Book Title: "77 Secrets to Make Every Man Adore You, Chase You, Love You, and Commit to You"

19 Pages·2011·0.5 MB·English

Book Title: "77 Secrets to Make Every Man
Adore You, Chase You, Love You, and Commit
to You"

" A well-researched understanding of the male psyche"

"77 Secrets" provides simple, practical tips on attraction and dating based on
a well-researched understanding of evolutionary psychology and the male
psyche. It would take a library's worth of books to get the same information
packed in this one book.

Women can benefit from reading this book on a number of levels. The book
provides an understanding of why men and women do what they do when it
comes to attraction that we're simply not taught anywhere else. It also gives
concrete examples of the negative and positive behaviors that impact one's
success in love and relationships. Finally, the book instructs readers on the
practical steps she can take to improve her success in love, including a
powerful section on how to practice the tips and advice in the book.

- Holly Page, Sex & Intimacy Expert, Whoopie School,
http://www.whoopieschool.com/

Introduction
Dear Friend,

Let me start this book by asking you a few questions. Have you ever felt
frustrated because your man will not give you straight answers? Are you
annoyed when he tells you, “Nothing is wrong,” but you KNOW something
is DEFINITELY WRONG? Have you ever wondered what he is REALLY
thinking and what he’s not telling you? Why can’t a man just tell you what
he’s REALLY feeling? And why do they get annoyed or defensive when you
ask them? Wouldn’t it be great if men came with a user’s manual that told
you exactly how to READ them?

Well, I’m with you on this one! Things would be so much clearer and simpler
if guys communicated with us in a way we understood. But this dream of
ours will only come true if we women live on Mars! If you have read Men
Are from Mars And Women From Venus, you’ll know that men and women
are on completely different levels when it comes to communication styles.
Men are confusing to read, hard to understand and easy to misread.

After a lot of in-depth research, I’ve compiled this e-book to help you
improve how you can READ and UNDERSTAND men, so there will be
fewer misunderstandings and question marks. But it does not end there. I will
take you one step further to the place that very few women have ever been to
– the holy land of seduction. The women who have been there were
legendary seductresses. You may have heard of some of them: Cleopatra,
Wallis Simpson and the now infamous Camilla Parker-Bowles. These women
were neither the smartest nor the most beautiful (please tell me you know
someone who looks better than Camilla!).

But there is one thing they know and understand better than 99.9% of women
in this world – they know HOW TO INFLUENCE MEN. In other words,
they know how to align men to their way of thinking and make them want to
satisfy each and every one of their little wishes. They also make men fall so
deeply in love that in the case of Wallis Simpson, King Edward VIII gave up
his throne to spend his life with “the woman I love.”

This is the power to influence men. This is the value of aligning men to your
way of thinking. It’s the power that will deliver the man of your dreams and
the love life you could only hope for right to your doorstep. Tell me this is
something you don’t want to learn and master!

To assist your learning, I’ve spent a lot of time filtering through a huge
amount of information, simplifying it and condensing the most useful,
practical advice into the least amount of material for you. I want you to
quickly digest the information and start applying it in the real world to see
how powerful it truly is. I’ve carefully selected 77 secrets and grouped them
into different categories to correspond with the 3 most common sources of all
the dating/relationship problems. Here they are:

Source 1: Lacking Knowledge In Male Psychology

I want you to look back at your life and think about one example where
you’ve successfully influenced another person. Did you know that person
well? Maybe a bit too well to know what his or her “hot buttons” were? Did
you keep pushing those “hot buttons” to get the other person to respond? Did
you try to adapt your communication style to what that person was most
responsive to?
Exactly! Without understanding what your man responds to, you cannot
influence him, change him and make him do what you want. You may have
some luck here and there, but without knowing where to aim, how many
Cupids Arrows do you have to waste until you finally hit the target?

