face to face with a picture of one of my former students. This was not just any student; he was a very respectful young man who did very well at the local high school where I worked, and who had gone on to college to pursue a degree in computer science. In the course of his studies at the university there was an incident that landed him in court. He was later found guilty of a crime and was deported to Cape Verde. I remember that after reviewing his information, I closed the file and left. Deportation then became personal to me because it had hit home. Little did I know that I would be looking at many more pictures of young men who, at some point or another, had sat in my classroom and that this new phenomenon would become the heartache of the Cape Verdean community. It all began in the early 1990s, when there was a sudden and deadly rise in gang activity. The streets of many New England ix