Once you know what the hot buttons are, you CANNOT POSSIBLY fail in
attracting and keeping men. How can you fail when you target the things that
men are most responsive to? How can you fail when you know exactly how
to elicit certain responses in men? How can you fail when you can READ
MEN LIKE A BOOK? How can you fail when you know men better than
they know themselves? You cannot fail in attracting and keeping a man when
you fully understand them. The only reason that you might fail is: “You
Don’t Know Enough Yet!”

"A Book that Empowers Women"

"I like relationship books that allow women to feel empowered to be in
control of their love life and this is definitely one of them. The book is
broken down in a way that makes it easy to navigate and return back to
sections that they struggle with for reinforcement.

All areas from dating to sealing the deal are addressed in great detail.
Sometimes, women focus on the attraction piece and quick fixes without
worrying about how long the relationship will last. A complete inner shift
needs to happen in order for someone to attract men and be happy in the
relationship for the long-haul. I love your to-the-point writing style. I think
women will really take an honest look at their past mistakes and learn how to
turn their love life around."
- Debra Berndt, Relationship Expert/Coach, AttractRealLove.com

Source 2: Lacking Knowledge Of How Your
Emotions/Behaviors Influence Men

Unless they are plain evil, most men do not purposely try to break your heart.
They don’t actively find ways or secretly plan to ruin your personal life. But
there is one thing all men do:

They REACT!

They react to you, the things you say, the things you do and, most
importantly, they react to the hints you give them. What do I mean by this?

A man can’t get into your mind. He is not your alter-ego and does not know
what you are thinking. But when you interact with a man, you constantly give
him hints that lead him to derive how you think, what you think and who you
are. From your communication styles, body language and facial expressions,
an experienced male can quickly gather tons of information about you. He
only reacts to the information you give him. This is good news for you.

If a man can only form his perception of you from the information you give
him, you are in total control. The key is to figure out how to allow only the
good information to flow out and keep a lid on the bad information.

Source 3: Lacking Sufficient Practice To Become An Expert
Seductress
There is a huge difference between knowing something on a theoretical level
and knowing how to do something on a practical level. It’s the difference
between dreamers and doers. If you want to be the woman who’s in control
of her love life and who has the power to attract and keep any man of her
choice, you need sufficient practice. I can tell you all the right things you
need to know, but you have to practice, practice and practice to hone your
skills. Think about it as starting a new job; it takes practice to become really
good at what you are doing. The same rule applies here. If you practice
enough, you'll become an expert seductress.

To sum up, if you take care of the three sources I have mentioned, you will
solve 99.9% of your problems. You will also do better than 99.9% of women
who are constantly confused by men and always frustrated with their never-
ending male problems.

These 77 secrets are your friends, your tools and your strategies to influence
men, impact on men and change men. Study them, use them and apply them.
Practice, practice, practice, until you’ve become so good at what you are
doing that within 10 minutes of meeting a guy you’ve already come up with a
detailed mental plan to lead him from the first date to the altar. It’s 100%
possible! I’ve done it; many of my readers have done it; now, you can too.
Are you ready for the first secret?

Chapter 1 Awaking To Your Strongest Self

Secret 1: Love Fare Is War Fare

Out of all the things in the world, a woman has the most at stake in the battle
of love: her time, her reproductive resources, her life and her happiness. A
woman can be the most successful CEO, but if her love life is a mess, she
will always be disappointed. During a recent survey, more than 75% of the
female executives on Wall Street claimed they would be willing to ditch their
high-powered career for the man of their dreams.

This points to the fact that love fare is the one battle a woman cannot afford
to lose. In ancient times, when a woman lost her man to another female, she
would face extinction. She needed a strong hunter to provide food and
resources to survive. Things are not as deadly serious in the modern world.
But if you want to completely succeed and “make it” in today's world, your
love life needs to be handled - and handled well.

Understanding how to get a competitive advantage in the battle of love is not
about playing games, tricking men, or misleading anyone. It is about winning
and winning for your own sake, your own happiness and your own quality of
life. It is about refusing to be the sad woman who, at the end of the day, says
that she was unlucky in love. There are no unlucky women in love, only lazy
women who refuse to spend the time learning what really works. The whole
purpose of Secret 1 is for you to understand the importance of learning how
attraction works. I want you to take it seriously and start taking responsibility
for your own happiness. Luck and success follow those who take
responsibility and who never blame their circumstances.

"A Perfect Model that will Benefit Women Tremendously"

"Alexandra did an amazing job composing the book. The book provides a
perfect model for women who want to learn about attracting a man, keeping a
man, and making a man commit. Women will benefit tremendously by
following and implementing the detailed steps, practical advice, and
wonderful insights."
- Charmaine Mills, President, Advance Image & Etiquette Consulting.
www.advanceimageconsulting.com

Secret 2: Clear Purpose Attracts Men

When you are 100% clear about what you want in life, amazing things start to
happen: success, happiness, good fortune, high-quality men, just to name a
few. Being laser-beam clear about your goals, what your life purpose is and
what your place is in this world will create the magic to transform your
dream into reality.

To prove my point, I want you to do a simple exercise. Think back to a time
in your life when you were confused about what you wanted at that particular
moment. What happened? Did you like the end result? Did you feel that you
could have done so much better? Did you witness how things went from bad
to worse because it all started with a vague, confused, non-defined purpose?

I used to have never-ending bad luck with men. Sometimes I even wondered:
how this could happen to me. If I had bad luck once, shouldn’t my good luck
be waiting round the corner? Unfortunately I witnessed how my bad luck
turned into worse luck because I wasn’t clear about what I wanted. I allowed
myself to get involved and stepped into the role that the man at the time
wanted me to play.

When you are not clear about what you want, you become the supporting
character in someone else’s life. Your life is about you, your vision and your
life goal. Clarity attracts the type of man you want. When you’re crystal clear
about how you envisage your love life to be, you send out a magical
invitation to the perfect man to join your life.
The Secrets of Creating and Maintaining
a Deep Attraction
After years of coaching experience, research, and talking to hundreds of men
and women, I have discovered the secrets that will improve your dating and
love life in a way that you would have never dreamed possible.
Do you want to get out of the vicious cycle of dating that is full of
drama?
Do you want to take control of your dating life?
Do you want to be the woman who can read men "like a book"?
Do you want to know how to turn a casual relationship into a
committed one?
Do you want to stop falling for the wrong types of men?
Do you want to keep a man's interest forever?
Do you want to be the woman that men will chase after and do
anything to date?
Do you want to learn how to find and date a high quality man who
WANTS COMMITMENT?
Do you want to know how to influence men and make them do what
you want?
Do you want to know how to get a guy to WANT a serious
commitment without your even asking?
Do you want to know how to make a man love you deeper and deeper
everyday?
Won't it be great when once and for all, dating and relationships are
headaches free and drama free?

If you want any of the above things to happen in your love life, my system
and the 77 mind-blowing secrets I teach will help you accomplish it.

The Amazing Things You'll Learn in the “77 Secrets” Ebook

Let me show you the things you will learn in this powerful book that will
help you achieve your dating goals and transform your love life forever:
* 3 common sources of all your dating/relationship problems (pages 10-14)
* The female instincts that can enslave you (pages 20-23)

* How to manage anxiety and insecurity in dating and relationships (pages
23-27)

* Understanding male instincts – you can't afford to miss this one! (pages 70-
76)

* How to date with the “end result” in mind, and refuse to allow negative
emotions to distract you from the correct path (pages 50-54)

* How to manage your emotions and why a man is so attracted to a woman
who has the ability to do so (pages 43-45)

* The single most important quality that a good man looks for in his life
partner and how you can cultivate this quality (pages 46)

* How to Play Hard to Get - The Smart Way (pages 72-75)

* Fatal mistakes a woman makes that kill the man's attraction (pages 30-32)